FabSwingers.com forum: Questions for guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m taking a guess at what the majority answer will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls who like girls are every guys dream I think..

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I'll have to think about it for... Yes!

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Star_ase K-7

There's the question of whether she'd want a relationship too, regardless of her sexuality and her girlfriend. Lots of complicated issues to sort out there.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Honestly, probably not.

If I was in that situation I'd like to think I'd consider it or maybe even try but part of me is thinking that as much fun as it sounds it just isn't me

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Actually it’s (surprisingly) a no from me.

I don’t like sharing in a committed relationship.

If it were a more casual relationship though….then obviously yes! (Please!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if im in a loving relationship its a 2 way thing. Ive been in this predicament and its all fun and games to begin with then hearts get broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be predictable and say yes.

Thing is, I'd say the same thing if she had a boyfriend and wanted a polyamorous relationship. Just not the part about sharing the boyfriend with me. A firm handshake is about as far as I'd go with that.

I could watch them or partake in a MFM but not 'share' him.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Nada.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Sounds like a cuffuddle being that this website is purely for no strings non commitment affairs and misdemeanours of sexual nature. Why would you want to make a man your boyfriend, I mean, look at where you met him, where has he been before you and what has he been upto and gotten himself into physically mentally and emotionally, do you really want to connect with all that type of unnecessary baggage and weight.

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By *ull of the year 25Man
over a year ago

Watford

I’d go for both of them or maybe let you see them play

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on the emotional state of all involved. I'd like to say yes and would certainly enjoy myself but in truth I think it would become quite complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life.

Caffuddlelated. In other words... Confused. Com

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

If on here then may have been very selective on partners etc? If in ‘vanilla ‘ world then how would anyone know about how many partners /being bi etc . Unless said person told you or someone else knew as perhaps an old saying .’ Been around the block a few times’ ?

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I think when i was younger this would have been the dream but not anymore. In a relationship I'm wanting more these days than the physical so it would be a no from me

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By *llovereveryMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

It's not a factor. It didn't impact the way my past partner felt about me or I about her. And there was nothing to accept.

If, from the outset, someone suggested sharing their past partners to me then I'd be cautious of their intention, self awareness and experience.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

That’s a bit rude and presumptuous.

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By *hilli75Man
over a year ago

MALTA

thats a tough question

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By *hilli75Man
over a year ago

MALTA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess a lot of that would be down to the chemistry and the 3rd party involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the fcuk kind of question is that to as men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thank you… can’t be arsed for the drama

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

So every guys wet dream then.

You like someone, find out they are bi and have a gf but are not only open to a bf/gf relationship but are willing to share their gf with you.. what's not to like (just pray the other gf likes you).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

I rather think your sentiment here suggests more about you than other men on this site.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

What a ridiculous comment.

Firstly, who said the site was just for that?

Secondly, not everyone comes on here to fuck as many people as they can.

Thirdly, what does it matter where you meet someone? I know plenty of people who have got together properly from meeting on here and also got married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Yes.

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By *ohnny_ThunderMan
over a year ago

LLandudno

I think I'd have to regretfully end the relationship. I can imagine that there'd be competition for your time, and I would always have a nagging doubt that you prefer her over me.

As a casual thing, it would be fine, but if I were to invest myself emotionally in a relationship, I think I'd need 100% commitment.

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

I would have to say yes I could go along with this but not because of the typical 'hoping for FFM on tap' shizzle.

There are ways ladies can do things with each other (not always sexual) that men just cannot compete with. And similarly there are things men can do that lady partners just cannot compete with. If I am that into someone who has needs in both worlds, I can accept that dynamic if my needs from the situation are fulfilled enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually had this discussion last night and yes there’s nothing I could give her as a male so I’d have no issues having her needs tended to by a female when she felt like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guy that has said no has now just gone off to wank at the idea.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I’m fairly poly so the idea of a partner having other partners of either sex is fine

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Nah no thanks

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Nah no thanks "

Sounds like it’s just gonna be drama. 7 billion people on this planet id prefer to just date one that doesn’t already have a relationship

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Any guy that has said no has now just gone off to wank at the idea. "

The office may be quiet but it's not wanking at my desk quiet.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I'd think that all my birthdays had come at once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

But...that...includes you too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any guy that has said no has now just gone off to wank at the idea.

The office may be quiet but it's not wanking at my desk quiet."

But you're thinking about it though....

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

This is close to how I discovered swinging. A girlfriend had a girlfriend, who had been a friend since school. We all had similar likes and attitudes to life and had some really fun times together.

