FabSwingers.com forum: What makes the perfect male pic?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always keen to hear perspectives on this. Particularly for any thoughts on how to look good without showing a bloomin face…

Being totally honest I’m running out of ideas

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Some bum ones? X

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I appreciate I am not the best to comment but maybe a bit of variety?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, the right amount of torso (with abs and some hair in it too, that’d be lavlyyyy) a tiny bit of the face (just to add some mystery), and a pair of good jeans or sports shorts .. freaking NOM!

I feel like I’ve described D91k or Gatsbys profile pics , ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a little picture refresh I think

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Unflushed toilet in the background. Obvs

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Something teasing, not graphic. Torso, arms, hands, thighs

something that makes me feel like I want to see more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh, open shirt, jeans with a belt that is a little too low and a bit risky. Nice glimpse of a stomach and chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of mine for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh, open shirt, jeans with a belt that is a little too low and a bit risky. Nice glimpse of a stomach and chest

Ooh yes sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant answer I'm a man just here to listen not comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think teasing pics are the best... Even on a female profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mean, the right amount of torso (with abs and some hair in it too, that’d be lavlyyyy) a tiny bit of the face (just to add some mystery), and a pair of good jeans or sports shorts .. freaking NOM!

I feel like I’ve described D91k or Gatsbys profile pics , ffs

I get a little twitchy with even the slightest bit of face on profile public pics. Perhaps I should have em there for a bit then delete. Those are generally confined to friends only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like them graphic, a man standing with a hard cock as if he is about to walk towards me and fuck me with it is usually pretty hot. It’s hard to explain!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Oooh, open shirt, jeans with a belt that is a little too low and a bit risky. Nice glimpse of a stomach and chest

I have a few of them

Need to find my sexy again, get some inspiration and get some more photos done as it's been a while.

Where are all the photo challenges?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I’ve described D91k or Gatsbys profile pics , ffs

I get a little twitchy with even the slightest bit of face on profile public pics. Perhaps I should have em there for a bit then delete. Those are generally confined to friends only."

I mean even just a jaw and lips should suffice, and I think it’s hard to tell someone u know from just lips and chin x

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Maybe keep ur face pics 4 friends only ..x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

One that makes me want to zoom into it. Tease and seduce me to ignite my curiosity

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Is there one aren't we all perfect in our own little way except me im a mess at the best of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh, open shirt, jeans with a belt that is a little too low and a bit risky. Nice glimpse of a stomach and chest

I have a few of them

Need to find my sexy again, get some inspiration and get some more photos done as it's been a while.

Where are all the photo challenges?!

Yours are just what I'm talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of mine for sure

Ahhh, I love to drool over yours

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Ones with whole men not just bits of one

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By *eturningagain1Man
over a year ago

mirfield

I totally agree….how do we achieve this! I’ve tried with black and white on my profile picture but there’s not exactly a queue forming at my door…!!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"None of mine for sure

Your 10th Jan is a lovely photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking notes here … keep the suggestions coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unflushed toilet in the background. Obvs

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Ones with whole men not just bits of one "
i would love to have the confidence to put up a whole body pic but i just don't

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anything but cock after cock shots!

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By *eturningagain1Man
over a year ago

mirfield

"Unflushed toilet in the background. Obvs

That’s made me laugh..thank you!

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

If you look at all the male profiles where they’ve got plenty of meets you’ll begin to see the patterns and what women gravitate towards.

Spoiler: Be tall, muscular, and have a big cock. It’s not rocket science tbh.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"If you look at all the male profiles where they’ve got plenty of meets you’ll begin to see the patterns and what women gravitate towards.

Spoiler: Be tall, muscular, and have a big cock. It’s not rocket science tbh. "
ya unfortunately im on the cuddly side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of mine for sure

Ahhh, I love to drool over yours

You’ll have me clutching my pearls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of mine for sure

Your 10th Jan is a lovely photo

Thank you very much, also available in colour

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"None of mine for sure

Your 10th Jan is a lovely photo

Thank you very much, also available in colour

So it is

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Looking and learning….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps men who want the ladies, my experience of my most fabbed pics by them shows they like the open shirt pics with bit of chest, the teaser pics in boxer shorts and suits/ tuxedo pics. It just comfirms what many ladies say on the profile advice threads

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Everyone will have different tastes so there’s no one perfect male pic.

When I’m thinking about creating a pic, I’m thinking about what I think would be sexy, not what others might think sexy.

Some pics work well and I get a lot of FAB’s, others don’t but as long as I’m happy with it then it makes no difference how many FAB’s I get.

A picture will always be sexier if you’re fully invested in it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last women to comment on my pics called them interesting.

I asked if that was good or bad, she said it was interesting interesting

So I am completely confused!

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Try looking at other single male accounts. There's some very inventive pictures out there.

Personally I don't mind the odd cock picture but I also like teasing open shirts, shower pictures, bath pictures, hell even the odd hottub picture. Holding things - power tools, garden equipment, kitchen stuff, food, cups of tea. Pictures can be funny and sexy. Or just funny. Just be yourself.

