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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm also on a vanilla dating site (the one with the pink heart), and I have a little pet hate.

Everyone appears to post pictures of themselves up a mountain or doing some kind of strenuous activity. When do they wash their smalls and clean the toilet?

So people, if you're on a vanilla site, what's your pet hate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lies

The lead down the garden path

If you play hard to get and not give out they movie on to the next

If you do give out you end up ghosted sorry for the rudeness hear

But humped and dumped so to speak

And I have no choice in the matter if that’s what I want or not

at least with fab people are upfront in what they looking for

And then I get to decide if it’s for me

If I like them that way they I am going to let it happen regardless off if they just want a one night thing or more

But it allows me to detached feels and stuff from it

I can just let loose for the night alown myself to be used in that sens and not feel rubbish or used the next day

As yes they may be useing me as a toy or what ever for the night but trust me I am use them back in the same way just as much

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Will complete later. Just ask

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Will complete later. Just ask"

Yeah, what does that mean? I bet if you asked if they fancied an afternoon snuggle, you be reported instantly

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Beccles

The sheer brutality of it all.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger. "

Or people kissing their cat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a nightmare, not one genuine person,and so many catfish profiles

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Its a nightmare, not one genuine person,and so many catfish profiles "

Yep. One photo, usually blurry, and the 'ask me anything line' x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

People seem to either hound you or completely vanish with little in between .

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"People seem to either hound you or completely vanish with little in between . "

Send you a message, you respond, never hear from them again. It's a massive ponsi scheme x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Married men.

Men who ask if I'm 'passionate' thinking they've cleverly disguised the fact they're just looking for sex.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Married men.

Men who ask if I'm 'passionate' thinking they've cleverly disguised the fact they're just looking for sex. "

That's code for sex only

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm not on here much, add my Insta

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I'm not on here much, add my Insta "

Then i can spam you instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also on a vanilla dating site (the one with the pink heart), and I have a little pet hate.

Everyone appears to post pictures of themselves up a mountain or doing some kind of strenuous activity. When do they wash their smalls and clean the toilet?

So people, if you're on a vanilla site, what's your pet hate?"

I am one of those guys who posts such stuff

To answer your question, in long expeditions, we have toilet tents which is basically a deep pit where you di your business and cover it with some soil. Personally I find that to be the most challenging part of expeditions.

We are mostly dirty as we don't take a shower. The shower we take once we are back is the most blissful experience. Sorry for giving a serious answer to a fun question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own pet hates?

*A man who knows what he wants.

*I want someone who can make me laugh.

*Some form of empty profile. Come on people. It doesn't take much time to write a paragraph. And it pisses me off when I see a single line profile that says "Message me to know more about me".

* Cheaters/liars don't message me. As though cheaters/liars will stop messaging after they see that on their profiles.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Married men.

Men who ask if I'm 'passionate' thinking they've cleverly disguised the fact they're just looking for sex.

That's code for sex only"

I know.... I figured it out on my own and everything

They always think they're being sneaky because they don't just come out and say sex. Boys are silly.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I'm also on a vanilla dating site (the one with the pink heart), and I have a little pet hate.

Everyone appears to post pictures of themselves up a mountain or doing some kind of strenuous activity. When do they wash their smalls and clean the toilet?

So people, if you're on a vanilla site, what's your pet hate?

I am one of those guys who posts such stuff

To answer your question, in long expeditions, we have toilet tents which is basically a deep pit where you di your business and cover it with some soil. Personally I find that to be the most challenging part of expeditions.

We are mostly dirty as we don't take a shower. The shower we take once we are back is the most blissful experience. Sorry for giving a serious answer to a fun question "

Yeah, but all appear to be enjoying it. You're suffering for your art

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger.

Or people kissing their cat x"

I'd better remove that one I have then. No wonder I don't get replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I'm not on here much, here's my other social...'

'Will fill in later.'

'Just ask.'

They all make eye roll and unless there's a really good picture on there I'll swipe left on all of them guilty of those 3 above.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger.

Or people kissing their cat x

I'd better remove that one I have then. No wonder I don't get replies "

Googling you now...... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger.

Or people kissing their cat x

I'd better remove that one I have then. No wonder I don't get replies

Googling you now...... x"

I'm wearing more clothes so you may not recognise me...

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger.

Or people kissing their cat x

I'd better remove that one I have then. No wonder I don't get replies

Googling you now...... x

I'm wearing more clothes so you may not recognise me..."

In that case, I'll stay here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored Married women looking for tittlelation to brighten up there sad lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never understand why people just delete their profile in the middle of a conversation.

'My kids are my world'

'No kids or crazy exes so no dramas'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hate the wasted time.

Going on another date only to find that we were incompatible because they’d lied about their intentions or their interests.

I had actually decided that my next date would be the last one and then fate sent me Dora.

3 years together now, blissfully happy and getting married in the summer.

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

'Very busy with job, family, friends and life. My life's perfect just missing one thing. No drama.'

I always wonder if this means they actually want to hookup; they dont seem to have space for a relationship

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I used to hate the wasted time.

Going on another date only to find that we were incompatible because they’d lied about their intentions or their interests.

I had actually decided that my next date would be the last one and then fate sent me Dora.

3 years together now, blissfully happy and getting married in the summer. "

Top couple x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Bored Married women looking for tittlelation to brighten up there sad lives "

I had a friend like that. She needed the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger. "

Or their kids.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"'Very busy with job, family, friends and life. My life's perfect just missing one thing. No drama.'

I always wonder if this means they actually want to hookup; they dont seem to have space for a relationship"

I always say, I have kids. It irks me, a week into a chat, and always before the first date, that they say, oh, you have kids! It's on the profile, I've mentioned I'm going to see them in a play etc. I haven't been keeping them secret!

