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Men .. what really turns you off meeting women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In terms of balance, and in response to the “women, what really turns you off meeting men” thread what is it that turns you off meeting the ladies on here?

What gives you the ick? A dodgy status? What they write on their profile?

Let’s give the ladies a heads up where they’re going wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In terms of balance, and in response to the “women, what really turns you off meeting men” thread what is it that turns you off meeting the ladies on here?

What gives you the ick? A dodgy status? What they write on their profile?

Let’s give the ladies a heads up where they’re going wrong! "

Hmmm, I haven’t really thought this one through, have I??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any holes a goal!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In terms of balance, and in response to the “women, what really turns you off meeting men” thread what is it that turns you off meeting the ladies on here?

What gives you the ick? A dodgy status? What they write on their profile?

Let’s give the ladies a heads up where they’re going wrong!

Hmmm, I haven’t really thought this one through, have I??

"

I’d say be patient and people will reply to your thread, it’s only been five minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My face"

Your face is delightful, shush.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Smoking

Certain Other meet verifications

Entitled, demanding messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching so I know what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My face"

no way..you have a great smile (assuming its a pic of you !)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile that is just a list of ‘don’t do this…’ statements

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

An ugly personality for me, but it's not like I get many offers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ugly personality for me, but it's not like I get many offers lol"

none of us do - but you excelled in the solar system science question !

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Ones that have no interest in kissing, that doesn’t work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My face"

Blimey….definitely the complete opposite of off putting

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"An ugly personality for me, but it's not like I get many offers lol

none of us do - but you excelled in the solar system science question !"

You say that like my utter geekiness gets me attention. Sadly it doesn't lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Any inconsistencies in their profile.

Any hint of entitlement.

An obsession with and enormous investment in what others are doing on here.

A do as I say and not as I do attitude.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"An ugly personality for me, but it's not like I get many offers lol

none of us do - but you excelled in the solar system science question !

You say that like my utter geekiness gets me attention. Sadly it doesn't lol "

It should do, the geeks shall inherit the earth (and attention from compatible women).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My face"

In the nicest possible way: I don’t believe you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smoking

Certain Other meet verifications

Entitled, demanding messages "

I haven't even seen the man thread yet but you just nailed my list, pretty much.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"An ugly personality for me, but it's not like I get many offers lol

none of us do - but you excelled in the solar system science question !

You say that like my utter geekiness gets me attention. Sadly it doesn't lol

It should do, the geeks shall inherit the earth (and attention from compatible women)."

Must be some other issue with me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ugly personality for me, but it's not like I get many offers lol

none of us do - but you excelled in the solar system science question !

You say that like my utter geekiness gets me attention. Sadly it doesn't lol "

if i keep replying in this forum it will !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures showing multiple bareback meets

Anything gaping on display

Certain meet verifications

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Right now everything...everything they say and do just puts me off

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me "

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops "

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

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By *etsukaCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me "

Wow...on a site for casual sex and you still manage to slut shame .

Also...a lot of people verify each other socially, we have about 30 I think and a lot of them are social or repeat verifications. And if you have been on the site years or do club meets (inc group stuff) they do rack up .

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list "

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Wow...on a site for casual sex and you still manage to slut shame .

Also...a lot of people verify each other socially, we have about 30 I think and a lot of them are social or repeat verifications. And if you have been on the site years or do club meets (inc group stuff) they do rack up . "

I’m not shaming anyone, I didn’t mean it to come across like that either so I do apologise

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Pictures showing multiple bareback meets

Anything gaping on display

Certain meet verifications

"

What about my gaping mouth in awe of a vast display of cheese and biscuits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait, did I read the question correctly??? There are reasons we shouldn't meet women????? Oh god, I need to start having some standards

I'm not keen on smokees these days and I know as an ex smoker that's shit, but I'd far rather they didn't. A manky hoose in profile pics is a massive off put for me. The only other thing that would dampen my enthusiasm to meet is a mental expectation of what they want done to them!!!! Trying to make a woman yodel is skill to be enjoyed, not a nigh on impossible challenge!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me "

Good job most of mine are from group socials, then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December "

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big gob

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By *etsukaCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December "

Yes! This is what I was trying to say! And repeat ones too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching with popcorn for hints and tips

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures showing multiple bareback meets

Anything gaping on display

Certain meet verifications

What about my gaping mouth in awe of a vast display of cheese and biscuits? "

Cheeky!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Wow...on a site for casual sex and you still manage to slut shame .

