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How long is too long without sex?

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By *iggle 321 OP   Man
over a year ago

pR

Going on seven years for me now! Can anyone top that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? 7 years?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

As for not meeting anybody on here. A blank profile with no text won't help

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By *iggle 321 OP   Man
over a year ago

pR

Will be seven in April lol ... right arm like popeye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for not meeting anybody on here. A blank profile with no text won't help "

Bears no relevance to the thread, and he didn’t ask for a profile critique.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

7 days is too long

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN


"Will be seven in April lol ... right arm like popeye! "

How come 7 years? That's mental. Your a decent looking bloke so Why have you not had sex?

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By *iggle 321 OP   Man
over a year ago

pR

I know.... but I live in a village and the lampposts have ears and eyes!

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By *iggle 321 OP   Man
over a year ago

pR

Very kind of you to say man.... I’m just as baffled! I can knock off the past two years for obvious reasons but the five before that is a mystery!

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

6 days

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By *iggle 321 OP   Man
over a year ago

pR

Lol

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By *iggle 321 OP   Man
over a year ago

pR

Sorry I don’t know how to reply to each message as it goes on the wall. Still haven’t worked this out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6 hours...

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

How long is too long? About five hours.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

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Do you never go anywhere else?

My longest spell was nearly 3 years..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going on seven years for me now! Can anyone top that? "

There are folks on here who have unfortunately clocked up decades, so you’re by no means close to the trophy….. if that’s any consolation.

I ended a hiatus of just over three years in Jan, so multiple years is relatively common, even here.

As for what’s too long; however long makes you miserable about it is too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 3 years. Considering how much I love sex, it was quite liberating. It was also really crap and frustrated the hell out of me at times

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've gone 10 years at one stage with zero sexual contact or the intimate touch of another human being. It's the reason now that I don't obsess over sex and it's not a priority but is always a bonus when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a time I went without it for 9 years. To be fair, I was living with my parents

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Going on seven years for me now! Can anyone top that? "

You need to move east over the sea

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre-pandemic. That’s too long.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A maybe more than three years. Wow that sounds bad when you say it out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three years for me a few years back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will be seven in April lol ... right arm like popeye!

How come 7 years? That's mental. Your a decent looking bloke so Why have you not had sex? "

I was going to ask exactly the same thing. It must be through choice surely.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"I know.... but I live in a village and the lampposts have ears and eyes! "

Come on... There must have been a power cut you could have taken advantage of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question always is do you want sex (in a mechanical, scratching an itch sense), or do you want something more meaningful

Chances are if you've gone so ling without it's the later.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The question always is do you want sex (in a mechanical, scratching an itch sense), or do you want something more meaningful

Chances are if you've gone so ling without it's the later."
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a decade for me (yes seriously).

It doesn't matter though, you learn to live without it, so it's not a big deal.

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Longest I have ever gone without sex was around 9 months.

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport


"The question always is do you want sex (in a mechanical, scratching an itch sense), or do you want something more meaningful

Chances are if you've gone so ling without it's the later."

I agree with you but 7 years is a long time not to have had a relationship either

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

3 years counting into 4 am I cracking up nope

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

No one on here ever needs to go too long, there’s always someone willing to oblige

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question always is do you want sex (in a mechanical, scratching an itch sense), or do you want something more meaningful

Chances are if you've gone so ling without it's the later.

I agree with you but 7 years is a long time not to have had a relationship either"

My last relationship was in 1995 , longest without any sex or intimacy of any sort was about 8 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 days for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going on seven years for me now! Can anyone top that? "

Cheers to another miserable 7 years!

You sound like you’re bragging about it so yeah…cheers to that!

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

[Removed by poster at 19/02/22 00:05:26]

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

The last time was half a decade a go, it gets easier to go without it as the time goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question always is do you want sex (in a mechanical, scratching an itch sense), or do you want something more meaningful

Chances are if you've gone so ling without it's the later."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally get the itch after about two days, gets really bad after a week, practically unbearable after 2 weeks and stays at that level of frustration all the way out to 6 weeks at which point it tails off rapidly and stop thinking about it a day later. Some of the longer deployments were utterly horrible as they were in very hot places that just made it so much worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with most here, seems if you have it regularly, then you expect and need it more but whe i was away for 3 months at a time after about 6 weeks didn't really think about it - or just focused on other things like work. Don't think i could last 1 year (or 7 ) though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one on here ever needs to go too long, there’s always someone willing to oblige"

But not necessarily easy to find at all.

As an open marriaged, bearded, dad-bodded, comfortably middle-aged, non-accommodating, straight, vanilla, averagely endowed man, I can tell you the options are extremely limited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest 6 months during a mental health breakdown.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

It's been frustratingly sporadic this last year, I think 3 months was the longest without and I really didn't like that at all

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"No one on here ever needs to go too long, there’s always someone willing to oblige"
That is right, it also depends how far one is wants to travel too.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"No one on here ever needs to go too long, there’s always someone willing to obligeThat is right, it also depends how far one is wants to travel too."

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

2 years currently and not even bothered. Unless there is a combustible spark that you can see from space I’m not interested anymore.

Casual sex is extremely over rated.

I’m just here for the cock pics and boing videos these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I'm 44 and I don't think I will have sex again. So that could be 40 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your pussy starts to scab over, it's been too long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone a few months when really ill. But at least a couple of times a month or I really struggle. Normally a few times a week, time and health permitting xx

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By *ony tunnelMan
over a year ago

birkenhead

Getting on 30 yrs,due to two major illnesses,and looking after mum and dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question always is do you want sex (in a mechanical, scratching an itch sense), or do you want something more meaningful

Chances are if you've gone so ling without it's the later."

I think there's something to this, if it's literally just sex it can usually be sought if you are willing to compromise a number of different personal factors..(not to downplay whatever barriers you may be facing)

I don't have sex very often btw.. self sex on the other hand (lol).. it would seem that 2 hours is too long!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Will be seven in April lol ... right arm like popeye! "

Spread the love; 98, 99, change hands…..

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Once went 3 and a half years with out it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long.

And I was ok with until very recently.

Now I’m counting the days until I do again.

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By *iggle 321 OP   Man
over a year ago

pR

Thank you for your feedback.... lots to think about and hopefully it won’t be another seven years!

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