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By *arkPheonixMAN OP   Man
over a year ago

SOUTH CROYDON

Fetishes/imbalanced/unnatural desires lower sexual energy. Porn is a programme that lowers that sexual energy, hence why you dont feel the same amount of nerve endings you did before, you feel numb. You're watching others have sex and your energy is going nowhere... an illusion, then wonder why your life isnt going as planned. It creates a fog, in the mind and thus missed. So when you feed into it, you get all these fetishes that come with it. These fetishes are programmes that sabotage that energy within you, so now you're relying on this foreign desire to get off??.... its a false satisfaction you feel, and that false satisfaction dampens your energy each time. Your sexual nerve endings/that feeling down there have no limit as to how powerful they can become, you limit that by numbing it with porn etc. Something to think about.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Now I feel dirty. And not in a good way

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Now I feel dirty. And not in a good way "

Dirty Posh ..... Dirty !

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Now I feel dirty. And not in a good way

Dirty Posh ..... Dirty !"

Now I feel dirty and chastised. Which is making me feel more dirty

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Unnatural desires?

By the same token if I watch other people eat a nice meal I'm not going to enjoy my own food as much.

I can't agree with what you say but I do think that there is good problem with younger people watching too much porn. Apparently some young men are suffering ED in normal life because they are so over stimulated by porn that ordinary sex just doesn't cut it. Is that what you're alluding to here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fetishes/imbalanced/unnatural desires lower sexual energy. Porn is a programme that lowers that sexual energy, hence why you dont feel the same amount of nerve endings you did before, you feel numb. You're watching others have sex and your energy is going nowhere... an illusion, then wonder why your life isnt going as planned. It creates a fog, in the mind and thus missed. So when you feed into it, you get all these fetishes that come with it. These fetishes are programmes that sabotage that energy within you, so now you're relying on this foreign desire to get off??.... its a false satisfaction you feel, and that false satisfaction dampens your energy each time. Your sexual nerve endings/that feeling down there have no limit as to how powerful they can become, you limit that by numbing it with porn etc. Something to think about. "

This is a great post. Porn is addictive for the reasons that you give here. It’s short term gratification that seeps into other aspects of lives. Unrealistic expectations that if you don’t have fetishes or at least act them out and get a thrill from them that somehow you aren’t quite normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you define as an unnatural desire?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Sorry OP a tad confused. Are we talking watching porn and fetish online or those partaking in fetish/BDSM activities?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I feel dirty. And not in a good way "

filth bag!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Now I feel dirty. And not in a good way

filth bag! "

Now I feel dirty in a good way

This is a confusing thread for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt a fetish something that is already there whether you watch porn or not. If its a tricky fetish to act out then porn could be the only way you are going to come if you want to, so I wouldnt say the porn makes you worse. I agree with what nicecouple said about the desensitisation of watching too much porn though.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’m deleting my hotlist on here and blocking myself from a well known porn site (no, not the Tunnocks website).

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

How do you define "unnatural desires" op?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

#nofap

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By *arkPheonixMAN OP   Man
over a year ago

SOUTH CROYDON

Porn, giving your energy to someone who does not know you exist. Energy doesn't come back to you. The person on the screen isn't giving you that same love. You don't have to agree, the truth is right there. Its an illusion. Just because something feels good doesn't mean its good for you. It can only feel if you don't truly break down what it is you're doing like I just did. From there you will be naturally more aware of the negative effects, and from there you will grow a distaste towards it and then see the type of thing/energy you were truly seeking that is in alignment with who you truly are, not what porn/an illusion decided for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say so op

I would say it makes it higher well for me anyway

I see something in porn that I wouldn’t think I would like

It peaks my interest then I dive down the rabbit hole off looking for more about it

Till my interest are peaked so much I must try it for my self to see what it’s like

If it’s for me then grate will do it more

If it’s not chalk it up to tryed it didn’t like it bin it

For instance

Watersports

Liked will do again but only with a person I am comfortable with

On the other hand

Ass to mouth

Wasn’t for me

Can say I have tryed will not to again each to they own

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Unnatural desires?

By the same token if I watch other people eat a nice meal I'm not going to enjoy my own food as much.

I can't agree with what you say but I do think that there is good problem with younger people watching too much porn. Apparently some young men are suffering ED in normal life because they are so over stimulated by porn that ordinary sex just doesn't cut it. Is that what you're alluding to here?"

I think that’s the point here, but it’s something that affects women as well apparently.

