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What did we used to talk about on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It might just be me but seems so much quieter on here these days. Even at this time of night the lounge used to move really quickly. Have we exhausted all possible nonsense to chat about?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Wait what.!!! Never I can go on for ever but you have a good point it does seem quieter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think there's been a bit of migration to Swingers Chat too. I'm finding myself in there when I never used to.

Come back lounge people!

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"I think there's been a bit of migration to Swingers Chat too. I'm finding myself in there when I never used to.

Come back lounge people! "

Swingers chat ? What’s this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there's been a bit of migration to Swingers Chat too. I'm finding myself in there when I never used to.

Come back lounge people!

Swingers chat ? What’s this? "

No, nothing, forget I said anything. Stay here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lana It’s the weekend we’ll Friday night

Clubs and stuff are opened back up and socials are back and also people can go out again for dinners and such

So I would say that has contributed to a bit off a quiter time on here

As we not locked in any more with nothing to do

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"I think there's been a bit of migration to Swingers Chat too. I'm finding myself in there when I never used to.

Come back lounge people!

Swingers chat ? What’s this?

No, nothing, forget I said anything. Stay here! "

Lol said what???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lana It’s the weekend we’ll Friday night

Clubs and stuff are opened back up and socials are back and also people can go out again for dinners and such

So I would say that has contributed to a bit off a quiter time on here

As we not locked in any more with nothing to do "

Aye alright Nats, highlight that us losers are here on a Friday night

Pre-lockdown though, it was much busier. I think Covid killed everyone's horn and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no, there's still loads to talk about!

So............ how about this weather, am I right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lana It’s the weekend we’ll Friday night

Clubs and stuff are opened back up and socials are back and also people can go out again for dinners and such

So I would say that has contributed to a bit off a quiter time on here

As we not locked in any more with nothing to do

Aye alright Nats, highlight that us losers are here on a Friday night

Pre-lockdown though, it was much busier. I think Covid killed everyone's horn and chat "

Ha ha I am here also so I am in that boat as well ha ha

Don’t know about pre lockdown so wouldn’t know I joined the forums in first lockdown

Was case off lockdown pulled profile as I had no use for fab anymore 20 minutes later regert it re made and started looking at orther things on site

And thought could try the forums again as I did try them back in like 2012 and here I still am here not going anywhere ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, no, there's still loads to talk about!

So............ how about this weather, am I right? "

Oh no, it's even worse than I thought

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Come and hang out on the nocturnal thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it is rather quiet nowadays, before I could barely keep up with the threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Come and hang out on the nocturnal thread "

OK

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

The lounge threads these days seem to be full of monotonous drivel

There’s only so much crap you can put up with, hence why a lot of the great contributors have disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t come on hear to often now especially when you get vile and crappy messages having a go

The lounge has changed to many people judgemental without knowing

Just my personal thoughts

Each to there own respect all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find myself barely commenting anymore and feel the same, it's definitely quieter.. But i assume people are out swinging in real life now that we are no longer locked down??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carlos thinks Lana has really really big boobies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find myself commenting less and less on the forum these days also.

If I do I’m in the swingers chat

Regarding them being quiet, I think it’s a mixture of clubs open and people meeting now especially after Christmas and January. Also like Diamondcougar said it’s monotonous the same threads get made so often - I think a lot just take a break from the forum because of that and others reasons.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I know I used to talk about motorboating a lot more.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The lounge threads these days seem to be full of monotonous drivel

There’s only so much crap you can put up with, hence why a lot of the great contributors have disappeared "

Indeed

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I find myself commenting less and less on the forum these days also.

If I do I’m in the swingers chat

Regarding them being quiet, I think it’s a mixture of clubs open and people meeting now especially after Christmas and January. Also like Diamondcougar said it’s monotonous the same threads get made so often - I think a lot just take a break from the forum because of that and others reasons. "

You are right and increasingly been taken over by provocateurs.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Agreed ...

I don't post much at all in here these days ...

Has got a bit stale and serious lately just my opinion though

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Er there's loads to chat about.....er is the weather nice up there as its shit down here.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The forum is still busy, its more likely down to the fact the topics or thread starters don’t interest you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Carlos thinks Lana has really really big boobies. "

Nothing gets past Carlos eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know I used to talk about motorboating a lot more. "

You did, didn't you? You should bring that back, might be what's missing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agreed ...

I don't post much at all in here these days ...

Has got a bit stale and serious lately just my opinion though "

Yeah, I think serious is the word actually. I used to always be laughing at something on here but I rarely am anymore. Maybe I'm just getting old.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

There’s not enough talk of radiators and electrical fittings for my liking…

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not sure. There used to be a lot more "thinky" threads that would engage people.

A lot more absurd, slightly odd threads. Now jokes (that aren't offensive) are deliberately misconstrued. People get angry.

Threads where people would debate without falling back on ad hominem fallacies are few and far between.

It's just a bit... meh. It feels like there's more attention seeking, more anger. Just more... meh. Definitely a trough phase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s not enough talk of radiators and electrical fittings for my liking… "

I had 3 new radiators and a rewire last week. My new consumer board is top notch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure. There used to be a lot more "thinky" threads that would engage people.

A lot more absurd, slightly odd threads. Now jokes (that aren't offensive) are deliberately misconstrued. People get angry.

Threads where people would debate without falling back on ad hominem fallacies are few and far between.

It's just a bit... meh. It feels like there's more attention seeking, more anger. Just more... meh. Definitely a trough phase. "

I agree. I haven't been on the forums for ages as it is getting a bit repetitive.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I'm not sure. There used to be a lot more "thinky" threads that would engage people.

