FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies.....what really turns off meeting men.....

By *ittlekinks38 OP Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

What basically turns you off whether it's a status a man's put up or something he's wrote on his profile or a certain kinda pic he's shared!

What gives you the ick! And puts your off even talking to said men?

Ps hopefully give the men a heads up on what may help them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my popcorn, imma just sit back and look

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

For me it when a man’s ungroomed below. The sight of of a full on wild bush definitely gives me ick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women's pics on here. I can't compete. So no point, the men would be better off with someone else.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

If they to pushey!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If their profile pic is a womans bits when they're a single male.

Asking to meet 1st message or sending a really graphic message when we've never spoken.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Pics that are mostly of women rather than the guy whose profile it is. I don't mind some on a profile but when you see more of women they have shagged and still have no idea what they look like it's a no. Untrimmed pubes and pics with their jeans around their ankles.

Referring to themselves as an alpha and being sneery towards other males on here.

Blank profiles with zero effort bio as well.

Statues giving out all the time and one's where they want to meet anyone to dump a load in them or to ruin them

And someone who is pushy in messages and doesn't seem to understand the word no when you say it,or those who cheat to get around your filters then try and deny it when you mention it.

Guys who have fab egos (yes there are men with those as well on here ) who believe their own hype and those of their little group and who think they are fab elite. There is no such a thing and I actually think that is the biggest turn on off for me out of everything.

That's actually a bigger list then I thought I had

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Men who don't fit what I'm looking for on here. Which, given I'm not really looking.... doesn't help much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really looking for them as such.bad manners definitely would put me off...

or pushy guys.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Overly abbreviated words in their bio or message!

I don’t like beards so that’s generally a no from me too!

Agree with all the pic comments too! Any full of dick pics at every angle & crap in the background is a turn off. I love body hair on men so baldy bits wouldn’t get my vote.

Men who are married or attached aren’t very tempting either, cheating’s cheating!

So, don’t send us a message asking how ‘yous are’ - everything they need to know to start with is in the bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A graphic username/status/avatar/message will mean I don't look at the rest of the profile and delete. That's all that gives me the ick factor. But I don't think all women feel like that.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The women's pics on here. I can't compete. So no point, the men would be better off with someone else. "

Ahhh Doris, you know you should send me a flange pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The women's pics on here. I can't compete. So no point, the men would be better off with someone else.

Ahhh Doris, you know you should send me a flange pic

You are lovely Ace. You haven't done anything awful enough to warrant such a hideous pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little to no effort in bio

Vulgar opening messages

Statuses

Pics/unkempt

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The women's pics on here. I can't compete. So no point, the men would be better off with someone else.

Ahhh Doris, you know you should send me a flange pic

You are lovely Ace. You haven't done anything awful enough to warrant such a hideous pic.

Maybe one with "that carrot" protruding then

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Got my popcorn, imma just sit back and look "

When a man has popcorn bits down his shirt. Or in his beard. Or pubes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Too much to mention. Could just be one word or one pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much to mention. Could just be one word or one pic "

Picky, picky. It wasn't that long ago you asked to grind on my face. Must have been an angry grind!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s fine

If I am their cup of tea and vice versa then all is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men that doesn't read and understand my profile, as I have tried to write in in the most basic of terms so guys should be able to get what I am looking for.

I get messages that are literally the opposite so don't even bother with messageing back. So most of the time it doesn't get to the meeting up stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 no shows in a row has been enough to put me off private meets for good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 no shows in a row has been enough to put me off private meets for good

Couldn’t agree more, and that’s just rude to even do it once

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Action shots of them having unprotected sex with multiple women.

Bios that are only 1 sentence.

Poor quality photos.

Lying about their age.

Not setting their age limits.

Crude statuses.

Any mention of illegal substances.

Derogatory/degrading language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 no shows in a row has been enough to put me off private meets for good

I have to say I am getting close to giving up here. Two guys cancelled the day before. One guy walked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What basically turns you off whether it's a status a man's put up or something he's wrote on his profile or a certain kinda pic he's shared!

What gives you the ick! And puts your off even talking to said men?

Ps hopefully give the men a heads up on what may help them..."

When it's a social and they say

But if we get on can we have fun.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"What basically turns you off whether it's a status a man's put up or something he's wrote on his profile or a certain kinda pic he's shared!

What gives you the ick! And puts your off even talking to said men?

Ps hopefully give the men a heads up on what may help them..."

I'm not looking to meet men but all sorts of thing give me the ick..

Lots of close ups of genitalia, incomprehensible text, misogyny and anything 420 related.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What basically turns you off whether it's a status a man's put up or something he's wrote on his profile or a certain kinda pic he's shared!

