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By *inding Myself OP   Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

There is a profile on here which is supposed to be of a woman, newly separated. She keeps lots of her pictures in private and then changes one or two a day to full viewing status. She says she likes people to look at her and wants to know their fantasies about her. But it's all one way traffic. I've had experience before that people like that end up being men, using pictures of their wide or GF, getting off on what other guys would like to do to their partners.

How can you tell. Does anyone know a good question that would catch them out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catch them out on what exactly? surely she can use this site as she wishes. You aren't forced to have any interaction with her if you don't like how she does things. Your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet them.

If he’s got a dick and bums you then it’s definitely a guy.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Are they verified by any meets?

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By *inding Myself OP   Man
over a year ago

Shinfield


"Are they verified by any meets?

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Not verified in any way, meets, webcam or photo.

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By *inding Myself OP   Man
over a year ago

Shinfield


"Catch them out on what exactly? surely she can use this site as she wishes. You aren't forced to have any interaction with her if you don't like how she does things. Your choice."

Just trying to see if she is who she says she is. She says she wants to get to know someone, comfortable but only wants to know what guys want to do with her. Also not verified.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" Does anyone know a good question that would catch them out? "

You could ask which public toilet they use. Mens or Ladies ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Catch them out on what exactly? surely she can use this site as she wishes. You aren't forced to have any interaction with her if you don't like how she does things. Your choice.

Just trying to see if she is who she says she is. She says she wants to get to know someone, comfortable but only wants to know what guys want to do with her. Also not verified. "

Ask to meet her for a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lot of effort to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The want to just read ‘your fantasies’ would be a pretty big red flag, and I’d have probably stopped answering by that point.

I’m happy to tell people if I’m meeting them, but I won’t indulge one way conversation like that. It just screams ‘wank fodder’ alert to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't waste your time on someone you aren't sure of

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Meet them.

If he’s got a dick and bums you then it’s definitely a guy."

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Ask to cam,

Seriously go with your gut instinct, if it feels off, it usually is.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If you think on any way they could be fake why would you want to interact anymore with them anyhow. People use the site for all different reasons and while yes it does sound a bit suss it also does not mean she is necessarily a fake profile. But if I had any inclination that they were I would just move on and not waste my time trying to get them to prove anything.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't fuel the continuation of anyone you doubt or have no interest in.

Simply report any suspensions to Admin and leave them to do any work. Move on

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Ask if she likes arse to mouth. The answer will tell you if it's a Man or a Woman.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


" Does anyone know a good question that would catch them out?

You could ask which public toilet they use. Mens or Ladies ?"

Do they leave the lid up or down

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