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By *aughty but nice... OP   Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Who does the forum thread

Theres Busman or maybe wonka

Though my favourite is miss appletree

What do you lot think ?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like all of them, we need the variety of posters or it all becomes a tad boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like all of them, we need the variety of posters or it all becomes a tad boring "

Absolutely I think everyone makes it the place it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Team wonko!

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By *aughty but nice... OP   Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I shall total the scores up at the end of the thread and report back

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

-erect-jim-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hippychick

Kinkyduo

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I’m shit at remembering names, but if they’ve got good tits then they’ve got my vote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her with the tits and him with the penis.. they are great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wonka bloke needs to post more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah...I haven’t heard from him in a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"-erect-jim-"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busman, 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appletree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NotsoPosh

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

Sparkle1974

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

#theyknowwhotheyare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post original stuff which gets ignored or drowned out by the “fab a …” threads usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks BeerHound. Anyway, as I was saying...

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

Every so often I find a really heartwarming, lovely, good feeling story.

Sharing the story as a thread is a joy.

(ignore the other shit I post )

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"#theyknowwhotheyare"

x

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied "

Need help picking those splinters out your fine bottom from sitting in that fence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone but me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied

Need help picking those splinters out your fine bottom from sitting in that fence "

Ooooh Sassy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied "

This!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Me

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied

Need help picking those splinters out your fine bottom from sitting in that fence

Ooooh Sassy! "

Shush you I’ve had a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that posts threads about hating jaffa cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaah thanks although I wouldn't say my threads are any good.

Everyone brings something different. But I do enjoy seeing new people starting threads whose context is totally different from anybody else's.

Now, to get me to the top of the best fabber thread.. who wants puppy pictures? (I say puppy but she's so big now )

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Theres Busman or maybe wonka"

•

You said the "Best forum thread creators", not the most *prolific*. There's a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t read enough of the forums to come to any real conclusion. I’m generally just here to twat around and be an idiot. There’s a wonderful array of subject matter, coming from many different folk. All contributing to the fabric of Fab. I you all.

I’m off to pick the splinters out of my arse now, blame the fence in on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gaah thanks although I wouldn't say my threads are any good.

Everyone brings something different. But I do enjoy seeing new people starting threads whose context is totally different from anybody else's.

Now, to get me to the top of the best fabber thread.. who wants puppy pictures? (I say puppy but she's so big now ) "

Go on then. Show us your puppies. Left and Right ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied

Need help picking those splinters out your fine bottom from sitting in that fence

Ooooh Sassy!

Shush you I’ve had a drink "

Cheeky

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"Gaah thanks although I wouldn't say my threads are any good.

Everyone brings something different. But I do enjoy seeing new people starting threads whose context is totally different from anybody else's.

Now, to get me to the top of the best fabber thread.. who wants puppy pictures? (I say puppy but she's so big now ) "

Can I see your pussy pics instead?

Ps - ignore the cat bit

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied

Need help picking those splinters out your fine bottom from sitting in that fence

Ooooh Sassy!

Shush you I’ve had a drink

Cheeky "

Soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is awesome

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Theres Busman or maybe wonka

•

You said the "Best forum thread creators", not the most *prolific*. There's a difference. "

*Nero throws serious shade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied

Need help picking those splinters out your fine bottom from sitting in that fence

Ooooh Sassy!

Shush you I’ve had a drink

Cheeky

Soz "

It was true to be fair

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"I don’t think anyone specific can be picked out, lots of people post interesting threads, it makes the forum diverse and varied

Need help picking those splinters out your fine bottom from sitting in that fence

Ooooh Sassy!

Shush you I’ve had a drink

Cheeky

Soz

It was true to be fair "

But also true…. I was just being a cheeky bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is awesome "

This

The forums need a whole variety of people to make them worthwhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s a few that bring something different. I only really comment on the fun threads or the ones I find relevant are relevant to me or us as a couple.

I do like to comment on a Wonko thread just to see his replies though

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Everyone is awesome "

•

Agreed. But YOU still won the Giraffe Race, hands down. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is awesome

This

The forums need a whole variety of people to make them worthwhile."

Like Mumbo number 5? A little bit of Erica...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres Busman or maybe wonka

•

You said the "Best forum thread creators", not the most *prolific*. There's a difference. "

OK I'll stop.

