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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to complete the trio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their entitlement and elitism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to complete the trio "

bad manners...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too complicated

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The wedding rings catch a bit

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

High handed, entitled and superior statements in their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing puts us off as we're not meeting couples atm. But putting myself in a single person's shoes I wouldn't want to be a tick box, I wouldn't want to be an after thought, I wouldn't want to be sidelined, I wouldn't want to potentially end up in the centre of an argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m keeping quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hard enough for 2 people to klick, let alone 3.. or 4

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

They are all fakes, time wasters and arseholes!

Apart from us, we are fucking awesome and a boon to anyones verifications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much! The usual - manky hose in the background or nigh on unachievabe performance request list. But mostly there's nothing stopping me when it comes to couples - love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are all fakes, time wasters and arseholes!

Apart from us, we are fucking awesome and a boon to anyones verifications!"

Straight through the heart

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"hard enough for 2 people to klick, let alone 3.. or 4"

What he said... Rarely find them both attractive and have chemistry all around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The suddenly disappearing other half. (I'm still willing to meet, but she's got a migraine).

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"They are all fakes, time wasters and arseholes!

Apart from us, we are fucking awesome and a boon to anyones verifications!"

You're the only* exception to that rule, it's true.

*tis a joke before any needy couples begin to cry.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

The profiles that only have 50 pics of the lady and 1 dick pic of the male.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

As a straight female, the dynamic doesn't work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The suddenly disappearing other half. (I'm still willing to meet, but she's got a migraine)."

Suddenly she’s been called into work and working late but you can come and chill with me

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"The suddenly disappearing other half. (I'm still willing to meet, but she's got a migraine).

Suddenly she’s been called into work and working late but you can come and chill with me "

Thanks. I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The suddenly disappearing other half. (I'm still willing to meet, but she's got a migraine).

Suddenly she’s been called into work and working late but you can come and chill with me "

Would it work the other way if I said the husband was stuck at work?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"The suddenly disappearing other half. (I'm still willing to meet, but she's got a migraine)."

See I don’t get that. I get her to do all the work and just sit back and take the credit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The suddenly disappearing other half. (I'm still willing to meet, but she's got a migraine).

Suddenly she’s been called into work and working late but you can come and chill with me

Thanks. I will "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

[Removed by poster at 11/02/22 15:40:27]

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

When they don't fit what I'm looking for....

Hang on. I have a strange feeling of deja vu here.

Same as men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the usual bad manners, dirty house and bad hygiene

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"[Fat thumbs by poster at 11/02/22 15:40:27]"

Oops. Errrrrrrr sausages.

What was the question again?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

That most times I am only attracted to one of them. usually the lady. I really need to be very attracted to both.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Nice polite patient conversations with the missus which are then rendered null and void as soon as the mister decides he's had enough of this getting to know you crap and wants to know if I want to fuck his wife or not and if I don't then just fuck off.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’re fakes, time wasters and arseholes…

Don’t even get me started on how entitled we are..

no one could ever have any fun with us..

Xx

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"We’re fakes, time wasters and arseholes…

Don’t even get me started on how entitled we are..

no one could ever have any fun with us..

Xx"

Bloody sexy fakes though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re fakes, time wasters and arseholes…

Don’t even get me started on how entitled we are..

no one could ever have any fun with us..

Xx"

It's funny cause we are the same

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I just don’t want to. Meet as a couple though.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming


"We’re fakes, time wasters and arseholes…

Don’t even get me started on how entitled we are..

no one could ever have any fun with us..

Xx

Bloody sexy fakes though "

Xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re fakes, time wasters and arseholes…

Don’t even get me started on how entitled we are..

no one could ever have any fun with us..

Xx"

Totally zero fun! Don’t worry folks I’ll take one for the team and deal with these two myself…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually if one of them is noticeably quiet, at the first meeting prior to any sex, and seems like they don't belong there.

But if they both join in and talk and it's a friendly encounter I'd consider the next stage.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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If they’re too pushy, immediately puts me off.

One couple listed things they wanted me to do, but no mention of my pleasure. I’m not your bloody lap dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love meeting couples.

