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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it almost impossible to lie to anyone at all, and when I think there's no other way I'm consumed with guilt.

The older I get, the more I'm seeing how much lying is a normal part of life for most people and I really don't understand why.

Of course, that could all be a lie

Do you do it? Do you feel guilty about it? Want to share any that you're proud of embarrassed about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s difficult for me too.

I have to keep up my lie and very day.

I’m the crowned prince of a far far away land and came to the middle of England to escape my life of great riches and many beautiful wives.

Nobody knows what it’s like to keep these secrets so I may live a normal life in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“No, your bum looks fine in that”

That’s acceptable tbf, isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie many times every day. I don't feel guilty at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People only lie for two reasons, to protect others or to protect theirselves. Me personally, I find it hard to lie and will always be honest in most situations. I think people appreciate it and always know where they stand with me.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Only to the police

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

I was always told "to be a good liar you have to have a good memory". I haven't and to be fair the person would be more hurt that I lied to their face than what I'd actually say if telling the truth. So prefer the latter.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Yes.

No.

Err depends..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only to the police"

That doesn't count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. Something serious then no. Something I don’t care about? Then yes if it means I get to spend as little time as possible involved in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never!

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

No and not even white lies, how can I expect my daughter to always tell the truth if I tell lies?

Truth always for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People only lie for two reasons, to protect others or to protect theirselves. Me personally, I find it hard to lie and will always be honest in most situations. I think people appreciate it and always know where they stand with me."

Oh no no no! Most often I've seen is to get their own way, or get something they don't deserve.

Selfishness. That's another thing I can't do.

I agree with the rest though. I'd rather be respected for being truthful about a fuck-up than live with knowing I lied for a cover-up.

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I hate to lie to people. Only time I have is to make others feel better about themselves. Surely that's allowed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I lie all the time.

"Yes I'm fine" to my parents

" No you haven't already asked what you're having for lunch" to my mum

" Thanks I love it" to some people who give me odd gifts

"You look great" to friends who ask how they look on a night out

The list goes on. Very few people are 100% truthful I think there are times when it's unkind to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pride myself on my honesty. I guess I tell the odd white lie, but nothing I’d lose sleep over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie all the time. I’m not consumed by guilt about any of it. Nothing I lie about would cause me to feel that way. Honesty is greatly overrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone lies. Some are just better at it than others. If we told the truth all the time it would just cause arguments.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I lie all the time. I’m not consumed by guilt about any of it. Nothing I lie about would cause me to feel that way. Honesty is greatly overrated. "

I agree, also what I perceive to be the truth isn't always the same as someone else's perception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't generally lose any sleep.... They are generally boosting other people and improving their day

I'd rather people lied to me and told me they love the gift, the food was amazing, my dress looks great or my boobs are their favourite... I have enough negativity (honesty) in my life and that shit stings

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes I do. I'm not going to say they're white lies because a lie is a lie. But generally they're done being mindful of the other person, to be grateful and/or kind. I'd rather say to another that I'm not bothered by something, give them a boost or whatever than make a person feel crap.

I think we all lie, to varying degrees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im such a good liar that I came 2nd in a lying competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now if we're talking the tinder swindler.. Well thats a whole other level.. I don't think many of us are that twisted, evil... Or capable !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Im such a good liar that I came 2nd in a lying competition "

I don't believe you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody lies

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yes I do. I'm not going to say they're white lies because a lie is a lie. But generally they're done being mindful of the other person, to be grateful and/or kind. I'd rather say to another that I'm not bothered by something, give them a boost or whatever than make a person feel crap.

I think we all lie, to varying degrees."

I know that I do.

I recently lied to work to get a day off. Wouldn't have had to if they knew how to be reasonable....the needs of the business and all that.

What a cop out that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lie all the time.

"Yes I'm fine" to my parents

" No you haven't already asked what you're having for lunch" to my mum

" Thanks I love it" to some people who give me odd gifts

"You look great" to friends who ask how they look on a night out

The list goes on. Very few people are 100% truthful I think there are times when it's unkind to be"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s difficult for me too.

I have to keep up my lie and very day.

I’m the crowned prince of a far far away land and came to the middle of England to escape my life of great riches and many beautiful wives.

Nobody knows what it’s like to keep these secrets so I may live a normal life in peace.

"

Isn't the next part of the story that you have $10m being held in trust in a bank account and that if you're sent bank details you'll happily share the contents of the account?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,I don't. I'm terminally honest (some say too honest).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pride myself on my honesty..."

Same. Possibly the worst insult someone can pay me is to question my honesty or integrity.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Like a boss.

People say honesty is the best policy, but some times it really isn’t.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Is being 100% honest (if that's possible) a virtue, a good character trait to possess?

What is the difference between honesty and opinion?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Like a boss.

People say honesty is the best policy, but some times it really isn’t."

I agree.

Honesty is only the best policy sometimes

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Is being 100% honest (if that's possible) a virtue, a good character trait to possess?

What is the difference between honesty and opinion?"

Good point

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Grieving relative to doctor

"Did my loved one suffer terribly at the end?"

Doctor "yes, they were in unbearable pain and they were terrified of dying"

Or

"No they passed away peacefully"

I know what I'd be saying

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is being 100% honest (if that's possible) a virtue, a good character trait to possess?

What is the difference between honesty and opinion?

Good point "

I think too many people think their opinion is the same as the truth. It's not.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Is being 100% honest (if that's possible) a virtue, a good character trait to possess?

What is the difference between honesty and opinion?

Good point

I think too many people think their opinion is the same as the truth. It's not."

Agreed.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Grieving relative to doctor

"Did my loved one suffer terribly at the end?"

Doctor "yes, they were in unbearable pain and they were terrified of dying"

Or

"No they passed away peacefully"

I know what I'd be saying

"

Agreed..

When my Dad was very ill he asked me if he was going to die, no way was I going to lie to him when he in my opinion was asking if I and my siblings were ok with him going which he knew full well was imminent..

Our daughter asked me was Santa real when she was 3, so I lied and said yes and fine with that..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No, never...honest

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I definitely lie. When my parents ask, when they drop off the kids, what we did with our day, are we really going to tell them we invited a man round for a threesome? I'll stick to keeping my personal life to myself. Call it discretion

My kids are amazing liars. I choose to believe it's a sign of intelligence and not because they're sneaky little sh*ts

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