I disagree with the OP on the point of fetish. I have a spanking fetish. It’s been with me for as long as I have memories (although, obviously it was later in life that it became sexual) and absolutely refuses to go quietly into the night. It’s as much apart of my sexuality as is my desire for cis women.

M

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"#nofap"

Nofap has become a cult like entity ...it started as men helping other men dealing with porn addiction, and now has evolved into some form of mysticism, where there's higher powers and energies involved, where semen retention leads to super powers and becoming an ascended being... it is utterly ridiculous

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Porn, giving your energy to someone who does not know you exist. Energy doesn't come back to you. The person on the screen isn't giving you that same love. You don't have to agree, the truth is right there. Its an illusion. Just because something feels good doesn't mean its good for you. It can only feel if you don't truly break down what it is you're doing like I just did. From there you will be naturally more aware of the negative effects, and from there you will grow a distaste towards it and then see the type of thing/energy you were truly seeking that is in alignment with who you truly are, not what porn/an illusion decided for you"

Think as with any kind of addiction, this is an issue. There is that initial high and then what? I do also believe it can cause desensitisation so more and more extreme things to watch are sought.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Porn, giving your energy to someone who does not know you exist. Energy doesn't come back to you. The person on the screen isn't giving you that same love. You don't have to agree, the truth is right there. Its an illusion. Just because something feels good doesn't mean its good for you. It can only feel if you don't truly break down what it is you're doing like I just did. From there you will be naturally more aware of the negative effects, and from there you will grow a distaste towards it and then see the type of thing/energy you were truly seeking that is in alignment with who you truly are, not what porn/an illusion decided for you"

Ah I understand.

I think as with everything moderation is key. Porn is as old as time (nearly) and lots of us enjoy it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

God knows how this works for me because I don't tend to like the porn of the kinks I have in real life .

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Fetishes/imbalanced/unnatural desires lower sexual energy. Porn is a programme that lowers that sexual energy, hence why you dont feel the same amount of nerve endings you did before, you feel numb. You're watching others have sex and your energy is going nowhere... an illusion, then wonder why your life isnt going as planned. It creates a fog, in the mind and thus missed. So when you feed into it, you get all these fetishes that come with it. These fetishes are programmes that sabotage that energy within you, so now you're relying on this foreign desire to get off??.... its a false satisfaction you feel, and that false satisfaction dampens your energy each time. Your sexual nerve endings/that feeling down there have no limit as to how powerful they can become, you limit that by numbing it with porn etc. Something to think about.

This is a great post. Porn is addictive for the reasons that you give here. It’s short term gratification that seeps into other aspects of lives. Unrealistic expectations that if you don’t have fetishes or at least act them out and get a thrill from them that somehow you aren’t quite normal"

It’s worse than most addictions, law of diminishing marginal utility applies to porn and sexual performance

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By *arkPheonixMAN OP   Man
over a year ago

SOUTH CROYDON

Bdsm/pain, being dominant or submissive. Wanting someone call you daddy, calling them mommy, mistress. That person is lacking those nerve endings/neural pathways that will allow them to naturally feel submissive or dominant in the act of sex. That euporhia/pleasure. Someone who likes to be submissive is lacking oxytocin. Attraction to sissies is another unnatural desire that many women here seem to have. And same sex attraction is another. Any unnatural desire, you will see lacks logic once you start to see it for what it is/break it down. They don't make sense.

Adultbaby is another unnatural desire. So many. These problems occur in the first place because many are not in a mode of creativity/bliss within their life. Whether it be creating music, exercise/sports, hobbies in general, particularly those that allow you to be creative. Those things that you desire but give false reasons/excuses as to why you can't do them... When you starve parts of yourself of true joy you allow false joy to enter your life.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Bdsm/pain, being dominant or submissive. Wanting someone call you daddy, calling them mommy, mistress. That person is lacking those nerve endings/neural pathways that will allow them to naturally feel submissive or dominant in the act of sex. That euporhia/pleasure. Someone who likes to be submissive is lacking oxytocin. Attraction to sissies is another unnatural desire that many women here seem to have. And same sex attraction is another. Any unnatural desire, you will see lacks logic once you start to see it for what it is/break it down. They don't make sense.