Rant over!

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I have been on several sites. The biggest hate of all for me. Photo’s of say about five females in profile photo . Then trying to work out from text who is the one out of the five is on the site. One female did not have a single photo of her on her own. ? The oddest bit for me was in profile she had put that had two daughters and their ages. In one photo , she was her stood with younger guy who looked about twenty five. So thought was her son until read her details again . Then totally confused.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Ooh where to start.

Why are you on (dating site) when you’re on Fab as well

Pics of guys with cars that are meant to impress

Pics of guys with dogs - I’m not a dog lover

Pics of guys in a group - Guess who

Guys just looking for sex - that’s what Fab is for

Pics that are out of date - met a guy that was a few stones heavier than his pic then asked why I didn’t want to meet again.

To be fair I have met a few guys who were lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bored Married women looking for tittlelation to brighten up there sad lives

I had a friend like that. She needed the attention. "

Yep loads on for that reason only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bored Married women looking for tittlelation to brighten up there sad lives

I had a friend like that. She needed the attention. "

Don't they get seen?

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Ooh where to start.

Why are you on (dating site) when you’re on Fab as well

Pics of guys with cars that are meant to impress

Pics of guys with dogs - I’m not a dog lover

Pics of guys in a group - Guess who

Guys just looking for sex - that’s what Fab is for

Pics that are out of date - met a guy that was a few stones heavier than his pic then asked why I didn’t want to meet again.

To be fair I have met a few guys who were lovely. "

Falcon, I'd like to be with someone full time again, one day. Was married for 16 years, and would hate to die alone in a pool of my own piss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up on date sites long time ago

To meany ghosted and to meany stupid questions lol and on this site u know what u getting fun and good sex

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Beccles


"Bored Married women looking for tittlelation to brighten up there sad lives

I had a friend like that. She needed the attention. "

Is she still looking? Asking for a friend . . .

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport


"I always say, I have kids. It irks me, a week into a chat, and always before the first date, that they say, oh, you have kids! It's on the profile, I've mentioned I'm going to see them in a play etc. I haven't been keeping them secret!

Rant over!"

I'm pretty sure some people are simply bored and like to chat when they meet someone interested in them who can make a conversation. Then, when it comes to the point of meeting, they make any excuse to quit (or just ghost you)

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I always say, I have kids. It irks me, a week into a chat, and always before the first date, that they say, oh, you have kids! It's on the profile, I've mentioned I'm going to see them in a play etc. I haven't been keeping them secret!

Rant over!

I'm pretty sure some people are simply bored and like to chat when they meet someone interested in them who can make a conversation. Then, when it comes to the point of meeting, they make any excuse to quit (or just ghost you) "

I hear you fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men with dead fish, men with children, men with dogs, men with boats, men with motorcycles, men with 10 other men so you don't know which one is them.

Men who can't take an ordinary bloody selfie round the right way and in focus which isn't cropping off their head.

I once saw a profile with the only pic of a radiator. Another of some bin bags by a verge. And they hadn't even added a filter. FFS.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Men with dead fish, men with children, men with dogs, men with boats, men with motorcycles, men with 10 other men so you don't know which one is them.

Men who can't take an ordinary bloody selfie round the right way and in focus which isn't cropping off their head.

I once saw a profile with the only pic of a radiator. Another of some bin bags by a verge. And they hadn't even added a filter. FFS."

Be fair Beryl, the radiator had better abs x

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate that dating sites are absaloutly awsome.... making it way to easy for me to continue the lifestyle of just dating and sleeping with lots of women with no feelings attached instead of letting me just settle down and grow old with someone #tomuchchoice #dontcatchfeellngs

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????"

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles"

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with dead fish, men with children, men with dogs, men with boats, men with motorcycles, men with 10 other men so you don't know which one is them.

Men who can't take an ordinary bloody selfie round the right way and in focus which isn't cropping off their head.

I once saw a profile with the only pic of a radiator. Another of some bin bags by a verge. And they hadn't even added a filter. FFS."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????"

Country walks and pub lunches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with dead fish, men with children, men with dogs, men with boats, men with motorcycles, men with 10 other men so you don't know which one is them.

Men who can't take an ordinary bloody selfie round the right way and in focus which isn't cropping off their head.

I once saw a profile with the only pic of a radiator. Another of some bin bags by a verge. And they hadn't even added a filter. FFS.

Be fair Beryl, the radiator had better abs x"

Bit pasty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Country walks and pub lunches "

"Own hair, own teeth, own house"

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By *k8888GLWWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've abandoned vanilla dating sites altogether.

The dead fish. Why??

The hillwalking as a hobby

Pics with their kids. Not appropriate.

The lies. Just be honest and let the person decide.

The entitlement from most men thinking that because they have messaged you must reply immediately

I could write a book on the disasters I've had over the years.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Beccles


"Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger. "

How about living fish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they tell you how to use the site. It giveth me the rage!!'

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Beccles


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Country walks and pub lunches

"Own hair, own teeth, own house" "

Own car and good job too!

I'm a catch, clearly!

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!"

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I always say, I have kids. It irks me, a week into a chat, and always before the first date, that they say, oh, you have kids! It's on the profile, I've mentioned I'm going to see them in a play etc. I haven't been keeping them secret!

Rant over!

I'm pretty sure some people are simply bored and like to chat when they meet someone interested in them who can make a conversation. Then, when it comes to the point of meeting, they make any excuse to quit (or just ghost you) "

I had the opposite. Nothing on females profile about kids. In fact very few details about her. During a conversation she asked about me having children . I have none of my own . Did say even at my age yes would like if possible. I asked then if seeing each other was still on for weekend. She replied have to check if mom will look after children. I said that she had never mentioned before. Her reply was , I had not asked. Which was correct. Yes did see each other that weekend and a few times since . A bit difficult due to children etc . Message each other most days.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"When they tell you how to use the site. It giveth me the rage!!'"

