FabSwingers.com forum: Do women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Message first?

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

"Message first?"

Sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m attracted to someone’s profile and photos then yes I will message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's just hard for them.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes we do if interested

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

If they want to engage with someone then yes, and its not always about them being hungry for cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I find some common ground x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most do they own hunting op

Most woman who have not looking for men are they just prefer to have they filters up

So no clogged mail box

And if they open a line off communication then all your messages will slip past the filter after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I find some common ground x"

We have common ground only about 15 miles away

joking

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have done in the past, if I saw a profile that appealed to me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I do now. Never used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have. I don't sit back and wait for people, if I like someone I will let them know.

NBVN x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes they do. I haven't sent a message in 2 years so all conversations in that time have been initiated by women.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Some do. Some don't. Some sometimes do and sometimes don't.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I used to, but I don't any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I find some common ground x"

How do you know if you've got "common ground" without talking to someone?

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

I do

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they do. I haven't sent a message in 2 years so all conversations in that time have been initiated by women."

Honestly that's good

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yep I have no issue sending a first message.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you all get time to? Lol

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

No. I’m too shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message first?"

I personally never do. I almost never wink either but there are a few exceptions

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No need

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s super hot when a girl reaches out first and makes her move

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Do you all get time to? Lol"

I kept my filters tight to reduce incoming messages and would send a message when I saw a profile that appealed or that interested me.

I wasn't sending dozens of messages at a time, it was a fairly selective thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a first message from a woman once. It was a blue moon with a pig flying over and it turned out to be a typo, but it still counts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you all get time to? Lol"

I get about 10 messages a day so yes I have time. Well when I can be bothered.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I have done from time to time

would be nice if the sexy BBWs living locally would message me first now and again though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do all the initial messaging from our profile and would certainly make the first move if I thought we could be a good match.

Viv

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

Don't think I've ever had a woman message me first on here. X

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Not very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will wink, if they wink back I will message first

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Sometimes they do. But they're usually winkers to be honest. I normally notice them a few weeks later!

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

I would imagine it depends on the woman

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes sometimes

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I have messaged first a few times. If I see a profile I find attractive or even when a lovely photo is uploaded and it shows in updates. Or from a forum thread on occasion too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, several times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I might message if there’s an update I answer to or something in profile I like xxx

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Often

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By *easingtartWoman
over a year ago

bristol

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Never can you hear the echooooooo

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By *easingtartWoman
over a year ago

bristol

"Yes if I find some common ground x

How do you know if you've got "common ground" without talking to someone?"

Top tip … Read their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

Has been done, to be fair it's like,

What the hell do I do with this? Feed it, pet it I don't know??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I’ve had it once

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have assumed it only happens when the moon is blue and there are some flying pigs nearby (or it may be that they are busy messaging everyone else and missed me.....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if a profile bio and pictures capture her attention, Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve received one or two first from a lovely lady!!

But it’s usually related to the forum games

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Yes I occasionally do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have done if the pictures & profile arouse my interest..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to, but then I’m lazy.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last meet I had resulted from me messaging. It was shit, so I'm not encouraged. But yes I do message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. I find this approach works best for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the split on this so far OP?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes and I encourage them to

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

The only one that messaged me first worked as a funeral planner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely. I often do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m feeling particularly confident and brave I’ll send an initial message.

I did last night and I haven’t regretted that decision so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message first?"

Depends on the woman. You will get responses based on individual experiences....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had quite a few messages from women.

None of them were trying to get in my pants though. Apart from the one offering to stick something where it shouldn't go

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I havent yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in my experience

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

The only option for me ... I love the nerve racking pressure of soliciting a response back, even when it's a no thank you

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I do.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies but no I don't x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

In my experience they do.

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By *eversayNeverCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’m not shy of throwing a few inboxes about, especially if the profile is particularly engaging or amusing.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Some definitely do...and I find that very attractive

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Some do thankfully

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve had quite a few messages from women - anyone will message if you appeal to them.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

More often than not these days women and couples messaging me first, and that's because I'm outside their age criteria, which they generally have set to keep certain groups out of the picture. If they message me first, then I can respond. This is usually when they have read my profile with supporting verifications, and thought that I might be an exception to the rule, and worth getting to know. Thank you all for your private messages.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I do if I like what I see

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I have found if get message first . Then check profile very carefully. Most like I had this week turns out to be fake. Google reverse image or tineye is my best friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have found if get message first . Then check profile very carefully. Most like I had this week turns out to be fake. Google reverse image or tineye is my best friend

Never understood how to reverse image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah.

I’m sick of all the vag pictures.

Set those filters up strong guys, it’s our only defence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah.

I’m sick of all the vag pictures.

Set those filters up strong guys, it’s our only defence."

So you get them too ... man .. thought it was just me ... gotta stay strong brothers .. hang in there ..

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

"I have found if get message first . Then check profile very carefully. Most like I had this week turns out to be fake. Google reverse image or tineye is my best friend

Never understood how to reverse image "

Very simple . Screenshot photo of person. Then do a search in search engines . For google reverse image or tineye. Follow instructions. If photo is found on many websites etc , different names . Fake

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