FabSwingers.com forum: Block list….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you put people on your block list if they have said you’re not for them?

Not in a ‘screw you’ way but to stop mistaken contact further down the line?

Or do you keep them so you can perv them still

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By *illbe9999Man
over a year ago

Holmfirth

I only block if they've been rude.

I add notes about others on their profile so as not to contact them again.

Even if I do block I add a note first for the reason to block.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've only ever had one person tell me I wasn't for them and we agreed they should block me so I wouldn't appear in their updates. It would seem a bit pointless to carry on looking at someone who has no interest in you.

I normally just block anyone who doesn't fit what I'm looking for and it keeps my update page tidy and relevant and I don't think about them anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block for various reasons. If people have been rude, or I just don't like the look of they're profile from the forums.

I block people if they message too much.

I've had one guy message every week for 5. Same copy and paste message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well. I have a singles profile and in all honesty, my firewalls on my profile (I call them the terms and conditions) are there for a reason, if someone doesn't do what it says in my profile then on the block list they go. Mind you, I say this, if the message (and they haven't jumped through all my hoops) had made me laugh, I may not hit that button.

For this profile, we use the block button purely for "not to contact them again" reasons

Danish x

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By *he_massangerMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

I tend to block those who post drama updates repeatedly and those whose pics are too horrific to even glance at in the updates.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yup. It just seems like a good idea

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block for various reasons. If people have been rude, or I just don't like the look of they're profile from the forums.

I block people if they message too much.

I've had one guy message every week for 5. Same copy and paste message. "

Makes sense …. Shame it’s the same message and not him trying another angle ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've only ever had one person tell me I wasn't for them and we agreed they should block me so I wouldn't appear in their updates. It would seem a bit pointless to carry on looking at someone who has no interest in you.

I normally just block anyone who doesn't fit what I'm looking for and it keeps my update page tidy and relevant and I don't think about them anymore. "

This was my thinking behind the reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup. It just seems like a good idea

LvM"

Sense made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the block list mainly for those not looking for my type. It saves them getting a d*unken message and saves me looking dumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever blocked people who have pissed me off in some way, but might be a good idea as I forget who I’ve spoken to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the block list mainly for those not looking for my type. It saves them getting a d*unken message and saves me looking dumb "

A d*unken message may be funny, only block if harassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the block list mainly for those not looking for my type. It saves them getting a d*unken message and saves me looking dumb

A d*unken message may be funny, only block if harassed."

Very true but if they’re not looking for someone like me I could see it just being a nuisance

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Do you put people on your block list if they have said you’re not for them?

Not in a ‘screw you’ way but to stop mistaken contact further down the line?

Or do you keep them so you can perv them still

blocklist is only for nasty Perros and deaf pests, rejection is part of live,, its like golf,, when you live on an island embrace the sand, learn to embrace the bunkers, cause sure as shit you are gonna find them

So don't hate em become better coming out of em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocklist is for meanies and poo heads mainly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve only ever blocked people who have pissed me off in some way, but might be a good idea as I forget who I’ve spoken to

Ha that’s what I thought…. Easy to forget who you’ve chatted with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Blocklist is for meanies and poo heads mainly.

Haha love it …. Poo heads is my next insult to someone

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Blocklist is for meanies and poo heads mainly.

Well at least I know now that I’m a meanie, as I for sure am not a poo head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the beginning we hated using the block list, it seemed mean, likewise we accepted all friend requests. Having been on a while, we use the block list more and seldom accept friend requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you put people on your block list if they have said you’re not for them?

Not in a ‘screw you’ way but to stop mistaken contact further down the line?

Or do you keep them so you can perv them still

I block if they useless tits...

Private notes if they texted and no attraction.

my memory is bad,getting old.lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Generally only block very rude peeps but today my block list grew and my private notes love that feature x

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By *layful LiaisonsCouple
over a year ago

Bi-ville

We block those we know from vanilla life (could prove awkward and it's more common than you think), those who are rude, pushy or homophobic. Apart from that we don't tend to block too many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah still wanna perve p-p-p perve. Only block people who are abusive or can't take no for an answer.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd block them yes, so I didn't risk contacting them again.

I also block some profiles for their constant whiny statuses, so they don't show up on my updates,

Or for pics I'm not keen on.

I do block if anyone is abusive in a message too.

It's a good tool to use.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If they're not for me, I won't want to perv at them.

