FabSwingers.com forum: looking for a Lady who wants to come on holiday

By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

I have recently been unceremoniously dumped by my partner of four years.

We had a holiday booked to la mirage in Gran Canaria.

So those who don't know this is one of the best singers hotels in GO.

Anyway I would like to find a lady who might like to come along for a 2 week all paid for holidays.

The dates are leaving on the 15 March and return on the 29th March.

Please would you let me know if you are interested in joining me for some fun in the sun

Phil x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Here's hoping someone takes you up on your offer Phil.

Some may think that you really are a member of a Singers Club.

Good Luck

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

OP, good luck in your quest.

What might help is posting some updated photos on your profile? The only one you have is from 2016.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t think it’s a good idea as you would be presuming the person would have sex with you in return for a free holiday ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps your partner objected to you being on Fab, seeing as your profile says you have had it for over a year.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

"I don’t think it’s a good idea as you would be presuming the person would have sex with you in return for a free holiday ?"
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Although I am myself far from presumptuous I think it is a fair presumption for him to make as he has offered the holiday to someone off fab and not out a notice in his local newsagents window, seems like a good deal for a lady with a hedonistic outgoing nature.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"I don’t think it’s a good idea as you would be presuming the person would have sex with you in return for a free holiday ?.

Well given that it is a swingers resort, it might be a bit awkward to explain to a prospective attendee who’s not on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But maybe not come back?

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"But maybe not come back?"

Then I'm down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this is a guy with his head screwed on, holidays have never been cheaper so book a holiday make up a story about been dumped, try bag a female for a couple of weeks shagging in the sun it's the ultimate play. if there was a slow clap emoji I would be using it right now

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" holidays have never been cheaper "

Really ? Next month I'm paying £1500 for two weeks in Egypt and hotel rooms in Manchester are all over £100 Friday and Saturday nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" holidays have never been cheaper

Really ? Next month I'm paying £1500 for two weeks in Egypt and hotel rooms in Manchester are all over £100 Friday and Saturday nights "

Carlos is available at short notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly £107 per night including flights in Egypt that's proper cheap.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"But maybe not come back?"

Cadbury thinks Carlos profile has been hacked as Carlos does not appear to have made the above statement as his name was not mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But maybe not come back?

Cadbury thinks Carlos profile has been hacked as Carlos does not appear to have made the above statement as his name was not mentioned

Carlos felt it was too serious and just blurted it out. Carlos can assure you normal service has resumed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But maybe not come back?

Cadbury thinks Carlos profile has been hacked as Carlos does not appear to have made the above statement as his name was not mentioned

Carlos felt it was too serious and just blurted it out. Carlos can assure you normal service has resumed.

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what a profile got to be the most honest profile on fab

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"But maybe not come back?

Cadbury thinks Carlos profile has been hacked as Carlos does not appear to have made the above statement as his name was not mentioned

Carlos felt it was too serious and just blurted it out. Carlos can assure you normal service has resumed.

Cadbury is quite relieved to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But maybe not come back?

Cadbury thinks Carlos profile has been hacked as Carlos does not appear to have made the above statement as his name was not mentioned

Carlos felt it was too serious and just blurted it out. Carlos can assure you normal service has resumed.

Cadbury is quite relieved to hear that"

Carlos is happy and wonders if you have offered to escort the OP on holiday? Buried on the beach takes on an entirely different context in this situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But maybe not come back?

Cadbury thinks Carlos profile has been hacked as Carlos does not appear to have made the above statement as his name was not mentioned

Carlos felt it was too serious and just blurted it out. Carlos can assure you normal service has resumed.

what a profile got to be the most honest profile on fab

Carlos is happy you approve.

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

Flipping spell check is going to be that cause of the world going yo war.

swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yo!

Dude!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"But maybe not come back?

Cadbury thinks Carlos profile has been hacked as Carlos does not appear to have made the above statement as his name was not mentioned

Carlos felt it was too serious and just blurted it out. Carlos can assure you normal service has resumed.

Cadbury is quite relieved to hear that

Carlos is happy and wonders if you have offered to escort the OP on holiday? Buried on the beach takes on an entirely different context in this situation.

Cadbury is currently enquiring if there are childfree places to bring the family along too

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

Please don't judge the reason she has left isn't anything to do with fab . In fact it is something that happened over 40 years ago. .

