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"Hi guys thinking of giving swinging a go with wife but wondered if you guys ha e experienced many swinger friends who have split up due to the lifestyle? Thanks" Viking and his first wife split when she decided the grass was greener on the other cock! That said the relationship itself was very stagnant. Really always depends on why you do it. | |||
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"No, but my kids mum and her fella went to a swingers party a while ago with her fella.. and his parents were there hahaaaaa, nearly died when she told me! "Blimey  how did that end? did they stay and say hello or leave? | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben" Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words | |||
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"Hi guys thinking of giving swinging a go with wife but wondered if you guys ha e experienced many swinger friends who have split up due to the lifestyle? Thanks" I would like to know why the fascination with others splitting, do you think you and your wife will also split when you start together. It really has no impact on how you find the scene as a couple. Sorry OP I just find this a very bizarre question to ask. Xxxxx Suzi | |||
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"No, but my kids mum and her fella went to a swingers party a while ago with her fella.. and his parents were there hahaaaaa, nearly died when she told me!
Blimey how did that end? did they stay and say hello or leave? "They turned up, within 2 mins he somehow clocked they were there, had a mini anxiety attack and fled back to the car lmfao | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben" How come no couples profile always seems suspicious. | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words "  | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words " It's you who should have chosen your words a bit more carefully, sheesh | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words " Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words It's you who should have chosen your words a bit more carefully, sheesh "Not really I read bween the lines very well and my fab bs radar is always on point 10 years here has fine tuned that | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening " So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words It's you who should have chosen your words a bit more carefully, sheesh
Not really I read bween the lines very well and my fab bs radar is always on point 10 years here has fine tuned that "Yea, I'm sure. But I was referring to how badly it was written, made my brain hurt | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words It's you who should have chosen your words a bit more carefully, sheesh
Not really I read bween the lines very well and my fab bs radar is always on point 10 years here has fine tuned that
Yea, I'm sure. But I was referring to how badly it was written, made my brain hurt "Called dyslexia and good to know how judgmental you are but I think your comments right there may have seald your lounge and fab fate as now everyone can see what kind off people your are to pic on people with learning disabilities | |||
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"We did have quite a few fall outs when first started but was mainly frustration at being let down so often and guys lying about helping out with what we wanted and didn't. " My husband and I are the same, at the start we had a bit of tension trying to work out what we were into & what our boundaries where as we (well I) realised mine wasn't quite what i thought, but once we ironed out those niggles now the only issues we have are when people don't show up as planned or when they've not been entirely honest with the profile/photos etc & we are left feeling letdown & fustrated I think the key thing is with couples is talk, you have to be 100% honest with each other, have chats regularly about how you feel it's going as like I've said above wgat you think you're into may change even yuur faced with it, you may want to push your boundaries further over times etc too | |||
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"Yes I've know a few couples on hrough my time on here who have split up x" Through! Can't spell tonight lol  | |||
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"Yes I've know a few couples on hrough my time on here who have split up x" Any idea how much it had to do with lifestyle? | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off " To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words It's you who should have chosen your words a bit more carefully, sheesh
Not really I read bween the lines very well and my fab bs radar is always on point 10 years here has fine tuned that
Yea, I'm sure. But I was referring to how badly it was written, made my brain hurt
Called dyslexia and good to know how judgmental you are but I think your comments right there may have seald your lounge and fab fate as now everyone can see what kind off people your are to pic on people with learning disabilities " | |||
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"Yes I've know a few couples on hrough my time on here who have split up x Any idea how much it had to do with lifestyle?" It was a long time ago but yes it had to do with the lifestyle and jealousy when seeing each other having sex with other people. When that happens it's clearly not for them x | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush" And why I don’t see a problem have a social with all party involved if both people knowing Or in less there’s something to hide See you make accommodations for everything and still get turned down bs metter gose form 0 to 100 really fast | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words It's you who should have chosen your words a bit more carefully, sheesh
