FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By * F 2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Sorry ranting really ,so I do apologise! Spoke to a guy all day yesterday and evening arranged to come over this morning ....no show not even a message ....rude !!! Time is precious

Oh well there you go , oh well get dressed and go out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs op sorry this happened he definitely should have messages to give heads up or something Geting stood up shouldn’t be a thing

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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

Always take a pinch of salt for what people say on this site. Lots of them are just having a wank when they talk to you, and they quickly forget about it after they cum.

I learned at least talk to someone a number of times on different days before arrange anything, and don't say anything to help them wank.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We are always surprised more if someone does actually show up now more than when they actually don't !!!

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I had been chatting to a couple for days, they cancelled the first meet and apologised, so we made arrangements for a new meet times, place etc down to fine details, the day before the meet they deleted their account

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes it’s full of them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they give you phone number and other details usually find they will blow you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occupational hazard of membership here unfortunately. You can enjoy whatever you had planned together instead, so that the morning isn’t a total loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t apologise - you are totally justified in feeling annoyed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask for mutual confirmation an hour before, if I dont get confirmation I will take it as a no show..

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By *ampant2kMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Alas it goes with the territory. Has happened to me many times. And as frustrating as it is, you soon get a sixth sense for time wasters.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

" We are always surprised more if someone does actually show up now more than when they actually don't !!!

This is me. Don’t take Fab too seriously.

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By *CB40xMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes there are loads of timewasters on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always take a pinch of salt for what people say on this site. Lots of them are just having a wank when they talk to you, and they quickly forget about it after they cum.

I learned at least talk to someone a number of times on different days before arrange anything, and don't say anything to help them wank."

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By * F 2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Thanks lovelies xx I'd met him before 3 times actually but rude still the same.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks lovelies xx I'd met him before 3 times actually but rude still the same....."

Could he have some life stuff going on?

We were ghosted by a bloke once. He reappeared a few days later, said he'd fallen off a roof and had been in hospital without his phone.

Met him a couple of weeks later, it was true, he still had bruises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry this has happened. Guys like that aren't worth your time. It's his loss but make the most of the day now and do your own thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t apologise - you are totally justified in feeling annoyed!

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"Thanks lovelies xx I'd met him before 3 times actually but rude still the same....."

Greener fields?

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

Half the site do this...shmeh

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Some men are actually all talk. I met a couple once and they said I was the 7th attempt to get a man to meet them!

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't really bother to have a conversation with anyone who I haven't met in person. With all the time wasters and catfish on the site it's not worth it.

I dunno why the site doesn't have a 2 step verification system. One to arrange a meet and one to confirm they actually showed up. It would go a long way to solving the problem.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Seems to be more common than most realise

Went to an 8 guy gangbang for a couple, I was the only one that turned up (worked well for me because I got her to myself)

Last meet was a couple and when I called and said I was parked on their street (at the time we agreed) they said they needed 30 mins

Rude, I thought. I’m on time. But when I get in it becomes clear, they’d had like 15 no shows in a row over a few weekends. They just stopped getting ready

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Always make my meets. Inexcusable to just not show up, and gives, especially us single men, a really bad name

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We've had 2 or 3 exactly like this in the past 2 weeks alone. Rush around at work to get home early & get myself ready for them (which alone takes a couple of hours).

Nothing.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always have a backup plan, seems to be the way forward.feels less of a punch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!! "

And they would miss that? They're not worth it. Everyone loves a baby seal

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Always make my meets. Inexcusable to just not show up, and gives, especially us single men, a really bad name"

It doesn’t give men a bad name… I don’t depend on others, and I don’t determine anyone else’s fate!

Those who find a way to stand out will always stand out! Those people are having a blast!!!

