FabSwingers.com forum: Watching your wife/gf with a guy.

By *teve_it_alone OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I’m curious to know the driver behind this for others.

For me, being bi, there’s usually an attraction to both people involved. While seeing my wife enjoying herself is good, there is definitely a “selfish” almost voyeuristic pleasure on my part. It’s nice to watch sexy people doing sexy things, after all!

I imagine for most straight or bi men there is a similar experience watching your wife/gf with another woman (sadly not always the reverse with two guys… by that’s another debate!).

So for straight guys, I’m keen to know what the specific ‘thrill’ is. I realise this depends on the dynamic you enjoy (cuckolding, etc.), so there will likely be a broad range of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is the question just to men?

Not being arsey, just wondering as I guess men often view sex stuff differently to women, so possibly that's the reason..

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By *teve_it_alone OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Why is the question just to men?

Not being arsey, just wondering as I guess men often view sex stuff differently to women, so possibly that's the reason..

That’s a totally fair question. Lack of caffeine this morning stopping me from thinking it though, probably!

Absolutely keen to hear from women and NB folk too!

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

I love watching my hubby with other women as I know they will get to experience what I get as and when I want it ,

He alway makes sure my needs met before his own . Plus he’s got a higher sex drive than me .

Hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is the question just to men?

Not being arsey, just wondering as I guess men often view sex stuff differently to women, so possibly that's the reason..

That’s a totally fair question. Lack of caffeine this morning stopping me from thinking it though, probably!

Absolutely keen to hear from women and NB folk too!

My post was also to bump your thread.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I get to see C from a different viewpoint.

I know the feelings they are experiencing - it’s like they are getting a glimpse into our sex life.

It’s very sexy watching and joining in.

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By *teve_it_alone OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Heheh. It’s like porn you can join in with!

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By *teve_it_alone OP Man
over a year ago

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"Why is the question just to men?

Not being arsey, just wondering as I guess men often view sex stuff differently to women, so possibly that's the reason..

That’s a totally fair question. Lack of caffeine this morning stopping me from thinking it though, probably!

Absolutely keen to hear from women and NB folk too!

My post was also to bump your thread.

Aww, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely have no idea why I like it. I used to be quite a jealous person when I was young and it makes absolutely no sense to me but you can’t control what turns you on.

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