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By *ingerbeardman- OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield

I kinda feel like I've been on the verge of begging for it from my partner for weeks now, and that kinda makes me feel a bit pathetic :/

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What kind of attention?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Well don’t beg.

Instead sit her down and tell her how you feel.

It’s not pathetic to want attention from your partner. But you both need to talk about what’s going on, and why.

Calmly. Rationally.

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By *ingerbeardman- OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield

Legit just any kind of attention!

I've tried speaking to her, and things haven't changed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Legit just any kind of attention!

I've tried speaking to her, and things haven't changed. "

Did she say why?

I'm not saying this is what's happening but do you show her affection all the time or just when you want sex?

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By *ingerbeardman- OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield

She says she's just tired from work.

And yes I do. I'm a very affectionate guy. Or I say least like to think I am.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"She says she's just tired from work.

And yes I do. I'm a very affectionate guy. Or I say least like to think I am. "

I don't know then. Sometimes relationship stuff is hard

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I'm no relationship expect but what I know for sure is whatever you do 'don't beg for anything' puts you in a weak standing in the relationship power dynamics!

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By *ingerbeardman- OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield


"She says she's just tired from work.

And yes I do. I'm a very affectionate guy. Or I say least like to think I am.

I don't know then. Sometimes relationship stuff is hard "

It is. I'm trying. Thanks for replying.

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By *ingerbeardman- OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield


"I'm no relationship expect but what I know for sure is whatever you do 'don't beg for anything' puts you in a weak standing in the relationship power dynamics! "

Yeah, definitely not gonna do it. But I kinda feel like that's the only thing that's left haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"She says she's just tired from work.

And yes I do. I'm a very affectionate guy. Or I say least like to think I am.

I don't know then. Sometimes relationship stuff is hard

It is. I'm trying. Thanks for replying. "

Purely as a discussion point with no judgement from me, does she know about fab?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I kinda feel like I've been on the verge of begging for it from my partner for weeks now, and that kinda makes me feel a bit pathetic :/"

Hang it back to them.

At a calm moment, make calm contact and say something along the lines of 'I'm feeling you're having a hard time and that makes me sad for you and me. I'd like us to talk about it and I'll be listening when you're ready. Cuppa?'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I kinda feel like I've been on the verge of begging for it from my partner for weeks now, and that kinda makes me feel a bit pathetic :/

Hang it back to them.

At a calm moment, make calm contact and say something along the lines of 'I'm feeling you're having a hard time and that makes me sad for you and me. I'd like us to talk about it and I'll be listening when you're ready. Cuppa?'

"

I'm stealing those words

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I kinda feel like I've been on the verge of begging for it from my partner for weeks now, and that kinda makes me feel a bit pathetic :/"

Does she know your on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely sit down and talk to her, establish if there is a problem or something and work on it together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's just tired from work.

And yes I do. I'm a very affectionate guy. Or I say least like to think I am. "

I said I was tired but reality was I couldn't stand being anywhere near him.

Why are you with her?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I kinda feel like I've been on the verge of begging for it from my partner for weeks now, and that kinda makes me feel a bit pathetic :/

Hang it back to them.

At a calm moment, make calm contact and say something along the lines of 'I'm feeling you're having a hard time and that makes me sad for you and me. I'd like us to talk about it and I'll be listening when you're ready. Cuppa?'

"

That is so wonderfully worded.

You're lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read an interesting article recently about being intentional in a relationship. What's your partner's love language? What are you doing to give her attention? How are you showing her that she's loved and safe? Maybe if you're doing little things for her, she may reciprocate.

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