And never show your face if you're not comfortable doing so. Don't feel a pressure to do it.

Can I suggest just from my hotlist looking at FoolHardly, Tmontana and Erect Jim for a range of different yet very good photos. Plus I know they're couples accounts but for ideas TheVonMatterhorns and Beyond Purity are very good too

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Find a good one on the internet. Failing that imagination and variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last women to comment on my pics called them interesting.

I asked if that was good or bad, she said it was interesting interesting

So I am completely confused!"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really love to see some personality in men's photos - KinkyBiscuitDrinker, Foolhardly, Fiddlesticks for example. TMontana and Mekell have wonderful photos of their wonderful bods but you don't need to have a perfect bod to look sexy. Play around and find what works for you, taking inspo from others.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"If it helps men who want the ladies, my experience of my most fabbed pics by them shows they like the open shirt pics with bit of chest, the teaser pics in boxer shorts and suits/ tuxedo pics. It just comfirms what many ladies say on the profile advice threads

This x

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

"I really love to see some personality in men's photos - KinkyBiscuitDrinker, Foolhardly, Fiddlesticks for example. TMontana and Mekell have wonderful photos of their wonderful bods but you don't need to have a perfect bod to look sexy. Play around and find what works for you, taking inspo from others. "

Agree with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for tips

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By *iPythonMan
over a year ago

In my pants

"Here for tips

Also here for tips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tight white boxers with an open shirt

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

I like just a normal pic showing face and nice clothes and one showing the outline of his cock in his jocks. Then once we make contact I want full hard cock pics showing me what I will be getting inside me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here to see.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Black and white with nothing but white, snug fitting boxers on. Done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Black and white with nothing but white, snug fitting boxers on. Done.

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By *aramelcock69Man
over a year ago

west midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind me, i'm just making notes.

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By *aramelcock69Man
over a year ago

west midlands

Ooo noted

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By *aramelcock69Man
over a year ago

west midlands

"Black and white with nothing but white, snug fitting boxers on. Done.

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might have to answer your call

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Wouldn't say mine are perfect but I got some variety and get good feedback

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Wouldn't say mine are perfect but I got some variety and get good feedback "

I was just going to add your name to the lists other people have made. Your photos are really well done and I look quite often

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Wouldn't say mine are perfect but I got some variety and get good feedback "

They are great pics…we enjoy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all like different styles and poses in our photos so I wouldn’t say there was a perfect photo. Some people like explicit others prefer something more subtle.

Personally I love something teasing, creative, something that shows off sexy physique and is tasteful.

At the end of the end if you’re happy with your photos then that makes them perfect x

However! A flaccid penis shot is best avoided

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I like pics that leave something to the imagination not full frontal dick pics thrown in your face..that can be such a turn off!

But boxers shorts poses, ohhh the grey joggers yummy! Ohh and naked in the shower hiding the jewels pics lol

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A Sky remote or else a Lynx can can next to an unwashed penis; classy and timeless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Sky remote or else a Lynx can can next to an unwashed penis; classy and timeless

You forgot the uncut nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Sky remote or else a Lynx can can next to an unwashed penis; classy and timeless

You forgot the uncut nails

Some guitarists keep the nails on their fingering hands long for a reason… like me

Leftie is for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Sky remote or else a Lynx can can next to an unwashed penis; classy and timeless

Where's yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha a sky remote...

I use a tooth pick

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around

Is this too much...

Or just enough tease...?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Oooh, open shirt, jeans with a belt that is a little too low and a bit risky. Nice glimpse of a stomach and chest

I have a few of them

Need to find my sexy again, get some inspiration and get some more photos done as it's been a while.

Where are all the photo challenges?!

Yours are just what I'm talking about

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this too much...

Or just enough tease...?"

For me, could be less bottom and more teasing. But I do like the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some really good tips / suggestions on this thread today.

Added some new pics today that better reflect the above

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By *ttachedladMan
over a year ago

Wigan/Manchester

So, are you all telling me that a cock next to a deodorant can is not the way to go!?

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Every days school day learning

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

No but when asked how big u r a nice ruler helps

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Surely this is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, are you all telling me that a cock next to a deodorant can is not the way to go!?

Erm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking notes

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Wouldn't say mine are perfect but I got some variety and get good feedback

I was just going to add your name to the lists other people have made. Your photos are really well done and I look quite often

Thank you

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Wouldn't say mine are perfect but I got some variety and get good feedback

They are great pics…we enjoy them

Thank you, it's nice to know they're appreciated

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Anything but cock after cock shots!"

Yeah this. A bit of variety. I quite like a wet white t-shirt in the shower. Man in a towel. Half under the duvet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gallery is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love a provocative naked side profile pic - shows you everything without showing you anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unflushed toilet in the background. Obvs

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for inspiration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need tips. So Bookmarking

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