FabSwingers.com forum: what on earth do men want?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Twice today while chatting to two separate men and trying to arrange meets they block me.the other night i went to meet someone who didnt show up. He had left the site. Meaby men want to be let down rather than show up to meet genuine people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all men get together and discuss such things and then make a collective decision.

We also have a WhatsApp group with roughly 3.7 billion of us in.

It’s a nightmare to keep track.

Sorry.

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge

You must be meeting the wrong type of peeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today while chatting to two separate men and trying to arrange meets they block me.the other night i went to meet someone who didnt show up. He had left the site. Meaby men want to be let down rather than show up to meet genuine people?"

You sound like trouble, what on earth did you do to upset them?!?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m sorry you don’t seem to have much luck on here with men. Do you speak to them for a while before you plan to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like trouble, what on earth did you do to upset them?!?

Do you have another body

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

We want it all - the sloppy BJs, the finger up the bum, the vigorous lovemaking that's like Greco-Roman wrestling on a trampoline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to hone your selection process then, OP. If its a pattern, then you might be the non variable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like trouble, what on earth did you do to upset them?!?

Do you have another body

Unfortunately, this is the only one I've got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There simply stupid and you can't fix stupid

I on the other hand put an enormous amount of effort into chatting and getting to know people with far less in return than what I put in,but I expect that due to the sheer number of guys on the site

I can only imagine how easier it would be for me and other genuine guys if all the d£#k heads suddenly disappeared!!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

There simply stupid and you can't fix stupid

I on the other hand put an enormous amount of effort into chatting and getting to know people with far less in return than what I put in,but I expect that due to the sheer number of guys on the site

I can only imagine how easier it would be for me and other genuine guys if all the d£#k heads suddenly disappeared!!

Some fellas like the idea of a meet, then bottle it. You'll be fine, move to the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure they were men? They could of been married women pretending to be single men just to get you to send photos

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Are you sure they were men? They could of been married women pretending to be single men just to get you to send photos

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Men get just as hurt with women not turning up as women do ..

There's no pattern or science behind it but obviously it's crap that it happened to you x

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"Yes, all men get together and discuss such things and then make a collective decision.

We also have a WhatsApp group with roughly 3.7 billion of us in.

It’s a nightmare to keep track.

Sorry."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heartily detest these cowards who haven't got the balls or common decency to say

'Changed my mind. Not doing it. Cannot make it. Sorry bye'

So at least you know!

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

If you let them sit down

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

That's a shitty way to get treated. I'm sure you'll find someone but perhaps you need to slow it down and be a bit more selective?

Don't be too disheartened, you've already got two fellas on the go as it is!!!

Best of luck,

Gbat

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

I feel you... I was stood up today... apparently he "fell asleep".

Meh.

Idiot, lol

Thank you, next...

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Who are these fuckwits!!!

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Food. No, sex. Food. Sex. Food. Sex- I don't know. Oh, God, I want both. I want I want girls on bread!

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"Who are these fuckwits!!!

Gbat "

You want his profile?!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I feel you... I was stood up today... apparently he "fell asleep".

Meh.

Idiot, lol

Thank you, next...

This man plainly had no taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who are these fuckwits!!!

Gbat

You want his profile?!"

Off topic and not looking for any future interactions but I’d like to say you have a great smile.

That is all

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"Who are these fuckwits!!!

Gbat

You want his profile?!

Off topic and not looking for any future interactions but I’d like to say you have a great smile.

That is all "

Thank you

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Who are these fuckwits!!!

Gbat

You want his profile?!"

No, it was a rhetorical question. I agree with Sprout though, you've got a very alluring smile.

Best of luck with your future fabbing,

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had three meets set up in January. First guy walked out on me. Blocked me. The other two cancelled the day before after being the ones to ask to meet. Then they ghosted.

It's a site where a lot of people are casual about interactions so stands to reason there will be some who are casual about meeting.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I had three meets set up in January. First guy walked out on me. Blocked me. The other two cancelled the day before after being the ones to ask to meet. Then they ghosted.

It's a site where a lot of people are casual about interactions so stands to reason there will be some who are casual about meeting. "

Beryl.....you didn't show up for our meeting with Shania. Tom

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Food. No, sex. Food. Sex. Food. Sex- I don't know. Oh, God, I want both. I want I want girls on bread!"

Kinky

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

the thrill of the chase

not the actual catch

coz if they get the actual catch, their falsenesses and exaggerations are caught out.

Anyone can claim to be anything or brag about stuff behind their computers...

sorry you feel let down

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"Who are these fuckwits!!!

Gbat

You want his profile?!

No, it was a rhetorical question. I agree with Sprout though, you've got a very alluring smile.

Best of luck with your future fabbing,

Gbat "

I know, I was only kidding! Not gonna name and shame, even though I could. Won't make any difference, just makes me look bitter. *shrug* his loss

Thank you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had three meets set up in January. First guy walked out on me. Blocked me. The other two cancelled the day before after being the ones to ask to meet. Then they ghosted.

