FabSwingers.com forum: Do you kiss at a social meet?

By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

Following on from a thread about kissing and most saying kissing is essential,it's not always easy to do for several reasons and would be such a disappointment if you only find that out when alone together for the first time that his/her kisses are not what you were hoping for.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

on the cheek yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me , its a massive turn on and i love having a womans tongue deep in my mouth . Never had an awkward moment on a meet all mine have been great kissers . Hope i donr come across a shit one . Surely everyone can kiss properly its 2022 lol

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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

"Kissing is a must for me , its a massive turn on and i love having a womans tongue deep in my mouth . Never had an awkward moment on a meet all mine have been great kissers . Hope i donr come across a shit one . Surely everyone can kiss properly its 2022 lol "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes. A few people I’ve met use it for a test on socials, good idea really, if you don't enjoy kissing them it’s not going any further

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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"on the cheek yes."

This

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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

"Yes. A few people I’ve met use it for a test on socials, good idea really, if you don't enjoy kissing them it’s not going any further "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. A few people I’ve met use it for a test on socials, good idea really, if you don't enjoy kissing them it’s not going any further "

Everytime ive had a meet we have kissed yes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends. I wouldn’t full on snog someone outside Costa in the daytime no! Night time after a pub in the car park I have.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes usually kiss on the cheek when we meet or leave a social, definitely kiss on a meet though its a big part for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a kiss on the cheek if I liked him enough x

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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

"Yes. A few people I’ve met use it for a test on socials, good idea really, if you don't enjoy kissing them it’s not going any further "
I usually do and mention it in conversation at a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s a good way of telling whether they’re into you sexually! Go for a kiss and if they’re not into it you can always tell…either the slap in the face or the difference between passion and just a wee peck.

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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

"Depends. I wouldn’t full on snog someone outside Costa in the daytime no! Night time after a pub in the car park I have. "
Yes daytime socials have that downside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Coffee socials, it’s often a hug and a peck. But evening drinks, there’s usually a snog involved (unless I don’t fancy him, but I usually kiss anyone if tipsy enough!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I felt a connection to test the water for another meet. If the kissing isn't any good it's a no for another meet . If the social gets a friendzone it's a cheek kiss.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

If I really want to shag him, I will have a little snog on a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the social really. Kiss on the cheek for sure. If I feel its going really well and the spark is there, then I'll go in for a try. But it's not a deal breaker if there's no kissing on a 1st social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a deffo in my book. Think it makes them more attractive and gives me the horn haha

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Yes I have a few times. And some I’ve not if it’s not gone anywhere. But one will live with me forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have always kissed on socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes one on the cheek, if the spark was there after a proper kiss maybe on the cards but thats one of them you play by ear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. First social meet is just a social. If they can't behave in public I won't meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Social is much too soon for any physical contact for me.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Yes one on the cheek, if the spark was there after a proper kiss maybe on the cards but thats one of them you play by ear

This! Totally depends, if there's a spark then a kiss is definitely on the cards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would entirely depend on the man and the situation. I have done in the past and would if it felt right.

If I do, it's a great predictor for future meetings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet to me is going to the pub with mates.

I don’t kiss my mates, it would be weird.. and gay.

When I go on a date I’ll kiss her.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sometimes maybe yes, sometimes maybe no

LvM

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By *opper13Man
over a year ago

chepstow

Kissing is a must to start a session . Yum yum

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Following on from a thread about kissing and most saying kissing is essential,it's not always easy to do for several reasons and would be such a disappointment if you only find that out when alone together for the first time that his/her kisses are not what you were hoping for. "

For a first social meet, I will always greet with a kiss on the cheek. If the meet has gone well, and ‘that’ feeling is there, I will cheekily broach the subject of a proper kiss, and take it from there……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

I alway start with a kiss on the cheek and see how the meeting goes… if it goes well then of course a cheeky kiss… you can tell a lot in a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it goes that way absolutely, if the chemistrys there why wait until next time!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes as long as the lady moves in first.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"on the cheek yes."

Maybe a hug as well if its agreeable

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Yep, if I am interested and they are showing the same, then 100% will go for a kiss

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Then bum.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Apparently not... I kissed a guy the other week and he was like "oh wow, you use your tongue" I mean, I thought that was the norm!

If I'm considering a meet, I always try to get a kiss if we're somewhere private enough. If the kiss isn't any good, it won't go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I am meeting on the social.

If it's a male, and we have gone for a coffee, chat has gone well, there is enough chemistry to suggest both are interested, then I would go for a kiss, as that is usually the deal breaker for me on whether I would want to pursue a meet.

If it's a couple, no I don't initially. I like to have a few socials with a couple to get to know them both first

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes as long as the lady moves in first."

We wouldn’t get far, as I like the bloke to initiate it

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!"

See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!

See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves."

Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and did last week

if there’s an attraction, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!

See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.

Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have."

Yeah, you strike me as a total gent to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but sometimes I hesitate as in my head kissing is Abit too intimate.. still do it tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh peck on the cheek to say hello and as we leave. We like to chat to ladies a little before a social so we havd already got to know them a bit before meeting so it has always felt right

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!

See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.

Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have."

A social is usually the first time I've met someone, I don't want them getting all handsy, when I've been polite and friendly.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!

See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.

Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have.

Yeah, you strike me as a total gent to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I definitely would if I felt an attraction and sensed the other person felt the same way.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Kissing is more intimate than intercourse for me. I will give people a kiss on the cheek but I have to know someone and fancy them for more to give an intimate kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!

See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.

Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have.

A social is usually the first time I've met someone, I don't want them getting all handsy, when I've been polite and friendly. "

That is absolutely fair enough too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends really...

if there is attraction, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I usually let the girl make that move as I wouldn’t want to be too foreward, but then again she could be touching up my leg and I’d still do nothing as I’m a guy so I’m bad at taking hints lol. But usually leave it to the lady to kiss me so I’m not pushing any boundaries

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I think you just know if it's right. There's body language, and actual language to guide you.

Obviously, you're not gonna go full caveman, but either a nice lip or cheek kiss finishes it off nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. If they are rubbish at kissing then i know they will be rubbish at other things. Can tell a lot through hoe someone kisses. I always let the guys make the move but i let my intentions be known

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I’d always kiss on a social of I liked him and Iv had sex in the car after a social when it’s gone well and I decided why not.

I have also done the full on kissing after a day time Costa social With someone from here. Although it was next to my car which wasn’t in full view of lots of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say no but probably if I had arranged a social it would be just that because I wasnt planning on having sex. I dont know, I used to arrange sex meets for sex which makes me sound terribly forward but I wanted to get straight down it. Virtual kissing would have been done by messages

I might try some tantalising socials though, stir my loins a bit and get a faraway look in our eyes until we can bear it no longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never kiss on a social meet other than a peck on the cheek at the beginning and end.

There was one exception to this rule and I knew that it was the right thing to do as I didn’t want it to be just a casual thing right from the off. And yes it was TG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give a kiss on the cheek and a weird side hug thing when saying goodbye. Not bold enough to make the first move for anything more.

Need clarification afterwards that they don't think I'm a gremlin

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Give a kiss on the cheek and a weird side hug thing when saying goodbye. Not bold enough to make the first move for anything more.

Need clarification afterwards that they don't think I'm a gremlin

Happy to confirm, you're anything but a gremlin x

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