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Waking up to being played with

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton

What would you do if you woke up to see a guy or a lady playing with your cock or pussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you woke up to see a guy or a lady playing with your cock or pussy?"

I'd love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you woke up to see a guy or a lady playing with your cock or pussy?

I'd love it!!"

Then I'd ask her how she got into my room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it was!!

If it was someone I knew and I went to bed with her I’d grab her flip her over and fuck her hard!

If it was just some random woman who’d broken into my house and was taking advantage of me whilst I slept…I’d grab her flip her over and fuck her hard!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Depends who it was!!

If it was someone I knew and I went to bed with her I’d grab her flip her over and fuck her hard!

If it was just some random woman who’d broken into my house and was taking advantage of me whilst I slept…I’d grab her flip her over and fuck her hard!"

D.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

My cock is normally awake before me so I wouldn't be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hate it. I like to be conscious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the setting really doesn't it, if you where in prison or you had fell asleep on the bus alone and woke up to that I'm sure you wouldn't be happy, if it was someone you where going out with or had fancied for years on the other hand then yeah "play away"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hate it. I like to be conscious "

Bill Cosby is definitely not the man for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably have sex unless I was really tired xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody hope I don’t wake up to some random guy playing with my cock. I’m straight straight, like, not Fab straight. I ain’t got the ghey or owt.

And if it’s some hot lass, well I’d pause the action for a bit, have us both go clean our teeth so we haven’t good that morning dog breath, then get back to it! That wouldn’t kill the moment or anything would it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bloody hope I don’t wake up to some random guy playing with my cock. I’m straight straight, like, not Fab straight. I ain’t got the ghey or owt.

And if it’s some hot lass, well I’d pause the action for a bit, have us both go clean our teeth so we haven’t good that morning dog breath, then get back to it! That wouldn’t kill the moment or anything would it? "

Teeth brushing is always a good way to start

X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd probably get really angry. I know some women like it but I'd hate it

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

Well at first I may question how they got into my house??

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I'd ask them to pinch me so I know its real and I'm not dreaming.

If carlsburg done dreams that would be the best dream in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it done before and I absolutely hated it.

The amount of anger that built up from the moment I opened my eyes surprised me actually!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'd whisper "Where's my fucking tea?"

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Well at first I may question how they got into my house?? "

You really should close the skylight before going to sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fat chance !!!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Punch him in the face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hate it. I like to be conscious "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If it was my partner, I'd smile and kiss him.

If it was someone random I'd freak out.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve both done this a few times and each time has been fantastic.

Waking up to a mouth is incredibly hot…

K

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

They'd get kicked, don't touch me when I'm sleeping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg would love this. I’d have the biggest smile when I knew what was happening

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I would already be half awake as soon as I felt his hands move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Presuming the person is welcome in my bed, I absolutely love it

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’d love it as long as they have brought coffee too

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Depends who it was!!

If it was someone I knew and I went to bed with her I’d grab her flip her over and fuck her hard!

If it was just some random woman who’d broken into my house and was taking advantage of me whilst I slept…I’d grab her flip her over and fuck her hard!"

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"Punch him in the face! "

Not the face! Not the face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Teeth brushing is always a good way to start

X "

Leave just a tiny, tiny bit of mint toothpaste on your tongue to tingle me with.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I like to wake him like this but not keen on it myself unless I’m awake.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

[Removed by poster at 17/02/22 12:38:52]

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

You're asleep & therefore cannot consent regardless of who does it to you or where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're asleep & therefore cannot consent regardless of who does it to you or where"

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You're asleep & therefore cannot consent regardless of who does it to you or where"

True if you meet randoms but I’ve only ever met pretty long term so things like that would already be known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time this happened to me is was an absolute turn off, partly because I’d recently shaved and it’s always a bit tender for a day or so, but mainly because it felt like an Armenian peasant granny was trying to milk a goat down there - it’s currently off my “fun things about overnighters” list

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I'll admit to quite liking to being woken this way. Consent or no, a lot of my self worth is wrapped up in needing to feel desirable so being awoken in this manner just feeds that need beautifully

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m a miserable sod; Let me sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a woman, nothing. If it was a man.....err....shut my eyes and pretend its a woman

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You're asleep & therefore cannot consent regardless of who does it to you or where"

You can give prior consent. Obviously it's not wise to do it if it's never been discussed but you can discuss it and agree to it happening in the future at some point.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's fine if you know the person well and have a cast iron agreement and consent. If not touching a sleeping person sexually is not the right thing to do.

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By *weetHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

A few years ago I woke up as a guy was fucking Hotwife..... the guy had stopped the night

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"You're asleep & therefore cannot consent regardless of who does it to you or where

You can give prior consent. Obviously it's not wise to do it if it's never been discussed but you can discuss it and agree to it happening in the future at some point. "

Prior consent doesn't prevent you from not wanting it at that point in time though, be it a drop in mood or whatever reason

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You're asleep & therefore cannot consent regardless of who does it to you or where

You can give prior consent. Obviously it's not wise to do it if it's never been discussed but you can discuss it and agree to it happening in the future at some point.

Prior consent doesn't prevent you from not wanting it at that point in time though, be it a drop in mood or whatever reason"

No but then I would ask them to stop. I.e. withdraw my consent. Which I'm free to do at any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d see it as major overstepping.

It doesn’t surprise me that men and women have different views on this.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Call the police."

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s how I’m woken up every Sunday morning and it bugs me as I’d like to be awake so I can enjoy what’s happening

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is my favourite way to be woken and to wake D. We have been together 25 years almost and know exactly what we like and have prior consent.