Not really I read bween the lines very well and my fab bs radar is always on point 10 years here has fine tuned that
Yea, I'm sure. But I was referring to how badly it was written, made my brain hurt
Called dyslexia and good to know how judgmental you are but I think your comments right there may have seald your lounge and fab fate as now everyone can see what kind off people your are to pic on people with learning disabilities "Light hearted ribbing at the worst, but I'm sorry for any offence x | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words It's you who should have chosen your words a bit more carefully, sheesh
Not really I read bween the lines very well and my fab bs radar is always on point 10 years here has fine tuned that
Yea, I'm sure. But I was referring to how badly it was written, made my brain hurt
Called dyslexia and good to know how judgmental you are but I think your comments right there may have seald your lounge and fab fate as now everyone can see what kind off people your are to pic on people with learning disabilities
Light hearted ribbing at the worst, but I'm sorry for any offence x"Not really funny as considered I was bullyed all the way though school for it because I had to sit at a desk by my self to have someone write for me So yes offence taken | |||
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"Hi guys thinking of giving swinging a go with wife but wondered if you guys ha e experienced many swinger friends who have split up due to the lifestyle? Thanks" The first couple we swapped with many years ago have since separated but I have no idea if it was swinging related. In my opinion, swinging only works successfully for couples that communicate well and have a very strong relationship. It will not fix a failing relationship and is likely to hasten its failure. | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush And why I don’t see a problem have a social with all party involved if both people knowing Or in less there’s something to hide See you make accommodations for everything and still get turned down bs metter gose form 0 to 100 really fast " We've never done a social either but we don't have anything to hide and have plenty of verifications between us, everyone uses FAB differently neither of us are right or wrong, the same as one isn't a timewaster for insisting on a social or a telephone call or a BS'r for going straight to the play it's just a difference in our individual preferences, what works for one won't work for another & all that You'd pass us by because you'd think we were hiding something & we'd pass you by as we prefer to spend the time we have available playing rather than meeting for a coffee, neither of us are bad people we just aren't compatable & that's a good thing as it would be a very boring world if everyone was exactly the same | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening " Exactly. I have a single profile because I meet on my own, not with either of my partners. Many swingers on here do the same. I have had similar comments though. If I had a couples profile, I'd be wasting the time of people looking for couples. | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush And why I don’t see a problem have a social with all party involved if both people knowing Or in less there’s something to hide See you make accommodations for everything and still get turned down bs metter gose form 0 to 100 really fast We've never done a social either but we don't have anything to hide and have plenty of verifications between us, everyone uses FAB differently neither of us are right or wrong, the same as one isn't a timewaster for insisting on a social or a telephone call or a BS'r for going straight to the play it's just a difference in our individual preferences, what works for one won't work for another & all that You'd pass us by because you'd think we were hiding something & we'd pass you by as we prefer to spend the time we have available playing rather than meeting for a coffee, neither of us are bad people we just aren't compatable & that's a good thing as it would be a very boring world if everyone was exactly the same " See I never explained my total offer though So here Is my normal offer when I here that how about me and you and the wife all meet up for a little chat the wife can go off shopping and me and hubby can grab a hotel and then you can meet back up with the wife after the deeds are done Not ones in 10 years has anyone on fab who says they wife knows took me up on this offer Not saying yous are fake and all But saying we have vers isn’t a good way to prove that someone legitimate Funny thing I got stood up by someone who has 300 vers from tv/ts and is well know for hosting tv/ts party’s Well known in the Scottish tv/ts community funny thing that 300 vers and stood me up | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush And why I don’t see a problem have a social with all party involved if both people knowing Or in less there’s something to hide See you make accommodations for everything and still get turned down bs metter gose form 0 to 100 really fast We've never done a social either but we don't have anything to hide and have plenty of verifications between us, everyone uses FAB differently neither of us are right or wrong, the same as one isn't a timewaster for insisting on a social or a telephone call or a BS'r for going straight to the play it's just a difference in our individual preferences, what works for one won't work for another & all that You'd pass us by because you'd think we were hiding something & we'd pass you by as we prefer to spend the time we have available playing rather than meeting for a coffee, neither