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By *J and CB OP   Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

My wife and i met a gorgeous girl at the attic on Saturday and had some fun together. I said i would send her a verification but when i went to message her to say hello it say we are out of her age range and can't message her.

Is there any other way we can contact her as we would like to meet her again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call her on the phone.

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By *J and CB OP   Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Call her on the phone.

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Great idea if i had her number!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I’m aware, you can verify someone that has you filtered out anyway. She’ll get the verification and perhaps get in touch.

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"My wife and i met a gorgeous girl at the attic on Saturday and had some fun together. I said i would send her a verification but when i went to message her to say hello it say we are out of her age range and can't message her.

Is there any other way we can contact her as we would like to meet her again?"

If you write a club review and mention her there she may spot it.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You need to do a bit of detective work. If you message some others who were there they may be able to message on your behalf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As far as I’m aware, you can verify someone that has you filtered out anyway. She’ll get the verification and perhaps get in touch. "

Looks like this works.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Verify her and she may contact you.

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By *J and CB OP   Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Verify her and she may contact you."

Thanks, just done that.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I would be creeped out if someone was contacting other people to track me down, mentioning me in a public club review etc. If she wanted to be contacted again or meet again, she would have given you details on how to do so. I'm sure she really enjoyed her time with you, but for her she may choose to keep her encounters as one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be creeped out if someone was contacting other people to track me down, mentioning me in a public club review etc. If she wanted to be contacted again or meet again, she would have given you details on how to do so. I'm sure she really enjoyed her time with you, but for her she may choose to keep her encounters as one offs."

I will add that if this was a post by a single bloke he would of been taken to task for attempted stalking by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried calling 118 118? Perhaps if you explain the situation and leave out no details they may be able to assist

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By *J and CB OP   Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"I would be creeped out if someone was contacting other people to track me down, mentioning me in a public club review etc. If she wanted to be contacted again or meet again, she would have given you details on how to do so. I'm sure she really enjoyed her time with you, but for her she may choose to keep her encounters as one offs."

She did want to see us both again but we didn't realise she had an age limit on her profile or else i would have given her our phone number.

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By *J and CB OP   Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Have you tried calling 118 118? Perhaps if you explain the situation and leave out no details they may be able to assist "

Yes that's is what we need Richard Edwards comments.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"I would be creeped out if someone was contacting other people to track me down, mentioning me in a public club review etc. If she wanted to be contacted again or meet again, she would have given you details on how to do so. I'm sure she really enjoyed her time with you, but for her she may choose to keep her encounters as one offs.

I will add that if this was a post by a single bloke he would of been taken to task for attempted stalking by now "

I was just going to say & people say single guys are the worst, some of those suggestions are full on stalkerish

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I would be creeped out if someone was contacting other people to track me down, mentioning me in a public club review etc. If she wanted to be contacted again or meet again, she would have given you details on how to do so. I'm sure she really enjoyed her time with you, but for her she may choose to keep her encounters as one offs.

She did want to see us both again but we didn't realise she had an age limit on her profile or else i would have given her our phone number."

I am not challenging what was said or how you feel, but think of a single woman making polite conversation after a sexual encounter with a couple. Do you want to see us again ? It might have been difficult for her to say no to your face and see disappointment, fend off why questions etc. I can only think it would be best returning to the club and hoping you see her again

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By *J and CB OP   Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"I would be creeped out if someone was contacting other people to track me down, mentioning me in a public club review etc. If she wanted to be contacted again or meet again, she would have given you details on how to do so. I'm sure she really enjoyed her time with you, but for her she may choose to keep her encounters as one offs.

She did want to see us both again but we didn't realise she had an age limit on her profile or else i would have given her our phone number.

I am not challenging what was said or how you feel, but think of a single woman making polite conversation after a sexual encounter with a couple. Do you want to see us again ? It might have been difficult for her to say no to your face and see disappointment, fend off why questions etc. I can only think it would be best returning to the club and hoping you see her again "

What makes you think it was a sexual encounter, do not assume. Did you know that assumption is the mother of all fuck ups.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath


"I would be creeped out if someone was contacting other people to track me down, mentioning me in a public club review etc. If she wanted to be contacted again or meet again, she would have given you details on how to do so. I'm sure she really enjoyed her time with you, but for her she may choose to keep her encounters as one offs.

She did want to see us both again but we didn't realise she had an age limit on her profile or else i would have given her our phone number.

I am not challenging what was said or how you feel, but think of a single woman making polite conversation after a sexual encounter with a couple. Do you want to see us again ? It might have been difficult for her to say no to your face and see disappointment, fend off why questions etc. I can only think it would be best returning to the club and hoping you see her again

What makes you think it was a sexual encounter, do not assume. Did you know that assumption is the mother of all fuck ups."

From your opening post you wrote ‘had some fun together’. It makes it sound like a sexual encounter.

Can easily see why anyone reading your post would assume it was a sexual encounter.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"What makes you think she was telling the truth, do not assume. Did you know that assumption is the mother of all fuck ups."

I've rewritten it from another point of view, but of course you may be right and we're just cynics.

Best of luck.

Gbat

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I would be creeped out if someone was contacting other people to track me down, mentioning me in a public club review etc. If she wanted to be contacted again or meet again, she would have given you details on how to do so. I'm sure she really enjoyed her time with you, but for her she may choose to keep her encounters as one offs.

She did want to see us both again but we didn't realise she had an age limit on her profile or else i would have given her our phone number.

I am not challenging what was said or how you feel, but think of a single woman making polite conversation after a sexual encounter with a couple. Do you want to see us again ? It might have been difficult for her to say no to your face and see disappointment, fend off why questions etc. I can only think it would be best returning to the club and hoping you see her again

What makes you think it was a sexual encounter, do not assume. Did you know that assumption is the mother of all fuck ups."

Ah right. Now we see another side to you.

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By *J and CB OP   Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Jesus christ what is up with people on fab? I make a post and everyone seems to slag me off!!!

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