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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you don’t quite message someone back within their timeframe (approx two minutes) and they send another message with just: ???

They get an instant block! Really winds me up.

What’s your pet peeve?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Getting called babe or darling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you don’t quite message someone back within their timeframe (approx two minutes) and they send another message with just: ???

They get an instant block! Really winds me up.

What’s your pet peeve? "

Yes that, and not reading my profile while messaging the copy and paste to "you guys" "you both" etc. I'm single, it says it in the first line of my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you free I am in your area with 10 minutes to spare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you free I am in your area with 10 minutes to spare "

"10 minutes to spare". Your lucky day, eh?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Not that I wanna rant but can I list a few things?

1) People putting their names down on social event lists then not bothering to show (or let us know). Wastes our time and takes the space from others who might want to attend. Single guys are the absolute worst offenders here so the few who do show...well lucky them.

2) People messaging "Hi, we're horny" or just any low effort crap cos someone is jerking off.

3) The generic not reading the profile and spamming cut and paste stuff.

4) Talking to us like we are pieces of meat and not actual people. Always the fella in a couple and always opens with him spamming some ridiculous shit he'd like to do to the Wife. Just talk to us like normal people.

Not that I want to sound bitter or anything

But seriously, certain things are just a rinse and repeat cycle on here. We do much better with clubs and social events.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

What "use" into?....

....AAAAARGGGHHHH!!!!!

It's bad enough that they clearly haven't even glanced at the profile but the USE of USE in that context (frequently from blokes older than myself ) makes us want to launch heavy things at them!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Forum instruction manuals on how to do fab better.

Completely pointless as the target audience either don't use the forums or don't recognise themselves in anything said.

If they do take heed they then create a box ticking generic profile at best or a camoflaged persona that bears no resemblance to their true self at worst.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lack of respect for straight people.

Assumptions made that every woman is bi and if not why not? You never know she might enjoy it!

Assumptions made that every man who says he is straight is afraid of expressing himself or is closed minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum instruction manuals on how to do fab better.

Completely pointless as the target audience either don't use the forums or don't recognise themselves in anything said.

If they do take heed they then create a box ticking generic profile at best or a camoflaged persona that bears no resemblance to their true self at worst. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that really bugs me is the repeated bashing of others, I find it sad to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sentence 'If you just tell me no, ill leave you alone'

If someone doesn't reply, that is telling you mate.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

[Removed by poster at 16/02/22 07:32:29]

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

When people refer to this as fabs.

It irrationally bothers be as I then picture them saying this is Fabs wingers.

Fabswingers = fab swingers = fab

I need to get out more man

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By * is the magic numberCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Should "of" and could "of" absolutely do my head in. Its "HAVE", always has been and always will be. Shorten it to should've and could've if you're not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being messaged without face pics in first message is my number 1, clearly not read profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People assuming that because you are online, you must be looking to meet right now and if not why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lack of respect for straight people.

Assumptions made that every woman is bi and if not why not? You never know she might enjoy it!

Assumptions made that every man who says he is straight is afraid of expressing himself or is closed minded. "

Hear your frustrations and I can assure you I pull the offenders up who are on the case of straight men, it really embarrasses the decent gay and bi men on here

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"When people refer to this as fabs.

It irrationally bothers be as I then picture them saying this is Fabs wingers.

Fabswingers = fab swingers = fab

I need to get out more man "
x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This! Also if you haven’t responded within two minutes the ‘guess not’ message. I always hear it in a whiny voice and that gets an instant block too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When chatting with somebody and the profile says they don’t like dick pics yet within 2 messages they ask me for one and get the hump when I tell them I don’t have any.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Crude message. Sex site or not, it isn’t the way to approach a person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that I wanna rant but can I list a few things?

1) People putting their names down on social event lists then not bothering to show (or let us know). Wastes our time and takes the space from others who might want to attend. Single guys are the absolute worst offenders here so the few who do show...well lucky them.

2) People messaging "Hi, we're horny" or just any low effort crap cos someone is jerking off.

3) The generic not reading the profile and spamming cut and paste stuff.

4) Talking to us like we are pieces of meat and not actual people. Always the fella in a couple and always opens with him spamming some ridiculous shit he'd like to do to the Wife. Just talk to us like normal people.

Not that I want to sound bitter or anything

But seriously, certain things are just a rinse and repeat cycle on here. We do much better with clubs and social events. "

Not that I want to rant but… this made me laugh thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I wanna rant but can I list a few things?

1) People putting their names down on social event lists then not bothering to show (or let us know). Wastes our time and takes the space from others who might want to attend. Single guys are the absolute worst offenders here so the few who do show...well lucky them.

2) People messaging "Hi, we're horny" or just any low effort crap cos someone is jerking off.

3) The generic not reading the profile and spamming cut and paste stuff.

4) Talking to us like we are pieces of meat and not actual people. Always the fella in a couple and always opens with him spamming some ridiculous shit he'd like to do to the Wife. Just talk to us like normal people.

Not that I want to sound bitter or anything

But seriously, certain things are just a rinse and repeat cycle on here. We do much better with clubs and social events. "

This! Very relatable!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"???"

Blocked… haha!

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

Not reading profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokes just taking to themselves in our inbox, take a hint youth.

The mr

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Those that don’t understand the sarcasm in my profile.

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