of us are bad people we just aren't compatable & that's a good thing as it would be a very boring world if everyone was exactly the same See I never explained my total offer though So here Is my normal offer when I here that how about me and you and the wife all meet up for a little chat the wife can go off shopping and me and hubby can grab a hotel and then you can meet back up with the wife after the deeds are done Not ones in 10 years has anyone on fab who says they wife knows took me up on this offer Not saying yous are fake and all But saying we have vers isn’t a good way to prove that someone legitimate Funny thing I got stood up by someone who has 300 vers from tv/ts and is well know for hosting tv/ts party’s Well known in the Scottish tv/ts community funny thing that 300 vers and stood me up " That's FAB though loads of people get stood up everyday, a third of our planned meets have been no shows & again some have been verified, we were stood up last week by someone we gave previously met, but none of that means all married men are cheats I personally wouldn't go to town with my husband to meet someone ahead of a meet I just wouldn't, shopping isn't my thing & I don't drive so it would be a total waste of my time Most of his meets have been at our home & he's always honest and tells them if I'm home giving them the opportunity to meet me if they want to but no one has said wanted to meet so far I'm not questioning your reason for wanting to know someone is genuine, I understand that anyone on here could be on the end of an irate partner potentially but people not complying to your request doesn't always mean they are disingenuous they could just be like us, technophobes, plus the way we look at it is, they'll always be other meets if we don't align with a particular person Like I said neither is right or wrong just different in how we enjoy FAB | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush And why I don’t see a problem have a social with all party involved if both people knowing Or in less there’s something to hide See you make accommodations for everything and still get turned down bs metter gose form 0 to 100 really fast We've never done a social either but we don't have anything to hide and have plenty of verifications between us, everyone uses FAB differently neither of us are right or wrong, the same as one isn't a timewaster for insisting on a social or a telephone call or a BS'r for going straight to the play it's just a difference in our individual preferences, what works for one won't work for another & all that You'd pass us by because you'd think we were hiding something & we'd pass you by as we prefer to spend the time we have available playing rather than meeting for a coffee, neither of us are bad people we just aren't compatable & that's a good thing as it would be a very boring world if everyone was exactly the same See I never explained my total offer though So here Is my normal offer when I here that how about me and you and the wife all meet up for a little chat the wife can go off shopping and me and hubby can grab a hotel and then you can meet back up with the wife after the deeds are done Not ones in 10 years has anyone on fab who says they wife knows took me up on this offer Not saying yous are fake and all But saying we have vers isn’t a good way to prove that someone legitimate Funny thing I got stood up by someone who has 300 vers from tv/ts and is well know for hosting tv/ts party’s Well known in the Scottish tv/ts community funny thing that 300 vers and stood me up That's FAB though loads of people get stood up everyday, a third of our planned meets have been no shows & again some have been verified, we were stood up last week by someone we gave previously met, but none of that means all married men are cheats I personally wouldn't go to town with my husband to meet someone ahead of a meet I just wouldn't, shopping isn't my thing & I don't drive so it would be a total waste of my time Most of his meets have been at our home & he's always honest and tells them if I'm home giving them the opportunity to meet me if they want to but no one has said wanted to meet so far I'm not questioning your reason for wanting to know someone is genuine, I understand that anyone on here could be on the end of an irate partner potentially but people not complying to your request doesn't always mean they are disingenuous they could just be like us, technophobes, plus the way we look at it is, they'll always be other meets if we don't align with a particular person Like I said neither is right or wrong just different in how we enjoy FAB " See like I sed make all the accommodations in the world for people and they still say no bs meter flys to 100% very very very fast | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush And why I don’t see a problem have a social with all party involved if both people knowing Or in less there’s something to hide See you make accommodations for everything and still get turned down bs metter gose form 0 to 100 really fast We've never done a social either but we don't have anything to hide and have plenty of verifications between us, everyone uses FAB differently neither of us are right or wrong, the same as one isn't a timewaster for insisting on a social or a telephone call or a BS'r for going straight to the play it's just a difference in our individual preferences, what works for one won't work for another & all that You'd pass us by because you'd think we were hiding something & we'd pass you by as we prefer to spend the time we have available playing rather than meeting for a coffee, neither of us are bad people we just aren't compatable & that's a good thing as it would be a very boring world if everyone was exactly the same See I never explained my total offer though So here