FabSwingers.com forum: One thing that your ex gave you that you still have

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Good afternoon all . Hope your Monday is going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debt

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

A complex

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

The hoody I’m wearing at the moment. Wouldn’t fit in his suitcase so I have it now

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

A titanium ring

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

My daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust issues

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By *WDomMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debt, and heartache

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

A lack of trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lack of trust "

Ditto x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

My last ex , two daughters and two cats, I literally have all four of them living with me at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sense of relief she left

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Happy memories...

Just trying to cheer up the thread lol

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"A lack of trust

Ditto x"
xx

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Clarity on what I don’t want from someone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A complete distrust of men.

Heartache

Bed to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slippers

Kitchen knife (as tbf mine are useless)

Calsberg pint glass

A wood burner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids and self esteem issues... Weirdly I was just thinking about this earlier this afternoon, how strange this thread was posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anxiety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A deep seated hatred of tinned pilchards.

Stinky f’kin things!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

A fantastic poster in a weird non-standard size, so it's still in a tube in a wardrobe 8 years on.

My favourite ex gave me an external hard drive full of music and kindle books and films, and I download music off that to play in my car on a constant basis. I bought him an inflatable vibrating buttplug and I'm not sure he got the same amount of use out of that. We were in very different places when it came to gifts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Emotional Damage*

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By *llovereveryMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Good afternoon all . Hope your Monday is going well

Absolute clarity about what I don't want in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trivial Pursuit, didn't really give me it just left it behind

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

His friendship

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"His friendship

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I was so expecting to read genital warts or chlamydia!

Gbat

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West

Chlamydia

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

My 3 eldest and the other ex my 3 youngest x

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

My son

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By *orny-chubbyMan
over a year ago

East London

My ex is a great guy , now my best friend and confide all my secrets to him including my activities on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low self esteem

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

My kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chlamydia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lack of confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chlamydia "

that escalated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 14/02/22 17:00:32]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clarity on what I don’t want from someone x"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being positive

fond memories

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Desire to travel

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Debt

A need to redecorate

Psychological damage

Internal and external scars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Low self esteem "

Aww

You are fucking awesome though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several lessons learned, a plectrum and some photo's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Children "

Are there not antibiotics for that STI?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The joy of 8 hours sleep

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By *itty_gizmoCouple
over a year ago

Mordor

"*Emotional Damage*

I said this out loud!!! was going to be my answer but feared not many would get it *high five*

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

The house and most of its contents.

Had to pay for my share of the equity but contents never got factored in.

I did a lot better than most men do. Having no children and both being in work helped keep it simple.

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Horrific flashbacks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A beautiful necklace to remind me of my ex forgetting our first wedding anniversary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotional damage

Trust issues

A deep seated fear my boundaries won’t be respected.

A sense of relief that he’s not here

On the plus side, two marvellous kids

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By *erenity20Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Low tolerance for lies and deceit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be fooled by a pretty face also helped me focus on myself and to realise exactly what I don’t need in my life

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

A daughter & a very nice watch!

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

My ex literally gave me nothing in a year and a half, he was a taker only. Only positive thing he left me with was the fact that he told me about fab. X

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

An axe...well it wasn't so much given.. I borrowed it and never returned it.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Pain...heartache

Ran into the bitch earlier and all those feelings came flooding back

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

The ability to smell a prick from 100yrds

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Scars

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Wedding ring and three kids

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

His record collection

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I really don’t want to focus on the very long list of negatives so I’ll say the chance to find someone who genuinely loves me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A ring he bought me for my birthday (and I’m still wearing it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A ring he bought me for my birthday (and I’m still wearing it)"

Only because it’s pretty not for sentimental value

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"I really don’t want to focus on the very long list of negatives so I’ll say the chance to find someone who genuinely loves me. "

Love this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The desire to be with her. To hug her and fall asleep with her in my arms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She gave me both fond and excruciating memories but the fond ones far out number the excruciating ones!

And whilst there were moments that she broke me down and created doubt in me as a person she certainly did more to make me understand that I am a decent individual….a good dad….and I have a lot of love to give the right person….so I would say she gave me a brilliant sense of self-worth, two amazing children and a life long best friend!!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Ptsd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debt

Kids

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

My kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 2inch scar on the nape of my neck

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

You seem to be a bit fixated on exes at the minute busman. Everything OK?

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low self-esteem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of happy memories

And sadly lots of debt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m thrilled to say my two beautiful little girls

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Divorce papers

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

Body confidence issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A range of Issues

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Televisions... and artwork... truly bizarre!?

Maybe as I had the house and walls to accommodate both

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"You seem to be a bit fixated on exes at the minute busman. Everything OK? "
all good happily married . Thanks for your concern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peace and quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would certainly seem pretty much all of us got very much the same things - kids, debt and unhappiness etc. I'm sure I'm not alone in getting on better with the ex now that we can breath out and have no animosity against her, just at the situation where my fun years were wasted being miserable. She left her Dyson surprisingly, and took some unusual things I wasn't expecting her to take!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Debt "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A best friend

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By *erbert the pervertMan
over a year ago

party in your panties

Herpes

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Trust issues….

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

A broken heart x

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea

My ex-wife gave me a scar where she stabbed me.

My ex-partner have me various CD's as presents.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

" She left her Dyson surprisingly, and took some unusual things I wasn't expecting her to take!"

I got that too ... ex took the pizza cutter even though he was intolerant to gluten (typically in a pizza)

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My daughter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bruised heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was that guy that returned every gift, every card, letter, photo, everything, in a big box left on her doorstep. I have nothing but memories, and I’d love to recycle those too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 'charm' that hangs on my rear view mirror, it has a 'superman S' she always called me her superman, a 'truck'(thats what i did drive) a 'kryptonite' (i called her my krytonite) and a little defuser bottle that had her perfume in.

I adore it, it may be my favourite possession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically, a copy of Ian McEwan's "Enduring Love"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debt, a broken heart, trust issues (again!), anger, scars. Too many more to list x

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

A fear of commitment,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both good and bad memories.

Wonderful daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She didn’t give it but made my commitment issues worse

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

A small scar

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By *weety321Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Earache, trust issues, anxiety and body consciousness

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Lots, many a life lesson, some jewellery but most important - our children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fear of ever falling in love again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wedding ring. And theirs

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By *ussexualMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Tinnitus

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

"Tinnitus "

Pardon?

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

"Tinnitus

Pardon?"

It’s a condition to do with your brain ‘hearing’ sounds that aren’t there. Whilst my ex didn’t give me tinnitus; stress and caffeine can exacerbate it.

My answer was going to be a white leather laptop bag; too good to throw away.

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