FabSwingers.com forum: Risky visit

By *uffinface OP Man
over a year ago

hengoed

Thinking of having a guy visit me so I can suck him off while my Mrs is in bed sleeping is this to risky, as any one had any experience at this

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Thinking of having a guy visit me so I can suck him off while my Mrs is in bed sleeping is this to risky, as any one had any experience at this"
you can suck my cock if you want x

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

"Thinking of having a guy visit me so I can suck him off while my Mrs is in bed sleeping is this to risky, as any one had any experience at this you can suck my cock if you want x"

Fab straight eh?

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Thinking of having a guy visit me so I can suck him off while my Mrs is in bed sleeping is this to risky, as any one had any experience at this you can suck my cock if you want x

Fab straight eh?

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yeah lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has restored my faith in romance.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Omg!

very risky! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has restored my faith in romance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An example of when a fantasy should stay a fantasy

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Yeah do it, what an excellent idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it likely to hurt her feelings and make the owner of the cock uncomfortable if she was to walk in ?

Then leave it in fantasy land

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

"Is it likely to hurt her feelings and make the owner of the cock uncomfortable if she was to walk in ?

Then leave it in fantasy land"

It's probably fantasy land that the Mrs even exists. No wedding ring on his profile pics just fishing for guys that would be up for coming round to his bachelor pad lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, go for it.

Good luck explaining that when your found with you’re face full of dick.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Same answer to the 'wife' and her finding you on fab with other partners.

Is she a light sleeper, ignorant of your interests, not being given honest details of your life, even a real person, etc?

What are your plans for the relationship, if any?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of having a guy visit me so I can suck him off while my Mrs is in bed sleeping is this to risky, as any one had any experience at this"

Are you mad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your Mrs doesn't know then no. I'm not getting into people's business if they meet behind their partners back, but doing so in your marital home whilst she is asleep is a huge no no in my eyes. Completely disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s totally disrespectful, and cruel.

How would she feel if she came down and found you

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Risky? Maybe

Disrespectful of your partner? Definitely

I’m gonna assume you mean the risk is in your partner catching you? In which case, your a bad person.

Don’t do that to your partner

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Risky? Maybe

Disrespectful of your partner? Definitely

I’m gonna assume you mean the risk is in your partner catching you? In which case, your a bad person.

Don’t do that to your partner "

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Tbh I think this is just to get wank material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disrespectful and degrading. Not accounting for her feelings at all.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What if she woke up and thought a burglar was attacking you and whacked him over the head with a frying pan ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must have zero respect for your wife. Get a grip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morals

Basically

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Go for it.

What could possibly go wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if she woke up and thought a burglar was attacking you and whacked him over the head with a frying pan ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it likely to hurt her feelings and make the owner of the cock uncomfortable if she was to walk in ?

Then leave it in fantasy land

It's probably fantasy land that the Mrs even exists. No wedding ring on his profile pics just fishing for guys that would be up for coming round to his bachelor pad lol. "

My thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it likely to hurt her feelings and make the owner of the cock uncomfortable if she was to walk in ?

Then leave it in fantasy land

It's probably fantasy land that the Mrs even exists. No wedding ring on his profile pics just fishing for guys that would be up for coming round to his bachelor pad lol. "

He does have a wedding ring on in his pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if she woke up and thought a burglar was attacking you and whacked him over the head with a frying pan ?"

What if she whacked her husband with the frying pan....

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

So, this guy clearly doesn't believe in or respect his wedding vows.

That's not really up for debate and I'm sure he's well aware of this. It's a bit like telling a dog that it barks.

But I must admit, it's always the same moral police pointing out that water is wet on here.

We all know water is wet but do we really need it pointed out whenever it's raining?

Personally, unless I'm going out in the rain, I don't care and if someone else wants to leave their brolly at home.

Cause I'm telling you now, that if someone with an opposed moral compass approached me on here to tell me to change my immortal ways, I'm not converting to Sharia law, no matter how inundated the comment section.

Would any of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awful! Lack of morals

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"So, this guy clearly doesn't believe in or respect his wedding vows.

That's not really up for debate and I'm sure he's well aware of this. It's a bit like telling a dog that it barks.

But I must admit, it's always the same moral police pointing out that water is wet on here.

We all know water is wet but do we really need it pointed out whenever it's raining?

Personally, unless I'm going out in the rain, I don't care and if someone else wants to leave their brolly at home.

Would any of you?"

I think part of being a good person is trying to call out bad in the world.

Plenty of people on here waste their time changing a word in a song to sausage or eating the person above them

Should we not spare the time to call our awful behaviour when we see it?

It would be a disservice to people like his wife to not call it out. She’s an innocent victim in this

(If it’s not just a fantasy. No kink shaming here, whatever gets you off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would she be particularly impressed to discover this happening? Unless you have that kind of a dynamic, this seems a rather crass idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the thrill for you is the chance of getting caught, then go for it. If not, then have you got a garden shed you could meet in so you are close to her but not close enough to wake her?

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

HEADLINE

Water is still wet (shock)

It's a good job his wife reads the comment section on here, because the OP is taking no notice of any of it.