Adultbaby is another unnatural desire. So many. These problems occur in the first place because many are not in a mode of creativity/bliss within their life. Whether it be creating music, exercise/sports, hobbies in general, particularly those that allow you to be creative. Those things that you desire but give false reasons/excuses as to why you can't do them... When you starve parts of yourself of true joy you allow false joy to enter your life. "

Say what?? I have plenty of kinks. But I have a job that requires creative thinking on a daily basis. Go to dance classes and just finished a tapestry seat cover for my granddad's chair and about to start a Victorian floral heart shaped cushion (which I'm very excited to start once the frame arrives). So nope don't agree with you, again as with everything in life everything in moderation.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Bdsm/pain, being dominant or submissive. Wanting someone call you daddy, calling them mommy, mistress. That person is lacking those nerve endings/neural pathways that will allow them to naturally feel submissive or dominant in the act of sex. That euporhia/pleasure. Someone who likes to be submissive is lacking oxytocin. Attraction to sissies is another unnatural desire that many women here seem to have. And same sex attraction is another. Any unnatural desire, you will see lacks logic once you start to see it for what it is/break it down. They don't make sense.

Adultbaby is another unnatural desire. So many. These problems occur in the first place because many are not in a mode of creativity/bliss within their life. Whether it be creating music, exercise/sports, hobbies in general, particularly those that allow you to be creative. Those things that you desire but give false reasons/excuses as to why you can't do them... When you starve parts of yourself of true joy you allow false joy to enter your life. "

Can you define "natural desire"?

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By *arkPheonixMAN OP   Man
over a year ago

SOUTH CROYDON

Fetishes occur because of a damaged mindset. Look at the society we're in. We're taught to do things without reason, since kids. There's so much mental illness and depression. The TV, binging episodes of characters/horror movies, liking to be frightened. The video games.. everything is designed to take away energy from those parts of yourself that you have not discovered or have long lost abandoned. Everyone's buying clothes but not creating their own clothing also. Everyone's eating but not creating their own recipes. Everyone consumes and doesn't produce/create. And because the majority consumes, they are consumed by everything around them. We're limited, and its because in general ppl limit themselves mentally. Hardly anyone is creative and takes a look at their mindset, to challenge those things that are causing them harm. Majority want to watch fiction/superhero, to falsely immerse themself in the scenario but no one to figure out how to bring these things to reality. Thinking on a higher level. Look all around and within, its a mess

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Bdsm/pain, being dominant or submissive. Wanting someone call you daddy, calling them mommy, mistress. That person is lacking those nerve endings/neural pathways that will allow them to naturally feel submissive or dominant in the act of sex. That euporhia/pleasure. Someone who likes to be submissive is lacking oxytocin. Attraction to sissies is another unnatural desire that many women here seem to have. And same sex attraction is another. Any unnatural desire, you will see lacks logic once you start to see it for what it is/break it down. They don't make sense.

Adultbaby is another unnatural desire. So many. These problems occur in the first place because many are not in a mode of creativity/bliss within their life. Whether it be creating music, exercise/sports, hobbies in general, particularly those that allow you to be creative. Those things that you desire but give false reasons/excuses as to why you can't do them... When you starve parts of yourself of true joy you allow false joy to enter your life. "

If you don’t think sexual activity can be creative, then you have missed the fundamental point of sex.

There are no unnatural desires, other than those created by society, which is a controlled system, so I am a little lost. We are basically animals, if we have desires, varied and all encompassing, they are born of a natural process, limiting these desires because of what is deemed acceptable (in any point in time, culture or place) is wholly unnatural and actually limits our energy.

Humans have always learned through exploring, experimenting and mimicry.

You propose the opposite, based on a narrow definition of natural and unnatural, and I cannot agree.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Fetishes occur because of a damaged mindset. Look at the society we're in. We're taught to do things without reason, since kids. There's so much mental illness and depression. The TV, binging episodes of characters/horror movies, liking to be frightened. The video games.. everything is designed to take away energy from those parts of yourself that you have not discovered or have long lost abandoned. Everyone's buying clothes but not creating their own clothing also. Everyone's eating but not creating their own recipes. Everyone consumes and doesn't produce/create. And because the majority consumes, they are consumed by everything around them. We're limited, and its because in general ppl limit themselves mentally. Hardly anyone is creative and takes a look at their mindset, to challenge those things that are causing them harm. Majority want to watch fiction/superhero, to falsely immerse themself in the scenario but no one to figure out how to bring these things to reality. Thinking on a higher level. Look all around and within, its a mess"

much of what you say here is demonstrably untrue.

