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The one that got away...

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By *ou only live once OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Breaking my forum post duck, but found myself reminiscing today about a meet from my first stint on here a few years back.

After lots of chat, had what was undoubtedly a great social with someone who may well have been my perfect woman: clever, great company, downright gorgeous. We got on really well, just the right side of flirty (I thought), the cocktails flowed and had a cheeky snog or two. But then went our separate ways.

Sadly, there never was a 2nd meet as she said afterwards that it felt "too much like a date" which wasn't what she wanted. Her choice of course (and I hasten to add there were no harassing emails asking her to explain!) But did I play it wrong? Or miss an opportunity to make it clearer I wanted more? Or perhaps she was she just letting me down gently?

Will never know, and not an issue now, but look back on it as can't my biggest missed Fab opportunity! So, anyone else got a "one that got away"??

(P.S. thanks for bearing with the epic post. I'm fully prepared for the tl:dr replies!)

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Sometimes a social ends at a social even though it was a perfectly pleasant experience for all parties.

I hope your next one has the outcome you wish for.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Oh. I forgot to answer the question… There’s been plenty that got away. I must learn to do better knotwork.

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

There could be so many reasons! She may have been undecided as to what she was looking for? Who knows..

I tend to keep socials short, a nice coffee.. but no food etc.. just enough time to get the gist of someone but short enough to leave us both (hopefully) wanting more.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Not got one that got away, there’s a couple of ones I should have left alone though

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Not got one that got away, there’s a couple of ones I should have left alone though "

**Clicks fingers in agreement**

Been there for sure!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

There was no one that "got away" but there were a few where things could have been different under other circumstances (fab and non fab)

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By *ou only live once OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Oh. I forgot to answer the question… There’s been plenty that got away. I must learn to do better knotwork. "

Quite - no excuses for sloppy knotwork!

And I absolutely agree that sometimes a social is the end - no sense of entitlement here! I just caught myself in a wistful moment as I wandered past the bar we'd had drinks in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody gets away from me, they always end up in the basement eventually, or under it

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By *ou only live once OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Not got one that got away, there’s a couple of ones I should have left alone though "

Now that's a whole different thread, but I hear you...

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

You never know u might find her again and have a second chance! And nope never let one get away! X

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Nobody gets away from me, they always end up in the basement eventually, or under it "

So you put them out of their misery or keep them as a sex sl*ve?

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