FabSwingers.com forum: Bored of yourself

By *aisei OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ever looked in the mirror and just been bored by seeing your current self look back at you?

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Hell no mrs m

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No, I'll miss me when I'm gone.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No not at all x

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Every day.

Hence why I dye my hair and wear silly makeup and get tattooed.. too skint for plastic surgery or I'd get a new face every year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this has the makings of type O negative's i don't want to be me..

no is my answer, when younger yes but after 40 or so years ive earnt every scar every grey hair, every mark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes. A bit.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

There are no mirrors in my house…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, its taken 42 years to be happy with how I look!

(Although I am considering having my hair chopped off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I normally go "Looking good, sexy" and do the finger guns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I normally go "Looking good, sexy" and do the finger guns

Quite right!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope it's not often that I use a mirror to admire my appearance.but Don't have the motivation to train so not much to admire

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

It's never too late to become someone new

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

I'm bored with being me generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I feel that alot

Also looking at the mirror and not liking what's looking back me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I get fed up of my hair but that's easy to change

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London

Yes but not bored too much shit over the past two years but it could have been worse and others are in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bored as such but I wonder who it is sometimes

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Regularly but more bored of the situations I find myself in rather than bored of my true self.

Bored of always doing my hair one way, bored of wearing the same 5 t-shirts on repeat during Wfh

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Me - never I'm bloody hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. I get bored of my hair and how I dress for work

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Yep, often, I often wonder how I’d look with different hair, if I could do make up and if I was slimmer

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Every day.

Hence why I dye my hair and wear silly makeup and get tattooed.. too skint for plastic surgery or I'd get a new face every year!"

That's a shame because you look good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, just gotta make a change Innit. I started bulking and gum and now I’m feeling a lot better. Not where I wanna be but gotta put in the work

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By *m272Woman
over a year ago

London

"Ever looked in the mirror and just been bored by seeing your current self look back at you?"

Never bored of myself but can be bored by the circumstances i find myself in or bored of company kept at times lol.

Mirror images can only be perceived by its viewers......depends how you are looking at it i suppose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day.

Hence why I dye my hair and wear silly makeup and get tattooed.. too skint for plastic surgery or I'd get a new face every year!"
that’s a cracking way to live, I want that life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this has the makings of type O negative's i don't want to be me..

no is my answer, when younger yes but after 40 or so years ive earnt every scar every grey hair, every mark. "

What this guy said…but after 32 years and every loss of hair obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever looked in the mirror and just been bored by seeing your current self look back at you?"

Not usually. But if I see something I'm not happy with that I can do something about then I do.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I get bored of my hair colour pretty regularly and change it up fairly regularly, Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all don't some extent, but it's certainly not a daily occurrence. I'm happy at the moment so I don't get that kind of thoughts, but when I'm down I can look in the mirror and seeing an old man look back at me gets me even more depressed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking in the mirror maybe but not in life.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

No because I mix it up

Regular with either a beard, stubble, clean shaven or a goatee......I’ll also get my eyelashes curled tinted and on the odd occasion wear a suggestion of guy liner.

It’s fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

I am frigging awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Permanently bored of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading all of the replies that agree I am sort of wondering - why? Is it about self-esteem or something else? And maybe if we ask ourselves that and think about it positively we can find ways to change that feeling, even if only a little…

I am not a big fan of looking at myself in the mirror (who is that weirdo?!) but I don’t mind taking selfies. In a sense cos I try to find a ‘new’ way of seeing myself. May be pretentious?! I’m not really doing it for anyone else, but it is a way for me to (at least) try to be happier with how I look.

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By *aisei OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Reading all of the replies that agree I am sort of wondering - why? Is it about self-esteem or something else?"

For me, some of it is down to poor self-esteem but as I just mentioned in a DM that spawned from this thread, it’s also because between 06:30 and 20:00 every weekday is basically a carbon-copy, and the same goes for every weekend.

Every time I see myself, I’m doing the same things and look the same. All my past personal interests have fallen by the wayside, either due to necessity or just simply because they hold no interest for me any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have this perception that life is action packed and non stop fun. However for the majority of us, we have to work full time to pay bills and have a couple of days a week doing what we do within our means of living. Media etc I feel has a lot to answer for. Having this perception of life that just isn't true for most. Just make the most of what you have.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

No. I’m more comfortable in myself now than I’ve ever been. Working from home has been really good for me as I’ve now got more time to do the things i want to do and it gave me the chance to grow my hair out which I’m loving. Fab is the only social media I do so my mental health is not being assaulted on a daily basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what's there anymore. I just see if it's presentable enough to take outdoors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the Words of Mac Davis; I can’t wait to look in the mirror…..

I still stand in front of the mirror and marvel at how far I’ve come… things are still improving and that brings tears to my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see what's there anymore. I just see if it's presentable enough to take outdoors."

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"People have this perception that life is action packed and non stop fun. However for the majority of us, we have to work full time to pay bills and have a couple of days a week doing what we do within our means of living. Media etc I feel has a lot to answer for. Having this perception of life that just isn't true for most. Just make the most of what you have.

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