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So what do you think ...

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

... is it all about fate or is it free will?

Are you of the opinion that 'what will be will be', or do we make our own choice and have the free will to then control the fate that comes our way ...?

We are going 'deep' this evening ... scuba gear at the ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..got my full dive suit on!

mixture of both somethings we control somethings we can't.

one of lifes little gifts are good suprises outwith our control..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have decided that I make fate work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a 50/50 split. We really want the control of making our own destiny but fate and chance often interfere. It's about how we manage that as to how we feel.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I believe that we mould our own fate but that it is invariably, directly affected (whether for better or for worse) by those around us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we control our own destinies and it’s not guided by a higher power or anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all part of my master plan to eliminate jaffa cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly it's down to the will of the flying spaghetti monster. But as he/she is normally d*unk....it does not really matter.

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"..got my full dive suit on!

"

Dry suit I hope, we could be down here a while!?

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By *WDomMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Mostly the endocrine system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life gives us chances and paths we can take, it's up to us to choose which one is best for us.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Bit of both? That's as deep as I'm prepared to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life gives us chances and paths we can take, it's up to us to choose which one is best for us."

This 100%

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Life gives us chances and paths we can take, it's up to us to choose which one is best for us."

...like Sliding Doors?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..got my full dive suit on!

Dry suit I hope, we could be down here a while!? "

..might get the bends

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"..got my full dive suit on!

Dry suit I hope, we could be down here a while!?

..might get the bends"

Well just make sure you don't come up too fast

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I think its fate all set out x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's no predestined fate

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I think its fate all set out x"

If that's the case ...then what's the point? it will all just happen?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I think its fate all set out x

If that's the case ...then what's the point? it will all just happen?"

Yup x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

What will be will be

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

I think parts of our lives are fate but what we do when it arrives is choice .. I believe it was fate that brought myself abd p back together after 28 yrs.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

We have a fair bit of control over our lives and the direction we choose to go but we can't and shouldn't try to figure out why othere act like they do or do what they do, put more energy into our own destiny.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

What will be is what you let it be.

We may not be in control of what situations come our way but how we deal with them is up to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Forrest Gump is pretty accurate in how life goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think we have free will but we were always going to choose what we did. It was always going to be.

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By *eading beddingMan
over a year ago

Berks

Both powerful forces, but if your free will is strong enough, it can bend fate.

"I have noticed that even people who claim everything is predetermined and we can do nothing to change it, look before they cross the road." Stephen Hawking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the matrix in simulation theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh its fascinating isn't it looking at the decisions +paths you chose to be where you are.. And then the what ifs!

Imagine if 'your' parents had sex the night after .. We wouldn't be here today

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"We think we have free will but we were always going to choose what we did. It was always going to be. "

Sounds like a cop out for people who don’t want to take responsibility for their actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t second guess ineffability …

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By *ux19Man
over a year ago

Essex

Life for me is what you make it. As others have said, you choose your path, for me fate isn't predetermined.

Every now and then a curve ball comes along though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think we have free will but we were always going to choose what we did. It was always going to be.

Sounds like a cop out for people who don’t want to take responsibility for their actions. "

Depends what their actions were I guess, doesn't have to be bad stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..got my full dive suit on!

Dry suit I hope, we could be down here a while!?

..might get the bends

Well just make sure you don't come up too fast "

pressure getting to me now

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"You can’t second guess ineffability …"

...but is it really all incomprehensible?

What about the law of cause and effect?

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