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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

This is something which I have always done snd girls always seem to like

It’s always puzzled me, what is the girls perspective on it

Can we look deeper is there a sexual/ emotional trip

It’s certainly sexual in early part of a relationship and emotional later

From a woman’s perspective?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I don't see it as sexual at all. I do see it as affirmation of a bond I have with that person. It feels nice, it's a bit like when a man guides you with a hand on your back or waist, a bit protective, reassuring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

This is something which I have always done snd girls always seem to like

It’s always puzzled me, what is the girls perspective on it

Can we look deeper is there a sexual/ emotional trip

It’s certainly sexual in early part of a relationship and emotional later

From a woman’s perspective?"

I wish M would hold my hand, but he says he feels like a dick. I like holding hands though

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's just tactile/affectionate, out side of the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sexual in the slightest. It's an act of being there for somebody without any words needed.

I hold my mums hand, I hold my sons hand, I hold my daughters hand.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Dont like it! A fwb kept doing this out and about I had to ask him not to in end! I told him I'm not a 2 year old that's gonna run of ! X

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By *eversayNeverCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I find hand holding a lot more intimate than sex. Physical contact is an important love language to me though.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I prefer to link arms...mainly because I'm clumsy and WILL trip over fresh air at some point, and it makes it easier for him to stop me from falling flat on my face if he has some form of contact with me

I don't buy into any of this leadership/control stuff...I'm tactile and like to have physical contact just because I like physical contact.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Perfectly acceptable

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Well being very tactile I like it - blokes perspective

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I prefer to link arms...mainly because I'm clumsy and WILL trip over fresh air at some point, and it makes it easier for him to stop me from falling flat on my face if he has some form of contact with me

I don't buy into any of this leadership/control stuff...I'm tactile and like to have physical contact just because I like physical contact. "

What Lily said (shocker)

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like curling my hand and arm around a womans waist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy holding hands when I am with someone I like a lot. I mean, why wouldn't you?

I am a very touchy feely tactile person anyway, and hand holding, arms around waists, and any reason to connect via a touch is always enjoyable to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't especially want to hold hands with guys i meet but i love holding hands/linking arns with hubby.

On a disasterous social i had several years ago the guy was insisting we held hands, i told him no but he kept grabbing my hand, it was akward and awful.

The social got even worse too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very tactile so I like it (not with random strangers obviously) and it's not necessarily sexual. It can be affectionate and grounding.

Sexual is when he's laced his fingers in mine to pin my hands to the mattress

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I like it. It’s not sexual at all but I find it intimate. I’m a very tactile person.

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