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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

If the first suggestion from a man is him telling you how great you'd look sucking his dick, am I the only woman turned off by how sexually selfish it makes him sound?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely not just you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not just you, that doesn't appeal at all to me.

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Definitely not just you x"

Thanks I now stop the conversation going any further if this happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swift delete on those messages. Not sure what the main aim is talking to people like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what mood I am in at that moment in time 99% off the time it would be a total turn off but there is that 1% off the time that I emmm need that itch scratched and emmm maybe just what I want to here and land my knickers off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you're not the only one. I detest messages like that, they get deleted and he'd get blocked too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take comfort from the fact that absolutely no one will ever do it for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like a dick tbh no respect block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It baffles me what type of response they actually expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He sounds like a dick tbh no respect block him"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block.

Next!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to write more than one line and actually pay a compliment or two.

And also explain a little about me too…..that classed as to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway "

Nothing in your profile suggests that. Some weirdos on here

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway "

The ‘king of wishful thinking’ maybe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks both! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

Nothing in your profile suggests that. Some weirdos on here "

You should read her PMs…

(Insert sarcasm klaxon)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway "

Read profile and very well written, in depth and articulate with no filth involved.

Guess he just decided to do the famous copy and paste

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Most of the messages I get from men make me or and result in sarcastic responses... I really don't want too know about your current fantasy.

I don't get many messages fortunately.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Most of the messages I get from men make me or and result in sarcastic responses... I really don't want too know about your current fantasy.

I don't get many messages fortunately. "

Don't know why. You wear a hat and a guitar perfectly. Well played that lady

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


" "

Of all the rejections I get, Dieu's was one of the nicest

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Ugh... Instant block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of all the rejections I get, Dieu's was one of the nicest "

Oh gosh, I can’t remember it. I do hope it was nice though, as you seem lovely! And most of the time, I don’t even bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

Read profile and very well written, in depth and articulate with no filth involved.

Guess he just decided to do the famous copy and paste "

Thanks x

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"

Of all the rejections I get, Dieu's was one of the nicest

Oh gosh, I can’t remember it. I do hope it was nice though, as you seem lovely! And most of the time, I don’t even bother "

Sigh. . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the messages I get from men make me or and result in sarcastic responses... I really don't want too know about your current fantasy.

I don't get many messages fortunately. "

Promise when I pay a compliment in the future…..will ensure spell check is added

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind getting message like that as it shows that for once a man has read and understood my profile x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"

Of all the rejections I get, Dieu's was one of the nicest

Oh gosh, I can’t remember it. I do hope it was nice though, as you seem lovely! And most of the time, I don’t even bother "

You were perfectly pleasant with it. My message was not one of the norm, that's why you replied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of all the rejections I get, Dieu's was one of the nicest

Oh gosh, I can’t remember it. I do hope it was nice though, as you seem lovely! And most of the time, I don’t even bother

You were perfectly pleasant with it. My message was not one of the norm, that's why you replied "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the second message. The first message I want him to tell me how pretty I'll look when he's hanging out the back of my arsehole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's the second message. The first message I want him to tell me how pretty I'll look when he's hanging out the back of my arsehole."

I need to know if you replied and what it was

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"That's the second message. The first message I want him to tell me how pretty I'll look when he's hanging out the back of my arsehole."

The quality of message on fab is disturbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway "

I'd get instant thoughts that he's caught me eating a kebab on day 3 of not washing my hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

I'd get instant thoughts that he's caught me eating a kebab on day 3 of not washing my hair "

Good point! After all, I have said on here before that my motto for life is ‘clean body, dirty hair’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

Nothing in your profile suggests that. Some weirdos on here "

I had one yesterday "hello mummy" just projecting their own fantasies.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Most of the messages I get from men make me or and result in sarcastic responses... I really don't want too know about your current fantasy.

I don't get many messages fortunately.

Promise when I pay a compliment in the future…..will ensure spell check is added "

Aye, that's probably a good idea

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Most of the messages I get from men make me or and result in sarcastic responses... I really don't want too know about your current fantasy.

I don't get many messages fortunately.