Woah there Beryl. If you're getting angry, I want to be there when your top rips open x

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Country walks and pub lunches

"Own hair, own teeth, own house"

Own car and good job too!

I'm a catch, clearly!"

And I thought my disease riddled gums were my best feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they tell you how to use the site. It giveth me the rage!!'

Woah there Beryl. If you're getting angry, I want to be there when your top rips open x"

Nah I just don't go on the sites very often

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"When they tell you how to use the site. It giveth me the rage!!'

Woah there Beryl. If you're getting angry, I want to be there when your top rips open x

Nah I just don't go on the sites very often "

Good. I have exclusive viewing rights here then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a professional. wtf does that mean

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"im a professional. wtf does that mean"

Villain? Safe cracker? Dog groomer? Dentist? Covers so many bases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a professional. wtf does that mean"

Means you're trustworthy and is usually accompanied by "genuine".

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"im a professional. wtf does that mean

Means you're trustworthy and is usually accompanied by "genuine". "

Ah, I wear a suit and tie Beryl. From that, could you deduce that I like going to swingers clubs? I guess adding professional is saying, in a posh way, you are employed and I'm not looking to leach off you. It's still a possibility scheme x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a professional. wtf does that mean

Means you're trustworthy and is usually accompanied by "genuine". "

tony blair once cited he was professional

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Beccles


"im a professional. wtf does that mean

Means you're trustworthy and is usually accompanied by "genuine".

tony blair once cited he was professional "

Technically he was, he was paid to fcuk lots of Iraqis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a professional. wtf does that mean

Means you're trustworthy and is usually accompanied by "genuine".

Ah, I wear a suit and tie Beryl. From that, could you deduce that I like going to swingers clubs? I guess adding professional is saying, in a posh way, you are employed and I'm not looking to leach off you. It's still a possibility scheme x"

I think on here and anywhere else saying you're a professional is meaningless! You could be one and still not be employed...

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"im a professional. wtf does that mean

Means you're trustworthy and is usually accompanied by "genuine".

Ah, I wear a suit and tie Beryl. From that, could you deduce that I like going to swingers clubs? I guess adding professional is saying, in a posh way, you are employed and I'm not looking to leach off you. It's still a possibility scheme x

I think on here and anywhere else saying you're a professional is meaningless! You could be one and still not be employed..."

On dating sites, I think it means, and I paraphrase here, I'm full of shit, but trying to make myself seem superior to you. Does that sound about right Beryl? X

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line."

What's a ponsi scheme?

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line.

What's a ponsi scheme? "

Basically, you sell something fir money, that people never receive. You keep reusing the new money to resell the product, and nobody actually gets anything, but loses all their money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a professional. wtf does that mean

Means you're trustworthy and is usually accompanied by "genuine".

Ah, I wear a suit and tie Beryl. From that, could you deduce that I like going to swingers clubs? I guess adding professional is saying, in a posh way, you are employed and I'm not looking to leach off you. It's still a possibility scheme x

I think on here and anywhere else saying you're a professional is meaningless! You could be one and still not be employed...

On dating sites, I think it means, and I paraphrase here, I'm full of shit, but trying to make myself seem superior to you. Does that sound about right Beryl? X"

I guess I think men do it to seem more dateable to women who value money and status. Just my take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a professional. wtf does that mean

Means you're trustworthy and is usually accompanied by "genuine".

Ah, I wear a suit and tie Beryl. From that, could you deduce that I like going to swingers clubs? I guess adding professional is saying, in a posh way, you are employed and I'm not looking to leach off you. It's still a possibility scheme x

I think on here and anywhere else saying you're a professional is meaningless! You could be one and still not be employed...

On dating sites, I think it means, and I paraphrase here, I'm full of shit, but trying to make myself seem superior to you. Does that sound about right Beryl? X"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line.

What's a ponsi scheme?

Basically, you sell something fir money, that people never receive. You keep reusing the new money to resell the product, and nobody actually gets anything, but loses all their money"

Oh but instead of money it's lust and attraction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group photos. You know they're always going to be the least attractive one, trying to lure you in with their good looking pals

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Group photos. You know they're always going to be the least attractive one, trying to lure you in with their good looking pals "

I don't have groups of friends to take photos with so can't get away with that

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line.

What's a ponsi scheme?

Basically, you sell something fir money, that people never receive. You keep reusing the new money to resell the product, and nobody actually gets anything, but loses all their money

Oh but instead of money it's lust and attraction? "

No, it's hard cash! They charge according to gender. So for me (straight, fella), I'm stung for £19.99 per month. From that, I've had the sum total of two dates over the past five months. Had to sign up for six months, finishes next month. Then I'm just staying on here.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Group photos. You know they're always going to be the least attractive one, trying to lure you in with their good looking pals "

What about the ones where they're hugging a fella? Hello....what are you trying to tell me here? At least on fab, a group meet is advertised x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line.

What's a ponsi scheme?

Basically, you sell something fir money, that people never receive. You keep reusing the new money to resell the product, and nobody actually gets anything, but loses all their money

Oh but instead of money it's lust and attraction?

No, it's hard cash! They charge according to gender. So for me (straight, fella), I'm stung for £19.99 per month. From that, I've had the sum total of two dates over the past five months. Had to sign up for six months, finishes next month. Then I'm just staying on here."

But that's on you, not them. Try harder lol there not selling you a date, they're selling you access to profiles. They've delivered their end of the bargain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found Tnder easier for meeting for casual sex than here tbh. People are more up front with what they like here but I think most are on here for an ego boost

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line.