In fact, I wonder how many people (not just men) cheating on their partners read comments on here and suddenly have an epiphany, changing their behaviour?

Pointing out water is wet has no purpose and I ask the question again (as there is never an answer)

How many of you would change right now if somebody in the comment section told you to change your ways because it doesn't conform to their version of morally correct?

My guess is 100% wouldn't

So keep pointing out that water is wet, even if the only thing it does is gives you greater habitus on here.

Just don't expect it to change anything at all and don't expect it to educate or inform anyone about what is or isn't moral. It's certainly not doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, this guy clearly doesn't believe in or respect his wedding vows.

That's not really up for debate and I'm sure he's well aware of this. It's a bit like telling a dog that it barks.

But I must admit, it's always the same moral police pointing out that water is wet on here.

We all know water is wet but do we really need it pointed out whenever it's raining?

Personally, unless I'm going out in the rain, I don't care and if someone else wants to leave their brolly at home.

Would any of you?

I think part of being a good person is trying to call out bad in the world.

Plenty of people on here waste their time changing a word in a song to sausage or eating the person above them

Should we not spare the time to call our awful behaviour when we see it?

It would be a disservice to people like his wife to not call it out. She’s an innocent victim in this

(If it’s not just a fantasy. No kink shaming here, whatever gets you off)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, this guy clearly doesn't believe in or respect his wedding vows.

That's not really up for debate and I'm sure he's well aware of this. It's a bit like telling a dog that it barks.

But I must admit, it's always the same moral police pointing out that water is wet on here.

We all know water is wet but do we really need it pointed out whenever it's raining?

Personally, unless I'm going out in the rain, I don't care and if someone else wants to leave their brolly at home.

Would any of you?

I think part of being a good person is trying to call out bad in the world.

Plenty of people on here waste their time changing a word in a song to sausage or eating the person above them

Should we not spare the time to call our awful behaviour when we see it?

It would be a disservice to people like his wife to not call it out. She’s an innocent victim in this

(If it’s not just a fantasy. No kink shaming here, whatever gets you off)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not kink shaming etc. The OP asked for peoples opinions and got them

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Utterly abhorrent, I say do it. The quicker your wife knows, the quicker she can get rid of you!

The Boy

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

There is strong ironic current running through this thread.

The same invented moral code that came up with marriage and the reasons for fidelity within a marriage also claim that everyone of us on here is equally as immoral as the OP

So, anyone else deleting their account to show solidarity with their cause or do you cherrypick your moral code from the big book?

By the way - water is still wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t do it in your marital home. So disrespectful.

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

"Don’t do it in your marital home. So disrespectful. "

So is telling people what to do in their marriage.

Why don't you ask the wife what she thinks, is her opinion important?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t see what could possibly go wrong here

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Don’t do it in your marital home. So disrespectful.

So is telling people what to do in their marriage.

Why don't you ask the wife what she thinks, is her opinion important?"

Aren’t you contradicting yourself from your previous posts now? I thought water was wet? Why are you telling people what is disrespectful?

I dunno what battle your fighting here, or what reason you have, but good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking if it’s risky seems to indicate a risk of being caught by the wife so assuming she doesn’t know. R risky having a stranger in your own home. Yes it’s risky to both why, it’s obvious AND my opinion being -don’t do it in your marital home it’s disrespectful to your wife if she doesn’t know. I don’t think it’s needs clarity as much as you don’t think I need to give mu opinion. But I still did

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

Don’t be a c*nt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it that your being greedy and don’t want to share with your wife or your just doing the naughty if that’s the case have some self respect and control would you want her to do that to you ?

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

"Don’t do it in your marital home. So disrespectful.

So is telling people what to do in their marriage.

Why don't you ask the wife what she thinks, is her opinion important?

Aren’t you contradicting yourself from your previous posts now? I thought water was wet? Why are you telling people what is disrespectful?

I dunno what battle your fighting here, or what reason you have, but good luck to you. "

I see you had no interest in the wife's opinion - why?

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

"Is it that your being greedy and don’t want to share with your wife or your just doing the naughty if that’s the case have some self respect and control would you want her to do that to you ? "

Do you know she isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For this to work , the visitor must also be in cahoots with the op. This is the more sinister and hideous side of sex.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"This has restored my faith in romance. "

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

If you have to ask others whether it's a good idea, clearly it isnt.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's so disrespectful to your partner, I can't really understand anybody wanting to do this, never mind being comfortable actually at the time of it taking place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op do what you want to do

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Thinking of having a guy visit me so I can suck him off while my Mrs is in bed sleeping is this to risky, as any one had any experience at this"

While the Mrs sleeps the sleep of the dead, I just know if I pulled this shit she would wake up as soon as I started lowering my zipper.

I would just ask myself, is it worth it if I got caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to risk getting caught, then pay a bi or gay sw and suck their cock somewhere public.

It’s still almost the same getting caught risk factor, but it won’t be caught by someone who knows you and your life intimately. Nor will it be inviting a stranger into the house that your is also your wife’s sanctum.

Or maybe you should see if she’d be open to catching you? Maybe it would give her a kick? She may enjoy having a little toy cumslut? She could use it against you when the dishes need doing?

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over a year ago

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