Don't know why. You wear a hat and a guitar perfectly. Well played that lady "

I'm not looking to meet men... so some must read...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the messages I get from men make me or and result in sarcastic responses... I really don't want too know about your current fantasy.

I don't get many messages fortunately.

Promise when I pay a compliment in the future…..will ensure spell check is added

Aye, that's probably a good idea "

Definitely

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Most of the messages I get from men make me or and result in sarcastic responses... I really don't want too know about your current fantasy.

I don't get many messages fortunately.

Don't know why. You wear a hat and a guitar perfectly. Well played that lady

I'm not looking to meet men... so some must read... "

I was caught in the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

I'd get instant thoughts that he's caught me eating a kebab on day 3 of not washing my hair

Good point! After all, I have said on here before that my motto for life is ‘clean body, dirty hair’.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 44 year old man telling me how he's always wanted to meet an older lady in an intro message.

A. He didn't look at my age

B. He thinks I look older than him 30 going on 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a 44 year old man telling me how he's always wanted to meet an older lady in an intro message.

A. He didn't look at my age

B. He thinks I look older than him 30 going on 50 "

More likely he has a cut and paste message because you don't look older than 30!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I had a 44 year old man telling me how he's always wanted to meet an older lady in an intro message.

A. He didn't look at my age

B. He thinks I look older than him 30 going on 50 "

Ah. Had a sneeky peek at your profile. Wasn't me You do have a gorgeous face and body. The people of Hampshire should not miss out on your company, if offered

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

Nothing in your profile suggests that. Some weirdos on here

I had one yesterday "hello mummy" just projecting their own fantasies. "

Ewwww that makes me dryer than the Sahara desert

Another dislike is "can you help me with a fantasy"... if they actually read my profile they would realise that's gonna be a big fat no. That's another telltale selfish trait, in my opinion

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

,

Nothing in your profile suggests that. Some weirdos on here

I had one yesterday "hello mummy" just projecting their own fantasies.

Ewwww that makes me dryer than the Sahara desert

Another dislike is "can you help me with a fantasy"... if they actually read my profile they would realise that's gonna be a big fat no. That's another telltale selfish trait, in my opinion "

"If I wanted to disappoint two people at the same time I'd visit my parents" - sheer class, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the first suggestion from a man is him telling you how great you'd look sucking his dick, am I the only woman turned off by how sexually selfish it makes him sound?"

I am sure you'd look great sitting on my face

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"If the first suggestion from a man is him telling you how great you'd look sucking his dick, am I the only woman turned off by how sexually selfish it makes him sound?

I am sure you'd look great sitting on my face "

Now that's more like it!!

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

,

Nothing in your profile suggests that. Some weirdos on here

I had one yesterday "hello mummy" just projecting their own fantasies.

Ewwww that makes me dryer than the Sahara desert

Another dislike is "can you help me with a fantasy"... if they actually read my profile they would realise that's gonna be a big fat no. That's another telltale selfish trait, in my opinion

"If I wanted to disappoint two people at the same time I'd visit my parents" - sheer class, thank you "

You're most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wouldn't be a conversation opener.

But at some point those words might he said depending on how well things were going later in the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the first suggestion from a man is him telling you how great you'd look sucking his dick, am I the only woman turned off by how sexually selfish it makes him sound?

I am sure you'd look great sitting on my face

Now that's more like it!! "

Love the view from bellow... When I get the chance to breath

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"If the first suggestion from a man is him telling you how great you'd look sucking his dick, am I the only woman turned off by how sexually selfish it makes him sound?"

Take him up on his "kind" offer, and then bite hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally just this second had a message saying ‘I love how filthy you are’.

I’m sure some people must live entirely in their own heads, as I don’t think I come across that way in my profile at all. Hopefully not anyway

Nothing in your profile suggests that. Some weirdos on here

I had one yesterday "hello mummy" just projecting their own fantasies.

Ewwww that makes me dryer than the Sahara desert

Another dislike is "can you help me with a fantasy"... if they actually read my profile they would realise that's gonna be a big fat no. That's another telltale selfish trait, in my opinion "

Exactly. All about their kink. They can fuckity fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not just you. No woman I know would find that appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those sort of messages make me roll my eyes and hit the delete button. I don't get why men think that would make us want to eagerly meet them.

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