Whenever I see a time waster thread I always ask myself “what processes did you put in place?” Did you ask for a photo, or a telephone number? Did you speak to them for long enough to get a feel for them? Did you get them to confirm on the day? Ect ect ect…

The problem is too many people let their loins take the lead rather than using their brains to look at their processes…

If the process isn’t working look at it and change it! If you have x amount of no shows, the common denominator is you! If something is broke… fix it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats part of fab,you do get shit like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know men get called it on here all the time, but to be honest I’ve come across a lot of time wasting women on here!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Thats part of fab,you do get shit like that."

--It is, it's just part of Fab.

For every future meet I kind of expect life to get in the way. Moods change and so do circumstances. A philosophical outlook that helps with frustration.

In is rude not to contact someone though for sure, I tend to assume conscience-related issues in that case!

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By * F 2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"Always make my meets. Inexcusable to just not show up, and gives, especially us single men, a really bad name

It doesn’t give men a bad name… I don’t depend on others, and I don’t determine anyone else’s fate!

Those who find a way to stand out will always stand out! Those people are having a blast!!!

The problem is too many people let their loins take the lead rather than using their brains to look at their processes…

If the process isn’t working look at it and change it! If you have x amount of no shows, the common denominator is you! If something is broke… fix it! "

What??? This is your opinion. I had met him 3 times I knew what he looked like. telephone no, spoke to him before we went to sleep etc etc so you don't like time wasters threads...well tough I want a womanly rant and I apologised for doing so !!

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By * F 2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!! "

Yes exactly clean fresh and feeling like a baby seal as well as a fresh clean bed !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always make my meets. Inexcusable to just not show up, and gives, especially us single men, a really bad name"

Couldn't agree more.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!!

Yes exactly clean fresh and feeling like a baby seal as well as a fresh clean bed !!!"

Even more annoying when it's someone you've already met and you trust them to show up.

That really is out of order

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!!

Yes exactly clean fresh and feeling like a baby seal as well as a fresh clean bed !!!

Even more annoying when it's someone you've already met and you trust them to show up.

That really is out of order

He didn't show up to meet you? What a wanker/lover (delete as appropriate) x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!!

Yes exactly clean fresh and feeling like a baby seal as well as a fresh clean bed !!!

Even more annoying when it's someone you've already met and you trust them to show up.

That really is out of order

He didn't show up to meet you? What a wanker/lover (delete as appropriate) x"

LOSER damn autocorrect!

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

If time runs backwards on the other side of a black hole would that make time wasters time conservers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here 2 years on and off and been let down on at least 3 occasions (no shows)I was even silly enough the one time to book a table in a rather nice country pub as they said they wanted to meet in a public place, fair enough,only to be left sitting there for an hour or so waiting for another no show, thank fuck I don't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't me.

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

"Some men are actually all talk. I met a couple once and they said I was the 7th attempt to get a man to meet them!"

I'm finding it difficult to find a genuine couple

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By *oppy CheeksWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Personally it is why I very rarely meet anyone off fab nowadays. Find a lot of guys looking for the naughty chat but then won’t commit when you try & arrange a social meet. Or they want a daytime meet when their wife is at work or you meet them & they are nothing like their photo. I only meet at clubs now. Saves time wasting as you can assess whether the mutual attractiveness is there & then, have a social & then move to the naughty fun if you both so desire x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged to have a shower 40 minutes ago.

I literally stood myself up.

At least it was somebody else that stood you up.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

"I always ask for mutual confirmation an hour before, if I dont get confirmation I will take it as a no show.."

That’s what I do now. I give my number, the postcode and ask for confirmation an hour before where I’ll give the door number.

Last time I was in Coventry three guys, all well verified, made plans in the evening and then didn’t bother in the morning.

One was even cheeky enough to post a meet request the next day with a “no time wasters please” tag

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By *pidey68Man
over a year ago

St Helier

Had a right pair of time wasters(couple) Saturday, gave me a right runaround. Hate that!!!

Ended up a good night out in the end though, didn't get sex but loads of dancing, a a whopping hangover the next day

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