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By *arkPheonixMAN OP   Man
over a year ago

SOUTH CROYDON

Anything that that makes you feel good, but also makes sense logically. There has to be ying yang. Anything that pertains to that person you are having sex with. Their body parts etc. Many tend to do more than needed such as roleplays, fake scenarios because they're trying to fill a gap in their sexual energy. But what they're looking for isn't that, its a certain mindset thats why everyone needs to work on their mindset. Once you remove negative habits/thought patterns you begin to see what is natural to you. Not your current perception of what natural is, but what natural really is.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Bdsm/pain, being dominant or submissive. Wanting someone call you daddy, calling them mommy, mistress. That person is lacking those nerve endings/neural pathways that will allow them to naturally feel submissive or dominant in the act of sex. That euporhia/pleasure. Someone who likes to be submissive is lacking oxytocin. Attraction to sissies is another unnatural desire that many women here seem to have. And same sex attraction is another. Any unnatural desire, you will see lacks logic once you start to see it for what it is/break it down. They don't make sense.

Adultbaby is another unnatural desire. So many. These problems occur in the first place because many are not in a mode of creativity/bliss within their life. Whether it be creating music, exercise/sports, hobbies in general, particularly those that allow you to be creative. Those things that you desire but give false reasons/excuses as to why you can't do them... When you starve parts of yourself of true joy you allow false joy to enter your life. "

Same sex attraction is unnatural and due to porn even though it exists in other species that have never encountered the internet in their life? Or is there some secret penguin porn studio set up somewhere?

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over a year ago


"Fetishes/imbalanced/unnatural desires lower sexual energy. Porn is a programme that lowers that sexual energy, hence why you dont feel the same amount of nerve endings you did before, you feel numb. You're watching others have sex and your energy is going nowhere... an illusion, then wonder why your life isnt going as planned. It creates a fog, in the mind and thus missed. So when you feed into it, you get all these fetishes that come with it. These fetishes are programmes that sabotage that energy within you, so now you're relying on this foreign desire to get off??.... its a false satisfaction you feel, and that false satisfaction dampens your energy each time. Your sexual nerve endings/that feeling down there have no limit as to how powerful they can become, you limit that by numbing it with porn etc. Something to think about. "

Nope don’t believe it. Not being sexually active for 5 years zapped the nerve endings, if you don’t use it you lose it - that’s true!

Now I am sexually active again I actually feel better for it, still working on those nerve endings though

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its not a damaged mindset, it's some one who is very aware of the endorphins that make them feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bdsm/pain, being dominant or submissive. Wanting someone call you daddy, calling them mommy, mistress. That person is lacking those nerve endings/neural pathways that will allow them to naturally feel submissive or dominant in the act of sex. That euporhia/pleasure. Someone who likes to be submissive is lacking oxytocin. Attraction to sissies is another unnatural desire that many women here seem to have. And same sex attraction is another. Any unnatural desire, you will see lacks logic once you start to see it for what it is/break it down. They don't make sense.

Adultbaby is another unnatural desire. So many. These problems occur in the first place because many are not in a mode of creativity/bliss within their life. Whether it be creating music, exercise/sports, hobbies in general, particularly those that allow you to be creative. Those things that you desire but give false reasons/excuses as to why you can't do them... When you starve parts of yourself of true joy you allow false joy to enter your life.

Same sex attraction is unnatural and due to porn even though it exists in other species that have never encountered the internet in their life? Or is there some secret penguin porn studio set up somewhere? "

Same sex attraction isn’t unnatural - it happens in serval species, not just penguins, it also happens with Bonobos (Pygmy chimpanzees) they will have lesbian sex, an older female will have sex with a much younger male… etc,

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anything that that makes you feel good, but also makes sense logically. There has to be ying yang. Anything that pertains to that person you are having sex with. Their body parts etc. Many tend to do more than needed such as roleplays, fake scenarios because they're trying to fill a gap in their sexual energy. But what they're looking for isn't that, its a certain mindset thats why everyone needs to work on their mindset. Once you remove negative habits/thought patterns you begin to see what is natural to you. Not your current perception of what natural is, but what natural really is. "

If you click on reply+quote we can see who you're replying to.

I respect your right to hold your opinions on this subject but I wholeheartedly disagree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, Elephants, Giraffes, Dolphins, Japanese Macaques to name a few… not that unnatural - it’s only said in that bible that we mustn’t and that it’s a sin, but it also says love that neighbour.

Am not religious by the way. But have studied the thing!