I usually block if they're not my type/what I'm looking for, so they don't persist in messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block if they are rude to me, so my blocklist isn’t that extended luckily x

But yeah, I don’t usually care for the rest x I just tend to ignore

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

It takes a lot for me to block somebody. I think in the entire time I've been on here I blocked one guy because he just wouldnt leave me alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you put people on your block list if they have said you’re not for them?

Not in a ‘screw you’ way but to stop mistaken contact further down the line?

Or do you keep them so you can perv them still

I block if they useless tits...

Private notes if they texted and no attraction.

my memory is bad,getting old.lol"

Private notes? How?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're from the same town and very persistent in messages then yes. I set my location away from where I actually am now. It's about 100 miles out

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

The only people on my block list are male and TV/TS profiles who repeatedly wink or message me, and won't take 'not interested' for an answer...

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"If they're from the same town and very persistent in messages then yes. I set my location away from where I actually am now. It's about 100 miles out

So actually you could be closer to me than I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they're not for me, I won't want to perv at them.

I usually block if they're not my type/what I'm looking for, so they don't persist in messaging."

Well

I’m not blocked so good start haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We block those we know from vanilla life (could prove awkward and it's more common than you think), those who are rude, pushy or homophobic. Apart from that we don't tend to block too many. "

I’m

None of the above

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Do you put people on your block list if they have said you’re not for them?

Not in a ‘screw you’ way but to stop mistaken contact further down the line?

Or do you keep them so you can perv them still

My block list is only for people who have been very abusive towards me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they're from the same town and very persistent in messages then yes. I set my location away from where I actually am now. It's about 100 miles out

So actually you could be closer to me than I think

I could be closer, I could be further.. Who knows

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they're from the same town and very persistent in messages then yes. I set my location away from where I actually am now. It's about 100 miles out

Clever / sneaky ha

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We only block people who are rude, arrogant or if they continually keep messaging us when we have said we aren't interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only block if they've been rude.

I add notes about others on their profile so as not to contact them again.

Even if I do block I add a note first for the reason to block."

We do same.

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By *unnybunny1000Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I accidentally sent someone a friends request, I've blocked, but will he still be able to see?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I accidentally sent someone a friends request, I've blocked, but will he still be able to see? "

Not sure but surely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t block anybody for that. I may still enjoy chatting to them. I may still meet them socially. I just put a private note to say they’ve said no to anything more than social interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are quite block heavy over here.

We had a repeat visitor who came to our page 4 times a week, was a bit weird, I asked them to stop (they were 30 years older than me) but they didn't. Has resulted in me being quite trigger happy with the button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are quite block heavy over here.

I guess it’s a good way of moving things along…. Block means no interest which saves time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the block list mainly for those not looking for my type. It saves them getting a d*unken message and saves me looking dumb

A d*unken message may be funny, only block if harassed.

Very true but if they’re not looking for someone like me I could see it just being a nuisance

If I ever get one off you I'll let you know

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

I block people for the following reasons:

1. They are rude or just weird

2. They harass me for a meet.

3. I have met them and they stalk me on social media.

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By *layful LiaisonsCouple
over a year ago

Bi-ville

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By *layful LiaisonsCouple
over a year ago

Bi-ville

"We block those we know from vanilla life (could prove awkward and it's more common than you think), those who are rude, pushy or homophobic. Apart from that we don't tend to block too many.

I’m

None of the above

Well if you are ever at one of the clubs we are going to then let us know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a site rule that I should be added to everyone's block list's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people for the following reasons:

1. They are rude or just weird

2. They harass me for a meet.

3. I have met them and they stalk me on social media."

No 1 here

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Star_ase K-7

"It's a site rule that I should be added to everyone's block list's "

Done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block for a few reasons but mainly because I know I'm not what they're looking for

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

My block list is full of people who on your news feed who this this is Facebook..

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Like it has been said, lots of reasons block, mostly for inappropriate comments including those in threads. The weird ones though are when people block you before you even had a chance to read a message that they just sent you whether a nice message or not. That's either cowardly or bizarre to say the least in my opinion. On the other hand it shows they are weird anyway so in some ways they do you a favour

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I do exactly that. If they say they are not interested I block. Not taking my ball home. I don’t want to forget and message them again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We block those we know from vanilla life (could prove awkward and it's more common than you think), those who are rude, pushy or homophobic. Apart from that we don't tend to block too many.

