FabSwingers.com forum: Did this site make you Bi?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is my first ever forum post on hope only one. Did this site encourage male on male fun and bi interaction with you as its a sex site or do you think it was always there? Also why did males seem to admit bi during covid? And be more open..is it just me? Some males may not want to comment but try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the mad house

No this site didn’t I was bi long before fab was a thing

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By *lim_funMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

I dabbled growing up out of curiosity . Turns out I'm just a horny bast. I don't mind the odd play but but it was more a journey if discovery to sound cliche.

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

Hi all this site definitely made me bi opened up a whole new world including my ass

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always like same sex so I always knew but lots of bi cpl only fun goes on and many people try same sex on here? I know males do for the first time. I wonder if theres the option too easily on here to sway or try for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dabbled growing up out of curiosity . Turns out I'm just a horny bast. I don't mind the odd play but but it was more a journey if discovery to sound cliche."

Did that discovery mainly happen on here? You horny *ast

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By *lim_funMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

No, never struggled hooking up with same sex irl so went on gaydar (which was better many years ago)

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Making me think haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think then post ha,I dont even need to think. I wanna know if people was persuaded coerced,manipulated,drawn,"sucked into" on here to try ha I wonder if guys only met a guy because of this site or a tv/ts/cd? Its all available like a menu but life aint like that unless you search? Be honest str8 men dont target guy but guys target straight men (some)

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By *ouple692021Couple
over a year ago

focabers

We seem to attract every bi curious man out there who wants to try

I wonder as a couple does having a woman present make it more ok ??

Female writing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello OP, welcome to the Forum and congratulations on your first post.

In terms of my sexuality, it hasn’t ‘encouraged’ me to be any way other than how I have always been. I am straight, not even remotely curious nor have any desire to touch another man’s body, especially his penis except in a severe medical emergency.

What it has done is afforded me a better understanding of women’s sexuality where I once had a very limited experience of it and found I am not strange, alone or despicable for my preferences.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Nothing 'makes' anyone, it's just undiscovered. All this site does is provide the opportunity to experiment with our sexuality, a path to discovery.

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We dont like labels. We do like having fun though

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By *lim_funMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

I think for someone with a very strict hetro upbringing it kinda justifies it for them...for me it's a third wheel which can lead to tag teams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think websites have anything to do with you being attracted to guys/girls if you’re not already.

Might add a dimension to your sex life but it won’t ‘make you’ bi or gay or straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been off and on here for years, never been tempted to be anything but straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing 'makes' anyone, it's just undiscovered. All this site does is provide the opportunity to experiment with our sexuality, a path to discovery."

Maybe I should of phrased it as did this site open opportunities they may of never explored in life? or atleast fast tracked it

i say these things because I met same sex who never explored that b4 and I feel this site makes it well easy or many options?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been off and on here for years, never been tempted to be anything but straight. "

I have a question did you ever try or want to be with a cpl before you joined here? I never really thought about a 3some till joined here or even thought joining a cpl was a thing lol..but Wow

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.

I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I definitely think that’s a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hetro-flexible

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

No I have been bisexual for probably 30 years but possibility of meeting bi couples only presented themselves on this site

Before that meetings were either males or females

Thank goodness for fabswingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not, I’ve seen enough cock on here that confirms I definitely wouldn’t put one in my mouth.

The mr

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I've always been curious, certainly a little dabbling/experimenting as a teen, then not a lot else as I stared getting into various straight relationships that, that element was suppressed.

It wasn't until I meet the wife and we started on our path of swinging and joining here that I opened up to her about experimenting and being curious. Things started to change and I have been able to expand my experiences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.

I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious. "

Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

My answer would be there you go suck away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More interested in why you hop this is your only post, is this the only topic that has any interest for you?

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

This isint my only post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, this site made me frustrated..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This isint my only post"

I didn’t quote you, I meant the OP

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Nah. Love fanny too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It made me bi - a site supporter pass that is.

Amirite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, the site doesn’t ‘make’ you bisexual. But for me, it’s helped me to embrace it more and to accept who I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was getting bicurious for women before Fab, my straight male friend told me about the site. It is what made me join on original profile about 4 or 5 years ago.

Although I have not acted on it yet and it comes and goes in cycles, I will say that Fab is a great place for bicurious people whichever way they are swaying from.

It is probably the only place I am likely to proceed comfortably with it in time, likely through MMF which I was close to doing few times originally on here. Although not in a current bicurious phase as such upon rejoining, it is slowly igniting again just being on here

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I was getting bicurious for women before Fab, my straight male friend told me about the site. It is what made me join on original profile about 4 or 5 years ago.

