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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

A great FWB dynamic...

Before anyone says it yes I know people have to be involved

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Having a friend helps. One that wants to engage in rumpy pumpy even better!

Respecting boundaries, especially those regarding the relationship (so it doesn’t become one sided or one person wants/expects more).

Being able to have fun, the friends part, not just in the bedroom but a desire to hang out and do social things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the other person understands what FWB means.

It does NOT mean FB, dial a fuck when they are horny.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Good communication. Respecting boundaries. An attraction.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Connection at every level .more out of bedroom then in . U av 2 b comfy around each orther.b able 2 laugh .cry . Feel sad .u want 2 see that person at their worst not just at their best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting along , attraction, understanding, honesty and having the time for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharing a sense of humour particularly if dark/sarcastic is a great leveler and brings people closer together.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Even before a social you should have a good feeling about if you would have things in common as well as similar desires in the bedroom. I prefer good banter and the feeling of being able to fulfil the wants of the others, that can become a great relationship which for me is preferable to a one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that wants the same as you, and likes to explore new things with you - can't go far wrong when you find that. Someone who you can also do non sexual activities with as well, but has no need for emotional connection. Dream find!!

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

Powerful chemistry, good communication and all the bits fitting together well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection, communication, respect, chemistry, laughter, highs and lows, and yes great sex

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Being able to be 100% yourself around that person, where any hang ups you may have just bugger off and you can sit and watch shite tv in his T-shirt looking like crap just as easily as you can be in his company whilst restrained to his bed…an open honesty, communication, respect and friendship where you can laugh till your sides hurt.

My fwb is attentive yet surprising, dominant yet never disrespectful and kinky as hell..but he also has a soft side that over time I have gotten to see, that in itself makes it something pretty special.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being able to be 100% yourself around that person, where any hang ups you may have just bugger off and you can sit and watch shite tv in his T-shirt looking like crap just as easily as you can be in his company whilst restrained to his bed…an open honesty, communication, respect and friendship where you can laugh till your sides hurt.

My fwb is attentive yet surprising, dominant yet never disrespectful and kinky as hell..but he also has a soft side that over time I have gotten to see, that in itself makes it something pretty special.

X"

Love this reply Dancer

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"When the other person understands what FWB means.

It does NOT mean FB, dial a fuck when they are horny."

God yes!

Someone I can spend time with having a laugh as well as having sex with. No commitment but a genuine friendship at the basis of it.

FWBs I've had in the past would occasionally meet up for coffee and a natter even when sex was off the table, just to enjoy each other's company the way I do with other friends.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

All of the above but also being at similar points on the journey which usually equates to similar levels of expectation.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Connection, common perspective, outlook and expectations. Regular communication is key as the dynamics and feelings involved may change with time for one or both parties.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think you both have to respect each other and be actual friends who enjoy each others company and can have a laugh together and be on the same page with what you are looking for sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you both are on a completely same wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being good friends first and foremost for me. And from there totally understanding one another and able to talk openly about absolutely everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being able to be 100% yourself around that person, where any hang ups you may have just bugger off and you can sit and watch shite tv in his T-shirt looking like crap just as easily as you can be in his company whilst restrained to his bed…an open honesty, communication, respect and friendship where you can laugh till your sides hurt.

My fwb is attentive yet surprising, dominant yet never disrespectful and kinky as hell..but he also has a soft side that over time I have gotten to see, that in itself makes it something pretty special.

X"

Sounds quite appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being able to have fun, the friends part, not just in the bedroom but a desire to hang out and do social things."

^ this. A distinction between this and a f**k buddy/bootie call scenario. You do things together vertically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be actual proper good friends.

Agree that neither wants a formal, permanent relationship.

Be honest & open.

Enjoy it while it lasts.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Openness and trust.

Great chemistry, knowing your friend is there if you need them.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"Being able to be 100% yourself around that person, where any hang ups you may have just bugger off and you can sit and watch shite tv in his T-shirt looking like crap just as easily as you can be in his company whilst restrained to his bed…an open honesty, communication, respect and friendship where you can laugh till your sides hurt.

My fwb is attentive yet surprising, dominant yet never disrespectful and kinky as hell..but he also has a soft side that over time I have gotten to see, that in itself makes it something pretty special.

X

Love this reply Dancer "

Thanks xx

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Just someone I want to spend time with on regular basis. I rarely let people into my life so if I want to do that they are already pretty special to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think someone thats a friend you see regularly that will make time for you and your private parts without complication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key for me would actually be having a friendship first that develops into more through trust, honesty, conversations and a similar mind, not rushing and just letting things progress naturally without pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same taste in junk food and sweeties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's having someone who I can talk to. Someone who doesnt expect every meet to end in sex.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Trust, honesty and mutual understanding. Be upfront with the rules of engagement first, enjoy each other’s company when you can, stay in touch but leave your jealous streak at home! That would destroy it!

I have a long standing and brilliant dynamic with mine - and it doesn’t always include sex!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

For me it works best when we’re both fairly nonchalant about the whole thing. We don’t discuss the big topics. Just completely shallow conversation and lots of laughter which accompanies the rolling around naked at frequent intervals.

It sounds horrendous for some I’m sure but it’s how I like it

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