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Motivation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you keep yourself motivated to do things?

I'm finding it hard to keep motivated with uni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell people what my goal is, and then try not to let them down by failing to reach it, that keeps me on track with many things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as the fine fellow above.

I tell people what I intend to achieve, it keeps me accountable to them, and motivated to attain those goals

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tell people my goals and what I want to get out of uni but it's just pushing myself to do the work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with motivation quite a lot. Usually I just give myself a little pep talk, a kick up the arse and get on with it. Usually once I get started it’s never as bad as I thought it was going to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I struggle with motivation quite a lot. Usually I just give myself a little pep talk, a kick up the arse and get on with it. Usually once I get started it’s never as bad as I thought it was going to be."

Once I get started there's no stopping me. But it's just getting started haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Procrastinator huh - me too.

Set mini goals, no more beer until you do X. But yourself new kicks when you hand in essay X. 2 hours on this research and I’ll have 30 mins to hunt tits and ass on Fab, etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eating a dinosaur

small bites

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I enjoy motivating females (holding them accountable) with spankings.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Procrastinator huh - me too.

Set mini goals, 30 mins to hunt tits and ass on Fab, etc "

Is 30 mins sufficient, per day?! Or pet every 2 hours?!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Break down the work/reward. Short term benefit of short term work, see how it builds into medium and longer term

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Motivation is dependant on mood , short term and really believing in what you’re doing, long term.

It’s best to embrace your moods , plan different types of activity for highs and lows rather than trying to artificially create motivation. I find shorter days, reading and relaxing good for lows and longer days, networking, analysis, and group project work , workshops etc better for highs.

But….Long term, you only succeed if you learn to do things you don’t always enjoy, and that others put off, this is what separates successful and unsuccessful people

So make sure you commit only to the right things in general, so that you can find extra power to do the above when you need to

Hope that helps

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