Also...a lot of people verify each other socially, we have about 30 I think and a lot of them are social or repeat verifications. And if you have been on the site years or do club meets (inc group stuff) they do rack up .

I’m not shaming anyone, I didn’t mean it to come across like that either so I do apologise

"

You have things that you don't like, that's fair enough.

Maybe just say you don't like meeting those who meet many. At the end of the day it's about what works for you.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Pictures showing multiple bareback meets

Anything gaping on display

Certain meet verifications

What about my gaping mouth in awe of a vast display of cheese and biscuits?

Cheeky!"

Me?

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Right now everything...everything they say and do just puts me off "

Don’t hold back now….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Wow...on a site for casual sex and you still manage to slut shame .

Also...a lot of people verify each other socially, we have about 30 I think and a lot of them are social or repeat verifications. And if you have been on the site years or do club meets (inc group stuff) they do rack up .

I’m not shaming anyone, I didn’t mean it to come across like that either so I do apologise

You have things that you don't like, that's fair enough.

Maybe just say you don't like meeting those who meet many. At the end of the day it's about what works for you."

I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

"

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did "

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues "

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A profile that is just a list of ‘don’t do this…’ statements "

I've seen this mentioned before by men and I changed my profile as a result. It's all too easy to get uptight and negative as a result of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures showing multiple bareback meets

Anything gaping on display

Certain meet verifications

What about my gaping mouth in awe of a vast display of cheese and biscuits?

Cheeky!

Me? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise men could be so picky

(it's a joke )

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob . "

Well.... you took the chance..... that leaves me with.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman. "

I’d be worried if I never did put my foot in it though and so would everyone that knows me

Kinda used to it now haha

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

A little bugbear is when a person insists on a face pic yet in their profile say they won't show their faces.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman. "

Is this a new alternative to fisting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me "

4 maximum showing

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob .

Well.... you took the chance..... that leaves me with..... "

Oh my!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

Is this a new alternative to fisting? "

I like the energy you're bringing today. It's palpable.

Yeah, it's less of a stretch than fisting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

Is this a new alternative to fisting? "

I almost spat my brew out then

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob .

Well.... you took the chance..... that leaves me with.....

Oh my! "

Yes. 'Tis your knob I'm after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

Is this a new alternative to fisting?

I like the energy you're bringing today. It's palpable.

Yeah, it's less of a stretch than fisting."

Not with my size 12 though

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

Is this a new alternative to fisting?

I like the energy you're bringing today. It's palpable.

Yeah, it's less of a stretch than fisting."

Maybe it's Friday feeling!

Depends how big your feet are I guess .

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

Is this a new alternative to fisting?

I almost spat my brew out then "

You're welcome

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob .

Well.... you took the chance..... that leaves me with.....

Oh my!

Yes. 'Tis your knob I'm after "

Oh Posh! You want my big purple one!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

Is this a new alternative to fisting?

I like the energy you're bringing today. It's palpable.

Yeah, it's less of a stretch than fisting.

Maybe it's Friday feeling!

Depends how big your feet are I guess . "

Size 12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A profile that is just a list of ‘don’t do this…’ statements "

I think mine comes across like that to be honest, but I had to put them on to try and stop certain types messaging.

I'm a pussycat really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them saying they don’t want to meet me.

That’s about it really.

I’m a simple creature.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I rarely meet but wouldn’t meet anyone I felt didn’t respect themselves. That terminology in itself is so subjective but I know what I mean when I say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

Is this a new alternative to fisting?

I almost spat my brew out then

You're welcome "

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Right now everything...everything they say and do just puts me off

Don’t hold back now…. "

No need for further elaboration

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob .

Well.... you took the chance..... that leaves me with.....

Oh my!

Yes. 'Tis your knob I'm after

Oh Posh! You want my big purple one!? "

You know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely meet but wouldn’t meet anyone I felt didn’t respect themselves. That terminology in itself is so subjective but I know what I mean when I say it "

Do you mean say.. More classy photos than having everything on show. Or at least not having everything on show in one picture? Being selective about who they meet themselves and not any old body? Being true to themselves?. I'm not asking to trip you up. I'm genuinely curious what others think and if it comes across the same as what someone else thinks

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob .

Well.... you took the chance..... that leaves me with.....

Oh my!

Yes. 'Tis your knob I'm after

Oh Posh! You want my big purple one!?

You know it "

I'm all a fluster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob .

Well.... you took the chance..... that leaves me with.....

Oh my!

Yes. 'Tis your knob I'm after

Oh Posh! You want my big purple one!?

You know it

I'm all a fluster! "

I bet you are

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Oops

I was meaning in triple digits

You most definitely are safe and on my list

Aww thanks

Don't forget, there are a lot of people who've got hundreds of veris but a lot of them are from socials, especially group socials.

Dammit. That reminds me, I still have to write a bunch from December

Oh no I know that, and I completely get it too.

I fear it’s come across wrong….me and my big knob

Oooh Lacey. You got in there before I did

I saw the chance and grabbed it! The chance, not the knob .

Well.... you took the chance..... that leaves me with.....

Oh my!

Yes. 'Tis your knob I'm after

Oh Posh! You want my big purple one!?

You know it

I'm all a fluster! "

I'd say I'm sorry..... but I like it when you blush

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

My cock disappoints me, lord knows what a woman would think.

I’m not ready for that level of rejection yet. Hate me, sure. Hate my penis, nah fuck that!

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I’ve really put my foot in it

I never intended to cause any issues

You haven't at all, welcome to the forum. Every single poster has put their foot in at some point. Go back to talking about things that put you off meeting/talking to a woman.

I’d be worried if I never did put my foot in it though and so would everyone that knows me

Kinda used to it now haha "

I think you're supposed to put your cock in it. That could be where you're going wrong

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Right now everything...everything they say and do just puts me off "

You turned Gay sir?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sense of entitlement puts me off.

Also those who can't hold a conversation

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Lots of things and most of it has been mentioned here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually when they tell me to go and fuck myself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now everything...everything they say and do just puts me off "

I put myself off me, so this, I can totally understand.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Wow...on a site for casual sex and you still manage to slut shame .

Also...a lot of people verify each other socially, we have about 30 I think and a lot of them are social or repeat verifications. And if you have been on the site years or do club meets (inc group stuff) they do rack up . "

Exactly, and you think we all put a veri for every meet we have? Err no. So you'll never really know... But thanks for the judgment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here. "

I think if Carlos continues talking about himself in the third person, his options are definitely limited on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here.

I think if Carlos continues talking about himself in the third person, his options are definitely limited on here "

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Hoping to get some tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here.

I think if Carlos continues talking about himself in the third person, his options are definitely limited on here "

Carlos welcomes your advice.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here. "

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Right now everything...everything they say and do just puts me off

You turned Gay sir? "

More like voluntary celibate

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Profiles that come across as angry. Gynaecological photos.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here. "

At least we fuglies know where we stand. Or sit

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've been told my strap on scares some guys... but it's not obligatory.

Now hidden so I can just scare them when it's too late...

Please keep replies to forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles that come across as angry. Gynaecological photos. "

I missed the full stop and read that as angry Gynaecological photos. Cross pussies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told my strap on scares some guys... but it's not obligatory.

Now hidden so I can just scare them when it's too late...

Please keep replies to forum."

Definitely wouldn't put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here.

At least we fuglies know where we stand. Or sit "

Carlos is glad you understand.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

A bad personality if they have zero sense of humour whats the point.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here. "

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By *tef needs cockTV/TS
over a year ago

leeds


"I've been told my strap on scares some guys... but it's not obligatory.

Now hidden so I can just scare them when it's too late...

Please keep replies to forum."

Love a strap on

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here.

At least we fuglies know where we stand. Or sit

Carlos is glad you understand. "

The MGTOW Force is strong in this one ...I mean Carlos ...The Carlos

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots of close ups of genitalia and negativity puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here.

At least we fuglies know where we stand. Or sit

Carlos is glad you understand.

The MGTOW Force is strong in this one ...I mean Carlos ...The Carlos "

Carlos agrees.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In terms of balance, and in response to the “women, what really turns you off meeting men” thread what is it that turns you off meeting the ladies on here?

What gives you the ick? A dodgy status? What they write on their profile?

