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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone has disappeared before I could say goodbye. Now feel

A bit sad really. Funny how you connect with people innit?

Will they ever know that they actually meant something I wonder? Hope so

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Someone has disappeared before I could say goodbye. Now feel

A bit sad really. Funny how you connect with people innit?

Will they ever know that they actually meant something I wonder? Hope so "

If they didn't.... I'm sure someone can let them know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really lovely to read.

Sometimes it feels like it's just sex, sex, sex...we are humans with feelings too and your post confirms this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this, I’ve been in this position before and it really got to me I was totally down for ages felt like I’d had something stolen away from me without being able to do anything.

Hope you can get the closure or a good positive outcome of it dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay strong brother. I have had something similar recently caused by my own stupid actions. Wish I could turn back time and do things differently. Wish I could get the chance to show her what she means and what respect I have for her and that I’m not that same bloke I was a year ago. Not sure I’ll ever get that chance and that’s what hurts. But life goes on and we have to learn from our mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone has disappeared before I could say goodbye. Now feel

A bit sad really. Funny how you connect with people innit?

Will they ever know that they actually meant something I wonder? Hope so "

Aww I’m so sorry!!

Would a hug from Kylie make it a teeeneeeyyy weeeneeey bit better? X

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Now I'm wondering who vanished...

That aside OP; I'm sure they know they meant something. And knowing the draw of Fab, they'll be back at some point or other.

Hugs, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs op but you be happy to know I am not going anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the fact this person just went surely tells that they wanted to go that way ??

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I to find that there is often a sense of sadness attached when someone you have spoken to, even if it be fairly infrequently and/or casually goes UNLOS on here with little or no explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pain isn’t permanent

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I sometimes get an "Aw man" feeling when someone I like leaves.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Oh no. I hate those feelings when that happens. You could always remember the good chats/times you had and imagine they are thinking the same? It’s really hard to not get down about it but try not to and try to reframe it if you do feel sad. Sending hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes get an "Aw man" feeling when someone I like leaves."

Especially if you didn’t realise it at the time, I’ve not been here long but thinking about it a few regulars are no longer regular, and some UNLOS.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

It's hard when someone disappears but you have to move on, no point being hopeful that things may be different

Theres a guy things ended with that I miss, but he's blocked me and won't talk to me so nothing I can do about.

I miss the friend he was when I needed him the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no, it's horrible xx

Sometimes they leave details of how to contact them without realising that their mails disappear to

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"Stay strong brother. I have had something similar recently caused by my own stupid actions. Wish I could turn back time and do things differently. Wish I could get the chance to show her what she means and what respect I have for her and that I’m not that same bloke I was a year ago. Not sure I’ll ever get that chance and that’s what hurts. But life goes on and we have to learn from our mistakes. "

Theres always ways to find someone If you truly meant it and wanted to say sorry

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Sorry to hear that chap you're a decent guy dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be pissed off if someone I talk to regularly just fucked off without saying goodbye.

It's not like I think we owe each other anything but I'd like to think they at least enjoyed our interactions enough to say bye. Shrugs. Not had it happen but I guess that's how I'd feel. I wouldn't lose sleep over it though. We all have a life out of here and we don't ever know what that's truly like, no matter how well we *think* we know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs from me (((PD)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that mate, you never know though, they could always come back later down the line but it's a shame they didn't leave you with anything to contact them in the meantime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s all cool. No one did owt bad, just sad is all. Think I was on my period yesterday or some shit.

Fuck feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all cool. No one did owt bad, just sad is all. Think I was on my period yesterday or some shit.

Fuck feelings "

Feelings are over rated

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

It’s hard when someone disappears… it will take time but you will heal.. talking from experience! But still feel sad about it !! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost a lovely couple yesterday too, quite sad as I enjoyed our chats

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Aww PD, sending you a big boobie squish! I’m sure they would know they meant a lot to you, you are a wonderful man and always brighten up this place with your sarcasm and wit, despite claiming to be all dark and mysterious. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes get an "Aw man" feeling when someone I like leaves."

Yeah so do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry PD. The transience is tough sometimes when you've shared truths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it...but maybe that person is still gonna check in and see your post...fingers crossed x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It’s all cool. No one did owt bad, just sad is all. Think I was on my period yesterday or some shit.

Fuck feelings "

No, embrace the feelings. I think a fair few are sad they didn't get a goodbye or anything. If it helps in anyway, I have a strong feeling that there will be either a profile waiting in the wings or they'll be back very shortly.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Hope you're okay, Playfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone has disappeared before I could say goodbye. Now feel

A bit sad really. Funny how you connect with people innit?

Will they ever know that they actually meant something I wonder? Hope so "

People often talk of 'love at first sight'.. but i think Love at last sight is more common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who left?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Someone has disappeared before I could say goodbye. Now feel

A bit sad really. Funny how you connect with people innit?

Will they ever know that they actually meant something I wonder? Hope so

People often talk of 'love at first sight'.. but i think Love at last sight is more common."

That is so very true.

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"Pain isn’t permanent "

Tell my spine that...

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Who left?"

It looks like a few have done in the last day or two. The threads seem full of 'user no longer on site'.

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