Sadly, life has a habit of throwing spanners in the works and we had to move to different countries and drifted apart. Even now, many years later, I still wonder 'what if'?

As an aside, they were from the Emerald Isle too - so there must be something in the water there!

I find bi women very attractive - you can have discussions with them that you often cannot have with straight women.

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

Put my name down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have a relationship with you. It can work well with a few caviats.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

What experience do either of the ladies have with poly/enm relationships?

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I’d be looking for the camera to see what prank show I was on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

I think if she was upfront about it before we hit it off then maybe. I've suggested to Mrs. Morticia about looking for a female fwb for her but don't think she took me seriously lol

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By *bboredguyMan
over a year ago

dundee

Same sex relationships aren’t the same so no point competing ..

The attitude of the other girl is key .. if she’s happy to be not the sole focus of your attentions then it’s good

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure long as the person doesn't snor and steal all the duvet Rest I could cope with

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

What a narrow mind you have…guess what, unless you dated just virgins then every one of your GF’s would have this ‘baggage’ regardless of how they met their previous partners.

We met on here and we’ve been open and honest with each other - it’s through that openness that we are able to carry on this lifestyle and we love it all. Many other couples have done likewise.

I wouldn’t want a split relationship, I enjoy the closeness we share with each other (that no one else shares, with us). So whilst I’m happy for C to meet other girls with and without me, I wouldn’t want it to become an emotional bonding too…just purely sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does either lady have a dog?

Deal breaker if not.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Isn’t this just a regular mfm poly relationship?.

I’m very confused about the “going steady” and “girlfriend” they should block disgusting words like that on posts

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life."

This made me

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

This exact thing happened to me. My ex was on onlyfans but only did content with one female. She told me if I want her I'll have to have her friend. I was the luckiest guy, having two woman. But afte a time I did start to get really jealous, my ex always wanted me there when they were doing content, always sent me the photos and videos but after seeing the way she was touching her friend, a way she's never done with me got me so insecure. Put a barrier between us. but she knew it was effected me so she choose me.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

This reminds me of the Bryan Adam's song "Thought I'd Died & Gone To Heaven!"

Ah, the ultimate male fantasy....LOL!

At what point does the "green eyed monster" ever enter into the equation?

Surely that would ruin it? Yes no?

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Of course !! But how about I turn it around and it’s a guy and a guy rather than the two girls… how would that work for the ladies ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Of course !! But how about I turn it around and it’s a guy and a guy rather than the two girls… how would that work for the ladies ? "

Not for me.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Of course !! But how about I turn it around and it’s a guy and a guy rather than the two girls… how would that work for the ladies ? "

I couldn’t do it.

There’s a big difference between physical and emotional intimacy for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any guy that has said no has now just gone off to wank at the idea. "

Maybe some, the thought of two women does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Of course !! But how about I turn it around and it’s a guy and a guy rather than the two girls… how would that work for the ladies ? "

I'd be open to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry to all who I offended. It was just my opinion. No need to be like a pack of wolves

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

It’s a resounding yes from me

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Would they both make my tea?

Mike

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

If I was thinking with my heart it would be a no.. but the thought of it is quite sexy so I more than likely say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys are saying yes but I doubt that the reality would be as appealing.

It would require a very high level of emotional stability and maturity that we don’t witness a lot of on Fab generally.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Might have to give this some thought...yes. Joking aside, would their friend want to share your girlfriend with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

What a ridiculous comment.

Firstly, who said the site was just for that?

Secondly, not everyone comes on here to fuck as many people as they can.

Thirdly, what does it matter where you meet someone? I know plenty of people who have got together properly from meeting on here and also got married. "

I'm glad you replied to this and throughly rebuffed this view. It really makes me cross that 40,000 people are all assumed to want the exact same thing!

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Popcorn anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would have to say no i don't mind sharing in a swinging context but an actual relationship is between two people for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn anyone

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can I have a bucket full

If your happy and you know it go for it

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

To be honest, I'm not sure I could share. If I was able to switch off my feelings and just think sex then maybe ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you just described 90% off mails fantasy’s right there

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"Popcorn anyone

can I have a bucket full

If your happy and you know it go for it

Double portions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah definitely, as long as my wife was cool with the situation I'd be up for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm of the mind that I'd see if we could make a go of it of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think I'd be absolutely fine with it, but until faced with it, I can't be sure. I think how strong my feelings are towards the person would be a factor.