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"Fetishes/imbalanced/unnatural desires lower sexual energy. Porn is a programme that lowers that sexual energy, hence why you dont feel the same amount of nerve endings you did before, you feel numb. You're watching others have sex and your energy is going nowhere... an illusion, then wonder why your life isnt going as planned. It creates a fog, in the mind and thus missed. So when you feed into it, you get all these fetishes that come with it. These fetishes are programmes that sabotage that energy within you, so now you're relying on this foreign desire to get off??.... its a false satisfaction you feel, and that false satisfaction dampens your energy each time. Your sexual nerve endings/that feeling down there have no limit as to how powerful they can become, you limit that by numbing it with porn etc. Something to think about. "

What utter b***s!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fetishes/imbalanced/unnatural desires lower sexual energy. Porn is a programme that lowers that sexual energy, hence why you dont feel the same amount of nerve endings you did before, you feel numb. You're watching others have sex and your energy is going nowhere... an illusion, then wonder why your life isnt going as planned. It creates a fog, in the mind and thus missed. So when you feed into it, you get all these fetishes that come with it. These fetishes are programmes that sabotage that energy within you, so now you're relying on this foreign desire to get off??.... its a false satisfaction you feel, and that false satisfaction dampens your energy each time. Your sexual nerve endings/that feeling down there have no limit as to how powerful they can become, you limit that by numbing it with porn etc. Something to think about. "

Menopause also gives this woman lower sexual energy.

Thank god for fetishes' to lift me back up again! It's been a natural over 25 year experience ....

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

These are clearly opinions you feel strongly about OP, it does make me wonder why on earth you decided to join this site.

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Porn is as old as the human race. There are cave paintings depicting images of the vulva that have been dated as from 37,000 years ago.

When humans invented fire, they thought "great - now we can see porn after the sun has gone down".

Whilst I can see that porn can be addictive and no addiction is good, in moderation it's generally a healthy thing.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Why do people give the time of day to people like OP who spout falsity thinking they are prophets. If they spout falsity then there is no debate with them. The correct response is:

"You are talking falsity, and I have lost time that can't be regained by reading your post. One day you will be truly enlightened."

Only the desire not to get a ban prevents me from being blunter. You can replace falsity with another blunter term.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Bdsm/pain, being dominant or submissive. Wanting someone call you daddy, calling them mommy, mistress. That person is lacking those nerve endings/neural pathways that will allow them to naturally feel submissive or dominant in the act of sex. That euporhia/pleasure. Someone who likes to be submissive is lacking oxytocin. Attraction to sissies is another unnatural desire that many women here seem to have. And same sex attraction is another. Any unnatural desire, you will see lacks logic once you start to see it for what it is/break it down. They don't make sense.

Adultbaby is another unnatural desire. So many. These problems occur in the first place because many are not in a mode of creativity/bliss within their life. Whether it be creating music, exercise/sports, hobbies in general, particularly those that allow you to be creative. Those things that you desire but give false reasons/excuses as to why you can't do them... When you starve parts of yourself of true joy you allow false joy to enter your life.

Same sex attraction is unnatural and due to porn even though it exists in other species that have never encountered the internet in their life? Or is there some secret penguin porn studio set up somewhere?

Same sex attraction isn’t unnatural - it happens in serval species, not just penguins, it also happens with Bonobos (Pygmy chimpanzees) they will have lesbian sex, an older female will have sex with a much younger male… etc, "

I didn't say it was just penguins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people give the time of day to people like OP who spout falsity thinking they are prophets. If they spout falsity then there is no debate with them. The correct response is:

"You are talking falsity, and I have lost time that can't be regained by reading your post. One day you will be truly enlightened."

Only the desire not to get a ban prevents me from being blunter. You can replace falsity with another blunter term. "

Here here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people give the time of day to people like OP who spout falsity thinking they are prophets. If they spout falsity then there is no debate with them. The correct response is:

"You are talking falsity, and I have lost time that can't be regained by reading your post. One day you will be truly enlightened."

Only the desire not to get a ban prevents me from being blunter. You can replace falsity with another blunter term. "

Yes. I think the OP enjoys opining on his subject and this thread is not a discussion or a debate, merely the word of the prophet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people give the time of day to people like OP who spout falsity thinking they are prophets. If they spout falsity then there is no debate with them. The correct response is:

"You are talking falsity, and I have lost time that can't be regained by reading your post. One day you will be truly enlightened."

Only the desire not to get a ban prevents me from being blunter. You can replace falsity with another blunter term.

Yes. I think the OP enjoys opining on his subject and this thread is not a discussion or a debate, merely the word of the prophet. "

I think you have nailed it

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Cool story bro

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"Porn is as old as the human race. There are cave paintings depicting images of the vulva that have been dated as from 37,000 years ago.

