FabSwingers.com forum: Condoms

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?

I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.

If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove no love

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

So you like to fuck others bare but they fuck you safe?

Apologies if I've confused your post.

For me I like bareback but only with an established partner. All others are safe play only apart from oral unless that's what the guy wants. It's a bit like sucking a deflated balloon though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a new partner it's always gonna be a condom. I don't know where they've been or if I'm the first person of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term partner prefer bare

Fab meets no condom no fuck

Nights out d*unk emmm we not talk about that it didn’t happen

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Safe sex is a must full stop....

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer it to be totally safe personally

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Wrapped up only

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Obviously bareback is great and consensual but it has to be the glove for the love

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?

I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.

If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "

You need to rethink the condom as a precursor to fun, as opposed to a barrier of enjoyment…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be safe sex, it's a must for me x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd only not use a condom with my partner, I'd never trust a meet.. If they'd go bare with me, who else are they doing it with.

Each to their own, people who do Bb know the risks and many are at least open about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think

I agree. I get Viagra on prescription but they don't always work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd only not use a condom with my partner, I'd never trust a meet.. If they'd go bare with me, who else are they doing it with.

Each to their own, people who do Bb know the risks and many are at least open about it.

A good answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think

I agree. I get Viagra on prescription but they don't always work. "

Have you tried wanking at home with them on your own with no pressure? Might get you more used to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not an issue for me. With or without is all good

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think

There are actually medically recognised issues rolled up under the term CAEP (condom associated erectile problems) and it actually affects the majority of men in one way or another.

However, there are things that can be done to help, one of which is simply getting used to wearing them (by wearing them whilst you wank).

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think

I agree. I get Viagra on prescription but they don't always work. "

Viagra can only increase the blood flow, but you still need the arousal otherwise the blood isn't allowed to flow into your penis (if it did, everyone with high blood pressure would have a constant errection).

If they aren't working, it often means it's a psychological issue, such as stress, depression, anxiety.

It's definitely worth talking to the GP about more.

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

No glove no love. Never had a problem using condoms, once you get some that fit properly you're set.

There is still a lot of guys out there that put them on wrong way to start and then turn them inside out to use once they realise their mistake.

You have to throw it away if you do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?

I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.

If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "

Practice safe sex = keep trying condoms until you can forget its there and draw all your attention on the appsolutly sexy person in front of you that you want to fuck their brains out hence they give you an enormous erection throughout...usually works

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Just make sure you get the right size. Mine were too small for years and hated them. Makes so much difference

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Would not fuck without one x

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By *unninglinguist69Man
over a year ago

Belfast

The necessary evil as I call them haha as much as neither of the people wish to wear them. If they are not on then it doesn't happen simples.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Safe sex....

Of course preference is bareback but frankly.... No.

After getting to know the real person eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?

I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.

If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "

What do you mean? It's a safe fuck because you can't get an erection so they can't catch anything?

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By *urvelover39Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

No bag no shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't use them. I have issues with them drying me out and causing irritation. But I also can't stand them, they really spoil sex for both. I only play bare xx

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I’m always up-front about alway playing bare as it’s always been my preference. I only contact those that appear to like the same. That way hopefully not offending those that prefer to cover up.

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"I’m always up-front about alway playing bare as it’s always been my preference. I only contact those that appear to like the same. That way hopefully not offending those that prefer to cover up. "

Honest question. Do you get checked regularly and do you insist your partner's do the same?

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Always safe sex for us within meets

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?

I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.

If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "

I always use condoms, even for blow jobs. Certain diseases can be dealt with via anti biotic, but others cannot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always up-front about alway playing bare as it’s always been my preference. I only contact those that appear to like the same. That way hopefully not offending those that prefer to cover up.

Honest question. Do you get checked regularly and do you insist your partner's do the same? "

Why is that question to a bareback person? Do you know that condoms are not 100% 'safe'?

Many people use condoms and don't bother getting tested unless something turns green and drops off.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Sexual transmitted diseases are reduced by the use so why would you not?

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"I’m always up-front about alway playing bare as it’s always been my preference. I only contact those that appear to like the same. That way hopefully not offending those that prefer to cover up.

Honest question. Do you get checked regularly and do you insist your partner's do the same?

Why is that question to a bareback person? Do you know that condoms are not 100% 'safe'?

Many people use condoms and don't bother getting tested unless something turns green and drops off. "

I asked because they play without condoms and I was curious.

Yes condoms are not 100 percent full proof, but they significantly reduce the chances of an sti and pregnancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had sex without one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing we check on profile if someone plays bareback with strangers before arranging to meet. Tbh it puts us off if they play bare but each to their own. Great sex doesn’t have to be risky. Stay safe

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?

I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.

If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "
have a wank with condom on... it's not an excuse to go bareback as it is possible to over come this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One off’s new meets always safety first, long term fb or fwb well only if you know they’re playing safe else where

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

New week's bingo cards filling up nicely

Like others, I prefer bare with trusted friends

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?

I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.

If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "

Get your partner to put the condom on you as part of the play. You can distract yourself by giving them attention while they roll it onto you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pack of 3 always, playing safe is always the best way plus I find you last longer with one on.

I don't get glow in the dark condoms unless you like star wars and you think its a lightsaber, or you want it to look like a rave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I always wrap up with anyone I meet and tbh I wouldn’t meet anyone that didn’t want me to use them.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm very clear that I always use condoms for penetrative sex. It's in my profile and it's one of my absolute non-negotiables.

In the last 20 years the only time I've had sex without a condom was when I was in a monogamous relationship and we'd both tested clean twice.

I'm no longer interested in monogamy so I'm back to using condoms.

It filters out some guys who refuse to wear them but that's fine by me - I'm not here to police anyone else's behaviour and I'd rather they found someone who feels the same way as them than try to change my views.

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