We were rreally good together. . Then something happened and all that changed..

mental health is a terrible thing and it destroys lives..

yes you might be right it'sa tterrible idea

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Please don't judge the reason she has left isn't anything to do with fab . In fact it is something that happened over 40 years ago. .

We were rreally good together. . Then something happened and all that changed..

mental health is a terrible thing and it destroys lives..

yes you might be right it'sa tterrible idea"

Sorry to hear your relationship is over.

You can make any type of legal meet request that you want.

. Women meet men in hotel rooms or their homes all the time from fab.

I admit I wouldn't commit to two weeks in a foreign country staying at a swingers hotel with someone I hardly knew but I wouldn't meet a single man in his hotel room in this country either.

My personal opinion is that you'll find it next to impossible to find someone to go with but you never know

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

I realise it might be a impossible task but i just need to get back to being the confident guy i was.

what has happened has really knock me and ijust need to have coconfidence to get back on the horse..

Some of the comments back have not exactly helped

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I realise it might be a impossible task but i just need to get back to being the confident guy i was.

what has happened has really knock me and ijust need to have coconfidence to get back on the horse..

Some of the comments back have not exactly helped "

A single guys motives will always be questioned on fab, it's unfortunate.

Can you cancel the holiday and plan to rebook at a later date maybe. In the meantime you could go to clubs to build your confidence back up

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

The flights are paid for and as mental health isn't seen as a medical reason that's out

the hotel we paid for two years ago.. before covid..

so no unfortunately not.

I don't even think the insurance will cover it so kiss goodbye to £2800.00

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The flights are paid for and as mental health isn't seen as a medical reason that's out

the hotel we paid for two years ago.. before covid..

so no unfortunately not.

I don't even think the insurance will cover it so kiss goodbye to £2800.00"

Could you face going alone?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"But maybe not come back?

Then I'm down"

I wonder if the OP is generous enough to give you and I the tickets...I'd be down then

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Hey OP... sorry to see that you've been dumped.

Hope you find someone to go with or the very least take yourself away. Forget your troubles and have a great time x

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

I’ve similar experience to this

Had a few meets with a woman 10 years younger than me on this site , I offered to take her to Spain me paying flight and hotel so she only needed her spending money .

Anyway she couldn’t go and offered to pay the changes if I would let her sister go instead

Which I thought was a bit odd but when I met her sister I thought it would be a good idea .

Bratty mid twenties but athletic body

She had friends who worked out there so I didn’t see her much at night , she would let me rub oil on her but I preferred to do that in the room as round the pool I think people thought I was her dad .

They were twin beds in the room but she certainly wasn’t shy showing her body off .

I done a lot for her personally helping her get ready to go out and walking into magaluf with her

Before leaving her with mates to party

Cost me quite a bit but I’ve no regrets .

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"The flights are paid for and as mental health isn't seen as a medical reason that's out

the hotel we paid for two years ago.. before covid..

so no unfortunately not.

I don't even think the insurance will cover it so kiss goodbye to £2800.00"

Don't lose it...just go away yourself x

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

It's a couples only place so no chance of going it alone

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I want to go on holiday.

However, that's only few weeks away. I don't usually meet people for coffee until a week at least of chatting, usually more. And before a 2 week holiday I'd need to know we could stand each other for more than a few hours.

So that's a good few weeks lead in at least. I'd also be worried that I was making my usual bad choice and that I'd end up being found dead in a hotel room (hasn't happened yet but that's a kind of worst case thing).

I'd also hate the idea of someone else paying for everything on a holiday, I'd feel beholden to them and not unlike a hooker (no issue with that, but it isn't my thing). And I haven't the money for a holiday.

I don't think I'm alone in this, OP. So unfortunately I'm not certain you'll have much luck.

Why not just go alone? If you go determined to enjoy yourself you should have a lovely time. Would be a shame to lose out.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It's a couples only place so no chance of going it alone"

Ah. Just saw that.

Can you postpone it another year?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

Thanks not so posh I realise it's not going to happen. .

P's I'm not going to kill anyone. . Even myself even though the prospects of being on my own make you consider many things

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Could you ask a friend to go with you?

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

Claire i have asked a couple of friends but with being a couple on here with S for a number of years it's mainly couples i know. .

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

If i was a woman asking I'm sure the amount of offers would be just crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy your holiday by yourself, I would x

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Perhaps your partner objected to you being on Fab, seeing as your profile says you have had it for over a year.

