FabSwingers.com forum: Women in the driving seat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’ve been asked to post this from a male friend of mine to gather info from us girls, I mean, I am so excluded cos I don’t know how to drive

At all.

“Why do women not put the drivers seat back after they’ve finished when driving a mans car, do they not know how hard it is for men to try and get in and adjust it while pushed up against the steering wheel. And they have the cheek to moan about men leaving the toilet seat up. Check your privilege first women ?!”

That’s his question, now ladies, your answers please

Btw it drives me freaking bonkers if men leave the toilet seat up. Like, just close the damn thing, please!!!

Especially if you want me to close my gob from moaning afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they bought us our own damn car then we wouldn't have to would we.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they bought us our own damn car then we wouldn't have to would we.

I mean, this is a very acceptable reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they bought us our own damn car then we wouldn't have to would we.

Before anybody gets their knickers in a twist. Yes I wouldn't expect a man to buy me a car. Yes I should use my own money. Yes I am financially stable

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes just can't be bothered to put it back, would rather watch hubby limbo in sideways tutting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a shorter guy, I have no issue with this. I even let them keep the cushion there that lets me see over the dashboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I’m glad that Mrs S never learnt to drive. I just provide a chauffeur service instead.

“Joey doesn’t share food” is the equivalent to my “Keyser doesn’t share his driving seat”

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

The only cars I have driven apart from my own in years belong to my best mate and my brother in law. I always put the seat back when I finished driving them.They are both a lot taller than me so would hardly be able to even get in the seat if I didn't.

The toilet seat I usually put the lid down as it stops splashes spreading around the bathroom when you flush it. I don't live with a man anyhow so the seat part is never up anyhow but yes my ex never put it down it wasn't a big deal I just put it down myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The toilet seat is pay back for pushing the car seat forwards lol.that's why the soft shut seat was invented for and memory seats in the car ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is why I’m glad that Mrs S never learnt to drive. I just provide a chauffeur service instead.

“Joey doesn’t share food” is the equivalent to my “Keyser doesn’t share his driving seat”

I prefer a chauffeur service to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I’m glad that Mrs S never learnt to drive. I just provide a chauffeur service instead.

“Joey doesn’t share food” is the equivalent to my “Keyser doesn’t share his driving seat”

I prefer a chauffeur service to be fair

Funnily enough, so does she.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Not putting the seat down means that the bathroom (including toothbrushes and face cloths) can get covered in a fine mist of urine when the toilet is flushed. It's a hygiene thing - close the lid!

Not moving a seat back means you have to move a seat back. Not quite the same thing! I don't use anyone else's car though, and nobody uses mine, so maybe I underestimate the effort involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I subconsciously did it to get back at my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I drive a girls car, I can’t fit in, so I have to do the one leg in then the other squished, and finally slam the seat all the way and be able to breath lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No man has ever put my seat forward again even a little bit after driving my car. I have to get in and try to drag it a foot forward with my butt

. I think it's far easier to put a seat back from outside the car than it is to move it forwards. It also annoys me when it's in the garage and they feel the need to recline it right back for the all of 10 metres then need to move it. I get that someone taller needs to move it back to fit but do they really need to be practically lying down? I don't mind someone adjusting things to their comfort when they actually have to drive it a considerable distance. My male family members used to manage without adjusting the backrest when moving my car off the shared driveway.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I've never drive "a man's" car and no men drive my car. I drive my car. I don't understand the question

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't share my bathroom and I'm definitely not sharing a car!

At 5' 10", I wouldn't be hugging the steering wheel anyway.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If he's not created a workable way to indicate the seat position he demands, he can have the full freedom of adjusting it to his own tastes and needs.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Not putting the seat down means that the bathroom (including toothbrushes and face cloths) can get covered in a fine mist of urine when the toilet is flushed. It's a hygiene thing - close the lid!

Not moving a seat back means you have to move a seat back. Not quite the same thing! I don't use anyone else's car though, and nobody uses mine, so maybe I underestimate the effort involved."

Except that closing the lid pushes those particulates through a smaller gap. This basically causes an aerosol effect, causing those particulates to travel faster and further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve been asked to post this from a male friend of mine to gather info from us girls, I mean, I am so excluded cos I don’t know how to drive

At all.

That’s his question, now ladies, your answers please

Btw it drives me freaking bonkers if men leave the toilet seat up. Like, just close the damn thing, please!!!

Especially if you want me to close my gob from moaning afterwards

Who wants you to close your Mouth? What use is That?

To be honest I have the same issues but the mrs moans if I don't put her seat back Coz I'm a shit driver and sit about a cm from the wheel like driving miss Daisy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"If they bought us our own damn car then we wouldn't have to would we.

Before anybody gets their knickers in a twist. Yes I wouldn't expect a man to buy me a car. Yes I should use my own money. Yes I am financially stable

Put some wheels on your crocs

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Okay ..... partner shuffle time ...

All the dinky liccle men who could fit in my pocket partner up with a mahoosive amazon of a woman .