Is my normal offer when I here that how about me and you and the wife all meet up for a little chat the wife can go off shopping and me and hubby can grab a hotel and then you can meet back up with the wife after the deeds are done Not ones in 10 years has anyone on fab who says they wife knows took me up on this offer Not saying yous are fake and all But saying we have vers isn’t a good way to prove that someone legitimate Funny thing I got stood up by someone who has 300 vers from tv/ts and is well know for hosting tv/ts party’s Well known in the Scottish tv/ts community funny thing that 300 vers and stood me up That's FAB though loads of people get stood up everyday, a third of our planned meets have been no shows & again some have been verified, we were stood up last week by someone we gave previously met, but none of that means all married men are cheats I personally wouldn't go to town with my husband to meet someone ahead of a meet I just wouldn't, shopping isn't my thing & I don't drive so it would be a total waste of my time Most of his meets have been at our home & he's always honest and tells them if I'm home giving them the opportunity to meet me if they want to but no one has said wanted to meet so far I'm not questioning your reason for wanting to know someone is genuine, I understand that anyone on here could be on the end of an irate partner potentially but people not complying to your request doesn't always mean they are disingenuous they could just be like us, technophobes, plus the way we look at it is, they'll always be other meets if we don't align with a particular person Like I said neither is right or wrong just different in how we enjoy FAB See like I sed make all the accommodations in the world for people and they still say no bs meter flys to 100% very very very fast " Also you sed no complying to your request but all I see is it’s your way or the high way no compromise inbween to set people mind as easy that they aren’t cheating / playing away As sed if everything was legitimately then there wouldn’t be a my way or the high way compromise for both sides would be fine | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush And why I don’t see a problem have a social with all party involved if both people knowing Or in less there’s something to hide See you make accommodations for everything and still get turned down bs metter gose form 0 to 100 really fast We've never done a social either but we don't have anything to hide and have plenty of verifications between us, everyone uses FAB differently neither of us are right or wrong, the same as one isn't a timewaster for insisting on a social or a telephone call or a BS'r for going straight to the play it's just a difference in our individual preferences, what works for one won't work for another & all that You'd pass us by because you'd think we were hiding something & we'd pass you by as we prefer to spend the time we have available playing rather than meeting for a coffee, neither of us are bad people we just aren't compatable & that's a good thing as it would be a very boring world if everyone was exactly the same See I never explained my total offer though So here Is my normal offer when I here that how about me and you and the wife all meet up for a little chat the wife can go off shopping and me and hubby can grab a hotel and then you can meet back up with the wife after the deeds are done Not ones in 10 years has anyone on fab who says they wife knows took me up on this offer Not saying yous are fake and all But saying we have vers isn’t a good way to prove that someone legitimate Funny thing I got stood up by someone who has 300 vers from tv/ts and is well know for hosting tv/ts party’s Well known in the Scottish tv/ts community funny thing that 300 vers and stood me up That's FAB though loads of people get stood up everyday, a third of our planned meets have been no shows & again some have been verified, we were stood up last week by someone we gave previously met, but none of that means all married men are cheats I personally wouldn't go to town with my husband to meet someone ahead of a meet I just wouldn't, shopping isn't my thing & I don't drive so it would be a total waste of my time Most of his meets have been at our home & he's always honest and tells them if I'm home giving them the opportunity to meet me if they want to but no one has said wanted to meet so far I'm not questioning your reason for wanting to know someone is genuine, I understand that anyone on here could be on the end of an irate partner potentially but people not complying to your request doesn't always mean they are disingenuous they could just be like us, technophobes, plus the way we look at it is, they'll always be other meets if we don't align with a particular person Like I said neither is right or wrong just different in how we enjoy FAB See like I sed make all the accommodations in the world for people and they still say no bs meter flys to 100% very very very fast Also you sed no complying to your request but all I see is it’s your way or the high way no compromise inbween to set people mind as easy that they aren’t cheating / playing away As sed if everything was legitimately then there wouldn’t be a my way or the high way compromise for both sides would be fine " Again it's just different ways of viewing things You feel it's our way of the highway, I feel such requests are like asking people to jump through hoops I know I keep repeating myself but as I've said before neither of us are right or wrong, we all have a to arrange our meets how we see fit & if we don't match as I said before we move on, there are always other people to meet Although in one of the above messages i did offer a compromise, I said I'd be more than happy to message someone on my personal profile or from my couples, I just wouldn't do a social or give out my number for a phone call etc for the reasons already given Your perfectly within your right to be suspicious &/or refuse any meet you want based on their responses but it still doesn't mean they were all liars or cheats | |||