I’m

None of the above

Well if you are ever at one of the clubs we are going to then let us know.

Do you let us know when?

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

No, we just make notes! The block list is for special occasions

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if they keep messaging me when I’ve said I’m not interested as it gets really annoying or when I’ve said not interested and they reply with a nasty message

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"No, we just make notes! The block list is for special occasions

Miss pc"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I counter block.

Block phobics, barebackers, rude people etc

I don’t block just because I don’t fancy them or because they don’t fancy me.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I block people who won't take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block if they keep messaging me when I’ve said I’m not interested as it gets really annoying or when I’ve said not interested and they reply with a nasty message

I don’t understand the reasoning for getting nasty just because of a ‘no thanks’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, we just make notes! The block list is for special occasions

Miss pc"

How do you make notes ?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"No, we just make notes! The block list is for special occasions

Miss pc

How do you make notes ? "

On the persons profile x

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

If someone blocks me. I then block them ! Because they can still look at your profile

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

I love a block list

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Star_ase K-7

If I'm not on your block list, why not?

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"If someone blocks me. I then block them ! Because they can still look at your profile

I didn't know you can do that. Can you?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"If someone blocks me. I then block them ! Because they can still look at your profile

I counter block as well

I rarely block first though.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

"If someone blocks me. I then block them ! Because they can still look at your profile

I dont think they can.

I use the block list for people I know I am not interested in, and also for people who I have messaged and have said I am not for them. It makes the use of the site for me more efficient because I am not continually seeing profiles where I know nothing will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone isn't interested in me, often we have chatted as friends to start so I wouldn't block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone blocks me. I then block them ! Because they can still look at your profile

I didn't know you can do that. Can you? "

Yes. If they've blocked you, it just means you can't see their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another counter blocker here.

I’m not petty enough to block anyone I don’t like or who rejects me. Life’s too short for all that bobbins imho.

I *am* petty enough to block them back if I see that I’ve been blocked by them though! Fair game then, isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another counter blocker here.

I’m not petty enough to block anyone I don’t like or who rejects me. Life’s too short for all that bobbins imho.

I *am* petty enough to block them back if I see that I’ve been blocked by them though! Fair game then, isn’t it?

I also do this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, we just make notes! The block list is for special occasions

Miss pc

How do you make notes ?

On the persons profile x"

Well I never hahaha today is a day of discovery ha

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"If someone blocks me. I then block them ! Because they can still look at your profile

I didn't know you can do that. Can you?

Yes. If they've blocked you, it just means you can't see their profile. "

Thanks but how do I block them back. I had a strange message from someone which dod not even make sense and before I even read it they blocked - but don't know how to block them if you can't see their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To block someone OR to add notes to their profile click on their name and then on "Menu".

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"If someone blocks me. I then block them ! Because they can still look at your profile

I didn't know you can do that. Can you?

Yes. If they've blocked you, it just means you can't see their profile.

On their profile 3 lines top right click on there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To block someone OR to add notes to their profile click on their name and then on "Menu"."

I’d never seen the notes before

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I only block absolute bellends x

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"If someone blocks me. I then block them ! Because they can still look at your profile

I didn't know you can do that. Can you?

Yes. If they've blocked you, it just means you can't see their profile.

On their profile 3 lines top right click on there x"

That's great, thank you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"To block someone OR to add notes to their profile click on their name and then on "Menu".

I’d never seen the notes before "

Menu button...Private Note x

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

I do sometimes add people who I know I am not interested in, but keep accidentally clicking.

But usually, as said, just bellends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only block absolute bellends x"

I’m still here though

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"To block someone OR to add notes to their profile click on their name and then on "Menu"."

Thank you, found it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I only block absolute bellends x

I’m still here though

You're not a bellend though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only block absolute bellends x

I’m still here though

You're not a bellend though x"

My facade is working perfectly muh ha haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block someone OR to add notes to their profile click on their name and then on "Menu".

Thank you, found it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I only block absolute bellends x

I’m still here though

You're not a bellend though x

My facade is working perfectly muh ha haha x"

Certainly doing something right

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I block mainly males who do or cannot read my profile. After that female / couple profiles who if messaged me . See they are fake . Do reverse image checks . Yes if think fake . Report also .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only block absolute bellends x"

Just checked… not blocked so that’s good

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