What's a ponsi scheme?

Basically, you sell something fir money, that people never receive. You keep reusing the new money to resell the product, and nobody actually gets anything, but loses all their money

Oh but instead of money it's lust and attraction?

No, it's hard cash! They charge according to gender. So for me (straight, fella), I'm stung for £19.99 per month. From that, I've had the sum total of two dates over the past five months. Had to sign up for six months, finishes next month. Then I'm just staying on here.

But that's on you, not them. Try harder lol there not selling you a date, they're selling you access to profiles. They've delivered their end of the bargain "

Mute point.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I’ve found Tnder easier for meeting for casual sex than here tbh. People are more up front with what they like here but I think most are on here for an ego boost"

Or swinging is more than a hook up after a night on the town?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line.

What's a ponsi scheme?

Basically, you sell something fir money, that people never receive. You keep reusing the new money to resell the product, and nobody actually gets anything, but loses all their money

Oh but instead of money it's lust and attraction?

No, it's hard cash! They charge according to gender. So for me (straight, fella), I'm stung for £19.99 per month. From that, I've had the sum total of two dates over the past five months. Had to sign up for six months, finishes next month. Then I'm just staying on here.

But that's on you, not them. Try harder lol there not selling you a date, they're selling you access to profiles. They've delivered their end of the bargain

Mute point."

Moot?! Or are you trying to tell me to shut up

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Women that post-

Like nights out, nights in. City breaks, holidays.

Well don’t we all?????

Ha! Just read one like that today. Factory produced profiles

"Looking for my last first date" "seeking my other half" "looking for my partner in crime". Sigh!

Jesus, it is a ponsi scheme. Some out if work sitcom writer is knocking these out like a production line.

What's a ponsi scheme?

Basically, you sell something fir money, that people never receive. You keep reusing the new money to resell the product, and nobody actually gets anything, but loses all their money

Oh but instead of money it's lust and attraction?

No, it's hard cash! They charge according to gender. So for me (straight, fella), I'm stung for £19.99 per month. From that, I've had the sum total of two dates over the past five months. Had to sign up for six months, finishes next month. Then I'm just staying on here.

But that's on you, not them. Try harder lol there not selling you a date, they're selling you access to profiles. They've delivered their end of the bargain

Mute point.

Moot?! Or are you trying to tell me to shut up

"

Told you that autocorrect hated me

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

A message just saying 'hi' or 'hello'. Sorry, but if I message someone first, I like to make an effort! Not even the time or energy to hold "shirt" for first letter.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Photos of men holding up dead fish or posing next to a dr*gged tiger.

Or people kissing their cat x"
. I would add to that people kissing their dogs or cats and dogs laying about on the family sofa how disgusting is that.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"A message just saying 'hi' or 'hello'. Sorry, but if I message someone first, I like to make an effort! Not even the time or energy to hold "shirt" for first letter. "

Takes a few moments to construct a decent sentence.

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By *heirry84Man
over a year ago

Mids

I don't have many. I've met my last two long term girlfriends through vanilla dating sites and even though it took a lot of sifting, i had loads more opportunity for meets than on here. What I like about them is the focus is more on the person and their interests rather than aesthetics like on here. Not slagging fab as on my last profile i had a fair few meets it's just a hell of a lot of work for very little reward. It's also the reason why i probably would never look for a girlfriend on here. I also feel more comfortable to have public pics on there as it wouldn't come back to bite me.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Profile headline - Carpe diem

"Looking for a knight in shining armour, not a twat in tin foil"

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

"I love to laugh!" (who fucking doesn't??)

"Looking for a real man who can handle a real woman"

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Profile headline - Carpe diem

"Looking for a knight in shining armour, not a twat in tin foil"

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

"I love to laugh!" (who fucking doesn't??)

"Looking for a real man who can handle a real woman"

"

Are you looking at the same site

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Profile headline - Carpe diem

"Looking for a knight in shining armour, not a twat in tin foil"

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

"I love to laugh!" (who fucking doesn't??)

"Looking for a real man who can handle a real woman"

Are you looking at the same site "

it's on all the sites, across the board....I swear there's a manual out there somewhere, like Online Dating for Dummies or summink

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Profile headline - Carpe diem

"Looking for a knight in shining armour, not a twat in tin foil"

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

"I love to laugh!" (who fucking doesn't??)

"Looking for a real man who can handle a real woman"

Are you looking at the same site

it's on all the sites, across the board....I swear there's a manual out there somewhere, like Online Dating for Dummies or summink "

One I see is, not interested in money etc. Then says ideal first date. Fine dining with champagne ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Not really on this much, add my Snapchat/ Instagram’

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Criminal gangs would call it pishing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get more meets with tinger an here.

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

I met my partner on a vanilla dating site 18 years ago when people would write a profile etc. They were a bit more innocent back then, I think most people where looking for partners rather than casual sex. If I wanted casual sex back then I would visit my local nightclub...

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I've actually messaged quite a bit with scammers who Ive met on dating sites. Can be interesting to see how it progresses and what the scam is. They're always really attentive and complimentary too

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By *ob the builderMan
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Profile pics with 3 or 4 in it,and you know she's not the one you're eyes are drawn to

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"

.... Cheaters/liars don't message me. As though cheaters/liars will stop messaging after they see that on their profiles."

I always respect those requests.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Bored Married women looking for tittlelation to brighten up there sad lives

I had a friend like that. She needed the attention.

Don't they get seen?"

I did wonder that myself. I think the attention out-weighed the flak with getting seen by someone he knew. All his friends are married so shouldn't be on there anyway.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Profile headline - Carpe diem

"Looking for a knight in shining armour, not a twat in tin foil"

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

"I love to laugh!" (who fucking doesn't??)