They have a relationship already and aren’t looking for one and they are usually clear in what they want from a meet.

Experience has taught me to make sure they are genuine but otherwise a great way to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight straight and a one on one kind of guy..

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By *ifewantsmore777Couple
over a year ago

North West


"They are all fakes, time wasters and arseholes!

Apart from us, we are fucking awesome and a boon to anyones verifications!"

brilliant

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Dont think anything would put me of that I can think of x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve only met couples during that last two years. I’ve met some lovely people. I’ve not encountered any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they insist on me top the guy

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

For some it's their sense of entitlement and their obvious belief they are the top of a hierarchy.

Gbat

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No pics of the male half, when he's all that I'm interested in.

Not taking any notice of my preferences.

The husband pretending to be the wife sending the msg.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

It's hard enough finding one person your attracted to let alone two or in my case as when I have met couples it's always been with my husband so finding a four way attraction is almost impossible

Add to that personally I've had bad experiences in clubs with the male halfs of couples being handsy & either the bloke dismissing it as fine because his wife was beside him in the Hottub & in another case the wife telling me it was ok her partner grabbed my boobs because he was a boob man he touches everyone's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot guy, hot woman...what's not to like??

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Nothing puts me off meeting couples unless I realise it's not a genuine couple, i.e. hubby sending pics if his wife if it is his wife and using you for a wanking buddy. Genuine couples I love.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Their entitlement and elitism. "

Ain’t we just awful?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

No pics of male half, no kissing rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having never been with a couple and having troubles understanding their dynamic

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

The endless list of rules, can suck his cock, can't kiss him on the mouth, can kiss her on the mouth, can play with her boobs, can't lick her fufu, he can lick me. Too much for me to remember. Even had one if she doesn't like me on the night to just go home

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

“You gotta meet the male first then next time you get to meet her”

I’m all for meeting a guy first in a social to prove I’m not a psycho

But don’t tell me the misses is at work and I’ve gotta suck you off in the woods to get a chance to see her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd want her man all to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact there’s a female present

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The endless list of rules, can suck his cock, can't kiss him on the mouth, can kiss her on the mouth, can play with her boobs, can't lick her fufu, he can lick me. Too much for me to remember. Even had one if she doesn't like me on the night to just go home "

This

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme


"Nothing puts us off as we're not meeting couples atm. But putting myself in a single person's shoes I wouldn't want to be a tick box, I wouldn't want to be an after thought, I wouldn't want to be sidelined, I wouldn't want to potentially end up in the centre of an argument. "

and

I did speak to a couple once and was initially contacted by the female. It was difficult to tell who I was talking to after that though I suspect there was more interest from the male. In retrospect I suppose a group chat would have been more useful to ensure open communication. It didn’t work out which is fair enough but it was a bit disappointing. He tried to contact me again after she had said no which I was unhappy about so blocked and moved on. Lesson learned. Now I don’t bother any more.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Meeting couples has been the hardest match.

A lot of couples don’t have pics of guys and then it’s trying to match 4 people.

K

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

local

The fact that we’re into single guys . Still love meeting couples though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The endless list of rules, can suck his cock, can't kiss him on the mouth, can kiss her on the mouth, can play with her boobs, can't lick her fufu, he can lick me. Too much for me to remember. Even had one if she doesn't like me on the night to just go home "

Wait! Fufu?? We aren’t just skipping past that off to the naughty step to think about what you’ve done!

But, yeah, I guess rules can be a minefield!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that put 420 friendly.

Each to their own but no thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's hard enough finding one person your attracted to let alone two or in my case as when I have met couples it's always been with my husband so finding a four way attraction is almost impossible

Add to that personally I've had bad experiences in clubs with the male halfs of couples being handsy & either the bloke dismissing it as fine because his wife was beside him in the Hottub & in another case the wife telling me it was ok her partner grabbed my boobs because he was a boob man he touches everyone's

"

We are lucky to have found people that find us both attractive but I am sure a time will come when it isn’t the case! If we meet another couple we start off with the view of new friends and then if anything past that happens then cool!

Sorry to hear about that, etiquette is etiquette no matter the situation.

