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By *amie366 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Ok so really want to start attending meets. Never been so have no idea what to expect. Are people friendly and welcome to first timers?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean at clubs or private meets?

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By *amie366 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Do you mean at clubs or private meets?"

Clubs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do you mean at clubs or private meets?

Clubs "

Oh right.

I can't help you there I'm afraid

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By *amie366 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Do you mean at clubs or private meets?

Clubs

Oh right.

I can't help you there I'm afraid "

It’s cool, I’d love to try some clubs then get to know people and do privates too

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Clubs were friendly and welcoming the first time we went, yes. We haven't been to many but we did find people and hosts very kind and welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m also new to clubs so If also like to know lol

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By *amie366 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Clubs were friendly and welcoming the first time we went, yes. We haven't been to many but we did find people and hosts very kind and welcoming. "

Thank you

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

From my experience, which is limited people were friendly enough.

If I were you I'd go with no expectations. Just soak up the vibe and see where it's at.

Once you been a couple of times then maybe you'll feel more relaxed about it all.

Hope you have yourself a great time.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If you're confident enough to start a thread like this then you're confident enough to attend a club.

Another option is to attend a group social. No sex expected, but at least you'll meet people from the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're confident enough to start a thread like this then you're confident enough to attend a club.

Another option is to attend a group social. No sex expected, but at least you'll meet people from the scene. "

Social group interesting, any of you lovely folk would recommend ?

I do wish to go to a club/spa kestrels, a dabs or lb I will make time for one these at some point .

I also understand why folk would meet people of the back of few messages too, but a lot still do. My profile isn’t doing to much broadcasting because of the line of work I do and can’t risk a leak of my pf. But on the other hand I do recon I could genuinely offer the right folk that mutual fun we all seek , but it’s just people just don’t seem to want know , even I’ll put genuine effort into writing a message after reading the said persons or couples pf attaching various pics all non revealing from my gallery. Never crude or rude.

So brings me back to the non sexual meets mentioned by guy above is there such a thing or not?

Sorry for speech but am getting frustrated because I know I’ll do well with a few veri’s

Morning to all cheers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you're confident enough to start a thread like this then you're confident enough to attend a club.

Another option is to attend a group social. No sex expected, but at least you'll meet people from the scene.

Social group interesting, any of you lovely folk would recommend ?

I do wish to go to a club/spa kestrels, a dabs or lb I will make time for one these at some point .

I also understand why folk would meet people of the back of few messages too, but a lot still do. My profile isn’t doing to much broadcasting because of the line of work I do and can’t risk a leak of my pf. But on the other hand I do recon I could genuinely offer the right folk that mutual fun we all seek , but it’s just people just don’t seem to want know , even I’ll put genuine effort into writing a message after reading the said persons or couples pf attaching various pics all non revealing from my gallery. Never crude or rude.

So brings me back to the non sexual meets mentioned by guy above is there such a thing or not?

Sorry for speech but am getting frustrated because I know I’ll do well with a few veri’s

Morning to all cheers "

Yes there are organised socials, look in the meet requests and parties section of the forum.

We've been to quite a few, they're a good way to meet new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicecouple461

Thank you will check it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicecouple561 sorry my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so really want to start attending meets. Never been so have no idea what to expect. Are people friendly and welcome to first timers? "

If you're respectful and good company but without any expectations then yes, in my experience, everyone is lovely and friendly to first timers. It's worth considering going with a female friend too (as two singles) so that you've got someone to chat to at the start when you might be more nervous

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nicecouple561 sorry my bad "

It's fine .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

^^ there's also a meets and events tab you can use to search for various types of meet in your area.

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