"Looking for a real man who can handle a real woman"

Are you looking at the same site

it's on all the sites, across the board....I swear there's a manual out there somewhere, like Online Dating for Dummies or summink

One I see is, not interested in money etc. Then says ideal first date. Fine dining with champagne ? "

Or "I like to be spoiled".

I've seen profiles on here who have that too.

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

halton

When you get a message and says I don’t use this much add my what’s app and they send number with a foreign code had one yday had +31 Netherlands when asked said of yeah am home for few days but funny same number I was given 3 times that week by different ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I ventured on the Bee site there were several guys with anti-vax profiles - the whole profile was a rant.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Last time I ventured on the Bee site there were several guys with anti-vax profiles - the whole profile was a rant. "

It's also prevalent on here Beryl. Got blocked by two ladies because I'd been vaxxed x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

They just want sex.

Where’s the romance gone eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went on one of those sites recently for all of 4 days… then decided I hated everything about it.

No pet peeves. I just hated it! Every bit of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake people taking your pics !!

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"They just want sex.

Where’s the romance gone eh."

The dead, dying embers have been sold x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time I ventured on the Bee site there were several guys with anti-vax profiles - the whole profile was a rant.

It's also prevalent on here Beryl. Got blocked by two ladies because I'd been vaxxed x"

An excellent filter in my view!

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Last time I ventured on the Bee site there were several guys with anti-vax profiles - the whole profile was a rant.

It's also prevalent on here Beryl. Got blocked by two ladies because I'd been vaxxed x

An excellent filter in my view! "

I always thought protecting people was one of my virtues x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The damn fish!!!! Women are not impressed by your fishing skills!

Here for a good time, not a long time / Looking for my partner in crime / No drama

The whole online dating experience is soul crushing tbh. I haven't been on any dates in forever and I like to think I'm not the worst someone could do but I also have standards.

When will fab add a dating section so those of us who like flavours other than just vanilla can try and find love without having to try and subtly mention it for it to be seen as an invitation for sex??

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"The damn fish!!!! Women are not impressed by your fishing skills!

"

Frankly, I'm amazed that catching fish just to photograph and let them go again hasn't been outlawed years ago on the grounds of unnecessary cruelty. I don't think that sentient men would bait hooks to catch birds or cats for the 'sport' of it.

Fish,of course, can't squawk so that is one reason the practice continues. The main reason, though, is that it is a multi million £ industry.

I was fascinated when I first learned from female users that fishing shots were so popular among male suitors. Looking like the food provider is all well and good if we are talking about catching edibly popular species but it seems that in most instances that is not the case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be on a couple. I bet if I were to go back on Match now, it would be the same sea of faces and with their photos unchanged in all these years.

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

Hate the unwritten 'rules', no snogging on first date, maybe a quick feel on the second, jeez, it's like being back at school. No it's not, that was fun!

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I used to be on a couple. I bet if I were to go back on Match now, it would be the same sea of faces and with their photos unchanged in all these years."

Being on Match myself, until next month, I see the same faces too. Should just stay on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate the unwritten 'rules', no snogging on first date, maybe a quick feel on the second, jeez, it's like being back at school. No it's not, that was fun!"

I’ve honestly never heard of that.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

All the men are clearly just getting d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god I joined a couple the other day, I swiftly deleted them after a few hours.

Men posing with fish is up there, up a mountain, in a swimming pool and the one that pissed me off the most (this was on Facebook dating) is a profile picture of an inspirational quote or a power ranger (I kid you not) OR. A pfp with their kids, I get it, they have kids but seems a bit wrong to have them plastered all over your dating profile.

Danish x

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Oh god I joined a couple the other day, I swiftly deleted them after a few hours.

Men posing with fish is up there, up a mountain, in a swimming pool and the one that pissed me off the most (this was on Facebook dating) is a profile picture of an inspirational quote or a power ranger (I kid you not) OR. A pfp with their kids, I get it, they have kids but seems a bit wrong to have them plastered all over your dating profile.

Danish x"

I used to have a gag on my profile about people up mountains. I then realised that every profile had a picture up a mountain. I'm convinced they all live in a commune in the hills x

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"Hate the unwritten 'rules', no snogging on first date, maybe a quick feel on the second, jeez, it's like being back at school. No it's not, that was fun!

I’ve honestly never heard of that."

Lot more direct with Fab. . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The damn fish!!!! Women are not impressed by your fishing skills!

Frankly, I'm amazed that catching fish just to photograph and let them go again hasn't been outlawed years ago on the grounds of unnecessary cruelty. I don't think that sentient men would bait hooks to catch birds or cats for the 'sport' of it.

Fish,of course, can't squawk so that is one reason the practice continues. The main reason, though, is that it is a multi million £ industry.

I was fascinated when I first learned from female users that fishing shots were so popular among male suitors. Looking like the food provider is all well and good if we are talking about catching edibly popular species but it seems that in most instances that is not the case!

"

So much yes to all of this!!! To me it's as unsexy as posing next to a dr*gged up wild animal - what about unnecessary cruelty and exploitation is it you think we find attractive..???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god I joined a couple the other day, I swiftly deleted them after a few hours.

Men posing with fish is up there, up a mountain, in a swimming pool and the one that pissed me off the most (this was on Facebook dating) is a profile picture of an inspirational quote or a power ranger (I kid you not) OR. A pfp with their kids, I get it, they have kids but seems a bit wrong to have them plastered all over your dating profile.

