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The best years of your life

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

As I head into my 40s I want to collect your naughty revelations and discoveries as you've aged?

What do you wish your 25 Yr old self knew?

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

1989, 2004 and 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your life only truely begins when you embrace who you are, live without fear of judgement and do the things that make you happy. I wish I'd have discovered self acceptance a long time ago.. now I've found that my happiness can truely begin.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Your life only truely begins when you embrace who you are, live without fear of judgement and do the things that make you happy. I wish I'd have discovered self acceptance a long time ago.. now I've found that my happiness can truely begin."

Couldn't have put it better myself

Mrs TMN x

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London


"Your life only truely begins when you embrace who you are, live without fear of judgement and do the things that make you happy. I wish I'd have discovered self acceptance a long time ago.. now I've found that my happiness can truely begin.

Couldn't have put it better myself

Mrs TMN x"

Absolutely this! Also rapidly approaching my 40s, but i have found that i have embraced myself more in the last 2 years than i ever had before and stopped worrying so much about what other people thought. Still have a long way to go with that, but i am having more fun than i did in my 20s! X

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Thanks ladies, totally agree on a good douse of self love.

But also keen to hear sexual revelations, kinky uncoverings...

I've felt so much more sexually liberated last year or so and I feel like this is only the beginning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough one,

teens i was inside that wasnt fun but it planted me,

20s i was studying and travelling the world.

Early 30s my sex life was incredible absolutely mind blowing i became financially secure but went off the rails which lead to my Mid 30s i had a mental breakdown.

so id say that now, at 38 im feeling content, realising what i want, sex & money doesnt rule my life i no longer have sex partys and chase that knifes edge, but this year i feel my mind has reset im content and the things that mean the most to me are the things that are free... family

Now is the best time of my life

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"Tough one,

teens i was inside that wasnt fun but it planted me,

20s i was studying and travelling the world.

Early 30s my sex life was incredible absolutely mind blowing i became financially secure but went off the rails which lead to my Mid 30s i had a mental breakdown.

so id say that now, at 38 im feeling content, realising what i want, sex & money doesnt rule my life i no longer have sex partys and chase that knifes edge, but this year i feel my mind has reset im content and the things that mean the most to me are the things that are free... family

Now is the best time of my life "

Love this Gatsby... I too am feeling a real wave of contentment following a turbulent few years x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was not going to work out and end in Kyoto getting hit in the face with a copy of the Lonely Planet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tough one,

teens i was inside that wasnt fun but it planted me,

20s i was studying and travelling the world.

Early 30s my sex life was incredible absolutely mind blowing i became financially secure but went off the rails which lead to my Mid 30s i had a mental breakdown.

so id say that now, at 38 im feeling content, realising what i want, sex & money doesnt rule my life i no longer have sex partys and chase that knifes edge, but this year i feel my mind has reset im content and the things that mean the most to me are the things that are free... family

Now is the best time of my life

Love this Gatsby... I too am feeling a real wave of contentment following a turbulent few years x"

Thankyou. I dont think theres a better feeling than contentment. You realise things that used to really bother you... just really dont matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 25 so in that sense I'm not sure what I should know right now. Obviously there's going to be lots of self learning as the years go on but I have a family, a house, a job, financially stable so I really don't know what else I need to 'know' right now. Time will only tell.

I do need to learn that 'mum' is only one part of me and I should be living life as *insert real name* more now that the kids are getting older... (also insert some mum guilt just for saying that).

Interested to hear other peoples pov

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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There's not anything I wish my 25 year old self knew sexually - she'd have missed out on a lot of self discovery, fun... you get the idea.

I'm in my early thirties now and I think I'm reaching the point where I can be open about what I enjoy, what works for me. Sexually, this past year has been good for me; after being put off exploring kink for various reasons I've found someone I can do so with. I'm quite (understatement) enjoying that journey. I've also learned that I don't have to be a particular aesthetic to do so (slim, white) and my eternal curiosity is a good bedfellow to that journey. It's liberating to feel sexy in myself, to enjoy the effect I have on others and to not shy away from that side of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You op.

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"You op."

Oh Sam... ever the charmer

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wish my 25 year old self had known to double or even treble her private pension contributions. I worked for a very forward thinking company who introduced private pensions way before it was common, I'd be much better off now if I'd paid more in. At 25 reaching 55 seems so far in the distance though.

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"There's not anything I wish my 25 year old self knew sexually - she'd have missed out on a lot of self discovery, fun... you get the idea.

I'm in my early thirties now and I think I'm reaching the point where I can be open about what I enjoy, what works for me. Sexually, this past year has been good for me; after being put off exploring kink for various reasons I've found someone I can do so with. I'm quite (understatement) enjoying that journey. I've also learned that I don't have to be a particular aesthetic to do so (slim, white) and my eternal curiosity is a good bedfellow to that journey. It's liberating to feel sexy in myself, to enjoy the effect I have on others and to not shy away from that side of myself."

Yeah I've come to realise arousal towards certain things is so much more about the chemistry of the coupling than the act

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"I wish my 25 year old self had known to double or even treble her private pension contributions. I worked for a very forward thinking company who introduced private pensions way before it was common, I'd be much better off now if I'd paid more in. At 25 reaching 55 seems so far in the distance though. "

Ha haaa my pension is utterly shite, still haven't learnt that one

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Your life only truely begins when you embrace who you are, live without fear of judgement and do the things that make you happy. I wish I'd have discovered self acceptance a long time ago.. now I've found that my happiness can truely begin."

So true

C

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wish my 25 year old self had known to double or even treble her private pension contributions. I worked for a very forward thinking company who introduced private pensions way before it was common, I'd be much better off now if I'd paid more in. At 25 reaching 55 seems so far in the distance though.

Ha haaa my pension is utterly shite, still haven't learnt that one "

Just increase any contributions by a little. You'll really appreciate it later trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid I would have to go to my 15/16 year old self and tell myself to stay true to myself I could have saved myself from a world of hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your future is important and you don't want to mess it up with a silly mistake or poor planning, but you live in the present so enjoy it as much as you can! say yes to the universe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy & explore as much as you can. Push yourself outside your boundaries. Life doesn’t need to be sorted before your 30!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Enjoy & explore as much as you can. Push yourself outside your boundaries. Life doesn’t need to be sorted before your 30! "

Does it! I didn't get that memo, I'd better get on the case

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