Mods. Ban me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is awesome

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Agreed. But YOU still won the Giraffe Race, hands down. ."

Ha ha was in it to win it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is awesome

•

Agreed. But YOU still won the Giraffe Race, hands down. ."

the best finds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is awesome

•

Agreed. But YOU still won the Giraffe Race, hands down. .

Ha ha was in it to win it lol "

I think that's the most insane thread I've been on so far!

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

[Removed by poster at 05/02/22 21:52:53]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is awesome

•

Agreed. But YOU still won the Giraffe Race, hands down. .

Ha ha was in it to win it lol

I think that's the most insane thread I've been on so far! "

Was awesome thread to say the least so much randomness ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there’s a few that bring something different. I only really comment on the fun threads or the ones I find relevant are relevant to me or us as a couple.

I do like to comment on a Wonko thread just to see his replies though "

Probably should proof read these before posting.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I like the ones with a bit of humorous banter that lift my spirits for sure. I also enjoy the ones that I learn something from that is useful from where to stay to how to make a certain dish to what might be the best wine everyone is drinking. Not fond of those from 'agent provocateurs' though.

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

I've only created one thread on the forums and it was about torn banjo strings

When do I collect my prize?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Any that's not a thinly disguised LAM?

No, to be honest even those I welcome. I won't pretend every thread is for me, I'm not for every poster. But I do genuinely like the diversity of threads started, the myriad of topics covered - whether it's the aforementioned LAM, a more interesting discussion based thread or one designed to be as genuinely inclusive as possible (the nocturnal threads). Or someone clearly wanking. I don't quite understand some but I'm glad they're all posted. The fora would quickly become rather stale if they weren't.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Shag "

Yes! I love Shag's threads

Mrs TMN x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Any that's not a thinly disguised LAM?

No, to be honest even those I welcome. I won't pretend every thread is for me, I'm not for every poster. But I do genuinely like the diversity of threads started, the myriad of topics covered - whether it's the aforementioned LAM, a more interesting discussion based thread or one designed to be as genuinely inclusive as possible (the nocturnal threads). Or someone clearly wanking. I don't quite understand some but I'm glad they're all posted. The fora would quickly become rather stale if they weren't. "

Got pissing Geri Halliwell going round my head now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit of HippyChick in my life

A little bit of Appletree by my side

A little bit of Busman is all I need

A little bit of Wonko is what I see

A little bit of Sweetcheeks in the sun

A little bit of Erect-jim all night long

A little bit of RubyStar, here I am

A little bit of you makes me your man

Thank you and goodnight. X

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"A little bit of HippyChick in my life

A little bit of Appletree by my side

A little bit of Busman is all I need

A little bit of Wonko is what I see

A little bit of Sweetcheeks in the sun

A little bit of Erect-jim all night long

A little bit of RubyStar, here I am

A little bit of you makes me your man

Thank you and goodnight. X"

To what tune is this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A little bit of HippyChick in my life

A little bit of Appletree by my side

A little bit of Busman is all I need

A little bit of Wonko is what I see

A little bit of Sweetcheeks in the sun

A little bit of Erect-jim all night long

A little bit of RubyStar, here I am

A little bit of you makes me your man

Thank you and goodnight. X"

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"A little bit of HippyChick in my life

A little bit of Appletree by my side

A little bit of Busman is all I need

A little bit of Wonko is what I see

A little bit of Sweetcheeks in the sun

A little bit of Erect-jim all night long

A little bit of RubyStar, here I am

A little bit of you makes me your man

Thank you and goodnight. X

To what tune is this? "

Mambo number 5 surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mambo number 5 of course.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm voting for Fiddlesticks. His threads are flirty and inclusive

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"

Got pissing Geri Halliwell going round my head now. "

You're welcome Peter W.

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By *aughty but nice... OP   Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"A little bit of HippyChick in my life

A little bit of Appletree by my side

A little bit of Busman is all I need

A little bit of Wonko is what I see

A little bit of Sweetcheeks in the sun

A little bit of Erect-jim all night long

A little bit of RubyStar, here I am

A little bit of you makes me your man

Thank you and goodnight. X"

To quote Sean Connery in Highlander

"There can be only one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A little bit of HippyChick in my life

A little bit of Appletree by my side

A little bit of Busman is all I need

A little bit of Wonko is what I see

A little bit of Sweetcheeks in the sun

A little bit of Erect-jim all night long

A little bit of RubyStar, here I am

A little bit of you makes me your man

Thank you and goodnight. X

To quote Sean Connery in Highlander

"There can be only one ""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who is originally, thought provoking and none repetitive.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Everyone is awesome

•

Agreed. But YOU still won the Giraffe Race, hands down. .