Danish x"

Photos of children really don't belong on dating sites, if they're yours we can tell from reading your profile, if they're not yours you're just coming off as a creep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is all very deflating and leaves me feeling crap and ugly. God knows what you men are actually looking for, I assume it's a model, gym bunny who doesn't speak and cleans whilst giving blow jobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is all very deflating and leaves me feeling crap and ugly. God knows what you men are actually looking for, I assume it's a model, gym bunny who doesn't speak and cleans whilst giving blow jobs. "
dont be deflated you aint ugly at all in the end you will find a win remember every loss brings you closer to victory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is all very deflating and leaves me feeling crap and ugly. God knows what you men are actually looking for, I assume it's a model, gym bunny who doesn't speak and cleans whilst giving blow jobs. dont be deflated you aint ugly at all in the end you will find a win remember every loss brings you closer to victory"

Shh you, I'm wallowing, don't ruin it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is all very deflating and leaves me feeling crap and ugly. God knows what you men are actually looking for, I assume it's a model, gym bunny who doesn't speak and cleans whilst giving blow jobs. dont be deflated you aint ugly at all in the end you will find a win remember every loss brings you closer to victory

Shh you, I'm wallowing, don't ruin it haha "
as you wish

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"It is all very deflating and leaves me feeling crap and ugly. God knows what you men are actually looking for, I assume it's a model, gym bunny who doesn't speak and cleans whilst giving blow jobs. "

Don’t forget is always impeccable well presented and wearing nice lingerie.

Doesn’t poop or fart, snd makes sure dinner is on the table at 5:30pm sharp!

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It is all very deflating and leaves me feeling crap and ugly. God knows what you men are actually looking for, I assume it's a model, gym bunny who doesn't speak and cleans whilst giving blow jobs. dont be deflated you aint ugly at all in the end you will find a win remember every loss brings you closer to victory

Shh you, I'm wallowing, don't ruin it haha "

Stop wallowing alone then xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god I joined a couple the other day, I swiftly deleted them after a few hours.

Men posing with fish is up there, up a mountain, in a swimming pool and the one that pissed me off the most (this was on Facebook dating) is a profile picture of an inspirational quote or a power ranger (I kid you not) OR. A pfp with their kids, I get it, they have kids but seems a bit wrong to have them plastered all over your dating profile.

Danish x

Photos of children really don't belong on dating sites, if they're yours we can tell from reading your profile, if they're not yours you're just coming off as a creep! "

I saw a cute guy today but he had 4 pics with nieces. Nope.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Oh god I joined a couple the other day, I swiftly deleted them after a few hours.

Men posing with fish is up there, up a mountain, in a swimming pool and the one that pissed me off the most (this was on Facebook dating) is a profile picture of an inspirational quote or a power ranger (I kid you not) OR. A pfp with their kids, I get it, they have kids but seems a bit wrong to have them plastered all over your dating profile.

Danish x

Photos of children really don't belong on dating sites, if they're yours we can tell from reading your profile, if they're not yours you're just coming off as a creep!

I saw a cute guy today but he had 4 pics with nieces. Nope."

Dud they do that thing where they black or blur their face out? X

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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

I am still confused how come there are so many men holding a big fish on vanilla dating sites? Where did they get the fish from?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I am still confused how come there are so many men holding a big fish on vanilla dating sites? Where did they get the fish from?"

Its actually plastic ... they share it around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god I joined a couple the other day, I swiftly deleted them after a few hours.

Men posing with fish is up there, up a mountain, in a swimming pool and the one that pissed me off the most (this was on Facebook dating) is a profile picture of an inspirational quote or a power ranger (I kid you not) OR. A pfp with their kids, I get it, they have kids but seems a bit wrong to have them plastered all over your dating profile.

Danish x

Photos of children really don't belong on dating sites, if they're yours we can tell from reading your profile, if they're not yours you're just coming off as a creep!

I saw a cute guy today but he had 4 pics with nieces. Nope.

Dud they do that thing where they black or blur their face out? X"

Nope!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

How do folk manage to juggle being on other sites aswell as here??!

Heck, the craziness of Fab is enough!?

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Oh god I joined a couple the other day, I swiftly deleted them after a few hours.

Men posing with fish is up there, up a mountain, in a swimming pool and the one that pissed me off the most (this was on Facebook dating) is a profile picture of an inspirational quote or a power ranger (I kid you not) OR. A pfp with their kids, I get it, they have kids but seems a bit wrong to have them plastered all over your dating profile.

Danish x

Photos of children really don't belong on dating sites, if they're yours we can tell from reading your profile, if they're not yours you're just coming off as a creep!

I saw a cute guy today but he had 4 pics with nieces. Nope.

Dud they do that thing where they black or blur their face out? X

Nope! "

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"

How do folk manage to juggle being on other sites aswell as here??!

Heck, the craziness of Fab is enough!? "

I gave up pretty quickly. Full of wasters. Just waiting until my membership expires next month, then I'm just on here x

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Beccles


"

How do folk manage to juggle being on other sites aswell as here??!

Heck, the craziness of Fab is enough!? "

It's simple.

I get little to no action on here, I get little to know action on vanilla sites either lol

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not getting a single match in four years on any of the sites I'm on.

There's obviously something wrong with me, but I've still no idea what.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Beccles


"Not getting a single match in four years on any of the sites I'm on.

There's obviously something wrong with me, but I've still no idea what. "

Wow, you make me look good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like Vanilla , just Strawberry

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

No pic no reply from a profile with zero pics on it

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"No pic no reply from a profile with zero pics on it "

Ah, the ninjas inhibit there, as well as here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm looking at guys in their 40s and 50s, there is a preponderance of Lycra. One pic on yer bike is enough. Just saying.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We met via the yellow logo'd site Bum something.. the bloody filtered and snapc.. pictures!!!!!!!! Y nearly passed me by as I had shade's on and a picture of me and the hound, so a pointer there guy's!