A lot more absurd, slightly odd threads. Now jokes (that aren't offensive) are deliberately misconstrued. People get angry.

Threads where people would debate without falling back on ad hominem fallacies are few and far between.

It's just a bit... meh. It feels like there's more attention seeking, more anger. Just more... meh. Definitely a trough phase. "

Yes I think that's just how online communication has gone these days. Not fab directly but all online communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure. There used to be a lot more "thinky" threads that would engage people.

A lot more absurd, slightly odd threads. Now jokes (that aren't offensive) are deliberately misconstrued. People get angry.

Threads where people would debate without falling back on ad hominem fallacies are few and far between.

It's just a bit... meh. It feels like there's more attention seeking, more anger. Just more... meh. Definitely a trough phase.

Yes I think that's just how online communication has gone these days. Not fab directly but all online communication. "

There does seem to be a general trend yes…

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Agreed ...

I don't post much at all in here these days ...

Has got a bit stale and serious lately just my opinion though

Yeah, I think serious is the word actually. I used to always be laughing at something on here but I rarely am anymore. Maybe I'm just getting old. "

No it's not you haha ... I cba either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

January February are always quiet. Also after big socials a lot of people disappear off the forums. Something about seeing people in real life being very different to close up cock and tit pics.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"There’s not enough talk of radiators and electrical fittings for my liking…

I had 3 new radiators and a rewire last week. My new consumer board is top notch. "

That’s the spirit!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I would say the following based on 10 years of forum participation:

Subjects tend to be more serious, couple this with the modern desired to be outraged or offended by anything and the lack of context inherent in a short response and it goes to hell in a handcart quite quickly, this leads many to disengage and thus a proliferation of “safe” and “samey” threads.

There seems to be more angst and less light-hearted throwaway fun because throwaway fun tends to lead to people being offended.

It’s not a fab thing, it’s a world thing, we seem to have lost the ability to accept differences of opinion without vilification, insults or derogatory labels. The world is changing and the status quo of live and let live has diminished.

Well that’s all thoroughly depressing, erm rate my cock?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I would say the following based on 10 years of forum participation:

Subjects tend to be more serious, couple this with the modern desired to be outraged or offended by anything and the lack of context inherent in a short response and it goes to hell in a handcart quite quickly, this leads many to disengage and thus a proliferation of “safe” and “samey” threads.

There seems to be more angst and less light-hearted throwaway fun because throwaway fun tends to lead to people being offended.

It’s not a fab thing, it’s a world thing, we seem to have lost the ability to accept differences of opinion without vilification, insults or derogatory labels. The world is changing and the status quo of live and let live has diminished.

Well that’s all thoroughly depressing, erm rate my cock? "

10

But I agree.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I would say the following based on 10 years of forum participation:

Subjects tend to be more serious, couple this with the modern desired to be outraged or offended by anything and the lack of context inherent in a short response and it goes to hell in a handcart quite quickly, this leads many to disengage and thus a proliferation of “safe” and “samey” threads.

There seems to be more angst and less light-hearted throwaway fun because throwaway fun tends to lead to people being offended.

It’s not a fab thing, it’s a world thing, we seem to have lost the ability to accept differences of opinion without vilification, insults or derogatory labels. The world is changing and the status quo of live and let live has diminished.

Well that’s all thoroughly depressing, erm rate my cock? "

That pretty much sums it up.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some reasons I don't post as much these days:

Always the same threads by the same people with the same contributers every time

Threads are turned into something far removed from the original topic.

People out to just argue with others and their forum "mates" all jumping on the bandwagon.

Hopefully now that everything has begun to open up again, it gets back to being fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say the following based on 10 years of forum participation:

Subjects tend to be more serious, couple this with the modern desired to be outraged or offended by anything and the lack of context inherent in a short response and it goes to hell in a handcart quite quickly, this leads many to disengage and thus a proliferation of “safe” and “samey” threads.

There seems to be more angst and less light-hearted throwaway fun because throwaway fun tends to lead to people being offended.

It’s not a fab thing, it’s a world thing, we seem to have lost the ability to accept differences of opinion without vilification, insults or derogatory labels. The world is changing and the status quo of live and let live has diminished.

Well that’s all thoroughly depressing, erm rate my cock? "

People definitely play it safer now, and put so much effort into crafting their posts/forum persona. I preferred when more people just typed as they spoke. I feel like Alf Garnett now bring back the inappropriateness!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I would say the following based on 10 years of forum participation:

Subjects tend to be more serious, couple this with the modern desired to be outraged or offended by anything and the lack of context inherent in a short response and it goes to hell in a handcart quite quickly, this leads many to disengage and thus a proliferation of “safe” and “samey” threads.

There seems to be more angst and less light-hearted throwaway fun because throwaway fun tends to lead to people being offended.

It’s not a fab thing, it’s a world thing, we seem to have lost the ability to accept differences of opinion without vilification, insults or derogatory labels. The world is changing and the status quo of live and let live has diminished.

Well that’s all thoroughly depressing, erm rate my cock?

People definitely play it safer now, and put so much effort into crafting their posts/forum persona. I preferred when more people just typed as they spoke. I feel like Alf Garnett now bring back the inappropriateness!"

I've typed out posts then just deleted them because I know someone will get offended but it was just a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carlos thinks Lana has really really big boobies.

Nothing gets past Carlos eh "

Carlos was once a detective.

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