FabSwingers.com forum: What makes sex good

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've always felt like touch is a language, and sex is a conversation. The skills and tricks you have collected are your vocabulary, but you must also have a talent for listening, building on what your partner just said, and maybe the creativity to turn a clever phrase now and then. To me, that interplay is everything and is what makes for an outstanding experience.

So when having sex what are you after in your partner? What makes it good for you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate but not too serious

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Just having sex would be good.

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By *lutonicMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Just having sex would be good.

The lead up to it is quite exciting. You never know the outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone wants it with me.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An intense , passionate connection and knowing each other

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

2 tits

A hole

And a heart beat,

And for some the Heartbeat is optional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x"

All the above and the ability to do cowgirl yee has optional

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By *rince_B97Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Connection is huge! You need to both understand and respect what makes each other tick. Intimacy, sensuality and desire are also needed. Being 100% comfortable with someone as well. The trust side of things also allows you both to be completely vulnerable with each other with that knowledge and respect that neither person would cross any lines x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Connection with your sexual partner. Intense passion that ignites a spark leading to a full blown inferno, making your body crave his touch.

And laughter...if you can't/don't laugh then it's never going to be good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection, passion, excitement and the ability to tune theirself into you sexually. Unfortunately too many seem to forget that vital part and treat sex as a one way fits all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just having sex would be good.

Good point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensuality… the touching, kissing… heightens the senses…

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

The best sex I've had has been with people I've genuinely liked, where if we weren't having sex I'd still think they were fantastic people and would love to be friends with them.

Lots of posts have mentioned connection but it's true, being on the same wavelength makes a massive difference.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Someone you are very comfortable with

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were discussing this last night.

For us it would have to be some sort of connection/attraction (Physical or Mental) the idea of someone actually was attracted to you to progress things further and you were seen for more than just your genitalia

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"The best sex I've had has been with people I've genuinely liked, where if we weren't having sex I'd still think they were fantastic people and would love to be friends with them.

Lots of posts have mentioned connection but it's true, being on the same wavelength makes a massive difference."

Perfectly put and very much the case for me as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relaxed atmosphere; no pressure to ‘be this’ or ‘do that’. Just going with the flow and being able to enjoy where it goes.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sexual attraction. Desire. Mutual respect and appreciation. If we connect well the sex will be intense and passionate.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this thing, "sex"?

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Doing it with like minded people who are into the same things as you are into, also having a connection and plenty of time to fulfill each others desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connecting in more ways than one, someone who has you laughing one minute and in ecstasy the next. Being comfortable with someone and knowing what makes them tick makes for a hell of a night!

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Connection, communication, awareness and certainly passion

Beard

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Effort, even if it's quite quick he's got to be really hammering into me at least.

Use the hands, explore my body while we fuck, grab my boobs, pull my hair.

Understand that it's not just about getting the guy to cum, both of us need to be having a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Passionate but not too serious "

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

"What is this thing, "sex"?"

As a historian, even I am stumped. Are there any archaeologists here?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I was just thinking along similar lines. Some people just drive you a bit crazy with desire and you can’t get enough, they are like a dr*g and sex is mind blowing , others are great , some are good, ok the odd ones meh and you’re the exact person in each case. Sometimes you can guess what they will be like but often you can’t , they speak a certain way or make certain noises or have a certain look or attitude during sex that’s almost out of character and you’re hooked.

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By *ucknipsWoman
over a year ago

Reading / south oxon

Fun, connection & big cock is one for me

Desire for NSA fun one off or possibly regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed 100% just need a blindfold and restraints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be the best when both are not expecting anything to happen. Kind of more natural. That awkward kiss that both want but don't want to start.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Agreed 100% just need a blindfold and restraints

Ooooer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The compatability with the other person is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have a tongue like a lizard and a cock that will rock my world

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just having sex would be good.

The lead up to it is quite exciting. You never know the outcome.

This is very true

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Tease tease tease good chemistry and wanting that person at that time like no other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait, sex can be good???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait, sex can be good???"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This sounds so so hot

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Agreed 100% just need a blindfold and restraints

Oh I do love these as an occasional addition

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Lots of touching and kissing, attentiveness, paying attention to both my responses and what I tell them, communicating their own desires and preferences to me, compatibility, actually giving a damn about my enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to start with the mind !!!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

When she does that thing I like with the pickle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Effort, even if it's quite quick he's got to be really hammering into me at least.

Use the hands, explore my body while we fuck, grab my boobs, pull my hair.

Understand that it's not just about getting the guy to cum, both of us need to be having a good time."

A lot of guys need to read this

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

The mental connection prior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is this thing, "sex"?"

