FabSwingers.com forum: Dont know what to say

By *asepaul71 OP Man
over a year ago

Buxton

Past month two of my neighbours have passed away, one in her 60's then today a lad in his early 30's, different households, both decided they didn't want to carry on, spoke every day to both, listened to what they had to say, never offered a solution just listened, understood they were both struggling in different ways. I just wish they had knocked on my door and screamed. Sorry guys for posting this just wanted to share n say ffs if you, any of you want to scream message me. I will hold my hand out to anyone x

Night n bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope your ok OP, must be hard. Here if you want to chat. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likewise, amyone who feels the need to offload to a total stranger, dont evwr think ypu are alone.

Just reach out

And that goes to you Op, it must be tough.

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By *asepaul71 OP Man
over a year ago

Buxton

"Hope your ok OP, must be hard. Here if you want to chat. X"

Thank you, I'm ok, I know it's a shite post of this sort of forum but wanted to say I'm here if anyone feels low etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope your ok OP, must be hard. Here if you want to chat. X

Thank you, I'm ok, I know it's a shite post of this sort of forum but wanted to say I'm here if anyone feels low etc"

Hope you are ok. Talk to your neighbours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope your ok OP, must be hard. Here if you want to chat. X

Thank you, I'm ok, I know it's a shite post of this sort of forum but wanted to say I'm here if anyone feels low etc

Hope you are ok. Talk to your neighbours.

Indeed, talk to your neighbours. You all knew them and there may be some comfort in sharing that grief and dare I say it, perhaps a sense of guilt.

It isn't a "shite post" and I'm glad you reached out with it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

That's really so sad! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How devastating for you... Just keep in mind how much of a lovely friend you were to them both and what that would of meant to them. You couldn't of done more for them

Just take care of yourself OP xx

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

Good morning OP there is nothing wrong with off loading on strangers i have done it on several occassions. Hope all is well i've been running for over 50 years which for me is very theraputic (have i spelt that right)keep your chin up keep positive.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Ah sorry to hear this and understandable you need to share - what a great neighbour you are being there for them when they were still around! Xx

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Gosh, that's awful. Having lost friends to suicide, you always wish they would have said something, or you could have helped them in some way

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's so sad OP. You sound really kind, don't beat yourself up about what's happened. I think when people have decided to take their lives there is very little anyone can do to change their minds.

It's ok, sometimes better to seek help from strangers

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By *asepaul71 OP Man
over a year ago

Buxton

Thank you guys, means a lot x

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