Obviously doing this with a stranger would probably result in one of us being thrown out of bed.

Jo.Xx

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"What would you do if you woke up to see a guy or a lady playing with your cock or pussy?"

Post reminded me of an interesting, current, true story (well to my legal mind):

Girl on anti-depressant medication that has an extreme sedative effect on her - sleeps more deeply than usual. One morning boyfriend says to her, "I thought you said that anything could wake you up", she says, "why?", he says, "I was fingering you last night in your sleep and you didn't wake up" ..she laughs and blames it on the medication.

Fast forward a few days and she explains what happened to her Dr (the prescriber of the medication). She did so with the aim of checking whether the dose of said medication is right for her.

Fast forward another day or two, boyfriend is arrested for r@pe, by penetration. Police do not require her permission to take the case forward. Boyfriend bailed returns home to girlfriend - case is pending and social services are now threatening to take their child into custody because the boyfriend has returned to the home.

The saga continues... but perhaps it does raise interesting questions around whether or not she consented to the penetration whilst asleep. The law assumes no. The boyfriend's only defences is that he held a reasonable belief in her consent. Personally, if she remains a hostile witness, this will win out, but it's a sticky situation to say the least.

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

This got me thinking of an ex ex ex who used to love waking me up with a bj

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You're asleep & therefore cannot consent regardless of who does it to you or where

You can give prior consent. Obviously it's not wise to do it if it's never been discussed but you can discuss it and agree to it happening in the future at some point.

Prior consent doesn't prevent you from not wanting it at that point in time though, be it a drop in mood or whatever reason

No but then I would ask them to stop. I.e. withdraw my consent. Which I'm free to do at any point. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you woke up to see a guy or a lady playing with your cock or pussy?

Post reminded me of an interesting, current, true story (well to my legal mind):

Girl on anti-depressant medication that has an extreme sedative effect on her - sleeps more deeply than usual. One morning boyfriend says to her, "I thought you said that anything could wake you up", she says, "why?", he says, "I was fingering you last night in your sleep and you didn't wake up" ..she laughs and blames it on the medication.

Fast forward a few days and she explains what happened to her Dr (the prescriber of the medication). She did so with the aim of checking whether the dose of said medication is right for her.

Fast forward another day or two, boyfriend is arrested for r@pe, by penetration. Police do not require her permission to take the case forward. Boyfriend bailed returns home to girlfriend - case is pending and social services are now threatening to take their child into custody because the boyfriend has returned to the home.

The saga continues... but perhaps it does raise interesting questions around whether or not she consented to the penetration whilst asleep. The law assumes no. The boyfriend's only defences is that he held a reasonable belief in her consent. Personally, if she remains a hostile witness, this will win out, but it's a sticky situation to say the least."

What do you mean 'hostile witness'?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"What would you do if you woke up to see a guy or a lady playing with your cock or pussy?

Post reminded me of an interesting, current, true story (well to my legal mind):

Girl on anti-depressant medication that has an extreme sedative effect on her - sleeps more deeply than usual. One morning boyfriend says to her, "I thought you said that anything could wake you up", she says, "why?", he says, "I was fingering you last night in your sleep and you didn't wake up" ..she laughs and blames it on the medication.

Fast forward a few days and she explains what happened to her Dr (the prescriber of the medication). She did so with the aim of checking whether the dose of said medication is right for her.

Fast forward another day or two, boyfriend is arrested for r@pe, by penetration. Police do not require her permission to take the case forward. Boyfriend bailed returns home to girlfriend - case is pending and social services are now threatening to take their child into custody because the boyfriend has returned to the home.

The saga continues... but perhaps it does raise interesting questions around whether or not she consented to the penetration whilst asleep. The law assumes no. The boyfriend's only defences is that he held a reasonable belief in her consent. Personally, if she remains a hostile witness, this will win out, but it's a sticky situation to say the least."

A friends son was arrested for this after he split with his gf! She was on medication that made her sleep heavily! It went quite far before the cps dropped the case x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

So long as it has been pre arranged and consent given there really is no issue.

It is not something I'd randomly enjoy if the subject has never been talked about before, the person would certainly be a huge factor on my enjoyment of the act. But yes I would find it enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no.

Just no.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Assuming it was someone I wanted to have in my bed, and presumably had just spent the night, then if that was their way of waking me and letting me know they wanted some more playtime then that works fine for me!

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"What would you do if you woke up to see a guy or a lady playing with your cock or pussy?

Post reminded me of an interesting, current, true story (well to my legal mind):

Girl on anti-depressant medication that has an extreme sedative effect on her - sleeps more deeply than usual. One morning boyfriend says to her, "I thought you said that anything could wake you up", she says, "why?", he says, "I was fingering you last night in your sleep and you didn't wake up" ..she laughs and blames it on the medication.

Fast forward a few days and she explains what happened to her Dr (the prescriber of the medication). She did so with the aim of checking whether the dose of said medication is right for her.

Fast forward another day or two, boyfriend is arrested for r@pe, by penetration. Police do not require her permission to take the case forward. Boyfriend bailed returns home to girlfriend - case is pending and social services are now threatening to take their child into custody because the boyfriend has returned to the home.

The saga continues... but perhaps it does raise interesting questions around whether or not she consented to the penetration whilst asleep. The law assumes no. The boyfriend's only defences is that he held a reasonable belief in her consent. Personally, if she remains a hostile witness, this will win out, but it's a sticky situation to say the least.

What do you mean 'hostile witness'?

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Where the prosecution witness is unwilling, but compelled to be there by subpoena.

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