Baring in mind the hotel booked is a swingers hotel my guess is his partner knew he was on here

Not all single guys or guys with partners are cheats my husband & I both have single and our couples profile.

No one ever has a problem with my profile but my husband having his own one l, different story

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

Kitty it's a couples only swinging holiday. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kitty it's a couples only swinging holiday. ."

Right, shame that. I hope you find someone to take with you x

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

I never once used my single page while we were together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But maybe not come back?

Then I'm down"

Hahahaha

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I never once used my single page while we were together"

I know you may be being made to feel like you need to justify yourself but you really don't.

Afterall, that wasn't part of your OP.

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

It seems very unlikely doesn't it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The flights are paid for and as mental health isn't seen as a medical reason that's out

the hotel we paid for two years ago.. before covid..

so no unfortunately not.

I don't even think the insurance will cover it so kiss goodbye to £2800.00"

Could your ex go on the holiday with a friend ?

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

I have been trying to find answers for two months to justify what has happened to my world.

sorry but it's really hard to follow this but friends have said I should at least try.

being completely honest I just wanted to turn the clock back and change what happened to S 45 years ago..

I just can't do that and nobody can

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

Sally I'm not even going to answer

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By *ornyspiceCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

As you know La Mirage does not allow single guys, so going on your own will not be an option sorry to say.

Why not email La Mirage and explain the situation they are a reasonable company and you never know you may be surprised, you don't know till you asked. With this Covid situation we have had.

How ever when booking they do have terms & conditions in black & white before paying. When we make our bookings they only take 25% Deposit and you pay the balance if full 45 days before arriving unless that changed, we are going end of this April booking was made 2 years ago and we had to moved it to the year, balance will be due soon.

Good luck with the outcome.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

If all else fails, maybe see if a couple here would buy the holiday off you (assuming the company would allow a transfer of booking), and use the money to book yourself another holiday?

Hope I'm wrong, but feels like a tough sell to ask someone to go on holiday with a complete stranger (I wouldn't). Sorry you're in this position, OP - hope you get something sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what to suggest OP, but I feel for you

sorry you're having a tough time and hope you sort something, sounds like a holiday would do you a world of good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been let down for me holiday by someone and have decided to go alone

it's not by choice but I will embrace the experience

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Kitty it's a couples only swinging holiday. ."

Would it be possible to ‘sell’ the hotel booking to a couple if the hotel allows and you can use your flights while booking somewhere else so you at least get a holiday from this

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Dont mail pls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont mail pls. "

BURN

Think you should just take a mate and get shitfaced for 2 weeks!

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By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

There is another option. When we were in Cap D'Agde we met a couple where he had advertised on Craig's list and found her to go on holiday with. Strange we know but it did work for them. If you can transfer Le Mirage are booked all summer so give us a shout!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Aww, I really hope you do find someone! Sounds like a holiday would do you good

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

Trouble is its couples only and sadly I'm no longer a couple

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By *he gentlemans club OP Man
over a year ago

In the Shropshire Hills

The good wishes are so nice to have. But it gets me no further forward mimi.

I just feel like giving up ..no one wants you when your old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no what predicament.. I mean fab is the perfect place to advertise and you may strike lucky, but i tend to agree with NSP's comments, which would make most people a little reticent perhaps

Good luck OP, definitely explain the situation

Another thought .. Could you and your ex go as friends? Maybe one sleeps on the sofa? Or are things too far gone?

Maybe add to the meets section, but i suspect you'll get a lot of timewasters?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Hey Op.

Another good wish from me which seems pretty empty but we all mean well.

Sorry people knocked you a little. I hope you find someone and have a great time.

Keep whacking the meets up and someone may get interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the singing side might put them off OP!

If you don't find a Jane MacDonald type, I'm pretty sure you'll enjoy the trip anyway

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Really

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Is this the tinder swindler in disguise?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Bugger clashes with my cruise

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

It sounds like a lovely offer but I’ve been watching too much true crime and stalking tv shows to ever leave my house again now.

I’m sure there might be someone on here willing to take a chance and go with you but a lot of threads start and this might get washed down the line and missed by those that would go.

I think NotSoPosh suggested moving the dates? I’d look into that if it was me and then you have time to find someone willing to go.

Good luck!!!

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