FabSwingers.com forum: Life begings at 40

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Id like to share, iam not 40 yet but could never understand the meaning of life begings at 40, i was always worried about getting older lol until one day i stopped And it all just hit me...... How you mature,how you can say exsactly what you want now where yrs ago you wudnt have dare,the yrs you wasted in dead sex relationship because you thought you loved someone, i joined this site 6 months ago And wow iam so glad i did i cant wait to be 40 lol

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a positive post and a great sentiment. I hope that you continue to enjoy yourself

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

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Life just seems to become easier as we get older and are comfortable in our own skin and can just enjoy it’s simple pleasures for what they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is just a number..

but mid-thirties was way better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"age is just a number..

but mid-thirties was way better

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My life began at 50. Fab has helped me find myself again as I got lost for so many years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On what’s my first single Valentines Day since 2008 this is what I needed to hear! Seriously though, this is so right.

I’m 40 in August and this version of me is more self confident, intelligent and probably more physically attractive.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know about beginning at 40 for me, but I’ve certainly had some of my best times since I hit that age. I’m getting better looking as I age too.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m looking forward to turning 50 in December

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My life began at 50. Fab has helped me find myself again as I got lost for so many years."
love this x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On what’s my first single Valentines Day since 2008 this is what I needed to hear! Seriously though, this is so right.

I’m 40 in August and this version of me is more self confident, intelligent and probably more physically attractive.

Thank you."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t know about beginning at 40 for me, but I’ve certainly had some of my best times since I hit that age. I’m getting better looking as I age too.

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good glad to hear it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m looking forward to turning 50 in December

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whys that? If u dont mind me asking? X

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I can’t wait for my 40th either. My 30’s have been awesome so I can only assume it will get better.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I’m looking forward to turning 50 in December

whys that? If u dont mind me asking? X"

The last few years have been the best and can only see them getting better

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I can confirm that being in your 40’s is amazing

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not true. You can get youth back no matter how you try and spin it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

40s we’re by far my best decade, not just here but financial freedom, maturity, knowing what I really want , confidence , kids become more like friends than dependencies, you take much less shit from annoying people generally . But then it’s all over and you’re old

Enjoy your 40’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm enjoying my 40's

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I can't say that 40's were any less dynamic, rewarding, and fulfilling than my 20's, 30's or now in my 50's. It's all just a game, it's simply how you play it that makes the difference.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Think I was mid 30's when I came to the realisation that no one actually gives a fuck what you look like or do in real life. Just be you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can’t wait for my 40th either. My 30’s have been awesome so I can only assume it will get better. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't say that 40's were any less dynamic, rewarding, and fulfilling than my 20's, 30's or now in my 50's. It's all just a game, it's simply how you play it that makes the difference. "
some good advice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think I was mid 30's when I came to the realisation that no one actually gives a fuck what you look like or do in real life. Just be you! "
Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm enjoying my 40's

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

"Id like to share, iam not 40 yet but could never understand the meaning of life begings at 40, i was always worried about getting older lol until one day i stopped And it all just hit me...... How you mature,how you can say exsactly what you want now where yrs ago you wudnt have dare,the yrs you wasted in dead sex relationship because you thought you loved someone, i joined this site 6 months ago And wow iam so glad i did i cant wait to be 40 lol "

often by 40, people jids are grown up or enhough that they dont need full time supervision,

often our careers are well established.

in your 40 you are more settled in your skin, less angsty, more cofident, know what you want from life, have explored sexually and know what you like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"40s we’re by far my best decade, not just here but financial freedom, maturity, knowing what I really want , confidence , kids become more like friends than dependencies, you take much less shit from annoying people generally . But then it’s all over and you’re old

Enjoy your 40’s

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luv it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look after yourself and have the right mindset and attitude, age does not really matter

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

Only 6 years away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's not true. You can get youth back no matter how you try and spin it"
I wudnt want it back lol, i like now! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only 6 years away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you look after yourself and have the right mindset and attitude, age does not really matter

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agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really hits. I’ll be 40 in a couple of months and only now am I starting to work out who I am. What I want. What I need. Life experience and bad times have taught me a lot. It takes time to get to know you I’m finding

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can confirm that being in your 40’s is amazing

Miss pc"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This really hits. I’ll be 40 in a couple of months and only now am I starting to work out who I am. What I want. What I need. Life experience and bad times have taught me a lot. It takes time to get to know you I’m finding

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you are right x

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

My advice to any man hitting 40 would be to make it an absolute priority to procure yourselves a lifelong loving female partner, the girls can pull at any age.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You definitely care less about what other people think!