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By *jl1972Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

What puts me off most are the couples who spend the first half of their profile trying to convince everyone they are a down to earth, friendly couple.

Then comes the long list of rules- cock must be this big, we don't this, we don't do that, you must be this, this and that. Put this at the end of your message. We get thousands of messages every hour etc.

You must be available at short notice even though we are not. We don't have pics but you must.

They usually end with the pointless Sydney University crap that they copied from another profile.

Basically the whole thing is there to make sure everyone knows how important they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“You gotta meet the male first then next time you get to meet her”

I’m all for meeting a guy first in a social to prove I’m not a psycho

But don’t tell me the misses is at work and I’ve gotta suck you off in the woods to get a chance to see her "

Nah, we meet together at all times unless it’s a female that just wants Athena. Then if you were a psycho Athena could beat you over the head with a Doc Marten while I sit on your back and tickle your feet…

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"What puts me off most are the couples who spend the first half of their profile trying to convince everyone they are a down to earth, friendly couple.

Then comes the long list of rules- cock must be this big, we don't this, we don't do that, you must be this, this and that. Put this at the end of your message. We get thousands of messages every hour etc.

You must be available at short notice even though we are not. We don't have pics but you must.

They usually end with the pointless Sydney University crap that they copied from another profile.

Basically the whole thing is there to make sure everyone knows how important they are."

Isn’t it more likely it’s there to ensure they are only contacted by people who will be suitable for them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What puts me off most are the couples who spend the first half of their profile trying to convince everyone they are a down to earth, friendly couple.

Then comes the long list of rules- cock must be this big, we don't this, we don't do that, you must be this, this and that. Put this at the end of your message. We get thousands of messages every hour etc.

You must be available at short notice even though we are not. We don't have pics but you must.

They usually end with the pointless Sydney University crap that they copied from another profile.

Basically the whole thing is there to make sure everyone knows how important they are."

Where the “uughh” emoji?

We agree with everything you just said. When we structured ours we tried to make it as clear and concise as possible and not turn it into a boring arse bible…

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

I don't fancy women

KM

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. We’ve been lucky enough to have some great meets with couples

I can’t say we’ve had any negative experience’s although we’ve heard stories from others that have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they’re too pushy, immediately puts me off.

One couple listed things they wanted me to do, but no mention of my pleasure. I’m not your bloody lap dog "

Bugger, I wanted you to doggy sit for us whilst we went out to another meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What puts me off most are the couples who spend the first half of their profile trying to convince everyone they are a down to earth, friendly couple.

Then comes the long list of rules- cock must be this big, we don't this, we don't do that, you must be this, this and that. Put this at the end of your message. We get thousands of messages every hour etc.

You must be available at short notice even though we are not. We don't have pics but you must.

They usually end with the pointless Sydney University crap that they copied from another profile.

Basically the whole thing is there to make sure everyone knows how important they are."

Best thing to do is scroll past those ones and find profiles that do interest you.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"Just to complete the trio "

Puts off when they have a cock size requirements at the top of the list. I am not small however I am not a cock only, i am a guy attached to it as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they’re too pushy, immediately puts me off.

One couple listed things they wanted me to do, but no mention of my pleasure. I’m not your bloody lap dog "

We have had four of the same nightmares from the same couple, every time they sent a picture of a gloryhole set up they had and then when we said not really for us, decided to slate us, state they were hardcore (they dressed in black) and that they thought we were hardcore too and then when I pointed out their limits on their profile they had a hissy fit and stated that anyone into those things were diddlers and animal lovers (put nicely )

Wound them up last time and pretended I was disgusted in their immoral behaviour they didn’t like that either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mr's running commentary like the horse racing, commenting on how big you are compared to his micro penis and then instructing you to "fill her up" after 5 mins...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just to complete the trio

Puts off when they have a cock size requirements at the top of the list. I am not small however I am not a cock only, i am a guy attached to it as well

"

Not sure how you’re typing this… cocks can type… the wonders of humanity!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Women.

I’m all about the cock.