Ha ha was in it to win it lol

I think that's the most insane thread I've been on so far! "

•

Is that because it didn't have any "posh words" in it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who is originally, thought provoking and none repetitive.

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Damn 3 strikes in a single pitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who is originally, thought provoking and none repetitive.

Damn 3 strikes in a single pitch "

Oh no Wonko, nothing wrong with your threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who is originally, thought provoking and none repetitive.

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Anyone who is originally, thought provoking and non repetitive in my opinion.

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By *aughty but nice... OP   Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Anyone who is originally, thought provoking and non repetitive in my opinion.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say anyone who is original, does not repeat themselves and who provokes thoughts. Thought provoking you may wish to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who is originally, thought provoking and non repetitive in my opinion..... "

Just like everyone else did hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say anyone who is original, does not repeat themselves and who provokes thoughts. Thought provoking you may wish to say. "

Nope, see above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some amazing threads but these people will never be mentioned simply because they don't start several threads a day.

I think everyone should be appreciated regardless of how many threads they post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some amazing threads but these people will never be mentioned simply because they don't start several threads a day.

I think everyone should be appreciated regardless of how many threads they post. "

We have another fence sitter. Bring the pliers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who is originally, thought provoking and none repetitive.

"

Also, anyone who doesn't use reply +quote to make a point.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some amazing threads but these people will never be mentioned simply because they don't start several threads a day.

I think everyone should be appreciated regardless of how many threads they post.

We have another fence sitter. Bring the pliers "

I'm not a fence sitter I'm just not a lamppost pisser or somebody that feels the need to single people out at the expense of others.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

These days I tend to check in, read the list and check out. Some I respond to

There are still a few great posters in the forum but some bloody banal threads

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"There are some amazing threads but these people will never be mentioned simply because they don't start several threads a day.

I think everyone should be appreciated regardless of how many threads they post.

We have another fence sitter. Bring the pliers

I'm not a fence sitter I'm just not a lamppost pisser or somebody that feels the need to single people out at the expense of others. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some amazing threads but these people will never be mentioned simply because they don't start several threads a day.

I think everyone should be appreciated regardless of how many threads they post.

We have another fence sitter. Bring the pliers

I'm not a fence sitter I'm just not a lamppost pisser or somebody that feels the need to single people out at the expense of others. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"There are some amazing threads but these people will never be mentioned simply because they don't start several threads a day.

I think everyone should be appreciated regardless of how many threads they post.

We have another fence sitter. Bring the pliers

I'm not a fence sitter I'm just not a lamppost pisser or somebody that feels the need to single people out at the expense of others.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some amazing threads but these people will never be mentioned simply because they don't start several threads a day.

I think everyone should be appreciated regardless of how many threads they post.

We have another fence sitter. Bring the pliers

I'm not a fence sitter I'm just not a lamppost pisser or somebody that feels the need to single people out at the expense of others. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"There are some amazing threads but these people will never be mentioned simply because they don't start several threads a day.

I think everyone should be appreciated regardless of how many threads they post.

We have another fence sitter. Bring the pliers

I'm not a fence sitter I'm just not a lamppost pisser or somebody that feels the need to single people out at the expense of others.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sometimes a fence sitter - depends on the topic.

I’m sometimes a lamppost pisser - depends on the lamppost.

I’m sometimes correct. But mostly I’m wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thread killed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwifeseductions

Granny-crumpet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is awesome

•

Agreed. But YOU still won the Giraffe Race, hands down. .

Ha ha was in it to win it lol

I think that's the most insane thread I've been on so far!

•

Is that because it didn't have any "posh words" in it? "

Ooh you're snarky tonight!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

"

What about a race?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race? "

Is that your beaver ?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Any that allow me to get my waffle in full flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?"

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Who does the forum thread "

Those people with vagines that I appreciate and want to crawl up inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?"

His name (sniff) is Serge.

