FabSwingers.com forum: What draws you into someone's profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Let's go the opposite now. We've had what puts you off someone's profile. What draws you in? Open to everyone.

It will be an accumulation of everything as to whether I like them or not. But their profile picture is the first thing I see so a good picture will mean I'll have a peak at the profile and other photos

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Gapping fannys is always a win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, for me it's the profile pic and a lovely bio explaining who they are and what they are seeking. Something nice and gentle to draw a person in and makes them feel warm and welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone puts effort into writing a great profile for me, love my mind being sparked

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

The way they interact/post with others on the forum.

If there's a hint of playful wit, a slight self deprecating streak, a suggestion of intelligence... I'm looking at their profile.

Or if a friend/associate mentions them to me because I'm curious.

But what actually draws me in and makes me consider interacting with them outside of the fora? Their bio. The veris.

Photos rarely do it for me. Joy of the demi life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally a decent and unusual profile pic - such as your new one! Then it's the biog, and thirdly the pics, though I can still like the pics even if the biog is shite!!

A decent mix of pics is always appreciated and the biog not being too pretentious and entitled. I don't like seeing professional mentioned as I think that's just plain wrong - what does it matter when your cock is in someone if they flip burgers or defend scum bags for a living???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot torso profile pic

Humour!!

Hot thighs/legs/bum profile pic

Hot public pics

Humour!!

Torso pics. Hot ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour lots of humour..

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

Depends which type of profile it is .

If it’s a couple I like to see photo of both sexies, if it’s a man’s I don’t just want to see a dick pic as that’s an instant turn off , I do love to read peoples profile as it give you an insight into what they are wanting out of the lifestyle.

Hotwife

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

A ladies lovely eyes..

When a lady is wearing something that doesn't show anything but you expect to see more when you check the pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gapping fannys is always a win!"

Carlos wonders if you've met Mrs fandangos?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't search profiles so the only time I'll look at a profile is when they make a forum comment and I don't recognise them or if they message me.

As far as what draws me in, I have a check list when looking at any profile.

First the age and if that is outside my filters I click out of the profile without reading the bio or looking at pics.

Then I read the full bio and if that appeals I'll look at their pics. If it doesn't I don't bother with the pics.

If the pics are consistent with the bio and just as appealing that will determine how I respond to their message if one exists.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Gapping fannys is always a win!

Carlos wonders if you've met Mrs fandangos?"

I have and we are currently roleplaying Boba Fet and the Sarlac.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Gapping fannys is always a win!"

Is your preference for it to be empty? Containing fruit/veg/dildos? Pulled open with fingers?

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes just a funny usernames makes me see they have a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just start messaging at the start of my local updates and keep going until i'm asleep or stsrting at the beginning.

thought that was the point of the game?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Sometimes I click on a hot photo, or a humorous / provocative status update.

Sometimes it's because of a comment in the forum's.

But what keeps me interested is a well written bio.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

An interesting bio that tells me about the person and what they are looking for.

Nice well thought out pics and consistency with both bio and pics.

None of the Sydney university rubbish.

Also if they are on the forums how they interact with others and is it the same as how they come across in their bio.

In messages if they can be hold a conversation and not just chat about sex all the time.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Sometimes profile pic, sometimes profile name, sometimes status update, I always read the profile first though before looking at pics xxxxx

Suzi

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Gapping fannys is always a win!

Is your preference for it to be empty? Containing fruit/veg/dildos? Pulled open with fingers?

Asking for a friend

The kind where even the echos have echos have echos!

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Gapping fannys is always a win!

Is your preference for it to be empty? Containing fruit/veg/dildos? Pulled open with fingers?

Asking for a friend

The kind where even the echos have echos have echos!"

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The profile pic initially grabs us then it’ll be how they’ve presented themselves in their profile and whether we’d be compatible.

Then we’d look at further pics.

It’s very exciting when you find a profile that resonates…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gapping fannys is always a win!

Carlos wonders if you've met Mrs fandangos?

I have and we are currently roleplaying Boba Fet and the Sarlac."

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nice face pic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour and a profile with a little personality. Also, we are looking for the same things.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Actually writing what they're into and what they're looking for, with a touch of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic grabs my attention

The text keep me there

They other pics keep me wondering what can be

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Usually I will see someone in the Forums. (Sometimes, but rarely in chat rooms).

When I look at their Profile it's a mixture of how they've written what they've written and the content of their gallery.

Of course I'm always more interested if people are close in location and looking for things similar to me.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice profile pic.

Decent public pics, knob pics at end

A decent profile text and a few good Veris, not too graphic.

That's what I seek X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic and name draws me to read more but those sane 2 things can also put me off

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Good pictures, not all being explicit but teasing always gets a good response from me.

Self deprecating humour.

Mutual likes and dislikes.

Their profile text matches mine for what we are both looking for in a meet.

Basically if they’ve put in an effort

Also it really doesn’t matter if their spelling or punctuation isn’t perfect, just as long as they’re perfect for me

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

First off a profile pic rather than a sillohette

Then I check out the photos (when I'm looking for guys I actually enjoy a cock pic or two)

Then I look at the bio & interests, if they align with my own rather than one line it will fill in later kinda bio, then they'll have got my attention

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

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mine in March

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

mine in March

It's mine in just over a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

mine in March

It's mine in just over a week

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and what would you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A humorous, yet informative profile text that gives me an indication to whether or not we’d be compatible bed mates. A selection of well taken photo’s is always preferable so I can gauge initial attraction.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Good photos, well written text and no silly disclaimer.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"A humorous, yet informative profile text that gives me an indication to whether or not we’d be compatible bed mates. A selection of well taken photo’s is always preferable so I can gauge initial attraction. "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

mine in March

It's mine in just over a week

and what would you like?

I'll be getting it.....

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

mine in March

It's mine in just over a week

It was mine this week and not a boob or fanny to be seen

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

mine in March

It's mine in just over a week

and what would you like?

I'll be getting it.....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

mine in March

It's mine in just over a week

It was mine this week and not a boob or fanny to be seen

Did you ask?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

mine in March

It's mine in just over a week

It was mine this week and not a boob or fanny to be seen

Did you ask?

Do they not just appear automatically? Damn I read the small print wrong

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.

Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick

mine in March

It's mine in just over a week

It was mine this week and not a boob or fanny to be seen

Did you ask?

Do they not just appear automatically? Damn I read the small print wrong

Just pretend it's your birthday again in a couple of days and ask then!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If they have a photo of them self sitting on a big squishy cake or pouring a gallon of custard over their naked body.

What?

It’s a thing.

I’m allowed a thing.

Aren’t I ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quirky unusual kinks

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"If they have a photo of them self sitting on a big squishy cake or pouring a gallon of custard over their naked body.

What?

It’s a thing.

I’m allowed a thing.

Aren’t I ? "

No kink shaming here ….weirdo

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"If they have a photo of them self sitting on a big squishy cake or pouring a gallon of custard over their naked body.

What?

It’s a thing.

I’m allowed a thing.

Aren’t I ?

No kink shaming here ….weirdo

That’s Weirdo in Chief if you don’t mind

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"If they have a photo of them self sitting on a big squishy cake or pouring a gallon of custard over their naked body.

What?

It’s a thing.

I’m allowed a thing.

Aren’t I ?

No kink shaming here ….weirdo

That’s Weirdo in Chief if you don’t mind

Sorry Chief Weirdo

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