Although when it comes to MM couples I always feel they will be more sexually advanced than me and be sexual ravers who want sex all night, tag teaming me. I can’t be doing with that now. Maybe in my 20’s but not now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What puts me off meeting couples more than anything else is if only one of them is turning up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What puts me off most are the couples who spend the first half of their profile trying to convince everyone they are a down to earth, friendly couple.

Then comes the long list of rules- cock must be this big, we don't this, we don't do that, you must be this, this and that. Put this at the end of your message. We get thousands of messages every hour etc.

You must be available at short notice even though we are not. We don't have pics but you must.

They usually end with the pointless Sydney University crap that they copied from another profile.

Basically the whole thing is there to make sure everyone knows how important they are."

I’m not sure the hundreds of messages is true, it may just be us, but we can unlock males and upload a lovely enticing picture of Athena and we get 10s of messages at most. I can imagine it can happen to some at times but I doubt it’s a constant thing…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see images taken from blacked.com on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard enough for 2 people to klick, let alone 3.. or 4

What he said... Rarely find them both attractive and have chemistry all around. "

This for us also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Twelve page, non-exhaustive lists of what I *must* be with one kine at the end about them

LvM

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No pictures of the man, as is they don't think it matters if anybody finds him attractive or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet couples, we've met a few but like the same vice versa one of us or one of them might not be what we are looking for and we both agreed we wouldn't take one for the team.

Danish x

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Can be complicated. Attraction between all might not always be where it needs to be. Some "couples" do not always appear very "couple like".

But we keep an open mind.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Too complicated …. I’ve tried but it’s never happened

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

What can I say we should never be on a swinger's (wife swapping) site, the very thought of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not currently meeting couples, but things that put me off fab wise is not seeing the male on the photo and couples profiles where it's obviously just a single male.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding couples where the woman is genuinely bi. I've encountered so many couples where the woman is just 'going along with it' to please her husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their entitlement and elitism. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too complicated, I'm straight so would only be there for the guy. If she wanted to watch that's fine, I've dabbled with hot husbands.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Not all of them are in Stable Emotionally Intelligent relationships...

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By *enuine_J87Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh

When the profile basically states they want you to be better than the husband/partner who’s had 10 years experience with her, he’s like 6’5 and looks like he has a 10” cock… I can’t even be assed to try and put up that much competition, when I’d rather focus on pleasuring the woman and not the scoreboard they have

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By *enuine_J87Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh

Plus I’m straight and honestly don’t even have the desire to see a naked guy or have his sweaty body touching mine at any point during it etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pictures of the guy, also when its just about what the guy wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding couples where the woman is genuinely bi. I've encountered so many couples where the woman is just 'going along with it' to please her husband. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight so not looking for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda wonder if I'll be bored /feel like a spare end.. I mean, if there's only one dick..

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

They have so many do's and donts by the time you've read all the way through you either have lost the will to live, dont think it's worth the effort or just plain got bored. If the profile is that demanding whats it like if you meet.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Luckily the two couples I have met in the past, the meet was very enjoyable.

However I am now finding that some couples are demanding certain scenarios that I’m not comfortable with doing. When I then tell them it’s not something I’m looking to do, they can get very petty. Questioning what am I expecting from a meet in an aggressive manner.

So some do feel entitled and treat you as a sex toy.

However I do feel lucky and happy to be a part of a couples relationship as long as we have all agreed on certain boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fancy women

KM"

Do you find the male of the couple contacts you anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What can I say we should never be on a swinger's (wife swapping) site, the very thought of it "

Perhaps it's moved on a little. Lots of single people here and they have different needs and expectations.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What can I say we should never be on a swinger's (wife swapping) site, the very thought of it "

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I kinda wonder if I'll be bored /feel like a spare end.. I mean, if there's only one dick.. "

Well, only one real one…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caravans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they’re too pushy, immediately puts me off.

One couple listed things they wanted me to do, but no mention of my pleasure. I’m not your bloody lap dog "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding couples where the woman is genuinely bi. I've encountered so many couples where the woman is just 'going along with it' to please her husband. "

Exactly why I would only meet the female half first. Make sure she isn't just doing it for her partner's benefit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard enough for 2 people to klick, let alone 3.. or 4"

^^this.

