FabSwingers.com forum: Swing v Bdsm

By *arquis du Lac OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

I know that a number of people who swing sometimes cross over into Bdsm.

Just a little survey! Who does both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have dabled in both. Mostly bdsm

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Me!

Mostly BDSM to be honest. Swinging is more a sideline.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Both.

I found a love of BDSM through this site.

However BDSM is my main focus atm

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

There's not so much a divide for us. We like BDSM, we like swinging. We participate in the things we find hot and turn us on. Although our BDSM play tends to be more of a private affair between the two of us. But with the right people can also happily flow the two ingredients into the same cup.

I suppose in terms of the scene we follow it would be the swingers scene. Because in clubs there is more variety and options open to us as our sole enjoyment is far more than BDSM because we do like to swing and hot sexual encounters with others with or without a kink aspect. Plus some of the BDSM scene/clubs (sorry in advance) can seem a little serious, pretentious and surprisingly judgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bdsm person. Not sure yet if I am also a swinger.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Depends ,but like a bit of both

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm either but I occasionally dip my toes into one or the other or both. Maybe I'm more one than the other right now.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we dabble in a bit of both from time to time, why not? lol.

Nothing heavy mind, has to be fun not too much pain or blood.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Raises both hands

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Fetish clubs before the Swingers scene. I go anywhere in which I can dress provocatively at times.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I’m definitely into BDSM. Not so sure I’m a swinger.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I do both but generally not together really as they don't tend to cross over well in my experience. There is so much snobbery from both sides of the equation. BDSMers are more private with sex and tend to keep it just between the couple involved where swingers by the nature of the beast, don't, well you can't really swing without involving others can you?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Not a swinger but am dipping my toe in the water regarding club group play etc

Polyamourous and bdsm are happily at equal amounts

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm into both and I enjoy events from both lifestyle paths.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I am into BDSM, I swing occasionally.

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By *en61Man
over a year ago

Eaglescliffe

Have done both but like btsm more now

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By *en61Man
over a year ago

Eaglescliffe

Have done both but like bdsm more now

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Looks like I’m the opposite to the majority; zero interest in BDSM which is why my wife and I indulge separately.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Definitely more on the bdsm side x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BDSM. I'm not a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me... Bdsm is always there swinging is in the background.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We're very much a swinging couple but have dabbled in bdsm between the two of us.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Came here to swing and found BDSM but enjoy both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but lean heavily to BDSM

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Very much into both

MJ x

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

So this place appears to be FL2…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this place appears to be FL2…..

FL is a bit shit for meeting people tbh.

We lean far more on the BDSM side of things but we're on here more often and mostly use FL to find out when the next BBB or LAM is (oh, and because the pictures are better

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd say I'm more of a kinkster than a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this place appears to be FL2…..

FL is a bit shit for meeting people tbh.

We lean far more on the BDSM side of things but we're on here more often and mostly use FL to find out when the next BBB or LAM is (oh, and because the pictures are better

The photos are amazing on FL!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Whats BdSm?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"So this place appears to be FL2…..

Not really. You'll get crossovers with other groups in most sexual groups (if that makes sense).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me!

Mostly BDSM to be honest. Swinging is more a sideline. "

Yes me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats BdSm?"

It's what the kids listen to nowadays instead of UK garage.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Whats BdSm?"

Burgers, drinks and salsa music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats BdSm?"

You'd love it - more S

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Whats BdSm?

Burgers, drinks and salsa music

That’s more like it!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely BDSM over swinging

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We enjoy both…we use here for mainly swinging and BDSM has mainly been between ourselves.

But happy to explore BDSM with the right people with the same dynamics

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Whats BdSm?

You'd love it - more S

I thought people here were all about the D?

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I skirt around the edges of BDSM ...but very interested in that scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

. I participate in BDSM much more though.

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By *itty_gizmoCouple
over a year ago

Mordor

We were in the BDSM scene before the swinging scene

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

We love some of both

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By *orcouple CCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I know that a number of people who swing sometimes cross over into Bdsm.

Just a little survey! Who does both? "

For us - mainly BDSM - visiting swinger arena

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bdsm & kink

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By *erandSir2020Couple
over a year ago

Telford

24/7 bdsm dynamic but we swing too. The sex just has to be filthy and full of fun to do it for us without the rest

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"I know that a number of people who swing sometimes cross over into Bdsm.

Just a little survey! Who does both? "

I’m more BDSm but I swing too

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

Me Me

Experienced bratty princess submissive / Bitch, nurturing, adoring strict Domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me Me

Experienced bratty princess submissive / Bitch, nurturing, adoring strict Domme

Great comment x

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

"Me Me

Experienced bratty princess submissive / Bitch, nurturing, adoring strict Domme

Great comment x

Thank you sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me Me

Experienced bratty princess submissive / Bitch, nurturing, adoring strict Domme

Great comment x

Thank you sir

No problem good looking x

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Both. I have found the BDSM side of things to be much more welcoming to me, however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in team bdsm

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I know that a number of people who swing sometimes cross over into Bdsm.

Just a little survey! Who does both? "

That was my reasoning for joining

Another master found his sub

Here tecomended i join and as it happen it then followed so did I I've found a number of them here

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Great idea for a thread wish I'd have thought of it .bdsm is for people who want to experience great sexual forfillment rather than the instant gratification from fucking random strangers

but of course their

Are many who swing have made great friends in the lifestyle and those happy with what they do and

the level of satifaction from the sexlife you wants is down

To you as long as you happy its not

Either or. Swing versa bdsm but like a few have said they enjoy both

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Great idea for a thread wish I'd have thought of it .bdsm is for people who want to experience great sexual forfillment rather than the instant gratification from fucking random strangers

but of course their

Are many who swing have made great friends in the lifestyle and those happy with what they do and

the level of satifaction from the sexlife you wants is down

To you as long as you happy its not

Either or. Swing versa bdsm but like a few have said they enjoy both"

I've seen a lot of folk say that bdsm isn't about sex

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

For some its not for me its a about

A mental connection first then empowering a woman to gain confidence and pride in her sexuality to reach forfillment .

For others sex doesn't come into

We each do what's right for us there

Are lots of bdsm activity that don't include sex .I'm just giveing you my thoughts on the subject

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I (Steve) started off on the BDSM scene but switched to mainly the swinging scene because of the attitudes to sex at some BDSM clubs. That was back in the 90s and I still dabble in the BDSM side. I think I just found it a bit too serious, it's supposed to be fun

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Never been to club in my life

But whatever you do if their

No also fun in it nah their always fun as well as serious in my bdsm

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I cum across as very serious pun intended but love fun and like a laught going out now will check back later how this thread goes very interesting to hear others point of view

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Im not a swinger, But Im not into the extremes of BDSM Dungeons and pain etc. I enjoy being taken out my comfort zone, by a Woman, someone who likes to take charge in the bedroom or a selfish lover, who likes receiving, but not giving. So I dont really fit into either category. too sexual for BDSM not sexual enough for Fab

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