Let’s give the ladies a heads up where they’re going wrong!

Hmmm, I haven’t really thought this one through, have I??

I’d say be patient and people will reply to your thread, it’s only been five minutes.

"

thanks!

It wasn’t exactly what I meant though. More that I didn’t expect there to be ANY replies given the gender imbalance on here, you know the blokes grateful to get any messages from women, but surprised to log back on and see 100 replies.

So what do I know, right!?!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Also, low effort messaging

You hold all the cards on this site. You constantly moan about guys sending shit first messages. You harp on and on about men making an interesting profile with good pics

If you message me with just “hey” I don’t care who you are, straight on the block list

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Also, low effort messaging

You hold all the cards on this site. You constantly moan about guys sending shit first messages. You harp on and on about men making an interesting profile with good pics

If you message me with just “hey” I don’t care who you are, straight on the block list "

Well done you

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here.

At least we fuglies know where we stand. Or sit

Carlos is glad you understand.

The MGTOW Force is strong in this one ...I mean Carlos ...The Carlos

Carlos agrees. "

Not sure it's something to be proud of, but *shrug*

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Historic status messages that make me - living in a fairly sparsely populated regions these tend to stand out, but I usually have most of them blocked.

“Owned by soandso” - not my thing

Lack of effort in profile

Lots of photos of random things (a shoe, a hand etc.)

Hugely entitled/arrogant profiles - I appreciate that purely from a numbers perspective woman have an advantage, but telling me I am honoured or should be patient, leads to me just not bothering

Anybody be that has profile/approach tips in their own profile, I am not a puppet, I will represent myself when I approach you, if you don’t like that approach then that’s cool, we are not destined to meet, tailoring myself to suit you is fabricating an image that would make me uncomfortable and be deceptive.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Right now everything...everything they say and do just puts me off

I put myself off me, so this, I can totally understand.

"

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"My face"

With the greatest possible respect, I'm afraid I don't believe you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My face"

I don't believe this is true at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles that come across as angry. Gynaecological photos.

I missed the full stop and read that as angry Gynaecological photos. Cross pussies. "

Angry Vag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now everything...everything they say and do just puts me off

I put myself off me, so this, I can totally understand.

"

Not good inside your own head is it? Don't really know you so I won't patronise n shit. But you seem ace from your posts and such, so kinda breaks my heart a little to read this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to find out, but probably trumping on a first date lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to find out, but probably trumping on a first date lol "

Fucking hell, that would hook me in!! Not because is does it for me sexually. I just like mischieviousness. It would be quite cute too.

Unless it was a massive boff. I'd still piss myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to find out, but probably trumping on a first date lol

Fucking hell, that would hook me in!! Not because is does it for me sexually. I just like mischieviousness. It would be quite cute too.

Unless it was a massive boff. I'd still piss myself"

I'm on about a massive blow off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to find out, but probably trumping on a first date lol

Fucking hell, that would hook me in!! Not because is does it for me sexually. I just like mischieviousness. It would be quite cute too.

Unless it was a massive boff. I'd still piss myself

I'm on about a massive blow off "

Still wouldn't put me off really. If it was funny.

Maybe if she started wafting it up so she could smell it it would kill the vibe

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Those that said “ Certain meet verifications” is there clarification on this?

Like because they are too graphic, not graphic enough, because they are from certain people, or from certain events?

I’m just nosey and want your gossip on it

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Generally it's the detection of personality traits I don't like that puts me off. I don't mind how people talk, don't mind how they write/spell or how they sound. It's the quality of what they have to say and the nature and personality they put across that turns me on. So likewise a unpleasant nature or personality or outlook is very off putting.

Mr

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Those that said “ Certain meet verifications” is there clarification on this?

Like because they are too graphic, not graphic enough, because they are from certain people, or from certain events?

I’m just nosey and want your gossip on it "

Certain people for me

If most of her meets are from really tall guys, or really hung guys, or some other standard I can’t live up to, I don’t care how much interest you express. I’m always gonna feel inferior and I’d prefer to just not meet

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"Those that said “ Certain meet verifications” is there clarification on this?

Like because they are too graphic, not graphic enough, because they are from certain people, or from certain events?