The chances of finding an existing couple who I'm equally into and vice versa? Not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The endless list of rules, can suck his cock, can't kiss him on the mouth, can kiss her on the mouth, can play with her boobs, can't lick her fufu, he can lick me. Too much for me to remember. Even had one if she doesn't like me on the night to just go home "

That would drive me crazy. Sounds like work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You gotta meet the male first then next time you get to meet her”

I’m all for meeting a guy first in a social to prove I’m not a psycho

But don’t tell me the misses is at work and I’ve gotta suck you off in the woods to get a chance to see her "

Oh dear!

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By *utdooorsyguyMan
over a year ago

town

Any statement starting "looking for 7inches+"

(*weeps quietly whilst rocking backwards and forwards*)

But seriously, not a great deal, it's all personal preference, as a few other people have said, an overbearing list of do's and don'ts.

I understand couples have limits, and I completely respect their decision to have as many rules as they want (it would be them inviting me into their bedroom after all) but I prefer things to just progress naturally without fear of accidentally forgetting some thing in the heat of the moment and upsetting any one (That's not what I'm here for!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full swap couples that are "doing us a favour" by following our requests, then moving the goalposts when arranging a meet.

Finding a local couple that only want same room no swap is a nightmare.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Nerves.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Twelve page, non-exhaustive lists of what I *must* be with one kine at the end about them

LvM"

You must be naked

*Ends*

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Are u talking about REAL RELATIONSHIP COUPLES o bullshitter fake couples shaggin each other wen they already have partners/married

Too many fake couples on here

Especially wen u always only seem to see piccys of one half of the couples but then there are a shed load of veris from the opp sex

If ur a couple thrn why not show more piccys of you both TOGETHER AS A COUPLE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chap of the couple wanting to meet alone or gatekeeping the threesome process.

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

My husband is straight but is it okay if he sucks your cock?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and avoid us most of the time. Sometimes it's just unavoidable.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"I’m keeping quiet "

Yep best option is to keep quiet, we'll done this guy xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never knowing which party I'm speaking to and feeling like it's invariably male led in straight couples.

With slimmer women I get super self conscious so need a lot of reassurance.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

In the past, I have been put off after agreeing to meet and from then on, they thought I was their puppet for their enjoyment only. Not all couples are like that obviously, but some are, almost as if it is an honour to meet them…

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

When we’ve been chatting to a couple with the aim of meeting and last minute they tell us they are fwbs or fuck buddies.How are we supposed to know their likes and dislikes when they don’t know each other’s..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the feeling of being this weeks special guest star

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I chat to a lot of couples but very rarely meet any. It's so unusual to find a couple where both are articulate and are open about what they want and what they like.

More often than not the couples who message me tend to be looking for someone to put on a show for the male half.

I'm pretty up-front that that's not what I'm looking for, but I usually find myself trying to drag information out of one or both of the couple to find out whether that is their expectation.

To find a couple where both can communicate and all three of us fancy each other and are looking for the same sort of thing? Rare as hens teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m keeping quiet "

We’re keeping quiet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. Loved fucking a woman whist her partner watched, photographed or joined in. But, at my age they don't seem to want to meet me any more.

Shame, as it's been a long time since I licked cum out of a just fucked pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ending up just being the guy cleaning up the mess at the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ending up just being the guy cleaning up the mess at the end."

Oh, not with us. I like the dishwasher stacked a certain way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ending up just being the guy cleaning up the mess at the end.

Oh, not with us. I like the dishwasher stacked a certain way. "

That's ok then. I'm old school when it comes to the washing up... marigolds, fairy and a strong sponge with hair.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I find it massively off putting when a profile reads that its just the guy that wrote it, all the photos are of just her except the obligatory blurry dick pic.

And never had a message from a couple where they’ve read my properly. Hugely off putting.

Never met a couple and can’t see it happening any time soon

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Probably the fact it’s difficult to find four way attraction (hard enough for AJ to find one way lol) along with them having fun personalities and on the same wavelength as ourselves, all too much like hard work these days so we don’t bother

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By *ecret-PlaymatesCouple
over a year ago

Your Wildest Fantasy.. ;)

We hate it when you have that hello greeting moment. The couple kisses one of us hello and its instantly clear they are keen, then just says hello and looks away completely disinterested when greeting the other one of us.

