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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So when sending an opening message i am sure i am not alone in sometimes going blank, now we all know the Hey, your cute, lets fuck dont tend to work, so the question is what in a meesage grabs your attention the most?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick or vagina pics and very limited text.

Can’t get enough of that shit!!

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Something that shows you've actually bothered to read my profile and please don't send a picture of your dick, for a lot of women that's an instant delete.

I also tend to look at the profile of the sender before I read the message so if you have a crap profile I probably won't read it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something that shows you've actually bothered to read my profile and please don't send a picture of your dick, for a lot of women that's an instant delete.

I also tend to look at the profile of the sender before I read the message so if you have a crap profile I probably won't read it anyway. "

This for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like "nice tits xx". Don't forget the xx - it shows you're genuine. Make sure to have no punctuation and follow it up three hours later with "wanna spunk all over them xxx". Winning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you search the forum there are lots of other threads with advice on writing intro messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm awful at first messages... I read the profile and look for something to start with but end up titling it with whatever they have asked to prove you read it and finish with a really crappy "hi how are you"... and I wonder why I have gotten nowhere on here in the months I've been here

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Poor spelling catches my attention the most.

Write your message. Check it. Check it again. Then hit send.

Kind of like starting a thread

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Messages offering food usually get me standing to attention.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I can only imagine the messages that women and couples get. I've had a few that are just "wanna cum n wanker ova ma wife" or send messages with photos of the 'wife' attached etc. Something tells me these aren't from couples.

I very seldom send a first message but when I do I check my spelling, use punctuation marks, the correct form of the word (there, their, they're) and I'm never rude or forward.

And, don't get me started on, i, use/yous or to, too & two.

Right I'm off to lie down in a darkened room before work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are going blank don’t message? It should be natural. Every message is or should be individual/personal telling someone what to say to grab attention isn’t so…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something you notice or something you read on their profile , it shows you have read their profile and took notice for more than just their looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going blank don’t message? It should be natural. Every message is or should be individual/personal telling someone what to say to grab attention isn’t so…"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm awful at first messages... I read the profile and look for something to start with but end up titling it with whatever they have asked to prove you read it and finish with a really crappy "hi how are you"... and I wonder why I have gotten nowhere on here in the months I've been here"

Have you tried social events?

Your leg crossed pic looks really friendly.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

A face pic, a compliment, refer to something in my profile and why you think we'd be compatible.

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