Cruelly robbed of victory by Natalie's (pussy)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses "

That is NOT a ferret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses

That is NOT a ferret "

Then why do I type (.ferret) to make Serge magically appear??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses

That is NOT a ferret "

Put your glasses on Granny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses

That is NOT a ferret

Then why do I type (.ferret) to make Serge magically appear??"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses

That is NOT a ferret

Then why do I type (.ferret) to make Serge magically appear??"

I'd say arses and elbows have something to do with it ......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses

That is NOT a ferret

Put your glasses on Granny!"

On the beaver ?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Anyone who ever posted a thread that subsequently got derailed by cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses

That is NOT a ferret

Put your glasses on Granny!

On the beaver ?"

It's a FERRET!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best ?

Better than all the rest ?

Better than anyone ?

Anyone I ever met ?

Depends. Do I want an ointment recommendation for a rash? A laugh ? An argument ? A giraffe race ? Or a slack jawed tut at some broken hearted , ghosted, blocked and shunned self pitying persona ?

Depends depends

What about a race?

Is that your beaver ?

It's a ferret! You really do need glasses

That is NOT a ferret

Then why do I type (.ferret) to make Serge magically appear??

I'd say arses and elbows have something to do with it ......

"

How very dare you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Anyone who ever posted a thread that subsequently got derailed by cake "

Or a

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By *aughty but nice... OP   Man
over a year ago

Staffs

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Deffo busman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Inconceivable and Hippychick's thought provoking threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow....nothing for me or noochie? We quit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the topic again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Inconceivable and Hippychick's thought provoking threads.

"

Thank you

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By *aughty but nice... OP   Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Well then I'll count up the votes and publish shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the posters that make the forum what it is, it's the contributors

You don't need to make threads to make a difference

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Can’t believe no one has mentioned Kylie???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the posters that make the forum what it is, it's the contributors

You don't need to make threads to make a difference "

Absolutely this, everyone contributes to the forum and everyone should be acknowledged and valued for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t believe no one has mentioned Kylie??? "

I am sure there are lots who haven't been mentioned. Shouldn't make their contribution any less valuable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Inconceivable and Hippychick's thought provoking threads.

"

Thank you!

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By *aughty but nice... OP   Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Get your votes in before I decide to count them up

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There's so many great posters, some regular, some who post the occasional gem. Just off the top of my head I'm going to mention Kylie because she often makes me giggle.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x"

yep, and then cite how inclusive they are on other threads

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I think everyone adds their own unique view on things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what are the results? Don’t forget my take on ‘Mambo number 5’ - they are all my votes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I notice those who comment with thoughtfulness, insight and humour just as much as those who start threads. You don't need to start a thread to contribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I notice those who comment with thoughtfulness, insight and humour just as much as those who start threads. You don't need to start a thread to contribute. "

Me too. Everyone has their place here, and it’s not a competition.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CindiDreams was my all time favourite and the epitomy of gut wrenchingly funny, kind and inclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, me. You did say the "best", not the most engaging. I create the best ignored threads.

All right, seriously? Without sounding wishy-washy, I enjoy looking through the threads and the variety on offer.

I'd love to peak into Busman's and Essex Tom's minds. I can imagine Busman on his routes with those endless thoughts going through his mind and Essex Tom peering through the news pages thinking 'this is BIG. I have to share it in the Forum immediately!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CindiDreams was my all time favourite and the epitomy of gut wrenchingly funny, kind and inclusive "

I miss her.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I have to say I notice those who comment with thoughtfulness, insight and humour just as much as those who start threads. You don't need to start a thread to contribute. "

Agreed - both posters and thread contributors are needed to keep this... interesting place going. I don't think being prolific in either of those makes you any less valuable a contributor.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"CindiDreams was my all time favourite and the epitomy of gut wrenchingly funny, kind and inclusive "

I still miss Cindi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation. "

I don't start many threads because it does take time to read and respond to everyone (or as many as possible).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation.

I don't start many threads because it does take time to read and respond to everyone (or as many as possible). "

It's a huge commitment! Holidays or Friday nights are usually my opportunities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CindiDreams was my all time favourite and the epitomy of gut wrenchingly funny, kind and inclusive

I miss her. "

Me too.. Do you hear from her at all?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation.