Happens all the time.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming


"I kinda wonder if I'll be bored /feel like a spare end.. I mean, if there's only one dick.. "

That’s when the strap on comes out Miss Midnight..

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.


"I kinda wonder if I'll be bored /feel like a spare end.. I mean, if there's only one dick..

That’s when the strap on comes out Miss Midnight.. "

Never boredom when the strap on is out

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I kinda wonder if I'll be bored /feel like a spare end.. I mean, if there's only one dick..

That’s when the strap on comes out Miss Midnight..

Never boredom when the strap on is out "

And this is where we can all agree!

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Them telling me to eff off, usually.

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By *nchantedRoseWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

The fact there's 2 of them and only one of me makes me feel a little self conscious.. I need to work on my confidence!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Being messaged by the male to meet him alone, when their prof states they don't do this under any circumstances

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over a year ago

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"The fact there's 2 of them and only one of me makes me feel a little self conscious.. I need to work on my confidence! "

Any decent couple will see putting you at ease with them both so you can enjoy the experience with them in a completely relaxed way as their first priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of not being an equal, also I'm very respectful and dont think I could share my woman if I had one that is lol so I also couldn't let somebody else share theirs with me , cant be a rule for 1 but not the other

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"The thought of not being an equal, also I'm very respectful and dont think I could share my woman if I had one that is lol so I also couldn't let somebody else share theirs with me , cant be a rule for 1 but not the other "

It’s not disrespectful to share your partner with someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of not being an equal, also I'm very respectful and dont think I could share my woman if I had one that is lol so I also couldn't let somebody else share theirs with me , cant be a rule for 1 but not the other

It’s not disrespectful to share your partner with someone else."

I never said it was , just I wouldn't that's all , each to their own and more power to them

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By *nchantedRoseWoman
over a year ago

cardiff


"The fact there's 2 of them and only one of me makes me feel a little self conscious.. I need to work on my confidence!

Any decent couple will see putting you at ease with them both so you can enjoy the experience with them in a completely relaxed way as their first priority."

Where do I find these couples?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"The fact there's 2 of them and only one of me makes me feel a little self conscious.. I need to work on my confidence!

Any decent couple will see putting you at ease with them both so you can enjoy the experience with them in a completely relaxed way as their first priority.

Where do I find these couples? "

We’re only a message away!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Attraction, I find it’s often the case I’m attracted to one half of the couple and I couldn’t have sex with someone I wasn’t attracted too. I also sometimes get vibes that one half is just along for the ride, fulfilling the others fantasy and I’m not into that x

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset


"What puts me off most are the couples who spend the first half of their profile trying to convince everyone they are a down to earth, friendly couple.

Then comes the long list of rules- cock must be this big, we don't this, we don't do that, you must be this, this and that. Put this at the end of your message. We get thousands of messages every hour etc.

You must be available at short notice even though we are not. We don't have pics but you must.

They usually end with the pointless Sydney University crap that they copied from another profile.

Basically the whole thing is there to make sure everyone knows how important they are."

Exactly this and I’m a couple and try to be open to everyone

The only think I really don’t like is when they ask for face photo with your message , I don’t even both to message , I think it just shallow ( my opinion ) we all have to take our privacy seriously !

Hotwife

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Absolutely nothing puts me off meeting couples because, couples invariably know what they want from a guy, and so long as I tick their boxes, it never gets complicated.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

When they have a list of demands the length of my arm haha

Was chatting to this couple & they wanted to meet at a bar in London 'fine I thought' then he was telling me buy her drinks all night she likes this champagne & these cocktails. Looked up the bar the damn champagne only sold as a bottle starting at £140 & this was just a social haha

Good bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another man watching his wife or partner getting fucked

Met couples before and could never get how a man is comfortable in that situation so it made me uncomfortable during the act

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

When only one participates and the other watches. If I’d wanted that I’d have met a single girl or guy. Everyone should be participating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys saying they're straight but aren't

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Some interesting replies best note them down haha! Miss pc

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