FabSwingers.com forum: How Hard is it to get a FB/FWB ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been here for about 3months plus and in that space of time, have had loads of women/couple reach out to me, admire the BBC and all…Most are not local, some I don’t fancy(quality over quantity for me) and the ones I fancy that are local seem to keep putting off meets and actually grow cold…How hard can it be to find a mutual FB in here ffs (lol)!…x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

3 months is but a drop in the ocean of fab time..... Plus....

Covid.

Be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Can b difficult to find just what u after! But it is possible x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?"

Lighting?

Can you explain how that is relevant to the thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?"

Lol x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?

Lighting?

Can you explain how that is relevant to the thread? "

Not directly it isn’t, but could be a reason why the guy can’t find what he is looking for

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Can be easy, can be hard. Lots of people looking for the same in my experience on here back as a single guy. I think some people underestimate the compatibility and a level of commitment to a FB/FWB thing. It's more than just having a dedicated sexual partner on a string that you can turn on and off at your purely on your terms and at your disposal (not saying you think like that but some do and women are very wary of this mentality). There's an element of you having what people are looking for, an element of how well you communicate for suitability for this arrangement and purely the luck of finding the right compatibility and chemistry. Just hang in there and continue seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?

Lighting?

Can you explain how that is relevant to the thread? "

Fake photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?

Lighting?

Can you explain how that is relevant to the thread?

Not directly it isn’t, but could be a reason why the guy can’t find what he is looking for "

See, you get it. Fake photos are very common. His hands are in 2 different photos and they are very different.

It's funny how no one takes small penis pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?

Was your Spidey senses telling you anything?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

I'm sorry I really am but that analogy is hilarious!

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?"
Ffs racist remarks.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

The horse will always have a home at Iceland…..In a Findus crispy pancake.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining

I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.

I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.

I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining

I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.

I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.

I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different

I would say that’s what most women here look for tbh K.

A sticker album of dicks and men in various poses having sex/oral with other women is probably a no for the majority. It’s all about the language, the tone, the connection, the spark and the meeting .x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Easy to get a fuck buddy, nigh on impossible to find a friend with benefits.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

It will not get better than this today

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By *emptressxxWoman
over a year ago

Local

"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

this did make me laugh.. Thank you it was so needed today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

It will not get better than this today

Comment of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks. "

That’s not racist remarks. Looks like two very different persons in pics. Maybe that’s the reason he is not getting any meets.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Been here a year, still not found anyone regular enough! Even though that's what they say they all want

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Also you're not even photo verified, that would help for a start.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining

I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.

I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.

I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different

I would say that’s what most women here look for tbh K.

It's also about timing. You may well be a good match with someone but if their dance card is full, you're not getting in the door. Patience and right place, right time, which you can't plan for.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Been here for about 3months plus and in that space of time, have had loads of women/couple reach out to me, admire the BBC and all…Most are not local, some I don’t fancy(quality over quantity for me) and the ones I fancy that are local seem to keep putting off meets and actually grow cold…How hard can it be to find a mutual FB in here ffs (lol)!…x"

I know what you mean about the locals not wanting to meet, whereas people from miles away are keen as mustard...

Is it those further afield know you're unlikely to ever meet, so it feels 'safe' to say "Mmmmmm, we should meet!".......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.

That’s not racist remarks. Looks like two very different persons in pics. Maybe that’s the reason he is not getting any meets."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tenner bet on my mums microwave that his pictures ain't his haha. Image search can probably prove that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd pic came up ordinary from 2014

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

Ahahahah

this is very accurate.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

The first thing women do is image search pics (specially when not verified)…. Run your own through and you’ll probs get your answer

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

It's not hard at all to find someone - the key is to not try and just let things take a natural course.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks. "

Take a look yourself. Maybe, just maybe there is a reasonable and honest reason, however you can't deny that it is suspicious as hell and leans itself toward fake photos somewhere and on some level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero chance of the OP getting a pump. But if anybody ever tracks down the real owner of that boabie, gies a shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just image search one of his photos and it got a history of it being used multiple times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think it's hard at all...

it depends what you willing to offer your fuck buddy...

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Still looking for a FWB

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"Zero chance of the OP getting a pump. But if anybody ever tracks down the real owner of that boabie, gies a shout

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Lol Good yin muff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks. "

How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.

How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches."
Black cock ,White hands lol

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.

How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches.Black cock ,White hands lol"

Thank god there's no skin disorders that result in different parts of a body being different colours or this would be one long ignorant thread wouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.

How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches.Black cock ,White hands lol

Thank god there's no skin disorders that result in different parts of a body being different colours or this would be one long ignorant thread wouldn't it?"

So the hands are white in one picture and black in the other

Does this skin condition come and go then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Camera Light I guess..lol

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"Camera Light I guess..lol"
The man of many colours lol

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

For a fwb it takes me on average 6 months to find, chat, social, meet, then want to keep him in my life

I'm not really into fb anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead."

This killed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining

I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.

I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.

I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different

That's certainly the type of profile I would respond well to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

It will not get better than this today

Agreed. Post of the day for me

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.

Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.

You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.

My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.

Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.

You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.

How did the horse die?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.

Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.

How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches.Black cock ,White hands lol

Thank god there's no skin disorders that result in different parts of a body being different colours or this would be one long ignorant thread wouldn't it?

So the hands are white in one picture and black in the other

Does this skin condition come and go then?"

Jeez u obsessed!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining

I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.

I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.

I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different

I would say that’s what most women here look for tbh K.

It's also about timing. You may well be a good match with someone but if their dance card is full, you're not getting in the door. Patience and right place, right time, which you can't plan for.

This also

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Finding a perfect for you FB on here is like trying to do a jigsaw blindfold. You just have to persevere and with a bit of luck the pieces fit.

In other words, it’s blooming difficult but not impossible.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

To put it bluntly, you have only been here 3 months and ladies want more than just a cock.

Is that all you can offer?

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