I don't start many threads because it does take time to read and respond to everyone (or as many as possible). "

Yes, I'm not sure how people do it to be honest. And I'm not talking about people who reply to a couple of their friends, I mean the people* who give it all to a thread - replying to everyone, asking about them or discussing a topic, friend or not. It's bloody impressive - so thank you Erect Jim, Ash, Midnight, MissDreavus with her thread all about others (can't remember title) and when the photo challenge runs, the group who take the time to try and include people genuinely.

* you don't have to reply to every post. It doesn't mean your thread isn't as good as others who do so, obviously. I'm reserving the right to admire those who do though.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation. "

I do start some and let them run without adding many more of my comments and taking up the thread as then I think they become more about the OP than the topic.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

yep, and then cite how inclusive they are on other threads "

They do.make me chuckle and don't forget they then throw in the infamous #bekind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation.

I don't start many threads because it does take time to read and respond to everyone (or as many as possible).

Yes, I'm not sure how people do it to be honest. And I'm not talking about people who reply to a couple of their friends, I mean the people* who give it all to a thread - replying to everyone, asking about them or discussing a topic, friend or not. It's bloody impressive - so thank you Erect Jim, Ash, Midnight, MissDreavus with her thread all about others (can't remember title) and when the photo challenge runs, the group who take the time to try and include people genuinely.

* you don't have to reply to every post. It doesn't mean your thread isn't as good as others who do so, obviously. I'm reserving the right to admire those who do though. "

I've started threads on topics like Gaslighting - if someone replies and shares I feel I need to acknowledge them. That they've been heard. Less serious ones - I just pitch in every now and again to keep it going.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" I've started threads on topics like Gaslighting - if someone replies and shares I feel I need to acknowledge them. That they've been heard. Less serious ones - I just pitch in every now and again to keep it going. "

Ah yes, I remember a few threads on more serious topics where you've done so. I like that you do, if someone shares something sensitive/heartfelt I think it's

nice it is acknowledged. It's hard to explain. For daft ones, you don't need to.

To be honest, I don't think people *need* to be inclusive and there are many reasons they're not. Not every thread requires it.

I was so tempted to do they're/there/their but I behaved.

Anyway, I'm waffling on a tangent. Still don't have a favourite/best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I've started threads on topics like Gaslighting - if someone replies and shares I feel I need to acknowledge them. That they've been heard. Less serious ones - I just pitch in every now and again to keep it going.

Ah yes, I remember a few threads on more serious topics where you've done so. I like that you do, if someone shares something sensitive/heartfelt I think it's

nice it is acknowledged. It's hard to explain. For daft ones, you don't need to.

To be honest, I don't think people *need* to be inclusive and there are many reasons they're not. Not every thread requires it.

I was so tempted to do they're/there/their but I behaved.

Anyway, I'm waffling on a tangent. Still don't have a favourite/best. "

well done for behaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x"

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!

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By *usman 199Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!"
Hey my friend just say what you think. You will never be ignored. No one owns the site. Some of your threads may go unnoticed some get a few comments . Good luck keep positive everyone on here are good people not here to harm .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t believe no one has mentioned Kylie??? "

Haha thanks ! X btw I’m gonna say City Jeans!! I miss him on here x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!"

Exactly x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!"

Yes have seen this! Not very nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!"

That's horrible, and this can be a huge problem and it puts people off posting. I've had people say to me that they were actually too nervous too post on here as a newbie which is a real shame. This should be a place where everyone feels welcome.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Busman is a menace to our highways!

Whatever happened to Genghis Khan?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!

That's horrible, and this can be a huge problem and it puts people off posting. I've had people say to me that they were actually too nervous too post on here as a newbie which is a real shame. This should be a place where everyone feels welcome."

It should be but sadly not which is a shame x

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By *usman 199Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Busman is a menace to our highways!

Whatever happened to Genghis Khan?"
thought you was my 2nd in command . You are banished with Cummins

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Who does the forum thread

Theres Busman or maybe wonka

Though my favourite is miss appletree

What do you lot think ?"

I’d like to hear more from that lass with the van? She was always popular…..

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham


"Busman is a menace to our highways!