I do more stuff for me now, than ever before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned 40 almost a year ago and I have to say it has been fantastic! I feel like I know myself better than ever!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I turned 40 almost a year ago and I have to say it has been fantastic! I feel like I know myself better than ever! "
I like the sound of this x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You definitely care less about what other people think!

I do more stuff for me now, than ever before. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My advice to any man hitting 40 would be to make it an absolute priority to procure yourselves a lifelong loving female partner, the girls can pull at any age."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just turned 40 so can't really say, but from reading what's been said here today sounds like its a good thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My advice to any man hitting 40 would be to make it an absolute priority to procure yourselves a lifelong loving female partner, the girls can pull at any age."

Not so. At 65 ones pulling power is considerably reduced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woo! 4 years till I have to do something

I’ll take this time to relax

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"My life began at 50. Fab has helped me find myself again as I got lost for so many years."

This happened to me though the last couple of years has been difficult and am hoping 57/58 became the years I start living again..

X storm x

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

really happy to read this, especially today of all days!!... I think there's so many possibilities and opportunities, it's definitely a wonderful time - let the fun last as long as possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My life began at 50. Fab has helped me find myself again as I got lost for so many years.

This happened to me though the last couple of years has been difficult and am hoping 57/58 became the years I start living again.. I like ur thinking look good aswel x

X storm x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

really happy to read this, especially today of all days!!... I think there's so many possibilities and opportunities, it's definitely a wonderful time - let the fun last as long as possible.

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Thanks babe, was nice night out the other night, cant wait to do it again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Woo! 4 years till I have to do something

I’ll take this time to relax

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lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just turned 40 so can't really say, but from reading what's been said here today sounds like its a good thing. "

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I never understand why people don't want to get older. To me, it just means I've survived another year... which is a GOOD thing.

Cal

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Life just carries on the same at 40 or any other age. It makes no difference bar you get a bit wiser or think you do anyhow.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Ill agree when it happens

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By *ocky82Man
over a year ago

Watford

I hope it does I’m 40 this year !

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

really happy to read this, especially today of all days!!... I think there's so many possibilities and opportunities, it's definitely a wonderful time - let the fun last as long as possible.

Thanks babe, was nice night out the other night, cant wait to do it again x

Definitely, we should plan something again soon - no waiting for 40 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life begins when you what it to when you stop careing what others think and start liveing your life for your self

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have to say that each decade has got better, so my 40s have been the best so far, despite Covid.

Hoping my 50s will be better again.

I think it's a combination of being increasingly comfortable in your skin and children being more independent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far happier with myself in my 40s than ever before.

I've been single since I turned 40, and thats been a positive thing for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm far happier with myself in my 40s than ever before.

I've been single since I turned 40, and thats been a positive thing for me. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have to say that each decade has got better, so my 40s have been the best so far, despite Covid.

Hoping my 50s will be better again.

I think it's a combination of being increasingly comfortable in your skin and children being more independent. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Life begins when you what it to when you stop careing what others think and start liveing your life for your self "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Life just carries on the same at 40 or any other age. It makes no difference bar you get a bit wiser or think you do anyhow. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your never to old for cock

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By *aughty GilfCouple
over a year ago

bishop area

I'm 60 this year and I'm having a ball on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 60 this year and I'm having a ball on here"

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Definitely don’t believe in this sentiment - life begins when you start living it the way you want too, when you stop listening to society’s ideals of how you should look, behave etc and you basically just give less fucks!

I’m glad you are enjoying yourself OP and it’s great to see a positive thread

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I'm 60 this year and I'm having a ball on here"

Nope, I don't believe you. You have added on a few years.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Enjoy it gets better and better x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It didn't start until 50 for me.

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We’re closing in on 40 and whilst we definitely don’t feel that old, (it isn’t old!) I’ve definitely felt like pressure to conform and be what society thinks I should be. Turning 30 made me realise that my life should be my own and I should be who I am without worrying about what others think. I definitely feel more comfortable and confident in my own skin now at 36 than I did at 20!

C x

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