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Those volvos really do last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fetishes occur because of a damaged mindset. Look at the society we're in. We're taught to do things without reason, since kids. There's so much mental illness and depression. The TV, binging episodes of characters/horror movies, liking to be frightened. The video games.. everything is designed to take away energy from those parts of yourself that you have not discovered or have long lost abandoned. Everyone's buying clothes but not creating their own clothing also. Everyone's eating but not creating their own recipes. Everyone consumes and doesn't produce/create. And because the majority consumes, they are consumed by everything around them. We're limited, and its because in general ppl limit themselves mentally. Hardly anyone is creative and takes a look at their mindset, to challenge those things that are causing them harm. Majority want to watch fiction/superhero, to falsely immerse themself in the scenario but no one to figure out how to bring these things to reality. Thinking on a higher level. Look all around and within, its a mess"

Wow ...just wow why does this feel like fab has been infiltrated by some cult leader hmm first of all fetishes don't occur because of a "damaged mindset" is this what you were made to believe? There are many reasons why kinks,fetishes manifest and most are found out by our own free will to experiment, mainly by accident or... get this curiosity!! also you know this is FAB right.. and you're on it is that down to a damaged mindset or something else?

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Give the guy some slack ..he obviously has a few issues... living in Croydon one of them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I had fettishes years before I ever watched any porn

Explain that away.

Some of us are just born with an inbuilt kink desire and I am for one, pretty happy with it.

As for my energy levels, I seem to have more stamina and go longer if I include kink.

Explanation.... I doubt you'd find one.

Each to their own thoughts, fine. But don't try to tar us all with the 'Porn addict' brush. It's quite offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is something to consider but you appear to be stating it as fact.

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

A guy on a sex site preaching about sexuality - oh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you define as an unnatural desire?"

Supporting Liverpool?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Mate, stop reading stuff on the internet. You'll be much happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate, stop reading stuff on the internet. You'll be much happier.

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Haha made me chuckle

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Mate, stop reading stuff on the internet. You'll be much happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate, stop reading stuff on the internet. You'll be much happier.

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Or Mein Kampf

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Fetishes/imbalanced/unnatural desires lower sexual energy. Porn is a programme that lowers that sexual energy, hence why you dont feel the same amount of nerve endings you did before, you feel numb. You're watching others have sex and your energy is going nowhere... an illusion, then wonder why your life isnt going as planned. It creates a fog, in the mind and thus missed. So when you feed into it, you get all these fetishes that come with it. These fetishes are programmes that sabotage that energy within you, so now you're relying on this foreign desire to get off??.... its a false satisfaction you feel, and that false satisfaction dampens your energy each time. Your sexual nerve endings/that feeling down there have no limit as to how powerful they can become, you limit that by numbing it with porn etc. Something to think about. "

Fetish play, to me, is a move from heavy domestic energy into light fun energy, a break from day to day life.

Once read a man climbed to the top of a mountain to ask a Yogi to teach him peace and enlightenment.

The yogi said, “I can’t, you come with to many people,”

“There is no one with me,” the man replied.

“Look inside yourself, you bring your partner, children , bank manager, your parents”.

Fet play will take you to a level beyond cognitive thought to a level of enlightenment beyond the people you bring with you.

However, agree porn tends to create a fantasy that doesn’t fulfil a physical/emotional balance of moving away from domestic energy.

The state the Inca used to call it free energy, Salka.

I have never known a fet play that isn’t a rollercoaster of emotion with a byproduct of vulnerability in the domestic world.

One thing I have found there is always an emotional learning and energy cleansing.

Hey, this is how I frame it, still my half glass is always brimming over.

Appreciate this is just my perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I feel dirty. And not in a good way

Dirty Posh ..... Dirty !

Now I feel dirty and chastised. Which is making me feel more dirty "

In a good way this time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Porn, giving your energy to someone who does not know you exist. Energy doesn't come back to you. The person on the screen isn't giving you that same love. You don't have to agree, the truth is right there. Its an illusion. Just because something feels good doesn't mean its good for you. It can only feel if you don't truly break down what it is you're doing like I just did. From there you will be naturally more aware of the negative effects, and from there you will grow a distaste towards it and then see the type of thing/energy you were truly seeking that is in alignment with who you truly are, not what porn/an illusion decided for you"

Did Jesus tell you this in a dream?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn was gifted by the Lord to make the world a better place......then he gifted us the potato.

Ponder deep the connection and may the mighty sky bridge carry you far.

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