I’m just nosey and want your gossip on it

Certain people for me

If most of her meets are from really tall guys, or really hung guys, or some other standard I can’t live up to, I don’t care how much interest you express. I’m always gonna feel inferior and I’d prefer to just not meet "

Ah that makes sense. Establishing some boundaries for your own mental health. Thanks for the info

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A profile that is just a list of ‘don’t do this…’ statements "

Or the opposite, nothing but “you must…you will be….you will have”.

And smoking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A list of demands longer than my attention spa.....oooh a squirrel!!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Having to lock up my bunnies.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

What I have learned from this thread (and what I already knew) is that men are mostly easy going

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Thinking I'll pinch their knickers....

Sod off, I've probably got more pairs than you

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Apparently I’m pretty “picky” by male standards, so here’s a list of things I find off-putting.

Big red flag for me is “preferences” that make it clear that what they *really* wanted to write was “No blacks, no dogs, no Irish”.

Also – and I think I mainly see this from couples – is weirdly militant attitudes to pubic hair, especially when it conflates having body hair with a lack of personal hygiene.

Something that confused me for ages was people who won’t accommodate and won’t travel either. How are you supposed to ever meet them, then? Had to learn form a forum thread on here that some people think that you just magically teleport into clubs without actually moving through the intervening space.

Accounts that have clearly just been set up to drive traffic to OF, IG, or some other site.

Accounts that only ever post when they’re begging for drugs.

Accounts with statuses that are constantly slagging off the people they’ve met. It’s not like there’s any shortage of candidates on here. Maybe the issue is their shitty taste?

Accounts with no recent pictures. Okay, you looked pretty good in 2015. What about now? A lot’s happened in the last few years.

Accounts with an entire art gallery’s worth of pictures, but you still can’t tell anything about what the user actually looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those that said “ Certain meet verifications” is there clarification on this?

Like because they are too graphic, not graphic enough, because they are from certain people, or from certain events?

I’m just nosey and want your gossip on it "

I was wondering this!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

having read all comments, nothing surprising being told really and I wrote in a way to intentionally put certain characters/people off anyway. So far, I’m getting what I want and more , others bit of a hit and miss anyway

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Many things.

A simple phrase or comment is enough to shut down any interest I may have potentially had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way they pick their nose and ping it at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing turns me off like an empty profile. And then the Sydney university stuff.

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

When it turns out their minimum criteria narrows their search down to Chris Hemsworth

And then you notice the gravy stains on her T-shirt

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"The way they pick their nose and ping it at you "

Fine tunes your reflexes surely?

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Wow...on a site for casual sex and you still manage to slut shame .

Also...a lot of people verify each other socially, we have about 30 I think and a lot of them are social or repeat verifications. And if you have been on the site years or do club meets (inc group stuff) they do rack up . "

Since 2019 the yellow pages has contained zero pages.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Accounts that peddle their OF, no problem that they have it but Fab shouldn't be somewhere to tout for business. Smoking (no problem with vaping - and we still think Fab needs this as a separate option), over entitled personalities, and of course mentions of drugs

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drugs for definite or a very popular lady swinger who is a fan of bareback. Each to their own, its not a critisism in any way at all...just not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here.

At least we fuglies know where we stand. Or sit

Carlos is glad you understand.

The MGTOW Force is strong in this one ...I mean Carlos ...The Carlos

Carlos agrees.

Not sure it's something to be proud of, but *shrug* "

Carlos is always happy to receive feedback, Carlos feels it's better to be a wolf than a sheep, or a leader of men, not a follower.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Will fill in later."

"Not sure what I'm looking for."

These people will always waste your time and bottle meets.

Or a long list of complaints about previous meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not putting my foot in it for a second day

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it turns out their minimum criteria narrows their search down to Chris Hemsworth

And then you notice the gravy stains on her T-shirt "

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"I rarely meet but wouldn’t meet anyone I felt didn’t respect themselves. That terminology in itself is so subjective but I know what I mean when I say it

Do you mean say.. More classy photos than having everything on show. Or at least not having everything on show in one picture? Being selective about who they meet themselves and not any old body? Being true to themselves?. I'm not asking to trip you up. I'm genuinely curious what others think and if it comes across the same as what someone else thinks "

It’s an odd one. Because my idea of a lack of self respect is someone else’s idea of self ownership.

