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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do men on here really want all the "sexy outfit" look for a meet, or would you be just as happy to meet a woman in her everyday attire, that she may actually feel more comfortable in, and maybe feel more sexy in.

Basically, how many of you like the stereotype sexy look, and expect it on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when the chance of sex being on the menu with most blokes if the woman turned up wearing a sack it wouldn't bother them in slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent question.

I met a guy last week and asked him what he thought of my clobber (black jeans, black shirt and a black fur coat). His response was, "Ain't nothing shabby about you girl!".

That'll do for me. Minimal effort, nice reaction.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I personally prefer the lady to feel comfortable for a meet

If she wants to be in jeans and a sweater that's fine,

if she like mrs scouse likes to dress up and she feels sexy like that, great

to me its all about the lady having a good time, and if they are relaxed then it makes for a good meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally prefer the lady to feel comfortable for a meet

If she wants to be in jeans and a sweater that's fine,

if she like mrs scouse likes to dress up and she feels sexy like that, great

to me its all about the lady having a good time, and if they are relaxed then it makes for a good meet "

Pretty much my thinking too, but so many profiles state love a lady in stockings, heels etc, which kinda puts pressure on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like dressing up for a meet so the guy thinks WOW am I lucky!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do men on here really want all the "sexy outfit" look for a meet, or would you be just as happy to meet a woman in her everyday attire, that she may actually feel more comfortable in, and maybe feel more sexy in.

Basically, how many of you like the stereotype sexy look, and expect it on a meet"

I prefer the Female to be comfortable in herself.. Sexy outfits sshould only be used for your partener if your in a couple.. its something personal for you both!

just like some people wont kiss.. itssa personal thing that they keep between just them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think when the chance of sex being on the menu with most blokes if the woman turned up wearing a sack it wouldn't bother them in slightest. "

Thank god for that as in next couple of weeks ive got my first 2 meets with men and was stressing about what to wear ha ha(like we all do), i'm not a real girly type and to be honest hate wearing skirts or dresses...but i do like nice undies but not over the top itchy lacey stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet for a drink first and will always wear a pretty dress and nice undies (or sometimes no knickers). I am not one for stocking, sussies etc. Nobody has complained so far, or even mentioned it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I started swinging I would turn up to a meet in the whole works; stockings, suspenders etc only to find they were smart but casual so I don't bother anymore, so long as I look tidy I don't care

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

i dress to impress sexy outfit so the guy feels very excited like hes dream come true to fuck a porn star lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"i dress to impress sexy outfit so the guy feels very excited like hes dream come true to fuck a porn star lol "

I wear a good dress, hold ups, nice underwear and heels. Makes me feel good. Nothing uncomfortable.

But if it is a guy I have met before the 'bedroom' clothes may come out, if I feel like it.

Tonight I met my fb. Good dress but with a fishnet bodystocking underneath as a nice surprise.

Last week it was pvc.

But I hate when a guy makes demands about what I will wear. My usual response to the question, "What are you going to wear for me?" is "Snorkel and flippers"! LOL

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By *r Tony.Man
over a year ago

Warrington B'ham London Lowestoft

Dont care what the lady wears as long as she turns up lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If its a party/club then I take sexy clothes with me to change into, but there's no way I am going to take a train or bus wearing corset, mini skirt and hold-ups. My clothes are likely to be coming off anyway so I do hope the guys are not too upset when I turn up dressed relatively conservatively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every meet I have been on its been every day clothes

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I like dressing up for a meet so the guy thinks WOW am I lucky!!"

i'm a guy,if what i wore to a meet,made that meet more special for the person i was meeting,i would wear the heels,the stockings,the basque.it wouldn't make me feel uncomfortable,it would make me feel sexy,prior to having sex,it's a good thing.

i would want to feel comfortable gardening,going to the shops,visiting the parents etc etc.for sex,i want to feel sexy.the most desirable i could be for the person i was having sex with.

some guys will say exactly what you want to hear,to get into your knickers.

others will be honest,and say they would prefer to have sex with someone who has made the effort to look,as sexy as they can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they bring a sense of humour and personality I couldn't give a fuck what they wore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dress to impress sexy outfit so the guy feels very excited like hes dream come true to fuck a porn star lol

I wear a good dress, hold ups, nice underwear and heels. Makes me feel good. Nothing uncomfortable.

But if it is a guy I have met before the 'bedroom' clothes may come out, if I feel like it.

Tonight I met my fb. Good dress but with a fishnet bodystocking underneath as a nice surprise.

Last week it was pvc.

But I hate when a guy makes demands about what I will wear. My usual response to the question, "What are you going to wear for me?" is "Snorkel and flippers"! LOL "

Its usually me that requires a snorkel on my meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take all the clothes you intend to wear on your meet. Throw them over your shoulder then turn round and look where the land and how they look on the floor. Those that don't look good need replacing. And those thAt flew across the room and under the cupboard are unsuitable for finding in a hurry at the end of the meet

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Take all the clothes you intend to wear on your meet. Throw them over your shoulder then turn round and look where the land and how they look on the floor. Those that don't look good need replacing. And those thAt flew across the room and under the cupboard are unsuitable for finding in a hurry at the end of the meet "

Cut out the middle stage and just arrive at the meet with assorted saucy garments in a bag and dump them on the floor?

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Its all down to the woman. Sometimes a gal dont feel comfortable wearing the full kit for a meet. If she likes what she is wearing then the more relaxed the meet, then the more fun will be had ... it aint rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a lady to turn up to a meet in whatever they feel sexy or confident or good in...if they are comfortable then that's the most important thing.

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