FabSwingers.com forum: Real or false

By *onguester OP Man
over a year ago

street

Is this a real site...or just people living out fantasy..do people meet up or not...no matter if genuine or polite respectful or discretion involved..¿?? just wondering

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

yes people do meet but people also use it to just chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some meet, some don't.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yep Very real with genuine meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…"

Could be a song that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always enjoy the positivity in your threads OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…"

Beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t conflate the forum with the site, and don’t assume anyone in the forum is wanting to brag about their meets.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Many people meet if and when they can. Myself included

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

ilkley

Some people meat, some people vegetarian...

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

It's the most real site I've been on, you only get out of it what you put in a with anything.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Are those my feet

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"Is this a real site...or just people living out fantasy..do people meet up or not...no matter if genuine or polite respectful or discretion involved..¿?? just wondering"

It’s real! Meet people in clubs instead of one to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat & meet if attraction & chemistry there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally exchange messages with myself, then meet in the bathroom for a quick hand shandy.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some use it to enjoy the social aspects Purley and others sexually as well then theirs those who just like chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is all just a complex simulation designed to keep you placid and distracted; some of the members are actors (to keep up the illusion of sentience), but most of the activity is a simple list of words and phrases which are concatenated almost randomly (you can tell because often posts and statuses only "seem" to make sense, but on closer inspection are just meaningless waffle).

It's not perfect (as you can tell, it's not keeping you placid right now) but since you will dismiss these facts without proper consideration you must admit the designers are at least masters of peripheral misdirection.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It is a genuine site. It has a web address and everything.

And yes, people do meet.

Hope that clears it up for you, OP

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I prefer to meet at McDonald's *scarpers*

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Your verifications say that you met someone in person in September 2021- I think that shows that people do meet, yes.

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By *g1231974Man
over a year ago

wetherby

"Is this a real site...or just people living out fantasy..do people meet up or not...no matter if genuine or polite respectful or discretion involved..¿?? just wondering"

As much as I probably haven't taken full advantage of the site, I think it's pretty clear that it's genuine and has plenty of genuine people. That said I'm sure there are some rogue accounts or ones that may be providing services...

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Is this a real site...or just people living out fantasy..do people meet up or not...no matter if genuine or polite respectful or discretion involved..¿?? just wondering"

According to your verifications you've met people yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is used by allsorts of people for chat,meeting,keeping up with events.

All those reasons are fine,sadly though the site is also full of timewasters and fakes who clog the site up, I've had my fair share of these hence why I have my message filters set the way they are.

Maybe all site members should photo verify that would cut down on some of the issues experienced on here

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I'm thinking the banker from Ranganathan for some reason

Anyways yes is the answer

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

I met my husband off fab. 7 years together so far

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all just a figment of your imagination....ssshhh go back to sleep now..

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Hatfield

"Is this a real site...or just people living out fantasy..do people meet up or not...no matter if genuine or polite respectful or discretion involved..¿?? just wondering

According to your verifications you've met people yourself

Caught him there haha

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Green arrow. "

Eeeeek, the almighty green arrow reveals all.....

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

So what you mean is, you aren't getting as many meets as you want

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I meet occasionally but do chat alot here plus love going in the chat rooms to cam! This place is my winter hobby! Whilst I cant get out on the cycle walking in the woods a d gardening so much! Love chating shit! As my kids call it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it’s a real site.

Yes, people arrange meets.

Yes, people do really meet.

The useless information department thanks you for your query. We hope this clears things up

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Of course people meet. A lot choose not to broadcast it, doesn’t mean they don’t meet.

Some are just here for the forums, some are just here to perv the willies. Lots of reasons.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm too busy eating my McDonald's to meet anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the site primarily for the forums and chatting with decent people, also keeping tabs on local club updates.

We don't use this swinging site for swinging

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I've been beaten to the Bohemian Rhapsody lyric, so I'm going to go with:

"is this real? Cos I feel fake."

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Just because your not getting any op doesnt mean it’s a fake site.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I've had a couple of meets but as a single guy, just use fab as a social club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Green arrow.

Eeeeek, the almighty green arrow reveals all..... "

You are not wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people meat, some people vegetarian..."

And some are Binivores haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…"

Started writing, got about twelve lines in and lost it

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Well I've had two new meets with guys from here last weekend so yes the site is real & people are meeting

You just need to make sure your engaging with the right people, you are what they are looking for rather than what you think they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…

Started writing, got about twelve lines in and lost it

Got this song stuck in my head now

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…

Started writing, got about twelve lines in and lost it

Got this song stuck in my head now "

It's a great tune and now, it'd in my head too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…

Started writing, got about twelve lines in and lost it

Got this song stuck in my head now

It's a great tune and now, it'd in my head too

Better than what I had in my head other day for hours out cycling, Paula Abdul ‘Straight Up’. So random haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not doing any more than this...

Is this a real site?

Is it just fantasy?

You say you're all swingers,

Yet none of you meet me,

I look at you all - having a ball

I'm lone-leeeee

Is it my profile

Is it cos I can't host

I'll message her, then the next

No reply I'll make a post

Anyway this site's fake

It's not me it's them (fucks saaake)

Fucks sake....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not doing any more than this...

Is this a real site?

Is it just fantasy?

You say you're all swingers,

Yet none of you meet me,

I look at you all - having a ball

I'm lone-leeeee

Is it my profile

Is it cos I can't host

I'll message her, then the next

No reply I'll make a post

Anyway this site's fake

It's not me it's them (fucks saaake)

Fucks sake....

Fabaaaaa just killed my boner

All I want is head,

Guess that dreams now dead

Fabaaaaa my journey had just begun

But now my egos thrown it all awayyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it up for MC DerbyshireTwo and MC HotWifeSeductions

* cheering crowd of half naked swingers *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give it up for MC DerbyshireTwo and MC HotWifeSeductions

* cheering crowd of half naked swingers * "

My wank had juuust beguuuun....

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Our experience is a lot of fantasy, albeit real on our part. Easily 99% of our conversations here are fantasy from the other person's part, but it's real from us. It seems to have gotten worse for the number of fantasists through lockdown/covid.

Vast majority of our meets (and all our long term ladies) have come from real life. Would love to have a proper Fab success story to share though!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Op you've had 2 meets in September, so you know people do meet.

Is this more a case of when people don't want to meet you, you decide they're fantasists or time wasters etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…"

Haha brilliant

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d rather meet one person who’s memorable and we both share the same fantasies or just sexually compatible together. Rather than endless meets in which you find it laborious and unfulfilling.

But people do meet as I find the verification facility a good indicator of the site’s effectiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…

Could be a song that "

Will never catch on that

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, yes, yes and no...

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

People on the site do meet, but there's a lot of fantasy here too. I've taken great pleasure out of both aspects!

Gbat

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By *reenline49Man
over a year ago

Melbourn

"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landside,

No escape from reality…"

Open your eyes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like looking at willies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what you mean is, you aren't getting as many meets as you want"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just like looking at willies "

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