I mean more things like when I see pics of people writing vile/derogatory things on their bodies, call themselves ‘cum dumpsters’ and things of that nature.

Each to their own, but it’s a no from me

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"When it turns out their minimum criteria narrows their search down to Chris Hemsworth

"

...you mean he is on here then?

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"In terms of balance, and in response to the “women, what really turns you off meeting men” thread what is it that turns you off meeting the ladies on here?

What gives you the ick? A dodgy status? What they write on their profile?

Let’s give the ladies a heads up where they’re going wrong! "

Mostly someone arrogant & entitled . I value myself, I might chat with everyone but only meet someone who's equally as interested in meeting me.

Won't feed someone ego or Simp just to get laid

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I posted in a similar thread that anything involving misandry, misogyny or requiring a stab vest would put me off and it was suggested by a woman that there are many women on here who genuinely appear to hate men and they use the power of sex to voice that here where they wouldn't be as vocal IRL.

Another red flag for me are women who are happy to turn a blind eye to the predatory and dangerous words and actions of some people for as long as those people continue to give them the validation they require.

As soon as that comes to an end all hell breaks loose.

It's not that they are gullible but more that they deliberately choose not to see the warning signs.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"The way they pick their nose and ping it at you

Fine tunes your reflexes surely? "

Once upon a time, when visiting a potential new partner, she initiated sex by unexpectedly hurling a bottle of lubricant right at my face. My reflexes were pretty good back then, and I was able to snatch it out of the air before I even consciously realised what was happening.

Some time later in our relationship, she confessed that she wouldn't have fucked me if I'd failed to catch it. Hah. She's settled down now, but we're still friends.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Women who drink too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t meet any woman whose standards are so low that they would consider having sex with me.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"The way they pick their nose and ping it at you

Fine tunes your reflexes surely?

Once upon a time, when visiting a potential new partner, she initiated sex by unexpectedly hurling a bottle of lubricant right at my face. My reflexes were pretty good back then, and I was able to snatch it out of the air before I even consciously realised what was happening.

Some time later in our relationship, she confessed that she wouldn't have fucked me if I'd failed to catch it. Hah. She's settled down now, but we're still friends. "

I think that’s quite hot. Moves very reminiscent of Neo in The Matrix

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

Size 34, 4 foot 11 tall, long brown hair, blue eyes, 46 year old and born in Chopwell, Co Durham.

What too specific?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Looking for hung only, lack of effort in opening message if they message first, not knowing what they look like, blank bio

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By *y2020Man
over a year ago

Sheff

Rudeness 110%

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Wow...on a site for casual sex and you still manage to slut shame .

Also...a lot of people verify each other socially, we have about 30 I think and a lot of them are social or repeat verifications. And if you have been on the site years or do club meets (inc group stuff) they do rack up .

I’m not shaming anyone, I didn’t mean it to come across like that either so I do apologise

"

Caught out and, yes you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lack of communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I message them "get to mine" an they ignore it

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By *ahoney2121Man
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Hygiene

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"A profile that is just a list of ‘don’t do this…’ statements "

I never got why people do this.

Basically what they are saying is:

"I get contacted by loads of people who immediately identify themselves as dickheads, and they save me a whole bunch of time by doing so because I immediately know that they are dickheads.

Anyway - here's a list of instructions about how you can fly under my dickhead radar and waste my time"

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

The psycho ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A profile that is just a list of ‘don’t do this…’ statements

I never got why people do this.

Basically what they are saying is:

"I get contacted by loads of people who immediately identify themselves as dickheads, and they save me a whole bunch of time by doing so because I immediately know that they are dickheads.

Anyway - here's a list of instructions about how you can fly under my dickhead radar and waste my time""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More names in her verifications than the yellow pages for me

Wow...on a site for casual sex and you still manage to slut shame .

Also...a lot of people verify each other socially, we have about 30 I think and a lot of them are social or repeat verifications. And if you have been on the site years or do club meets (inc group stuff) they do rack up .

I’m not shaming anyone, I didn’t mean it to come across like that either so I do apologise

Caught out and, yes you did"

I don't meet people with more than 4 veris showing. It's not slut shaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rudeness 110%"

Wow, your hatred of rudeness literally knows no bounds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carlos won't meet ugly or over weight women so his options are limited on here. "

Great news! I wouldn't want to meet someone who uses the third person to refer to themselves.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"I posted in a similar thread that anything involving misandry, misogyny or requiring a stab vest would put me off and it was suggested by a woman that there are many women on here who genuinely appear to hate men and they use the power of sex to voice that here where they wouldn't be as vocal IRL.

