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By *alentTease OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Why when a lady posts that's she looking for sexual fun away from her husband without permission, this is encouraged and men are happy to help.

If I see a post from a male in the same situation posting about having sexual fun without his wife's permission, this is shot down and he's told how bad he is?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why when a lady posts that's she looking for sexual fun away from her husband without permission, this is encouraged and men are happy to help.

If I see a post from a male in the same situation posting about having sexual fun without his wife's permission, this is shot down and he's told how bad he is? "

Because a lot of men (not all) don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on. "

Pretty much closes the thread right there.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on.

Pretty much closes the thread right there. "

I do tend to be a thread killer lately

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

On the rare occasion that women do post about cheating they certainly do get an easier ride than men. This is true even bin real life.

The assumption is that it is the man's fault whoever is doing the cheating. I've only ever notice children being brought into the equation when it's men too.

It takes two, it always takes two

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Cuckholding a husband is a very popular fantasy for men as well, women just want sex whilst some men enjoy the thrill of one-upmanship over another man.

Look how many men like to be the bull on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on.

Pretty much closes the thread right there.

I do tend to be a thread killer lately "

New moniker needed.

Nora the Assassin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on. "

this, we don't advertise, draw attention, or gloat about it. I do agree there is a double standard though xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why when a lady posts that's she looking for sexual fun away from her husband without permission, this is encouraged and men are happy to help.

"

There are some women and couples who actively prefer meeting married menmen. They claim that they'll be more careful about safe sex and won't become attached. I don't see the connection myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always remember the Prime Rule of Fab: all men are bastards, then apply to the situation being discussed.

In this instance, all men are bastards (rule 1) so a woman looking to cheat must have a legitimate reason to do so (ie her hubby is obviously a bastard), whereas a man looking to cheat is obviously just a cheating bastard.

Once you understand the Prime Rule drives everything on Fab, you have a better understanding of how the site works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on. "

It's the whining and sympathy pleas that annoy me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Why when a lady posts that's she looking for sexual fun away from her husband without permission, this is encouraged and men are happy to help.

If I see a post from a male in the same situation posting about having sexual fun without his wife's permission, this is shot down and he's told how bad he is? "

Encouraged by men who are willing and wanting to "help" in the main part. Wanting a shoe in so to speak, letting the poonani know they're an available penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been upfront and honest in my profile about why I'm here, and thankfully this time I have yet to suffer any abuse from those that consider themselves holier than thou (unlike last time I was here), so maybe attitude is shifting a little bit?

That said, Ive seen a couple of recent threads where the bloke in question has been set upon, so I may just be talking crap (happens often).

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By *alentTease OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on. "

You could never close one of my threads

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Maybe we in d minority but no problem meeting married men ,,R x

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Always remember the Prime Rule of Fab: all men are bastards, then apply to the situation being discussed.

In this instance, all men are bastards (rule 1) so a woman looking to cheat must have a legitimate reason to do so (ie her hubby is obviously a bastard), whereas a man looking to cheat is obviously just a cheating bastard.

Once you understand the Prime Rule drives everything on Fab, you have a better understanding of how the site works "

If you change 'bastard' to 'competitor' and that pretty much covers it.

Along with the first rule of woman's club. You don't talk about it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on.

It's the whining and sympathy pleas that annoy me. "

Yep. Never seen a married woman starting a thread "why can't I cheat and get sex?". They don't stick their heads above the parapet.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

It's not double standards, it's a different audience responding.

Men looking to cheat are generally selling themselves to a female audience.

Women looking to cheat are selling themselves to a male audience.

The male audience on here tends to struggle to get any attention, therefore the critiria they apply tends to be less strict.

Women on the other hand only need to look interested in sex and they will have more offers than they could possibly handle. Therefore, they can apply stricter standards.

Its supply and demand plain and simple.

Also again generally men tend to be more visual so they filter out the less visual constraints

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Only ever seen men post that kind of thing to be fair. Men seem to need the approval and validation of a bunch of strangers. Women seem to just crack on.

It's the whining and sympathy pleas that annoy me.

Yep. Never seen a married woman starting a thread "why can't I cheat and get sex?". They don't stick their heads above the parapet. "

I think that could be because it's generally easier for women to get casual sex on fab than for men. I wonder how it would be if there were 100 women to every man in here

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Oh d competition would be fierce lol n d men would be in 7th Heaven,,life's a bitch, . On Fab .. R x

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By *our HeroMan
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire


"It's not double standards, it's a different audience responding.

Men looking to cheat are generally selling themselves to a female audience.

Women looking to cheat are selling themselves to a male audience.

The male audience on here tends to struggle to get any attention, therefore the critiria they apply tends to be less strict.

Women on the other hand only need to look interested in sex and they will have more offers than they could possibly handle. Therefore, they can apply stricter standards.

Its supply and demand plain and simple.

Also again generally men tend to be more visual so they filter out the less visual constraints "

Bingo! I’d say this is spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause men just see an opportunity to get their tip wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they men commenting want they hole and don’t care if someone gets hurt in the prosses so they not going to comment anything bad or anything

As they think they may be in with a chance

When I am makes the post

Woman have all ready fround appon it

All ready made they mind up they wouldn’t touch the person as they don’t want to hurt other

So are going to speak they mind on the subject and tell them what they really think

For me I will post the exact same regardless if it’s a man woman tv or a couples profile playing behind backs

I don’t agree with it and it’s all ready made them off limits to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause men just see an opportunity to get their tip wet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There definitely is double standards but the men don't seem to mind. We've had married women message, no way I'd meet, I don't agree with it either way, man, woman it's all disrespectful.

Mrs

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


"I see a post from a male in the same situation posting about having sexual fun without his wife's permission, this is shot down and he's told how bad he is? "

The two-facededness of the couples is astounding.

And then the pathetic males who chime in trying to curry their favour is even more cringeworthy.

Its not anyone's place to pass judgement on anyone despite your beliefs or judging others by them.

It shows aloofness not needed here.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"There definitely is double standards but the men don't seem to mind. We've had married women message, no way I'd meet, I don't agree with it either way, man, woman it's all disrespectful.

Mrs"

Totally agree, no respect at all for the other person regardless of gender. Sad thing is even when they do get caught they just deny it and often carry on regardless not caring about the hurt they are causing

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