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"When I'm looking at guys in their 40s and 50s, there is a preponderance of Lycra. One pic on yer bike is enough. Just saying. "

No lycra here Beryl. Lycra is fir flashdance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm looking at guys in their 40s and 50s, there is a preponderance of Lycra. One pic on yer bike is enough. Just saying.

No lycra here Beryl. Lycra is fir flashdance x"

Luckily haven't seen leg warmers. YET.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

w

Don’t you just hate it

When 3 super models arrange a 4some with you on tinder

And just as your about to Cum

The least attractive super model says

“Save it for me!”

So annoying

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

The "not looking drama" quotes on profiles or I've been here before or am separated but it's complicated there's an endless list of red flags I've collected for years until I joined fab ohh here is just the same except am not looking to date ??

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"No pic no reply from a profile with zero pics on it "

Same on here...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Women with their tongue out, it just comes across as childish.

Heavily photoshopped, absolutely no wrinkles or chance to see what she really looks like:

Photos with other people in and in some cases you don’t know which woman is looking to date. As all of their pictures are group photos

Text that’s says something like ‘only genuine guys need to apply’ I’m sure that would definitely put off the chancers

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Not getting a single match in four years on any of the sites I'm on.

There's obviously something wrong with me, but I've still no idea what.

Wow, you make me look good!"

Hooray! We've found my use!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all."

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

"

Sorry but it's true. The research is out there %90 of women all go after the same %10 of men. It's a numbers game and men are onto a loser on dating sites.

They can pick and choose as they are so out numbered by the men. So unless you look like Chris Hemsworth you're not going to get anywhere lol.

They have unrealistic expectations then complain there's no good men when they "refuse to settle".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it. "

I was on a dating site yes. For about 3 days. What a shock that was.

On the point about kids. Yes I agree. However, don't stick it in a guys face before you've even spoken. That's not going to attract anyone.

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By *ttoWoman
over a year ago

llanelli

I’ve just joined one today. Does anyone ever reply on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm looking at guys in their 40s and 50s, there is a preponderance of Lycra. One pic on yer bike is enough. Just saying. "

Very funny - and I seen same profiles lol

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it.

I was on a dating site yes. For about 3 days. What a shock that was.

On the point about kids. Yes I agree. However, don't stick it in a guys face before you've even spoken. That's not going to attract anyone."

And by the way. Don't play those games. Just because I find some women detestable doesn't mean I don't like any of them. Don't put words or sentiments in my mouth thanks

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"im a professional. wtf does that mean"

Think it mean one of two things ..

1.they have a job and can't show pics incase caught out!

2.or they are professional fabber

Either way am not so sure to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a professional. wtf does that mean

Think it mean one of two things ..

1.they have a job and can't show pics incase caught out!

2.or they are professional fabber

Either way am not so sure to be honest!"

I think you'll find that's a subtle way of saying I have money. Always been an aphrodisiac lol.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it. "

Agreed. And hopefully the kids will outlive their parents so they will be around forever. Granted they're a lot less demanding on your time and resources as adults but I would always expect a partner to put their kids before me. Even adult children. Each to their own but it's probably best for those who feel differently to not date people with children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it.

Agreed. And hopefully the kids will outlive their parents so they will be around forever. Granted they're a lot less demanding on your time and resources as adults but I would always expect a partner to put their kids before me. Even adult children. Each to their own but it's probably best for those who feel differently to not date people with children. "

OK let me give you a little insight.

When I say they won't be around forever I mean they will eventually move out and have lives of their own.

I'm a father. I'm also in a relationship. Have been for over a decade. I don't disclose that for reasons I won't go into on here I'm not derailing the thread. But I have never ever considered my partner or my son to be in some sort of ranking of importance.

To me that's a terrible thing to do. And anyone that does that to me is a terrible person. That's my feeling on the matter. Make of it what you will but I'm never going to change how I feel.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"No pic no reply from a profile with zero pics on it

Same on here... "
the exact reason I put it in it works for all sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all."

The strong independent woman thing I've always thought to mean they have their own place, own car and own money so they're not looking for a man to bank roll them. I might be wrong but I've found it's an attractive prospect finding a woman who wants you and likes you for who you are not just for what you can materialisticly provide for her.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"OK let me give you a little insight.

When I say they won't be around forever I mean they will eventually move out and have lives of their own.

I'm a father. I'm also in a relationship. Have been for over a decade. I don't disclose that for reasons I won't go into on here I'm not derailing the thread. But I have never ever considered my partner or my son to be in some sort of ranking of importance.

To me that's a terrible thing to do. And anyone that does that to me is a terrible person. That's my feeling on the matter. Make of it what you will but I'm never going to change how I feel."

You do realise the kids come first thing is for the early parts of the relationship right? They have an obligation and responsibility to their kids, not some random person they may begin dating early on. And they are making sure every entitled prick knows it.

Yeah it's cringy to read but so what, it's a fact.

It is making it clear that they have kids and what they need will come before any kinds of demands for a date or attention from "you". If their kids need something then a date will be cancelled etc

Eventually down the line as a potentially partner "you" will have an equal priority to their kids, but until that time comes a potential partner should always be second priority.

Christ if a parent put me before their kids, or even equal before we had been dating a good solid amount of time, I'd be questioning their parenting qualities and would probably break it off with them anyway for that very reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never used one

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it.

Agreed. And hopefully the kids will outlive their parents so they will be around forever. Granted they're a lot less demanding on your time and resources as adults but I would always expect a partner to put their kids before me. Even adult children. Each to their own but it's probably best for those who feel differently to not date people with children.

OK let me give you a little insight.

When I say they won't be around forever I mean they will eventually move out and have lives of their own.

I'm a father. I'm also in a relationship. Have been for over a decade. I don't disclose that for reasons I won't go into on here I'm not derailing the thread. But I have never ever considered my partner or my son to be in some sort of ranking of importance.