Another red flag for me are women who are happy to turn a blind eye to the predatory and dangerous words and actions of some people for as long as those people continue to give them the validation they require.

As soon as that comes to an end all hell breaks loose.

It's not that they are gullible but more that they deliberately choose not to see the warning signs.

"

So you've met my ex then

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By *ibonacciMan
over a year ago

hidden location

Turn off number 1: Women who are deceptive about their body appearance. Lost count of the number of times I've agreed to meet those who describe themselves as average, slim or athletic, share suitably cropped pics and then turn up for a meet substantially bigger than they have led me to believe.

Thats just lying which is very unattractive and frustrating.

Either they are hoping for some fab genie miracle that I won't notice or they should have gone to specsavers.

(Note: we all have different physical preferences and one body shape is not better than another, but don't lie hoping the other person will be OK with it...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off number 1: Women who are deceptive about their body appearance. Lost count of the number of times I've agreed to meet those who describe themselves as average, slim or athletic, share suitably cropped pics and then turn up for a meet substantially bigger than they have led me to believe.

Thats just lying which is very unattractive and frustrating.

Either they are hoping for some fab genie miracle that I won't notice or they should have gone to specsavers.

(Note: we all have different physical preferences and one body shape is not better than another, but don't lie hoping the other person will be OK with it...)"

That's definitely fair. Part of the reason I show my body here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple. Women fishing for their male counterparts. How many women appear to be at work and asking other women who service their man. Maybe your man should get a job.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Turn off number 1: Women who are deceptive about their body appearance. Lost count of the number of times I've agreed to meet those who describe themselves as average, slim or athletic, share suitably cropped pics and then turn up for a meet substantially bigger than they have led me to believe.

Thats just lying which is very unattractive and frustrating.

Either they are hoping for some fab genie miracle that I won't notice or they should have gone to specsavers.

(Note: we all have different physical preferences and one body shape is not better than another, but don't lie hoping the other person will be OK with it...)"

Well said, as a couple we have met quite a few who somehow see themselves in a different light to what we see when we enter the pub.

That's why we do a social meet first, would happily have a few drinks and a chat with anyone, regardless of appearance.

To have sex with them. Well, that's another story.

Don't know why people tell lies.

Ok, if you never plan to meet and live in a fantasy bubble but what fo you honestly expect if you do plan to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my short time here I’ve experienced a few who seem to think I owe them a favour just by them dropping me a message like I should instantly what to meet and be grateful however that’s not me I’m not desperate and will stick to my personal standards and tastes, also when the background in the pictures are a mess/untidy it puts me off. I like confidence in a lady but arrogance is also a big turn off.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"In my short time here I’ve experienced a few who seem to think I owe them a favour just by them dropping me a message like I should instantly what to meet and be grateful however that’s not me I’m not desperate and will stick to my personal standards and tastes, also when the background in the pictures are a mess/untidy it puts me off. I like confidence in a lady but arrogance is also a big turn off. "

Good on you.

Think if you remember a large percentage on here have no intention of meeting, you can't go far wrong.

The site is a playground for fantastists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people here are amazing and I already class some as friends, I just think people need to take it for what it is we all know the bad points here and have different things we are looking for. I’m no different here than I am in person, some truly amazing people on here especially the forums.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Must drive".

Amazing. Classist *and* ableist!

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By *ahoney2121Man
over a year ago

MANCHESTER


"Turn off number 1: Women who are deceptive about their body appearance. Lost count of the number of times I've agreed to meet those who describe themselves as average, slim or athletic, share suitably cropped pics and then turn up for a meet substantially bigger than they have led me to believe.

Thats just lying which is very unattractive and frustrating.

Either they are hoping for some fab genie miracle that I won't notice or they should have gone to specsavers.

(Note: we all have different physical preferences and one body shape is not better than another, but don't lie hoping the other person will be OK with it...)"

Filters should be banned,

Easy way to notice is if pics are taken lying down. Big giveaway that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they fly in on a broom...thats just a no no for me

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Usually the women stop me.

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