What gives you the ick! And puts your off even talking to said men?

Ps hopefully give the men a heads up on what may help them...

When it's a social and they say

But if we get on can we have fun.

So being presumptuous then haha

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true"

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

This will probably sound silly. But I like slightly aloof, sexually nonchalant men.

I just like men to be normal, non sleazy types who don’t treat their need for sex as some all encompassing need and deny their cock from being a magical divining rod looking for the nearest willing, wettest pussy.

Just be chill about the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 no shows in a row has been enough to put me off private meets for good

Is that a serious statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This will probably sound silly. But I like slightly aloof, sexually nonchalant men.

Just be chill about the sex. "

We'd get on well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

I think men must get their tips for licking pussy from porn too, two mins on the woman then half hour of her sucking dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet someone off fab and yer its like one guy did say where not everyone's cup a tea.

Look im kind & respectful not pushy not bad bio I think lol. Don't take this the wrong way but men that message all the time? When the lady's are saying I get 100s messages a day, a man will keep pushing in hope that she will only talk to him. Yep im probably wrong but just a thought.

Before you say anything I don't do that I only come one to chat in forums with you lot, im a good guy, blue shirt guy my old name

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

At the moment, profound apathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much to mention. Could just be one word or one pic "

Aaaaaaah that's why you stopped messaging!

Was it the dead girl fetish thing?

Or was that someone else, I can't remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment, profound apathy"

I waas going to reply to this but then.....meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment, profound apathy"

Profile made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vulgar status updates and dick pics with a flappy foreskin dangling over the end. For the sake of a photo please just pull it back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This will probably sound silly. But I like slightly aloof, sexually nonchalant men.

Just be chill about the sex. "

So being a gentleman, with sophistication and charm.

And the ability to put a ladies requirements and needs first even in a social environment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment, profound apathy"

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

I think men must get their tips for licking pussy from porn too, two mins on the woman then half hour of her sucking dick

You can suck dick for 3 hours, if your technique is shit it’s still 3 hours of shite !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

I think men must get their tips for licking pussy from porn too, two mins on the woman then half hour of her sucking dick

You can suck dick for 3 hours, if your technique is shit it’s still 3 hours of shite ! "

There is a thread for men to comment about women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

I think men must get their tips for licking pussy from porn too, two mins on the woman then half hour of her sucking dick

You can suck dick for 3 hours, if your technique is shit it’s still 3 hours of shite ! "

Now now children play nice!

But let’s face it, it’s men who claim to be the best at pussy licking I’ve never seen women claiming to be the cock sucker who can suck all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

I think men must get their tips for licking pussy from porn too, two mins on the woman then half hour of her sucking dick

You can suck dick for 3 hours, if your technique is shit it’s still 3 hours of shite !

Now now children play nice!

But let’s face it, it’s men who claim to be the best at pussy licking I’ve never seen women claiming to be the cock sucker who can suck all night

No need for bragging is ever needed, All that matters that those concerned have a great time….surely

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

I think men must get their tips for licking pussy from porn too, two mins on the woman then half hour of her sucking dick

You can suck dick for 3 hours, if your technique is shit it’s still 3 hours of shite !

Now now children play nice!

But let’s face it, it’s men who claim to be the best at pussy licking I’ve never seen women claiming to be the cock sucker who can suck all night

Oh I could find you many threads with ladies claiming 10/10 for there oral expertise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm put off a man who shows himself as a misogynist in the forum.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Any man with the username cervix basher or something similar ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew there would be an argument on this, just scrolled towards bottom lol

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Someone looking for sex

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true"

To be fair, my cat agreed with this. She said she does a much better job herself......

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Too much to mention. Could just be one word or one pic

Picky, picky. It wasn't that long ago you asked to grind on my face. Must have been an angry grind!...

Haha. I don’t recall!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures depicting bareback. Wearing womens underwear. Entitlement.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

I must have been very lucky with the men I’ve met or I’m easily pleased

. And I definitely don’t think it’s the latter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

I think men must get their tips for licking pussy from porn too, two mins on the woman then half hour of her sucking dick

You can suck dick for 3 hours, if your technique is shit it’s still 3 hours of shite ! "

Nah, I would get jaw ache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fragile egos

Men that obviously won’t respect boundaries

Bare back pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any mention of how good they are or how much they enjoy licking pussy.

Hate to burst your bubble but the majority of you are just shit at it.

This is so true

I hate to rain on your parade girls but you’re just as shite at giving a blow job. I think you all watch too much porn n

I'd rather watch porn than suck cock so yeah, this is probably true.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1266668

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