To me that's a terrible thing to do. And anyone that does that to me is a terrible person. That's my feeling on the matter. Make of it what you will but I'm never going to change how I feel."

I didn't say you had to change how you feel.

I have encountered people who believe that by being in a relationship with someone they should be the most important person in their life, including above their children. I know people for who it has been a common source of conflict so I can understand why they feel the need to put it on their profile to filter those people out.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"OK let me give you a little insight.

When I say they won't be around forever I mean they will eventually move out and have lives of their own.

I'm a father. I'm also in a relationship. Have been for over a decade. I don't disclose that for reasons I won't go into on here I'm not derailing the thread. But I have never ever considered my partner or my son to be in some sort of ranking of importance.

To me that's a terrible thing to do. And anyone that does that to me is a terrible person. That's my feeling on the matter. Make of it what you will but I'm never going to change how I feel.

You do realise the kids come first thing is for the early parts of the relationship right? They have an obligation and responsibility to their kids, not some random person they may begin dating early on. And they are making sure every entitled prick knows it.

Yeah it's cringy to read but so what, it's a fact.

It is making it clear that they have kids and what they need will come before any kinds of demands for a date or attention from "you". If their kids need something then a date will be cancelled etc

Eventually down the line as a potentially partner "you" will have an equal priority to their kids, but until that time comes a potential partner should always be second priority.

Christ if a parent put me before their kids, or even equal before we had been dating a good solid amount of time, I'd be questioning their parenting qualities and would probably break it off with them anyway for that very reason. "

Honestly I kinda feel like it shouldn't be totally equal. Obviously over time you gain increased priority but if it really comes down to it I think the kids should be first. Obviously if you're very frequently being flaked on in non-emergency situations because they're disorganised and inconsiderate then it's shitty but I think that's a different issue not specific to having children. Obviously it's about how you handle it though. If it's a shared custody situation and they get a rare opportunity to spend extra time with them or attend something important to the kids, I'm not going to want to deny them that even if it means cancelling plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm looking at guys in their 40s and 50s, there is a preponderance of Lycra. One pic on yer bike is enough. Just saying.

Very funny - and I seen same profiles lol

J xx "

For women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it.

I was on a dating site yes. For about 3 days. What a shock that was.

On the point about kids. Yes I agree. However, don't stick it in a guys face before you've even spoken. That's not going to attract anyone.

And by the way. Don't play those games. Just because I find some women detestable doesn't mean I don't like any of them. Don't put words or sentiments in my mouth thanks "

I think you're managing fine on your own. How you can find that level of offence in my words bemuses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it.

Agreed. And hopefully the kids will outlive their parents so they will be around forever. Granted they're a lot less demanding on your time and resources as adults but I would always expect a partner to put their kids before me. Even adult children. Each to their own but it's probably best for those who feel differently to not date people with children.

OK let me give you a little insight.

When I say they won't be around forever I mean they will eventually move out and have lives of their own.

I'm a father. I'm also in a relationship. Have been for over a decade. I don't disclose that for reasons I won't go into on here I'm not derailing the thread. But I have never ever considered my partner or my son to be in some sort of ranking of importance.

To me that's a terrible thing to do. And anyone that does that to me is a terrible person. That's my feeling on the matter. Make of it what you will but I'm never going to change how I feel."

I think you've made a lot of assumptions about some women after 3 days on a dating site. As a single mother looking for a man to date of course my kids take priority. Because they're not adults and for 3 of them I am their primary parent as they don't see their dad. So if a guy takes offence because I say they come first - okay. And btw your assumption about womens expectations of Chris Hemsworth or nothing - YOUR assumption. My last partner was bald, with a beer belly and bow legged. One of the best men I know.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all."

. I’m all those things.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


""I'm a strong independent woman"

Why are you on a dating site then? Are you not aware of the word interdependent?

"I'm a bitch" things of that nature.

Well done, you've just put most of us off. If I want combat I'll join the army.

"My children will always come first"

While I appreciate the sentiment. They won't be around forever and you'll be left with me who you consider 2nd place, no thanks.

The worst though. The very worst. Is when they write out a huge laundry lost of things they want, but then say absolutely nothing about themselves.

I'd avoid dating sites altogether to be honest. Full of vapid, shallow women. And to be honest that fact that most of them are single really isn't any surprise at all.

I don't see what's wrong with saying "independent strong woman" - looking for a partner doesn't make anyone less so. And YOU were on a dating site too!

And kids come first. If a man said that I'd respect him for it. You're putting women down for it.

Agreed. And hopefully the kids will outlive their parents so they will be around forever. Granted they're a lot less demanding on your time and resources as adults but I would always expect a partner to put their kids before me. Even adult children. Each to their own but it's probably best for those who feel differently to not date people with children.

OK let me give you a little insight.

When I say they won't be around forever I mean they will eventually move out and have lives of their own.

I'm a father. I'm also in a relationship. Have been for over a decade. I don't disclose that for reasons I won't go into on here I'm not derailing the thread. But I have never ever considered my partner or my son to be in some sort of ranking of importance.

To me that's a terrible thing to do. And anyone that does that to me is a terrible person. That's my feeling on the matter. Make of it what you will but I'm never going to change how I feel.

I think you've made a lot of assumptions about some women after 3 days on a dating site. As a single mother looking for a man to date of course my kids take priority. Because they're not adults and for 3 of them I am their primary parent as they don't see their dad. So if a guy takes offence because I say they come first - okay. And btw your assumption about womens expectations of Chris Hemsworth or nothing - YOUR assumption. My last partner was bald, with a beer belly and bow legged. One of the best men I know. "

Beryl, did really have to tell everyone what looked like x

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