It sounds great and I bet it works for many!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same sex relationships aren’t the same so no point competing ..

The attitude of the other girl is key .. if she’s happy to be not the sole focus of your attentions then it’s good "

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Yes of course, but seen as I would be the 1 joining an already established relationship, as long as I wasn't just a 3rd wheel then I'm sure it would be great!

x x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm assuming it's a poly thing, in which case likely not. It's not really for me.

I can't say for sure, the connection may to extremely strong between us so that would be a factor. But generally no, not for a serious relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaaand I've just realised you said this question was for guys

ignore me op x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some interesting views

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Not for me.imagining it,yeah sounds good. In reality,not my thing. If I’m in a relationship it’s me and her I’m all in and no one else interests me

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Im sorry to all who I offended. It was just my opinion. No need to be like a pack of wolves"

The responses weren't rude, simply stating their opinion of your opinion.

I agree that your opinion came across as at odds with that of someone on a swinging site and rather misogynistic.

You don't seem to realise that people who you meet in the vanilla world, could easily have had more sexual partners than Fab members have had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ... I like my cakes all to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I wouldn’t mind that actually

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds awful.

Where do I sign?

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By *aving_great_funMan
over a year ago

London

"Any guy that has said no has now just gone off to wank at the idea. "

...so have the ones that have said yes.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I'm a go with the flow kinda guy

wouldn't initially commit to much until fully understood this 3 way dynamic

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

My wife and partner of 26 years told me she was bi curious very early on in our relationship. I had no idea at that point it would lead to us swinging a year into our relationship but here we are many years later still enjoying it .

If im honest, as a young man I would have had issues if she'd had a girlfreind as well as me. I don't know if i could have handled it back then...but again I was just 22 and rather green shall we say. I would have loved the idea but the reality might have been different. Older me has no such hang ups however. She's free to meet women and have girlfreinds for intimate fun if she wants (and has). We built a life together and if our spesific lifestyle choices where gonna cause issues, would have happened long before now.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Wow! Best call off the relationship I found on here in case of the baggage cropping up

What a narrow minded comment

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Two women telling me to pick my socks up... I'll have to pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life."

Burst out laughing there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life.

Burst out laughing there

*cringes at the word fine*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two women telling me to pick my socks up... I'll have to pass. "

But one could cook dinner while the other irons and hoovers

* evacuates thread *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two women telling me to pick my socks up... I'll have to pass. "

Two women to suck your…… lollipop

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Two women telling me to pick my socks up... I'll have to pass.

Two women to suck your…… lollipop"

Ok you're selling me.

But then what about the other 23hr55 mins?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Two women telling me to pick my socks up... I'll have to pass.

But one could cook dinner while the other irons and hoovers

* evacuates thread * "

Lucky ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two women telling me to pick my socks up... I'll have to pass.

Two women to suck your…… lollipop

Ok you're selling me.

But then what about the other 23hr55 mins? "

Who says it has to stop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd have no direction in which to courteously fart in bed

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By *annyishereMan
over a year ago

preston

At first thought that sounds great, but the reality would probably be different, jealousy would probably occur at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

My previous relationship my ex had her girlfriend who she would meet with now and again and we had our normal relationship, my rule is it's not cheating if its with another woman

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By *lim_funMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

I personally wouldn't be able to have a traditional relationship in this scenario. I think it would be a nice set up but I would not be comfortable being named partners if it's an open relationship. No judgement just not for me

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

If jo wanted a perminant gf to be with us id concider it yes. Whatever makes her happy makes me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutly ,why place restrictions on any relationship

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By *ocky82Man
over a year ago

Watford

If I liked her that much then it would have to be worth a punt !

You’ll never know unless you try .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two women telling me to pick my socks up... I'll have to pass. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girls who like girls are every guys dream I think..

Not every man apparently. Two of my exes were not turned on at all by two women together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard call this depends on how much i liked her the more i liked her the less likely id be to want to share her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not something I’d actively look for and FFM isn’t one of my fantasies but I’m open minded and would at least try it. What’s the worst that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'd have no direction in which to courteously fart in bed

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

It’s a difficult one because together, with this new partner in your life, you are starting on a journey but if she is already on a journey with someone else then I would feel a little vulnerable.

When you start out with these things, you are getting to know one another and it can be quite intense, knowing that she has a “back up” would make me question my worth a little.