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"Thanks guys, by the way wife does know, Ben Then why the thinking off give swingeing ago with the wife and no couples profile all ready If the wife did “know” as you clame then you wouldn’t have chosen those words Maybe the wife gave him the green light to go & play but wasn't interested herself at the time People on here are so judgemental against single men, some do genuinely have their partners consent , some women enjoy knowing their partner is with another woman, it's called cuckqueening So then wouldn’t have a problem with someone talking to the wife before hand then In my experience no one I have offered that to has taken it up and I mean no one 10 years here I can smell bs a mile off To be fair I wouldn't speak to someone on my husbands behalf either unless it was via message on here (I am happy for people to message my private or our couples profile - ge has a solo profile) We don't use kik, we've never used webcams etc & we gave up giving out our phone numbers after our first few meets thought we were their new best friends and text us more than we text each other Don't get me wrong there are some people on here doing stuff behind their partners back but not all, yet all seem to be tarred with the naughty boy brush And why I don’t see a problem have a social with all party involved if both people knowing Or in less there’s something to hide See you make accommodations for everything and still get turned down bs metter gose form 0 to 100 really fast We've never done a social either but we don't have anything to hide and have plenty of verifications between us, everyone uses FAB differently neither of us are right or wrong, the same as one isn't a timewaster for insisting on a social or a telephone call or a BS'r for going straight to the play it's just a difference in our individual preferences, what works for one won't work for another & all that You'd pass us by because you'd think we were hiding something & we'd pass you by as we prefer to spend the time we have available playing rather than meeting for a coffee, neither of us are bad people we just aren't compatable & that's a good thing as it would be a very boring world if everyone was exactly the same See I never explained my total offer though So here Is my normal offer when I here that how about me and you and the wife all meet up for a little chat the wife can go off shopping and me and hubby can grab a hotel and then you can meet back up with the wife after the deeds are done Not ones in 10 years has anyone on fab who says they wife knows took me up on this offer Not saying yous are fake and all But saying we have vers isn’t a good way to prove that someone legitimate Funny thing I got stood up by someone who has 300 vers from tv/ts and is well know for hosting tv/ts party’s Well known in the Scottish tv/ts community funny thing that 300 vers and stood me up That's FAB though loads of people get stood up everyday, a third of our planned meets have been no shows & again some have been verified, we were stood up last week by someone we gave previously met, but none of that means all married men are cheats I personally wouldn't go to town with my husband to meet someone ahead of a meet I just wouldn't, shopping isn't my thing & I don't drive so it would be a total waste of my time Most of his meets have been at our home & he's always honest and tells them if I'm home giving them the opportunity to meet me if they want to but no one has said wanted to meet so far I'm not questioning your reason for wanting to know someone is genuine, I understand that anyone on here could be on the end of an irate partner potentially but people not complying to your request doesn't always mean they are disingenuous they could just be like us, technophobes, plus the way we look at it is, they'll always be other meets if we don't align with a particular person Like I said neither is right or wrong just different in how we enjoy FAB See like I sed make all the accommodations in the world for people and they still say no bs meter flys to 100% very very very fast Also you sed no complying to your request but all I see is it’s your way or the high way no compromise inbween to set people mind as easy that they aren’t cheating / playing away As sed if everything was legitimately then there wouldn’t be a my way or the high way compromise for both sides would be fine Again it's just different ways of viewing things You feel it's our way of the highway, I feel such requests are like asking people to jump through hoops I know I keep repeating myself but as I've said before neither of us are right or wrong, we all have a to arrange our meets how we see fit & if we don't match as I said before we move on, there are always other people to meet Although in one of the above messages i did offer a compromise, I said I'd be more than happy to message someone on my personal profile or from my couples, I just wouldn't do a social or give out my number for a phone call etc for the reasons already given Your perfectly within your right to be suspicious &/or refuse any meet you want based on their responses but it still doesn't mean they were all liars or cheats " I get that but when you offered that offer for over 10 odd years to at least 6 to 7 thousand people thought out the years and not ones has it been taken up there’s got to be a point when that number becomes a easy tell tell sign that someone’s not being totally truthful | |||
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