Problem solved.

You are picking the wrong sized partners

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Why would I be letting a woman drive my car?

There are things in life you just don’t do, this would be high on the list.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't need to change the driving position in my husband's van or dads car and I have my own car.

When Cal drives my car he doesn't need to change the driving position.

If I had to change the position, I would try to put it back where it was. The chances are it wouldn't be exactly right anyway to be fair.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

I would not do this, I have long legs

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

Btw it drives me freaking bonkers if men leave the toilet seat up. Like, just close the damn thing, please!!!

Especially if you want me to close my gob from moaning afterwards

A little consideration and thoughtfulness on the part of some ladies wouldn`t go amiss. Why don`t they just put the toilet seat back up for us men, instead of us having to put it down all the time. Equality and all that bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve been asked to post this from a male friend of mine to gather info from us girls, I mean, I am so excluded cos I don’t know how to drive

At all.

That’s his question, now ladies, your answers please

Btw it drives me freaking bonkers if men leave the toilet seat up. Like, just close the damn thing, please!!!

Especially if you want me to close my gob from moaning afterwards

What an amazing question. My car has two keys. If I press open on mine it puts the seat back. Am I posh?

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"What an amazing question. My car has two keys. If I press open on mine it puts the seat back. Am I posh?

Do you identify as posh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Memory seats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they bought us our own damn car then we wouldn't have to would we.

Before anybody gets their knickers in a twist. Yes I wouldn't expect a man to buy me a car. Yes I should use my own money. Yes I am financially stable

Put some wheels on your crocs

Could you imagine me trying to do the splits over speed bumps to stop the jolt over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an amazing question. My car has two keys. If I press open on mine it puts the seat back. Am I posh?

Do you identify as posh?

KM"

I identify as me, and so respect everyone else who feels the same. Posh was a joke.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Its move the car seat to your own driving position where comfy.

The ladies arnt to bad ive known some male drivers to be hogging over the steering wheel to drive.

As goes for toilet seat I will put it down if the house is more female than male.

I see it as the right thing to do.

For moaning too much theres a good way to quiten you down

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

this is why we had a jaguar with electric memory seats press a button hay presto seat and steering wheel set up to that drivers preferred position

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have this problem too, especially when my car has been serviced by a guy who is shorter than me.

I have long legs mate, put it all the way back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is why we had a jaguar with electric memory seats press a button hay presto seat and steering wheel set up to that drivers preferred position "

Which is great when the cars not in the garage broken JLR quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have this problem too, especially when my car has been serviced by a guy who is shorter than me.

I have long legs mate, put it all the way back!

You're referring to the seat position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange question really. I mean, what man in his right mind would let a lady drive his car. It’d be ruined!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own car so not an issue

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

What do women do when they get into the car at a petrol station ?

I mean, they get in, they....well whatever they do...then 10 mins later, they drive off.

I am happy to let them have their own cars...as long as they move along in good time at the pumps.

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By *ourMan
over a year ago

Wonderful Wiltshire

If they're a proper bloke they'd make sure the their seat adjusted it's self so there would be no friction...

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By *inja 636Man
over a year ago

Grays

I like driving in my car beep beep it's not quite a jaguar.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What do women do when they get into the car at a petrol station ?

I mean, they get in, they....well whatever they do...then 10 mins later, they drive off.

I am happy to let them have their own cars...as long as they move along in good time at the pumps.

I'm the opposite. If there's people waiting I feel bad even setting my satnav before I drive off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do women do when they get into the car at a petrol station ?

I mean, they get in, they....well whatever they do...then 10 mins later, they drive off.

I am happy to let them have their own cars...as long as they move along in good time at the pumps.

Not me! I hate the petrol pump, it's literally minutes of my life I'll never get back

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"What do women do when they get into the car at a petrol station ?

I mean, they get in, they....well whatever they do...then 10 mins later, they drive off.

I am happy to let them have their own cars...as long as they move along in good time at the pumps.

I don't get out at all. I get the staff to do it for me

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Shouldn't ladies be driven everywhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange question really. I mean, what man in his right mind would let a lady drive his car. It’d be ruined!"

That's a joke right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't ladies be driven everywhere?

Urgh, no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't ladies be driven everywhere?

No, I prefer to drive. I drive my husband everywhere. Up the wall mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the other person to drive my car is the same height as me so win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange question really. I mean, what man in his right mind would let a lady drive his car. It’d be ruined!"

my husband, then boyfriend gave me his pride and joy when I first passed my test. Has since bought me a more suitable car now we have a family

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Shouldn't ladies be driven everywhere?

No, I prefer to drive. I drive my husband everywhere. Up the wall mostly

Surely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know where they want it so best leave them to it. On another note a glamorous school mum turned up in a massive shiny green tractor this morning that blocked the whole village. What a way to get to school

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Shouldn't ladies be driven everywhere?

Urgh, no! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he had a decent car with memory seats it wouldn’t be an issue.

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