I think the gender of the other person is irrelevant, if it’s polyamory then it’s polyamory and part of my acceptance of that would be that we both operated under the banner of ethical non-monogamy. Expecting her existing partner to accept me, for me to like her other partner etc. would be challenging, as this may not be so

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Oh yes I would be up for this.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

I've done it before but nowadays I am the primary.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

L is bi and we both have the same lady friend, it’s not monogamous just great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll say no

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

"
i would love to find a nice lady to go out with,, if those were the conditions she needed i would be more than happy,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s a difficult one because together, with this new partner in your life, you are starting on a journey but if she is already on a journey with someone else then I would feel a little vulnerable.

When you start out with these things, you are getting to know one another and it can be quite intense, knowing that she has a “back up” would make me question my worth a little.

This is so true

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Sex with two women- YES

Relationship with two women ( or one woman, or any woman) -NO

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By *atcher_in_the_WoodsMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Oh hell yeah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh hell yeah!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Yeah, we both obviously offer her something that the other can't or doesn't.

I don't really believe a single person can offer everything another wants, so why would I want to take that away from her and limit her?

As long as she has love for us both it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A puerile and utterly nonsensical post when there are 200,000 men on the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A puerile and utterly nonsensical post when there are 200,000 men on the site! "

Don't know where you get those numbers from.

If you read the answers you will find a range of responses, many very thoughtful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closed triad is an advanced form of poly. Where do I sign up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A puerile and utterly nonsensical post when there are 200,000 men on the site!

Don't know where you get those numbers from.

If you read the answers you will find a range of responses, many very thoughtful. "

The numbers are a fab marketing tool.

Yes I agree many thoughtful answers.

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By *jayjMan
over a year ago

Farringdon, Central London

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Yep!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

"
fo you really need to ask that question, yes 100 times yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea would intrigue me at first but no as I would want a relationship with her and like to feel I have her full attention in me as I would give to her

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

When I was younger I wouldn't be able to deal with it. Now I feel that I have no right to demand any type of exclusive relationship from anyone.

I have love for a number of my friends, some of whom I have varying levels of intimacy with. I think that I have largely decoupled love from sex. There are people I love, people I have had sex with, people I love and have had sex with, people in none of these groups.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life."

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

That sounds horrible, sharing? What next, invite some more girls around and abuse me. What is the world coming to...

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"I’m taking a guess at what the majority answer will be

We're all so obvious, almost book like

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Not for me, if I’m in a relationship, that’s it for me. It’s monogamous. I don’t find myself drawn to any one else and would like the exclusivity, I don’t share.

Bit weird on fab swingers, but I don’t judge others and try to help folks who want me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life.

Oh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life.

Oh hello

Hello?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life.

Oh hello

Hello?"

I hadn't seen MissYB in a while

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life.

Oh hello

Hello?

I hadn't seen MissYB in a while"

Aw hello lovely lady

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Putting my single guy head on I think I would be very cautious before trying to enter into any kind of long term committed relationship under these circumstances. Not because she had a girlfriend, because she had another partner. I totally get polyamory but the practice of it often either doesn't end well or at least one party doesn't get everything they want and ends up harbouring resentment and/or disolutionment. Plus it's can be bloody hard work.

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Elle dates girls around our relationship, she has a long term gf and the whole dynamic works fine for us. I knew when I met her (was supposed to be casual thing lol) she had only dated girls long term and just liked to meet guys to get that itch scratched

I get on with her gf we’ll happily hang out but she’s gay so has zero interest in guys sexually, there’s no ffm dynamic it’s just them in FF or me and Elle in a MF

It was suggested that I could look for someone to add to a poly relationship but to be honest it’s not for me.

Elle will spend time with her gf and I will meet singles or couples for casual hookups (casual might be the wrong word, I like repeat meets no strings might be better)

Might not be a dynamic that would work for others but we’re happy with it.

Flynn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“What’s wrong?”

“Nothing… I’m fine”

“Nothing… I’m fine too”

I don’t need that level of stress in my life.

Oh hello

Hello?

I hadn't seen MissYB in a while

Aw hello lovely lady

Nice to see you back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

That sounds horrible, sharing? What next, invite some more girls around and abuse me. What is the world coming to...

I know. Such terrible carry on

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Yes, yes and yes

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"If you met a girl and hit it off with her. Really enjoyed her company and had great sex with her and wanted to make her your girlfriend.

Would you still want to go steady if she told you that she was bi sexual and had a girl friend but that you really appealed to her and she could have a relationship with you if you accepted all this.

Maybe even share her girlfriend with you if ye hit it off?

Sharing is caring

And caring is sharing

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