Whatever happened to Genghis Khan?thought you was my 2nd in command . You are banished with Cummins "

Banish me to the Island of the Nymphos and I won’t tell about your bring your own sleaze parties…

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

For me, there is no "best" thread creator. There are people I enjoy reading sometimes, people I don't. But on the whole it tends to be a group effort to create the "best" threads, and to create the forum of any given day.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"For me, there is no "best" thread creator. There are people I enjoy reading sometimes, people I don't. But on the whole it tends to be a group effort to create the "best" threads, and to create the forum of any given day.

"

I kind of agree with this, rarely is the thread creator the single one to make a thread what it is. A lot of the time (not all) the OP rarely contributes past a couple of posts within. Some of the more mediocre OP have ended up as really decent topics because of the responses of others.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!"

I've seen this often. I've been on the site for 5 years and on the forums almost 3 years. I posted regularly here and in the Irish forums and it took almost 18 months before anyone in here even acknowledged a comment I made. I got a better reception in the Irish forums and that is the only reason I still use the forums at all. If I had been relying on my interaction in the Lounge alone I would have given up a long time ago.

It's all fine and well saying that no one "owns" the forums but there seems to be some confusion between the words "productivity" and "popularity".

There are many so called popular posters who are lauded for their productivity levels and how inclusive they are but I'm struggling to see exactly how they have managed to create this illusion of inclusiveness when they are obviously anything but.

I know who the predators and illusionists are in the Irish forums because it's a much smaller community but I'm genuinely surprised at the level of gullibility in here at times.

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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago

the Goldilocks Zone


"For me, there is no "best" thread creator. There are people I enjoy reading sometimes, people I don't. But on the whole it tends to be a group effort to create the "best" threads, and to create the forum of any given day.

"

For me it's the ones that cause you to try something new and they sometimes change hands (the what tunes thread currently curated by mrmojorising/tmontana is a fave)

Also the ones that get everyone playing - Fab is like a pub, and my favourite landladies by far are Nora (secret service) Posh (my mate fancies you) and Angie (tease the ladies)

I'm also a sucker for a photo challenge/demand

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!

I've seen this often. I've been on the site for 5 years and on the forums almost 3 years. I posted regularly here and in the Irish forums and it took almost 18 months before anyone in here even acknowledged a comment I made. I got a better reception in the Irish forums and that is the only reason I still use the forums at all. If I had been relying on my interaction in the Lounge alone I would have given up a long time ago.

It's all fine and well saying that no one "owns" the forums but there seems to be some confusion between the words "productivity" and "popularity".

There are many so called popular posters who are lauded for their productivity levels and how inclusive they are but I'm struggling to see exactly how they have managed to create this illusion of inclusiveness when they are obviously anything but.

I know who the predators and illusionists are in the Irish forums because it's a much smaller community but I'm genuinely surprised at the level of gullibility in here at times.

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I hear ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we have a definitive answer yet?

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I'd love to see some new posters. It seems that of all the thousands of people who use Fab...only a minority use the forums so you get the same things day in day out.

Problem I've noticed with new posters though is they can sometimes get ridiculed by long term forum users which is horrible to see x

I agree. However I can see why many are put off. I’ve popped back over the years with different accounts and different names.

When I’ve posted as a relative newbie under each account a lot of threads get no traction at all, lots of single unrecognised males do go ignored.

Or indeed, in many cases, treated scornfully. I’ve been told quite bluntly (by someone lauded as wonderful and sorely missed as they were -*so nice*) that “nobody cares what you think” and “get lost” .. now I’d understand if what I’d said was horrible or controversial but it wasn’t. It was just because I was new (or so I suppose).

Give newbs a chance!!

I've seen this often. I've been on the site for 5 years and on the forums almost 3 years. I posted regularly here and in the Irish forums and it took almost 18 months before anyone in here even acknowledged a comment I made. I got a better reception in the Irish forums and that is the only reason I still use the forums at all. If I had been relying on my interaction in the Lounge alone I would have given up a long time ago.

It's all fine and well saying that no one "owns" the forums but there seems to be some confusion between the words "productivity" and "popularity".

There are many so called popular posters who are lauded for their productivity levels and how inclusive they are but I'm struggling to see exactly how they have managed to create this illusion of inclusiveness when they are obviously anything but.

I know who the predators and illusionists are in the Irish forums because it's a much smaller community but I'm genuinely surprised at the level of gullibility in here at times.