Do you need a demo? We could oblige

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

"Wait, sex can be good???"

Only if you don't have it with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always felt like touch is a language, and sex is a conversation. The skills and tricks you have collected are your vocabulary, but you must also have a talent for listening, building on what your partner just said, and maybe the creativity to turn a clever phrase now and then. To me, that interplay is everything and is what makes for an outstanding experience.

So when having sex what are you after in your partner? What makes it good for you ?"

Connection is one thing but that doesn't always mean great sex.

I like a partner that will explore me and what I like specifically and enjoy the same from me. One who is not rushed and doesn't have their own method they use on everyone. Communication has to be the biggest thing for me but has to work both ways. It's not all about me, it's about then as well. I'm quite happy to try several different things and I'll make the effort to open up a partner and let them go with what they like.

I think quite often guys don't get to indulge as there's so much focus on pleasing the woman. I like to turn that round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hand

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

communication.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

I do

Communication, adventurous spirit, understanding of desires and needs attention to limits hard and soft, mental and physical attraction, creativity

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

Good kisser and chemistry

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Time. No rush. Connection. The touch and smell of a woman. Can't beat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respected for each other, listening to and hearing each other, understanding each other and having that chemistry.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

When he can read my bodies reactions as well as I can read his

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Instinct

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Crazy frog on as background music

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By *atsausageMan
over a year ago

CHICHESTER

Passion with the hint of filth thrown in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crazy frog on as background music

Now you've done it. Someone will be playing that to me again tomorrow now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay - getting each other worked up and so turned on.

Kissing, a good connection and knowing what the other wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection & chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amongst other things, stamina! It can get frustrating if they need to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection without that there is no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great sex is about great communication and caring about your partner's pleasure. If you start by wanting to please and then listen to your partner to be sure you know what they want (within your boundaries) and then do it enthusiastically, you're off to a great start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crazy frog on as background music

Now you've done it. Someone will be playing that to me again tomorrow now

Nah. Nothing can beet sexy back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think you may be aiming a little low there...

"Good" for many people is just getting some

"Great" might be someone you've fancied for a while riding you like Red Rum then grabbing your cock and sucking you like Dysons engineers can only theorize about as you blow your load every which way but loose

"Outrageously Great" might be number 2 above along with the persons blonde friend sitting on your face cumming at the same time and then you all have tunnocks teacakes or champagne after.

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Chemistry and that spark when you meet eachothers eye.

Respect and open and honest communication

Being able to have a laugh and a giggle together

MJ x

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South West and North West

Arse makes good sex

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I can't be arsed to look through all the comments to this, but if nobody has said "I do" then I am greatly disappointed in you all!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I can't be arsed to look through all the comments to this, but if nobody has said "I do" then I am greatly disappointed in you all! "

I do

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A good sense of humour. Most definitely give and take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crazy frog on as background music

Now you've done it. Someone will be playing that to me again tomorrow now

Nah. Nothing can beet sexy back

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vibe, if you have a good vibe abs it flows it’s perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good connection, passion, build up, wanting to please not just get on with it, explore each other, communicate likes, dislikes and learn.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait, sex can be good???"

Play your cards right and you’ll find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A connection some sort of spark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait, sex can be good???

Play your cards right and you’ll find out."

Do you know someone that can help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait, sex can be good???

Play your cards right and you’ll find out.

Do you know someone that can help? "

I know a guy who knows a guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A relaxed atmosphere; no pressure to ‘be this’ or ‘do that’. Just going with the flow and being able to enjoy where it goes."

This is so true. Nothing worse than someone having a list of things you should be doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wait, sex can be good???

Play your cards right and you’ll find out.

Do you know someone that can help?

I know a guy who knows a guy."

Me too. Wonder if it's the same guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seducing the mind and creating orgasms its an obsession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carlos makes sex good.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've been married a long time. It's the fact that he desires me, wants to be inside me, wants to be part of me.

We share, but that doesn't change the above xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Passionate but not too serious

That’s a good job…you’ve not got a serious bone in your delectable body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

conection and learning what makes your partner tick mentally and physically. Also try to apply both while getinng better at it over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High fiving each other in the midst of climaxing.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Oh my goodness- I've had a couple of meets recently that have absolutely rocked my world, & I their's, apparently!! One was my age (48) & one was 25

Both very different, but there was a huge amount of passion & an almost instant connection that made me feel almost as if I'd been in relationship with them! It was a fluke to meet these 2 men in a fairly short space of time, after a long period of fun, but nothing special. It's all about that connection-subsequent meeting have been mind-blowing

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

So when having sex what are you after in your partner? What makes it good for you ?"

A lesson in a new language

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