Although I have not acted on it yet and it comes and goes in cycles, I will say that Fab is a great place for bicurious people whichever way they are swaying from.

Is it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha, no!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.

I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.

Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?"

Yes of course I would. That a pretty stupid question to ask a straight man.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.

I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.

Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?

Yes of course I would. That a pretty stupid question to ask a straight man. "

Would it even be possible for it to physically happen if you’re totally straight do you think?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.

I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.

Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?

Yes of course I would. That a pretty stupid question to ask a straight man. "

Would you ask a straight woman if she would have sex with another woman in the promise of an anything goes night with the hubby?

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

It made my hubby bi

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.

I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.

Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?

Yes of course I would. That a pretty stupid question to ask a straight man.

Would it even be possible for it to physically happen if you’re totally straight do you think?"

Highly unlikely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not, I’ve seen enough cock on here that confirms I definitely wouldn’t put one in my mouth.

The mr "

Me too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not, I’ve seen enough cock on here that confirms I definitely wouldn’t put one in my mouth.

The mr

Me too!!

Strangely I feel like in cock over dose with all the pics on here myself

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

No but I feel like the more time you spend on here, meets you have, the less inhibited you become & you may naturally find yourself wanting to push your boundaries which can lead to bi exploration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought I might be a little bit but being here has made me realise Im not. I can get girly crushes easy enough but wouldnt take it much further.

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

No, but it certainly has encouraged and hurried me along the way....and I love it. XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is more difficult for a usually gay or straight male who is bicurious, as they have the pressure of trying to get it up if they are brave enough to step over the line. I guess easier if a lady in same situation with curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has made me appreciate a nice cock more and now love the taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has made me appreciate a nice cock more and now love the taste

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Yeah cocks are the best

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

It makes you more open minded x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It made my hubby bi"

Did it make him bi or did it make him realise he was bi because there is a big difference.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

No, it didn't "make me" bi, though it of course helped facilitate meets with guys!

Curious about the Covid link - hadn't noticed any correlation, but perhaps an unknown side effect?!?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!"

I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Hear hear! Xxx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!

I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated. "

Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!

I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.

Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done. "

Lots of things hey, we are listening

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!

I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.

Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.

Lots of things hey, we are listening"

Haha. Nooooo I don’t spill. There is one thing I haven’t done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!

I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.

Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done. "

Absolutely and I discovered I was actually very sub, This site did not make me sub however it gave me an opportunity to explore that side of my sexuality and I think the same could be said about being bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!

I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.

Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.

Lots of things hey, we are listening

Haha. Nooooo I don’t spill. There is one thing I haven’t done

FFFFFF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome OP

No, it’s not made me bi but it’s made me go bye bye a few times

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!

I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.

Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.

Lots of things hey, we are listening

Haha. Nooooo I don’t spill. There is one thing I haven’t done

FFFFFF?

And that! Only FFF.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.

Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!

I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.

Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.

. I don’t think I’ll ever discover that haha.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I found i liked bi fun in my early 20s, I love the bi mmf scenario, especially if the lady is watching us and I'm sharing him with her, or their sharing me, it's the only way to play

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More interested in why you hop this is your only post, is this the only topic that has any interest for you?"

Hiya, its because im aware if you post comments and put anything personal init you cant delete lol and I was a tad tipsy last night but I really am interested in everyone experiences and thought. I enjoyed just reading back comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I found i liked bi fun in my early 20s, I love the bi mmf scenario, especially if the lady is watching us and I'm sharing him with her, or their sharing me, it's the only way to play

When you say it like that, thats the type of mmf I want to try!..bi friendlyI say but all sharing eachother is a very sexy thought to me. Love everyones comments and appreciate the insights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pigeon hole or define myself as anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing 'makes' anyone, it's just undiscovered. All this site does is provide the opportunity to experiment with our sexuality, a path to discovery."

This really…. and as well as opportunity it provides a much less judgemental forum for people to experiment…

missJ

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"I think it is more difficult for a usually gay or straight male who is bicurious, as they have the pressure of trying to get it up if they are brave enough to step over the line. I guess easier if a lady in same situation with curiosity. "

My husband has said this, he enjoys sucking a cock & is open to more bi play but when he tries to take things further his body just won't react in the way it does with a women, he's managed to fuck a guy a few times if I'm present and involved in the play but if he's on a solo meet he's only managed it once

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My crossdressing made me Bi, this site has nothing on that.

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