"

That's definitely true. My moto is, if I post something that's helpful to you will be nice to acknowledge and of course vice versa too. I definitely try to do that unless I have noticed its someone who don't particularly want any association with due to mostly inappropriate comments they have made before. I know someone said earlier why block someone just from comments in the forums but I don't want to accidentally 'talk' to anyone who holds abhorrent views or have been abusive in other threads. You would not want that in real life so why would you want it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is awesome

But I did like the wonka has spoken one about Jaffa cakes hahah

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"For me, there is no "best" thread creator. There are people I enjoy reading sometimes, people I don't. But on the whole it tends to be a group effort to create the "best" threads, and to create the forum of any given day.

For me it's the ones that cause you to try something new and they sometimes change hands (the what tunes thread currently curated by mrmojorising/tmontana is a fave)

Also the ones that get everyone playing - Fab is like a pub, and my favourite landladies by far are Nora (secret service) Posh (my mate fancies you) and Angie (tease the ladies)

I'm also a sucker for a photo challenge/demand "

I've really enjoyed the favourite songs from a particular decade threads in the past. I love old music so I enjoy contributing to them and I've discovered some awesome new songs from them. Gemini man often posted some really good lists in those threads

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Shag "
Ty and my latest threads are about the queen and the oxford comma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we have a definitive answer yet?"

You, Wonko. And we will all block you in thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we have a definitive answer yet?

You, Wonko. And we will all block you in thanks "

Sounds like a plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we have a definitive answer yet?

You, Wonko. And we will all block you in thanks

Sounds like a plan "

I thought you'd like it

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I believe the best is yet to come…

That’s not me btw!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Do we have a definitive answer yet?"

•

Surely looking for the definitive answer would be akin to looking for the best cog in the apparatus?

They ALL contribute equally for the well-oiled machine called the "Fab Forums".

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Does it matter who starts the thread? I never even notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we have a definitive answer yet?

•

Surely looking for the definitive answer would be akin to looking for the best cog in the apparatus?

They ALL contribute equally for the well-oiled machine called the "Fab Forums". "

Well-oiled? Is that a euphemism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation. "

I used to start threads but this is one of the reasons I don't anymore.

I used to pose a question or comment for a debate. I wanted to read people's opinions and thoughts and maybe have my opinion changed. Like in a pub, a group of people chatting. If I replied to every post it would feel like I was hogging the conversation.

(I understand some heartful threads need the OP to reply to all.)

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Does it matter who starts the thread? I never even notice. "

Not usually if the subject is something you want to comment on. But recently I do not knowingly comment on posts that started by someone who has been vile in other posts or it's obvious is someone who likes to instigate controversy and quite often abandons the thread once the fires are well and truly lit. I don't want to feed their sad lives in anyway. I like a nice, stress free time when I am on here

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation.

I used to start threads but this is one of the reasons I don't anymore.

I used to pose a question or comment for a debate. I wanted to read people's opinions and thoughts and maybe have my opinion changed. Like in a pub, a group of people chatting. If I replied to every post it would feel like I was hogging the conversation.

(I understand some heartful threads need the OP to reply to all.)"

You don't need to respond to every post, but some contribution yes.

The grenade style OP is the worst as somebody else said.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation.

I used to start threads but this is one of the reasons I don't anymore.

I used to pose a question or comment for a debate. I wanted to read people's opinions and thoughts and maybe have my opinion changed. Like in a pub, a group of people chatting. If I replied to every post it would feel like I was hogging the conversation.

(I understand some heartful threads need the OP to reply to all.)"

This is how I see it too. Very often if the OP continuously replies it becomes about them and not about the topic. Depending on the subject it can be seen as narcissistic on the part of the OP and is often a much better thread when their contributions are kept to a minimum.

This is especially true in a kiss fuck thread.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"People who start threads and then read and respond to the comments get my vote.

Nothing worse than a thread starter who abandons their creation.

I used to start threads but this is one of the reasons I don't anymore.

I used to pose a question or comment for a debate. I wanted to read people's opinions and thoughts and maybe have my opinion changed. Like in a pub, a group of people chatting. If I replied to every post it would feel like I was hogging the conversation.

(I understand some heartful threads need the OP to reply to all.)

You don't need to respond to every post, but some contribution yes.

The grenade style OP is the worst as somebody else said. "

If the subject is deliberately loaded and launched I agree. Otherwise, see above.

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