It's a site where a lot of people are casual about interactions so stands to reason there will be some who are casual about meeting.

Beryl.....you didn't show up for our meeting with Shania. Tom

Oh my! Shall have to reschedule in accounts!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I had three meets set up in January. First guy walked out on me. Blocked me. The other two cancelled the day before after being the ones to ask to meet. Then they ghosted.

It's a site where a lot of people are casual about interactions so stands to reason there will be some who are casual about meeting.

Beryl.....you didn't show up for our meeting with Shania. Tom

Oh my! Shall have to reschedule in accounts!

Beryl, I would be there in a flash for a rundown with a shammy leather from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly men just want to stick their sausages somewhere warm and wet

Apparently consumes a considerable amount of their thinking time

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Mostly men just want to stick their sausages somewhere warm and wet

Apparently consumes a considerable amount of their thinking time

Sounds like summer barbecue in the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly men just want to stick their sausages somewhere warm and wet

Apparently consumes a considerable amount of their thinking time

Sounds like summer barbecue in the UK"

I did say warm!!!

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I had three meets set up in January. First guy walked out on me. Blocked me. The other two cancelled the day before after being the ones to ask to meet. Then they ghosted.

It's a site where a lot of people are casual about interactions so stands to reason there will be some who are casual about meeting. "

It's their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had three meets set up in January. First guy walked out on me. Blocked me. The other two cancelled the day before after being the ones to ask to meet. Then they ghosted.

It's a site where a lot of people are casual about interactions so stands to reason there will be some who are casual about meeting.

Beryl.....you didn't show up for our meeting with Shania. Tom

Oh my! Shall have to reschedule in accounts!

Beryl, I would be there in a flash for a rundown with a shammy leather from you

Beryl is deeply flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh doll, you’re the lovely lady whose profile worries the life out of me! You’re not going to attract the best quality matches when you’re talking about meeting up to fuck in a shed in the woods.

NOT that that excuses their shitty behaviour. It’s unacceptable for them to let you down like that. But unless you strike up a rapport first, they are just gonna see you as somebody dispensable.

Really sorry if my words are harsh - I don’t mean them to be. I’d just be concerned about you if I were your friend or family member, as you seem a bit vulnerable from your profile.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had three meets set up in January. First guy walked out on me. Blocked me. The other two cancelled the day before after being the ones to ask to meet. Then they ghosted.

It's a site where a lot of people are casual about interactions so stands to reason there will be some who are casual about meeting.

It's their loss.

Thank you Davie. Yep, their issue.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I had three meets set up in January. First guy walked out on me. Blocked me. The other two cancelled the day before after being the ones to ask to meet. Then they ghosted.

It's a site where a lot of people are casual about interactions so stands to reason there will be some who are casual about meeting.

It's their loss.

Thank you Davie. Yep, their issue. "

I don't think I will ever understand the mindset of some people on here.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

It’s not nice. I’ve been cancelled on/stood up a few times.

The worst one (from a different site) he text to say he was on his way to the bar we were meeting in. I arrived and waited…and waited and he never showed. I ended up getting very d*unk on cocktails on my own! Felt really shitty though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not nice. I’ve been cancelled on/stood up a few times.

But that’s not just dickhead behaviour, it’s positively unhinged! Why would someone say they’re on their way, when they’re clearly not?! …

I don’t understand what goes on in some people’s heads, but then I’m quite glad about that. It’s a rabbit hole I wouldn’t want to go down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men get meets?

I thought that was against site rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh doll, you’re the lovely lady whose profile worries the life out of me! You’re not going to attract the best quality matches when you’re talking about meeting up to fuck in a shed in the woods.

NOT that that excuses their shitty behaviour. It’s unacceptable for them to let you down like that. But unless you strike up a rapport first, they are just gonna see you as somebody dispensable.

Really sorry if my words are harsh - I don’t mean them to be. I’d just be concerned about you if I were your friend or family member, as you seem a bit vulnerable from your profile.

Good luck x"

I’m glad someone said it. After all, this site is full of strangers and inviting them to a lonely shed in the woods…maaaan, idk.

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

NOT that that excuses their shitty behaviour. It’s unacceptable for them to let you down like that. But unless you strike up a rapport first, they are just gonna see you as somebody dispensable.

Really sorry if my words are harsh - I don’t mean them to be. I’d just be concerned about you if I were your friend or family member, as you seem a bit vulnerable from your profile.

Good luck x

I’m glad someone said it. After all, this site is full of strangers and inviting them to a lonely shed in the woods…maaaan, idk.

nope, I wouldn't go to a shed in the woods, sounds like a horror movie. Rethink on first date strategy

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

A moist gusset...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, all men get together and discuss such things and then make a collective decision.

We also have a WhatsApp group with roughly 3.7 billion of us in.

It’s a nightmare to keep track.

Sorry."

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