FabSwingers.com forum: Would someone’s first name put you off

By *irth Vader OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I was being shown a picture of a friends cousin and she was very attractive but he told me her name was Senga and it totally put me right off.

Ladies, is there any name you avoid? Nigel, Boris etc …

Lads, would Daphne or Shaza float your boat?

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

No.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Peter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was being shown a picture of a friends cousin and she was very attractive but he told me her name was Senga and it totally put me right off.

Ladies, is there any name you avoid? Nigel, Boris etc …

Lads, would Daphne or Shaza float your boat?"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would that out you off? The only conclusion I can even contemplate is it doesn’t sound very British, which leads to all sorts of other generally unPC thoughts. (Not saying this applies to you obvs, just it’s the only reason I can think of)

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Not really, unless it was particularly obnoxious lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! If they had my dad's name, my brother's name or an ex. And anyone called Boris is plain out of luck. Soz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab names put me off more than someone's real name if they are vulgar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, a person's real name wouldn't put me off them. However, I am put off by vulgar and crude profile names.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! If they had my dad's name, my brother's name or an ex. And anyone called Boris is plain out of luck. Soz.

This! Exes and dad's are a no go for names lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put me off having sex? A name? What?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I used to think that sane name as dad or brother would bother me.

Eh apparently not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beryl, I wont have sex with anyone called Beryl

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

"No, a person's real name wouldn't put me off them. However, I am put off by vulgar and crude profile names.

NBVN x"

Exactly this!

You get to choose your own profile name so a super vulgar name is gonna put you in the highly unlikely category before I even look at the profile!

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone with the same name as me since it’s considered unisex

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I was being shown a picture of a friends cousin and she was very attractive but he told me her name was Senga and it totally put me right off.

Ladies, is there any name you avoid? Nigel, Boris etc …

Lads, would Daphne or Shaza float your boat?"

I get where you are coming from with Senga, is it just a west coast name? When I was younger, a lot younger, there were a few women and girls that were called Senga, let's just say they were very frightening. I'd say I have associated the name with something negative much like many people will do with the name boris. I never us a capital B for his name as he doesn't deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there real name would put me off but some fab names definitely do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any name would be fine except my dad's name, Peter. Be a bit strange meeting a Peter

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I couldn’t meet anyone with my dads name or my sons names, that would feel a bit weird for me

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Weirdly yes if it was the same name as a family member, it would put me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little tip - Don't get their name, just pound it and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 24 profiles on here with DangerMouse in their name. Only 1 is a couple profile, the rest, strangely are guys. So there it is, I’ll never have sex with a DangerMouse…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn’t meet anyone with my dads name or my sons names, that would feel a bit weird for me

Oh I forgot about my son's names. Feck. It's getting to be quite a few plus boris (good point Davie he doesn't deserve a capital letter - the plank).

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Usually South, Currently North

I have found that I can’t talk to anyone on here with the same name as my late husband. Too strange.

Also my younger brother, but that’s quite an unusual name so has only come up once in three years+ on here.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I was engaged to someone who has the same name as my brother. It never bothered me. There are some names that make me cringe but it’s not the persons fault so I’d probably avoid using their full name or give them a nickname. I do give most people nicknames anyway. Like branding them as mine

- just joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little Fuck boy names , yes. Totally …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab names put me off more than someone's real name if they are vulgar

Profile names and real names likely put me off.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Little tip - Don't get their name, just pound it and walk away."

That’s a tough one to manage through the pre-requisite 154 DMs and 42hrs of social, but…..challenge accepted!

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Some fab names put me off before I've even spoken let alone real names don't think it would even get that far to be honest...but yeh ppl having same name as exs kinda would put me off! Not always but yeh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the min the name Matthew is putting me of anyone else who got the same name he’s an ex & a right Coker to but do get not all would be the same as him

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Not at all

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

Just mavis

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By *irth Vader OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Why would that out you off? The only conclusion I can even contemplate is it doesn’t sound very British, which leads to all sorts of other generally unPC thoughts. (Not saying this applies to you obvs, just it’s the only reason I can think of)

FYI Senga is a name based on Agnes backwards and has nothing to do with any prejudice. It’s just a fickin’ god awful name.

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By *irth Vader OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Any name would be fine except my dad's name, Peter. Be a bit strange meeting a Peter

I can’t imagine saying something like oh Senga that’s good. Just no.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

My childrens names. Instant turn off.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Senga is a Scottish name meaning slender. Nothing to do with Agnes backwards. Agnes is a Greek name meaning chaste

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Only name I would avoid is Jordan as this is a surname but ever since that bird with the big tits started using it, the use has gone mad for both sex's

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Previously there has been an occasion when a name has put me off, only because every other woman i had met with that name were off putting.

I know it was stupid i was young.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"My childrens names. Instant turn off."

Agreed. That would be a mental image problem

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nah wouldn't make a difference to me.

As my ex, 'lickmehairywetvag' would attest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

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By *irth Vader OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Senga is a Scottish name meaning slender. Nothing to do with Agnes backwards. Agnes is a Greek name meaning chaste "

Maybe do but her mother was called Agnes and she called her that for the reason I gave.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

People very rarely have chosen their own name, it’s no reflection on who they are as a person, if I really hated the name for some reason I would just find a cool nickname for them that they liked, but it certainly wouldn’t put me off having sex with them

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Barry, George or Kevin. Wouldn't touch them with a barge pole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Little tip - Don't get their name, just pound it and walk away."

You're ace

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

No it wouldn’t put us off at all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barry, George or Kevin. Wouldn't touch them with a barge pole!"

Barry White

George from the jungle

And Kevin Bacon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few that might yes. Some that would indicate a person is too young for me and a few names of ex bosses etc that I just could not deal with trying to be romantic/sexy with.

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